Wat Would You Do If You Have Such A Gf?

[ChenHaONaN]

My current gf can say is a good wife material, can cook, do housework,thrifty and all the qualities of a good wife. She is a virgin somemore. I would love to have her as my wife.

But there is one problem here, she dont moan when having sex (having been able to penetrate her yet, just some oral and petting fun) even though she said she is high. She is on medicine to control the highness as she got biopolar disorder (where pple will be hyper in emotions and behaviour) and this drug will cause her not to moan.

As i am a person who like sex very much, moaning do help to stimulate my mind to a higher level. I want my other partner to be responsive too.

If u were me, what were u all do? Still marry her for her virtues or dump her?

[Triple-X]

Thats a very obvious answer lei..u marry her because u love her character and can click ma,not because of the good sex.Next time when she grow old,u think the sex will still be there?Come on la,i got a good answer for you...moan yourself la!haha:D

[Big Sexy]

F**k, made me spill my coffee ..:rolleyes:


If u were me, what were u all do? Still marry her for her virtues or dump her?

[Gentle Beast]

F**k, made me spill my coffee ..:rolleyes:

Not so bad, I just choked on my 'liang teh' :D

[ken ken]

Not so bad, I just choked on my 'liang teh' :D


I even worse i spit out all my mee rebus and my pc not all wet with gravy :D

[qw2op]

But there is one problem here, she dont moan when having sex ... and this drug will cause her not to moan.

As i am a person who like sex very much, moaning do help to stimulate my mind to a higher level. I want my other partner to be responsive too.

If u were me, what were u all do? Still marry her for her virtues or dump her?
wif ze drug, can she still make noise anot? ... if can, teach her how 2 moan 1st la ... or @ least make sum noise ...

[old_yet_horny]

End of the day, personality match and sharing the same lifestyle are most improtant...

If a wife is only for you to vent your lust or sex drive, I advice you not to marry her..

Sex is imprtant in marriage but can you still enjoy it after kids come along?

Just my 2 cents worth...

[Snuber]

If u were me, what were u all do? Still marry her for her virtues or dump her?
You sound really immature and i would suggest that she dump u instead! :mad:

Come on, u marry someone who u gam with or is a moaner in this case??!!!

[topcook1]

TS how I hope my wife share the same character as your GF. My wife is so hot temper and demanding. As for the sex issue perhaps you can watch some XXX video and PCC yourself. If you are not satisfied go and looks for FLS or Wls to sextified your desire. Anyway Find that you are rather self centered too. Just care about your sexual desire.

[diamondo]

I will go ahead and marry her. like what other bros have said, sex, howling and moaning is not everything in a happy married life. when you are my age [50s], companionship, understanding and someone who will stand by you through thick and thin is what happiness is all about.

if I want great sex I will approach bros for fl contact and it works for me. my wife has entered menopause and has lost interest in sex, which is fine for me.

I can still get my action outside. plenty of variety too.

[nawtgree]

exact same situation as u bro.......but mine is nt under any medicine or what..just nt very responsive....

but i guess the answer is pretty obvious for me....definitely marry her...dun even need to consider:D

[fisho]

moaning can teach and gain from experience. :)

[Okomoto]

Go play some porn loudly and you'll get the moaning sound. Can even tune it for higher volume for you. Anyway at least you din't got yourself a gf who give u FAKE moans..haha. Shes a good catch..take her or marry her that is otherwise let other bros have that chance. ;)

[colins]

Dun worry Bro TS, you wouldnt be worrying about moans a few years down the line after marriage. If she's a nice girl then she does deserve some priviledges to have minor faults elsewhere. Anyway, you said its a medical problem, so you have a choice, take the hyper disorder with moans, or a good quiet wife.

But I think you're not suited for her. In fact, you should ask her to stop the medicine for a while enough for you to appreciate her current state.

[nacho]

TS, you marry her because she is going to be a good wife or because you when her to moan loudy. You should know the answer and make the correct decision.

[asphalty168]

Dear CHN bro, think you are getting too little blood in your big head to think straight! Sex does matter but its not everything, as you age like me. and i think you are too selfish to be thinking for yourself in getting high rather then spare a thought for her. Cherish wat you have, moron!!

[jiminism]

Bro, you can guide her along the way, this is not the biggest issue in sex... the biggest issue is, she reject to have sex!!!! :mad: treasure her, she is your life partner bro. Good luck!!!!

[YouYongku]

ok la brother
I'm the kind hardly post 1 and read alot

Your wife is the kind I think every guy would wish for.
I dont know about looks body and how good in bed or what.
but she have the "everything" for a good wife.

sex wise can be worked out right?
and when u older le
dont tell u u still always pia?

