PRC asking you to 买房 in China
 

I had been in a relationship with a PRC for 4 years. Know her at KTV joints. She told me she failed in business and she was in debt and you can see all her history in wechat. I kena KC and support her financially. She was in and out of singapore in between. FINALLY, she manage to get a WP working in a factory in singapore for past 1 year. Lately, she started forcing me to give more money deposit and 加会 to 买房 for our "future". I am so in huge hesitation.

Any brothers has such same experience ?

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What future do you want? Would you move there?

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nv let a whore control your money. if she wants a property, tell her to save up and buy 1 in SG. If you cant say no, then be prepared to be 1 of those su ckers that end up on wanbao or zaobao.

and shes in debt before, so what makes you think she knows finance or even property better than you do.

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Is the PRC holding some thing against you as ransom? If yes, then you should let her know that it is an useless struggle. Also, since you can "afford" her, that mean you can destroy her. Dont worry she exposed your relationship to your family, likewise you can do so. Be a man

Also, bear in mind, even you have pay for something, if it does not have your name on it, it mean it does not belong to you. so think twice about buying whatever property or huge ticket item before you commit.

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Do you trust the construction quality & upkeep? Getting a house is common in Chinese culture but if she has been working in Sg surely will know that Sg property is 99 yrs vs China 70yrs. If you intend to retire in China then reasonable to consider getting one in 2nd or 3rd tier cities. First tier cities property prices are over inflated. Better to do own research & take charge than to pass her money based on trust. You trust her , she might thrust you financially. 夫妻本是同林鸟，大难来临各自飞。:D

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It's not about same experience bro. What you really want? You want to be with that woman? If not why are you even supporting her financially in the first place? If you want to be with her then why you think so much?

Quick summary, you don't know for yourself what you want. Now you just want to keep that companion pussy by your side but not willing to plan for future.

So my suggestion get the F out of that relationship before you harm yourself because you are not sure of what you want. If you want to keep that side pussy, then keep your financial support to a minimal. She ask for more say you no money need to pay for stuff in SG. Then tell her she if she is true to you she should not pressure you but work together to accomplish things. In the mean time do not put money together.

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wow PRC gong tao!:eek:

Thank brother for trying to understand my intention.

I did consider to move there. I set the priority to find something to do. Can be employment. Set up small business. I understand it it never easy as a foreigner. She didn't totally disagree. But housing price is going up so fast in china. So must quickly buy. I feel she wants to get money fast.

Thanks bro for your perspective. During arguments, women can be very means with words. Yes. Including "destroy your family". But I understand she don't mean it. So I always forgive. Be more gentlemen and try not to use words " to retaliate".

Yes. You are right. This big ticket item will not be in my name. Not easy for foreigner to own property in china. So huge sum of money given will be gone.

I still do not have the total trust.

Thanks for your remainder.

Thanks bro. Totally agree with your point.
Hometown not in 1st tier city. But still 200,000k in sing dollar easily.

I am seeing that after having the house in her name, there will be also loan to undertake for years. Yah. There will be future money problem to support the loan, she probably find another man to continue the financial support.

Thanks bro for your opinion. I am asking if there are brothers with same experience to understand if there are brothers that really do it.

I think I know that I want to be with her. But two person also need to plan for a affordable future. But not just rush in to commit a big ticket item. Not become a slave to the property. The slave will be me and most women will start blaming the men for not having the ability to provide.

I am already feeling the hurt. She now dress to attract attention from men when she goes work. It is a clear sign to me that if can't afford then "don't blame me for going out to find someone better".

Thanks anyway

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If you have money, don't scared no woman want. 有钱不怕没人要。I lost count of the times an older person has said it to the people around me. Old wisdom but still applicable to your case.

买房 is just a 套路, a method to ask for money from you. Cannot be she ask directly for money right? So she has to give you a nice sounding reason for this big sum of money.

The PRC guys will just either walk away or max out the sex sessions till she leaves for someone else or even cheat her back. Some Singaporean guys will actually seriously consider her 套路。This I feel is a big difference between us and PRC guys.

Ever asked a PRC lady how much money she has? You will almost never get a real answer. She will say something and then overtime may reveal she has more money hidden elsewhere. They have many lobang to earn money and it may not even involve sex... this is especially true for those who had converted to Singapore citizenship.

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Well I don't have such experience, the PRCs I have relationships with are not FLs/MLs etc...

I am curious, I suppose you are still single right, so you plan to marry this woman and have children with her? and you plan to uproot yourself from Singapore and settle down in PRC? Actually what do you plan to do there? What kind of small business you plan to set up there?

Pardon the questions because I am naturally curious about the things other people do or can do that I don't do (or can't do).

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Hope you're not trolling bro, coz if it were me, I'll run far away.

P.S. what does KC mean?

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Get out of this before you are in deep shit.