Anal Sex

[tigerprawn]

Hi All,

I was replying a bro in another thread on use of vibrators on gf and wifes where the topic got to using a vibrator (small one and well lubricated of course) for anal pleasures for the girl. So thought I would start a separate thread here since this topic can stand alone.

While some bros out there find anal sex disgusting, there are lots other bros whose fantasy is to die-die must at least try anal sex once then can die without regret. Most girls out there will be against it.

I would like to start by sharing my own personal real life experiences.

Although most girls will swear against anal sex, I have never met a girl who didnt love it after they tried it out (done the right way - unless they got trauma from rough anal sex done wrong way). Of course you must do it right, and doing it right means not just technique but also setting the mood and getting her into the mood. Everything must be right (like all planets must align). You cant just go jabbing her asshole right away cos sure will be pain. But in the overwhelming throlls of pleasure and estascy, doing it right will actually shatter her mind. 100%. For anal virgins, you have to start slowly with one finger for a while until she gets used to it, then 2 fingers, then 3. Before inserting your thick cock. The time frame from finger to cock varies from girl to girl. Of course the girl must be willing and sporting enough to want to try with you in exploration and better understanding of her own body for greater sexual pleasures. If we are talking about a prude who does not even enjoy sex to begin with, then this will be a futile exercise. Hence the basic starting point would be that the girl must already be a girl who enjoys sex, knows orgasm and her pussy relatively well. Put it this way, anal sex is like for advanced lovers, not beginners still groping around to find the g-spot.

A variation (which is one of my personal fav) is, while fucking your girl's pussy, insert a small vibrator (lubricated) into her ass - makes her feel like DP (double penetration)...... without need to involve another guy... when she cums her mind will explode. Very seriously, just as guys have needs girls will have needs too. And just as guys would fantasize about 3 some with 2 gorgeous japanese twins .... girls secretly too may also entertain the fantasy (whether consciously or subconsciously) of a threesome with 2 gorgeous hunks servicing her. So, this kinds of fulfill that part of her fantasy without ever need to involve a real third party. Some of you may worry if she likes it then what if she will want a real 3some in future. This kind of worry stems from the same kind of inferiority complex worry that if she likes the vibrator she will not prefer your cock anymore. A girl's mind doesnt work that way. She will see you as being a better lover capable of bringing to her pleasures beyond. One girl I did this on even started squirting when she came (she is not a regular squirter and only squirts when the orgasm is mind shattering)...... and was screaming away for a long time on a super long multiple orgasmic cum (that's how mind blowing it is to the girl)!!

Of course there is a process of trial and error and learning if both parties are newbies to anal sex... but a journey of ten thousand miles starts with a small step. Last but not least, for those bros who think of trying it out with your gf or wives :ALWAYS remember: anything to insert into ass MUST be well lubricated cos ass is not like pussy that produces natural pussy juice as lubricant.

Any bros (or sisters) with experiences to share? :)

[hotsoup16]

Most Sg girls are reluntant to try anal sex cos it's smaller and supposed to be for output only. I did try with my wife after birth of my second child( pussy loose loose, no more feeling lah):D. not keen at first but after sometimes, she auto guide my dick into her anal without me noticing and she said she quite likes it.

[Fecker]

hi bros here,

just curious, bros here who have tried anal sex, will it hurt ur partner physically in long term or whatever disease or lump resulting from anal sex?

[jojojojo1989]

it can get bloody believe mee..

[pokeMydickintoU]

It requires some skills and experience to do the anal rite :)

[sayCHEESE]

Most gals dont really like it cos its very painful and uncomfortable for them

[superchevy]

Most Sg girls are reluntant to try anal sex cos it's smaller and supposed to be for output only. I did try with my wife after birth of my second child( pussy loose loose, no more feeling lah):D. not keen at first but after sometimes, she auto guide my dick into her anal without me noticing and she said she quite likes it.

ya agree with u after birth pussy will losse loose..... but never try wife but GF allow it at first no go after few session she love it now ....

[Xiao Zhu Zhu]

If the woman is a first time, do not rush into it. You definitely have to use alot of lube and one finger first ... for first time, then you slowly build up from there, remember, Rome was not built in one day ... perservere and you will be rewarded.