[SDMM]

My advice: Marry and have fun outside if required
BTW better check out on the bipolar thingy just to be on the safe side. I think Britney Spears has the same problem and we all know what happened to her:)

[TheGreatOne]

i beg to differ in this case.

sex is actually quite, or rather in fact an important factor in marriage life.

Some bro citing old liao still can fuck meh... this issue leave it till then la.

Now i supposed our TS here is in his 20s? and of cos sex to him seems like oh-so-important, cant blame him.

but to dump her right now as she can't moan seems like senseless as she had already gave in as in doing the deed with you. its just the moaning part and you are actually thinking of dumping her, really dunno what to say about your character. Shallow seems like an understatement.

But end of the day, if you dun love her, just let her go la.

[chrysler]

Bros can I get your advice?

I got this blonde beautiful girlfriend. She's got tits the size of melons, a 22" waist and an ass you could bounce a penny on.

Her hobby is fucking me all day, cleaning the house, and also holding a job and bringing in half a mill a year that she gives to me to manage. She also likes to bring hot girls to do threesomes with me.

But somehow everytime she fuck she like to close her eyes. I shiok shiok must see eyes when I fuck. Shoud I dump her or marry her. I'm so undecided.

:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

Threadstarters, does this sound ridiculous? Think my friend. Think long and hard.... And they say Singapore girls are picky. :D

[HumpBackOak]

My current gf can say is a good wife material, can cook, do housework,thrifty and all the qualities of a good wife. She is a virgin somemore. I would love to have her as my wife.

But there is one problem here, she dont moan when having sex (having been able to penetrate her yet, just some oral and petting fun) even though she said she is high. She is on medicine to control the highness as she got biopolar disorder (where pple will be hyper in emotions and behaviour) and this drug will cause her not to moan.

As i am a person who like sex very much, moaning do help to stimulate my mind to a higher level. I want my other partner to be responsive too.

If u were me, what were u all do? Still marry her for her virtues or dump her?

bro. it might not be just the medication.

those people who take bi-polar disorder medication generally are more reserved not just of the medication but they try to control themselves.

so the easiest way is to talk to her.. some girls especially virgins tend to be shy about making noise.. have a good talk with her about asking her to relax and lose her inhibitions.

communication is very important in a relationship. its important for sex too. i mean how do we know our partner is enjoying themselves when they do not respond.

i've encountered unresponsive women before.. but the thing is to explain to her that u wish to give her pleasure and her moans is a way to show you that you are doing something right and she is enjoying it.. it guides u to where her sweet spots are and at the same time, it turns you on.

[joew2005]

Bro,if she is like really wat you said(k cook, do housework,thrifty & etc) then she shld be the gal that u shld really consider marrying.
Whether she is a virgin or not,isn't that important??
Neither would it be so serious if she doesn't moan during sexual activities.

U shld marry her for her virtues, if u really 1s 2 settle down 4 gd.

U marry a gal for her virtues,not really 4 the sexual activities.

[xhardboiled]

I ll say the TS dnt deserve his nice gf. He shld let her go so tht she cn find a better n more sensible man.

every gal respond differently in sex. Some r vocal some r nt.

[FL Lover]

TS, There are lots of pple over here wishing that they have a gf like you have. Yet U R GOING TO DUMP YOR GF JUST BECAUSE SHE DONT MOANS WHEN SEX......

I almost fell down my chair when I saw yor post. What's the world coming to?

Maybe I can intro some gals to you who will moan loud, sex good but treat you like shit after it.... which one you want?:D

TS, think with your big head, not small head.

[OceanEleven]

Dear TS, wait till the day when you get a GF that talk about equality, don’t do housework, cant even cook instant noodles to save her ass but yes, she is a goddess in bed, she squirts, can do anal, and CIM but don’t forget, you are still the one who ‘s goona wash the stained bedsheet.:rolleyes:

[assault]

Aiya, I think she no experience bcos with you one person only ..... ask her go play the field learn more, ask her go pub let men pickup lor. But tell me where you send her, I go try see can teach her more , wakaoz

[Fuckster]

If u were me, what were u all do? Still marry her for her virtues or dump her?

Hey IDIOT, if you really want to dump her, please let me know, I will marry her, morons :mad:

[manipulator]

I think TS visit WLs too much liao, and think all gers must moan like them ..... he donno all acting meh ... :eek:

[shadezz69]

Hi TS, to me... its a no brainer question here. The choice is so clear... and in case u r still wavering/undeciding even by now... pls go consolidate and count the no. of posts which several bros have posted on the "Stick to her" proposition and see where this brings you to... and if at the end of the day, u still decide to give her up.. pls kindly notify and share w us your "wife material" gal's contact here. I rest my case...

[Rattler]

I think this kinda of ger got long queue queuing for them .....

