Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

My wife frequents Chinese sinsehs quite often for medicinal/traditional/health massages. Its for all kinds of stuffs, like back pain, shoulder ache, headache, general well being, blood circulation, energy, relaxation, etc.

If you have been for Chinese sinsehs type of massages, you know there are many very strange techniques, using pressure points, suction cups, even sticks. I have been for those myself before.

The thing is these sinsehs are men aged from 40s to 60s. And on many occassions, they would undress her to wearing only her panties. Of course this doesn't happen all the time, but it has happened enough times, especially with her regular sinsehs. And she has many. I know one of her sinsehs also regularly massages her breasts. With another sinseh she would just wear a nipple cover (which is just a plaster over her nipples), and even that too he had removed before saying he needs to work on her breasts. And just a few days ago she complained about a pain on her breast - and there she goes again to visit a sinseh and exposes herself again.

Now does your girlfriend or wife exposes herself to masseurs/sinsehs this way?
I wonder if this is normal or healthy?

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

TCM is a load of bull and your wife is wasting her money (or yours).

You should have married a more intelligent woman.

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Well, ur wife seems to believe in TCM in a big way. Think the question here is.....is ur wife being examined/massage in places where she didn't complain/request?? Eg, ur latest is she complain of breast pain; it's natural that the doc or physician will examine the place of discomfort right??

Those who believe in TCM places Sinsehs as the same level as western doctors.

Ea have their own beliefs and as long as there is no breach of etiquette by the sinseh, eg, complain headache but the physician examine the breast.

Ur wife seems comfortable but u're not, thus, have a discussion with ur wife.

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

Those who believe that are idiots.

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Lolz......and those who believe strongly in TCM thinks those who visit western docs are idiots too :D

Personally, though I've yet to visit any sinsehs and seldom see a western docs, I do believe that ea have their own strengths.

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

Western medicine saves lives. TCM provides nothing more than a placebo effect.

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

Boss u so free today or this thread intrigue u ;). TS, agonizing over his wife's breast being examined again!....and u go on about western doc best :D. If wife visit western doc....also will hve breast examine :rolleyes:

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

With Western medicine, the outcome of a breast exam will be a proper diagnosis.

With TCM, the outcome will be a load of bull.

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

I agree on the breast issue :D. Think the wifey is taking it too far..bordering on being a hypochondriac.

Anyway, still think TCM has it's merits :D.

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

TS, the sum don't add up. In the past just massage no pain, now breast pain. The only worry is she got into the habit of people touching her breast in a certain way.

Maybe should bring her to consult a doctor and do a checkup to see if something really wrong with her body.

Take Care.

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

i do read from article that western medicine gives placebo effect as well.

well, i think both tcm n western medicine each have its own merit

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

1. either she is so song till it hurts not to be massage

2. or she having affair with sinseh

3. any sort of incense is burning during massage/rape session?

4. during massage/rape session did sinseh use massage oils to massage?

5. u better go hospital for x rays if complain breasts very painful

Sorry no offence TS. breasts pain suddenly can be just normal situation sometimes due to hormonal change but not when the breasts has been consistently being massage and it is painful.

I am sorry i think your wife seems to be obsessed with the massagers. :eek:

TCM has its merits to be of assistance to Western. just something is not right with the "enjoying massage" breasts issue till it hurts ;)

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

Sounds like your wife is enjoying his massage.

#1 You should check if he has screwed her or going to. Some of these so called sinsehs are like the Bomohs who prey on gullible females.

#2 There are plenty of female therapists in this field & I personally visit a couple. Ma Guang alone has a few properly certified, bring her there & speak to them then see if they service her breasts as well.

Personally, I have no problem if my wife wants an occasional massage by a male in Turkish Bath.

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

Both western and chinese have their merits. If you have migraine, a western doctor will only prescribe painkillers. But TCM will massage pressure points and it actually relieves the pain without drugs.

But this is not about western vs TCM debate. Or whether the sinsehs are taking advantage or breach of etiquette.

This really is a question in general whether your wife or gf visits sinsehs and exposes herself this way? From the response I gather so far, it appears to be a no.

Re: Wife exposing herself to Chinese sinsehs
 

Erm ts.. is he a license sinseh?
From what i know, sinseh / western doctor wont anyhow touch/massage d patients unless patients allowed them to do so.
I go tcm (ma guang) too for my back or shoulder pains.
My sinseh is a guy too but he is a professional sinseh.

If were to go for tui na, i would rather go for a female sinseh. Feel awkward if a stranger man sees/feel my body.
As what d others suggested, pls ask ur wife to go hospital for a full body checkup or scan. No joke if she keep complaining abt breast pain