[manipulator]

To start anal sex, you need to do it extremely slow, dont your GF or wife like she is experience WLs, used to getting AJ, like that sure painfully like hell. For me, I used alot of lube as recommended by some web site (forgot which), and they recommend dont use kuku, use finger first until she is comfortable .. this take a number of sexxion ... and then slowly proceed from there ... and remember once, she feel pain, you must stop ... you dont want her remembering the pain for life and no AJ for you :D

[enzer88]

Most Sg girls are reluntant to try anal sex cos it's smaller and supposed to be for output only. I did try with my wife after birth of my second child( pussy loose loose, no more feeling lah):D. not keen at first but after sometimes, she auto guide my dick into her anal without me noticing and she said she quite likes it.bro, i really envy u! my wife never ever allow me to try that,even when i brought it up on her gd mood,she will still scold me and forbid me to touch her......:(

[tigerprawn]

ya agree with u after birth pussy will losse loose..... but never try wife but GF allow it at first no go after few session she love it now ....

I think it is all a mental barrier that needs to be slowly broken down with the correct technique and patience :)

[friends123]

If you can enter the first time even if with lube ... I think the ger must have dont it before .... else no way first time can, unless kuku beri small .... time is needed to slowly enlarge the asshole ... so never use kuku for first time, else sure tear, and even before tear, the ger will be very painful and sure stop, no way can carry on, and that is the end of your AJ experience

[lglg666]

bro, i really envy u! my wife never ever allow me to try that,even when i brought it up on her gd mood,she will still scold me and forbid me to touch her......:(

wah....maybe mine may be worst, she will turn around and give you the "go and die" look. Immediately melted down my small bro....soften in an instant! Power :p

[PornoLover]

Anal sex need to do it with care. Both the gal and guy must coordinate well

[lglg666]

Lucky for us "asshole bandits"...there are a few bro OKTs who specialised to bring in AJ Queens/wannabes esp from Thailand and now lately even the PRC FLs also giving this service maybe due to strong competition from their own country girls here....younger and sweeter, hehehe.

True....anal sex is for those who want to try something extra and notti ;).

[lglg666]

Oh...another thing I must add is that never to ask that from SG girls. They will give you the weird look or worst...walk out!

That doesn't mean they don't want too, so....just do your best in your foreplay and during your FJ then slowly slowly...inserted a finger or when doing your painting job....paint her ass lor and see her reaction.

When she seem to accept the idea her ass is getting ready....then use lots of lube on the asshole and the rest is history.

Cheers!!!

BTW I am talking thru my experiences, I have a few gfs who must end our fuck sessions with AJ. ( that is why I said our
local girls will never admit to that...but they do loved it once they tried it )

[tomyz]

Agree very much with what Bro Tigerprawn says, from my limited experience with anal. One day I shall start a separate thread about my experiences. After my first anal experience with this lady, she has subsequently become so wet every time we start foreplay that her pussy juice just wets the bed sheet. She will not admit that it's in anticipation of the anal sex to come but it was never like that before when we were practising normal sex when she would get wet only after we started serious foreplay.

Her orgasms also seem to be more intense. Probably the downside is that she may not find it easy to reach orgasm with normal sex now.

Peace

[bochi]

Do the ger get wet in the arsehole and shit start flowing out too :eek:

[chee]

If you can enter the first time even if with lube ... I think the ger must have dont it before .... else no way first time can, unless kuku beri small .... time is needed to slowly enlarge the asshole ... so never use kuku for first time, else sure tear, and even before tear, the ger will be very painful and sure stop, no way can carry on, and that is the end of your AJ experience

not true ,i tried it with a lot of first timer with lube. if no lube she will cry.but after many time no lube also can.

[tigerprawn]

Occasionally it might hurt her, so its advisable to put some lube on the condom before you proceed. As the arsehole is not made for sexual intercourse, the "wall" of it might tear due to intense thrusting. So, the chances of you catching some STDs are definitely higher. Its also advisable to use thicker condoms, for eg- Durex Extrasafe. If you look at those condoms wrapper.. you will notice the words "Only for Vaginal Intercourse". Some thinner condoms might break , so its better to use thicker ones. One thing to note, you should never bonk a gal's anal and then withdraw your penis (still with the same condom), and insert it into her vagina. Health authorities have warned that this will cause some dreadful infection to her vagina.

Anyway, this is all i can say. You might wan to look up more on this topic in the Sexual Health Section:D

Btw, NO, I myself havent tried anal sex.... for me, its a shit hole.. not a fark hole:D


Bro you brought up a very important point. AJ must always come after FJ and not the other way round. After you insert your dick into the asshole, should never insert back into the pussy without first thoroughly washing clean with soap water etc. Else will risk causing infection to the girl, and in one big round end up infecting yourself back when you next have sex with your girl.

