My bf sucks at foreplay
 

As the title mention, my bf sucks at foreplay. Sometimes I get pretty turn off without foreplay when he just penetrate straight with zero foreplay although I enjoy when we are doing. But I believe foreplay is still needed. We did 69 few times and he is not good at it also. Only the first time he went down on me I feel shiok.

How do I tell him without hurting his pride or feelings?

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

you tell him you want to cum too.
It usually works.

But then again, why is he such a selfish prick?

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

Speak to him straight, that you need to enjoy and if it is done together it is heaven. Yes, like superfluid said you too need to cum together.

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

watch porn movies together when come to the foreplay scenes....then play dumb, say "hey...let's try that...., it's so sexy.." or whatever.

or just say you needed some warm up, so let's foreplay to get wet ...bla bla such excuse

Normally we are not mind readers....just let him know what gets you going ...

Tell him cloyingly how you felt so good when he did the right thing. Guide him. Let him know what pleasures u, and importantly reward him for his efforts.

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

maybe you should also try to initiate. try to keep him from bonking you straightaway. women must always cum first😜

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

Just telling him may also not solve the problem. He might not be experienced enough ...
Rather than risk the chance you may hurt him, why not u get your satisfaction from others secretly. Since u know how to come this site to ask, might as well look for your salvation here . Learn to split love and lust and satisfy both
Lots of experts here to volunteer and help u

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

Spot On.!
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Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

Very well said

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

yeah you can also start the foreplay first before sex by going down on him first and ask him if it feels good when you do certain movement or actions. telling the guy verbally what you like is the key factor when he is going down on you. watching porn together is a good way to expose each other to different kinds of foreplay

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

Agree with you as well.
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Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

While at foreplay, guide and tell him how you like to be pleasured..
I think its really sexy for a girl to know what she wants and communicate to her partner..

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

just ask him watch video at this website with you http://guidetomakelove.com/sex-guide-videos

if he still the same after watch some of it, you can dump him already.

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

Guide him to your spot and teach him to make you shiok shiok.

Re: My bf sucks at foreplay
 

Good sound advice.