[VanGogh]

Hi TS, to me... its a no brainer question here. The choice is so clear... and in case u r still wavering/undeciding even by now... pls go consolidate and count the no. of posts which several bros have posted on the "Stick to her" proposition and see where this brings you to... and if at the end of the day, u still decide to give her up.. pls kindly notify and share w us your "wife material" gal's contact here. I rest my case... (Bro Shardezz69)


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I think this kinda of ger got long queue queuing for them ..... (Bro Rattler)

Agree with the Bros Quoted, this is Quite a "Kong Kum" Question.. .. :D

[demonboyz]

ehh bro, i tink u shld dump her..Cannot moan, u marry for wat? Is like watchin' a tv with no sound rite? Anyway, if u realli dun wan, can intro her to mi as i prefer a gal with good character rather than her 'moaning'. ;)

[cumranger69]

As i am a person who like sex very much, moaning do help to stimulate my mind to a higher level. I want my other partner to be responsive too.

If u were me, what were u all do? Still marry her for her virtues or dump her?

Hey dude, actually u r not thinking out of the box. if you want her to be responsive, she dun have to moan mah, u can always get her to talk dirty with u. much more effective i dare say old boy.

now imagine she saying this while u thrust your pecker into her, "bring your cannon over here big boy, ooooh, i do need this hot rod" or something to that effect. heck you can even write the scripts for her if u feel like it. good idea eh??:p

[lilmei]

no no, guys, TS gf suffers from biopolar disorder ...

TS, tell us how u got yr gf?

[ryaw]

Wah lau bro,

Wife material not easy to find nowadays leh,so just marry her lah.As mentioned,u say she is on some kind of medication right,so u cannot blame her lah.U better dun be selfish fucker and just think of yr own desire,if i have a GF like u,i will be fucking happy lah.As for the moaning part,is she really very high or playing along with u.I oso won't encourage u to pay for sex bcos u paint such a picture that yr GF is really a very nice gal.So i think u better imagine the moaning in yr head when u r having sex with her lah.If (touch wood) one day u dun wan her,let me know,all my ex-GF not wife material wan.All is GF material only!

[abcscript]

I know how TS feels cause my ex-gf too never moan. She always lies down lets me do everything.. when you ask her if it's good, she said it's good.

It's demoralising for a guy to have sex with a girl who doesnt, how many of you had the experience w some girl who doesnt moan.. imagine screwing a girl and she just has a straight face. no expressions. how would you feel?

Moaning is to allow your partner to know that you are giving them pleasure, and that you are satisfying them. I'm sure if you really love your wife/gf, you would want them to be happy. As much as your lil head wants an orgasm, I'm sure you very much want her to have an orgasm too. If she doesn't moan, you wont know whether she has an orgasm.

How would you feel if you screw her the whole time w her keeping quiet, and she suddenly says.. "Cum already", but she dint moan? I personally felt that way w my ex-gf although we dint have sex but just heavy petting.

It's a very demoralising feeling as you really love the girl but you dont know how you really feel. It also adds to you having the feeling of "not good enough" for her.

As much as the bros here say to stick w her, it's a very difficult decision for me too. But your sex life is very important in a marriage/rship. It's when you really become "ONE" (prick in hole. lol). So I guess, it's an aspect of a rship that you really got to have, and if you're feeling unsatisfied or the feeling of being unable to satisfy in that aspect. I'd say the rship is not complete.

[colins]

I do agree with u bro abcscript, I also like and try my best to let my ex moan and I also like them to moan until my neighbours can hear. But if we place this as the equivalent to 'wife material' qualities, and compare them together, we are not doing justice to the girl! In context, it is altogether wrong what.

[FL Lover]

Disagreed leh. What's our sole purpose to marry a ger? Beside that you love her so much and the commitment blah blah....

Another factor is that you want someone to take care of you as a family, be there with you when you need her, bad times or good times and lastly have a couple of kids to complete the whole cycle.

What's the point when you marry someone who dont really a family commited ger but yet give you good sex in bed?

The ger in TS thread is a good wife material. Yet TS is thinking to dump her just because she dont moans... TS, my advise. If you want great sex, go for paid sex to fulfilled your whatever final fantasies.

Basically, I feel sorry for your current gf. She deserved someone better than you. If you dump her, I can guarantee there will be long queue of pple from geylang all the way to jurong for this kind of ger.

Wake up your ideas and get real. TS, by asking this qns, it only shows how immature and shallow you are. BTW, how old are you?

[liberatte]

TS,
if you don't mind, can i have her as my mistress? since you're not sure about your relationship, you may as well just be her friend... then she can build a new relationship with me as my mistress. My wife is laughing beside me now and don't mind her as my mistress after all, she wants some company. :D My wife is willing to teach her how to please me... :P

Her brother... treasure all your relationships lar. No brother here can say or tell you if she's the right girl for you. When i got married, i though high and low about the giant step which i was about to embark in. If you're not comfortable with her not responding to your bonking, then think... 'can you live with that?', 'is there something stopping her from liking to be bonked?'. Here's what a brother told me last time... "You marry the girl... not the pussy."

