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Old 27-01-2014, 12:06 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
curious on some points that i need some assistance to understand more

1) does all Viet WL go out with men? or are there really ones that have principles? (see my summary below)
2) does vg mind married sg men? or how big age group? (around 10 years)
2) if they reject offer of money to help sustain her, is it out of pride or she does not like you? Or true concern for your pocket? (talking around 1k)
3) when a vg start to sms or call you ongxa occasionally , is it a good sign or bad sign? (i sometimes call her baxa or ban gai?)

Reason is that i gotten to know a VG who worked in a ktv here, but she is now back in vietnam for tet.

Maybe i KC her too fast in 15 days and because to her, she came to sg to escape from her ex bf who can call her at least 10 times a day and want her to return to his side. And she told me that i was very similar to him. I told her to think it through and let me know whether she wants to be with me.

During the days together, i noticed she has a lot of "loyal customers" who would call or sms her. And got one guy who can send her to work and pick her from work. This really made me ask her on the reason why she went out with me instead of the rest. And she told me it was out of "feel". But i am not sure on how much is a facade? Reason is that when i am at ktv before i start to kc her, i really do not see her going out with people.

And why i gotten so close to her is that she gave up working on certain days or skipped SH to be with me and never ask for money. I did gave her on my own account as i know she need the cash for home. And when she flew off, i also passed some money to her as ang bao for her family. And also bought some CNY goodies for her family

During our recent phone call, she mentioned that she was intending to go to Malaysia to help her cousin at her shop selling soup and working later in a pub at night. When i mentioned that i could help her out financially, she said no. And yet ask me to wait for her in sg via we chat.

Hence my questions above? Or is it a pit for me to step in?