[Big Sexy]

fuxk another one who made me spill my coffee ..

care to comment on whether u think he should dump her or marry her? i would be interested to hear from you.


It's a very demoralising feeling as you really love the girl but you dont know how you really feel. It also adds to you having the feeling of "not good enough" for her.
and if you're feeling unsatisfied or the feeling of being unable to satisfy in that aspect. I'd say the rship is not complete

[Enzo]

Well, considering the threadstarter can identify his gf's qualities and all that and can say that he would love to have her as his wife, i would be just that bit more kind and take it that he's not blind entirely, just that he at the moment can't come to terms with something that seems an insignificant to other bros here but which is important to him.

I can only feel that this is something that is important to you, perhaps as bro abcscript said, it's something that helps you feel you are making her happy.

Ultimately, you have to ask yourself, picture and visualize yourself breaking up with her now, and a year from now, would you regret losing her? And she's happily with another guy instead by then who accepts her for who she is. What would you feel?

[japboy]

woman will change after marriage.. be it for the better or for the worst... she may turn into a monster after marriage.. who knows.. only time can tell...

sex is an impt part of marriage but not all-encompassing.. likewise her attitude towards sex can and will change after marriage as well...

men goes thru diff stages... young men r and will always b more concerned w d physical part first... older men will think abt emotional needs..

i'm a idealist by nature... marry a gal dat u love n gam with.. d gam factor will b more impt in bringing d 2 of u thru marriage n d rest of both of ur lives...

u can educate her on d issue of sex in later stage.. u cant change her char though.. but u can change her perspective on certain issues, such as sex, in d future...

i'm not being all high n mighty w dis post but i tink u shld b happy w wad u have now.. see how many complains in ur thread?... jz b contented w wad u have..

jz my humble 2 cents' worth... :D

fuxk another one who made me spill my coffee ..

care to comment on whether u think he should dump her or marry her? i would be interested to hear from you.

bro.. how mani coffee do u intend to spill den? lolz...

[GL Roamer]

Change or not is not an issue. The fact that bo sia means no good :eek:
I donno whether threadstarter if at home do, got loud loud sound bo ... from what I experience in HDB flats , not much sound around leh, so dont expect wife material to moan like WLs. WLs moan to boost our ego, it is not bcos they enjoying it .... though we know that they faking it, we still feel song :D

[jit singapore 1]

End of the day, personality match and sharing the same lifestyle are most improtant...

If a wife is only for you to vent your lust or sex drive, I advice you not to marry her..

Sex is imprtant in marriage but can you still enjoy it after kids come along?

Just my 2 cents worth...


Clap clap clap, agree with you. Well said :p

[Big Sexy]

i was promised free flow of coffee by RC until 2010.. didnt you claim yours....quickly go and claim from him. :D
actually spill coffee not bad... got up 7 points for that post.. :D


bro.. how mani coffee do u intend to spill den? lolz...

[abcscript]

well bigsexy bro,
seriously.. my ex-gf was like that. and i wld have dumped her anyways, my ex was also good wife material.. but imagine if you cant pleasurize her on bed. that's why i said the rship is not complete.

a relationship cannot have SEX alone. neither can it do w/o sex. it has to factor in all aspects. look at some of the other bros in SB, all not sure what to do when their wives dont wanna do it any more after marriage. if your gf/wife dont moan.. you might as well buy a rubber doll to screw right?

my opinion is you got to have a complete relationship, not one based on sex only.but sex is impt in maintaining a healthy rship, not in excess.

[alanthegreat]

nothing is perfect in this world. u have something, u give up something. my gf also not ver y perfect, can see that she don't enjoy sex and her breast is small.. but wat? i'll still marry her.

[JWNY]

As i am a person who like sex very much, moaning do help to stimulate my mind to a higher level. I want my other partner to be responsive too. That's pathetic...the whole time it's been YOU, YOU and only YOU :cool:

My advice is for you to leave her now, before you break her heart when or if you eventually get married. There is no right or wrong, there is only do or don't.

JWNY

[Niceman]

That's pathetic...the whole time it's been YOU, YOU and only YOU :cool:

My advice is for you to leave her now, before you break her heart when or if you eventually get married. There is no right or wrong, there is only do or don't.
JWNY

:) you got a good point.

[Niceman]

TS, since she has a medical condition, why cant u be more understanding? U looking for a wife or a FL?

[funsg]

That's pathetic...the whole time it's been YOU, YOU and only YOU :cool:

My advice is for you to leave her now, before you break her heart when or if you eventually get married. There is no right or wrong, there is only do or don't.

JWNY

Fwah...you sounds like Uncle Sam!~haha...but good, impact made and point taken.