[tigerprawn]

If you can enter the first time even if with lube ... I think the ger must have dont it before .... else no way first time can, unless kuku beri small .... time is needed to slowly enlarge the asshole ... so never use kuku for first time, else sure tear, and even before tear, the ger will be very painful and sure stop, no way can carry on, and that is the end of your AJ experience

Bro, you are quite right. From my experience it takes some time to get the girl warmed up to the idea of full anal sex. Cos the idea of inserting something as big as a cock is scary, at least already a strong mental deterrent. You must start slowly, in the beginning, get her accustomed to touching the asshole first, eg, when she is highly aroused and just before coming, gently with lubricated finger massage the outside of her asshole. Slowly as time goes by start inserting your finger (lubricated), one finger first then increase to 2 and 3... then finally comes the cock but your timing must be perfect.

Also, one more point to add. The thing about inserting anything into the asshole is this: it is natural human reaction, especially if got mental barrier, to immediately tense and contract the anal muscles, this tightens the asshole immediately which will cause even more pain to the girl. Which is why you have to get the girl accustomed and used to the idea and in fact entertain the idea of anal sex before doing it, she must relax and you have reassure and verbally ask her to take deep breath and relax when inserting your cock. The point of greatest pain will be the point of insertion. From my experience, cos our cock head is thicker and bigger in circumference than the shaft of our cock, once you get your cock head in, the rest of your cock shaft will just slide in easily. Once you are in, stay still and rest your cock deep inside for a while first to let her get used to the feeling of being filled up behind, allow her time to adjust. Dont just start banging away. At this time, it will help if you use your hands or aids to stimulate her clit and pussy, nipples to arouse her higher. Take the cue from her how fast and hard to bang her ass. Of course it will eventually build up the point where she will be screaming at you to fuck her harder and deeper and faster.....

Good luck. Hope the above is of some help to bros who have not tried but will be or intending to try soon with their gf or wife. :D

[Frankiestine]

The monster got only one thing to say about the ass job...

"THE ASS IS THE BEST".:D:D:D

[unsung80]

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[friends123]

Bro, you are quite right. From my experience it takes some time to get the girl warmed up to the idea of full anal sex. Cos the idea of inserting something as big as a cock is scary, at least already a strong mental deterrent. You must start slowly, in the beginning, get her accustomed to touching the asshole first, eg, when she is highly aroused and just before coming, gently with lubricated finger massage the outside of her asshole.

Bro you got it all down liao ... thats the way to get round doing it ....


BTW I saw alot of OKT's LOS gers in FL Dome can do AJ, those peeps can try them first to see whether they like it :)

[dreadlord]

It may not the girl cuppa tea. My ex allow me to have anal sex after much persuade but need to be very slow and gentle. I will need to start with AR, when it is wet and ready slowly insert 1 finger in slowly then slowly 2. After she is ready then can proceed with AJ. Initially was very difficult as she is very tense and keep using her ass muscule to clamp, need to advice her to relax then slowly inch in my cock. But once in damn bloody shiok man, the tight feeling is as good as fucking a virgin. But the first time i end up getting shit from her lah but nvm lah coz her first time. Then slowly she will clear her bowel first before AJ. We did enjoy alot together, come to think of it i miss her...

[king_georgebush]

Surely the smell of SHIT would put one off during the act ?

[ol'coyote]

hmm...now me knoe why u ass-bandits enjoy it...
me had me 1st experience of AJ yesterday...
even though it was me 1st time doin it...
me already miss the feeling little wolfy getting from AJ...
in me case...it was wif a FL...
it was oso her 1st time...she said she never tried b4...
since we already knew each other for some time...
she willing to try something new wif me...
we started the session wif some SOP...
bbbj...then to fj...
while me was humping her...me asked her if can do aj...
we stopped all actions...little wolfy still in her...
and she said she nvr done b4...
but if me want to...she willing to try...
so me asked her if she has some oil...
she said no...so me said to postpone to another time...
but she counter to say can use her juices...she's very wet...
me said can try lah...
pulled little wolfy out...scooped some of her juices...
and spread them at her anal opening...
then positioned little wolfy and slowly slowly entered her...
it definitely took a very long time for me to enter her...
she was complaining of pain...but still wanted to please me...
so she guieded me by telling me when to stop...and when to insert somemore...
when little wolfy was finally totally in...we rested a while...
then me asked her if she ready...she nodded...
me started twiddlign her clit and fingering her...
when she started getting some feelings...me started moving...
at 1st...it was really tight...then slowly...
her juices were flowing to coat little wolfy...
soon...me needn't have to play her clit...instead humping full speed into her...
she was moaning and thrashing around...
then when she started cumming...me oso released me load...
after we done...me slowly pulled out...
me helped her sit up and we watched me cum flow out of her...hehe...
what a sight...and it was a good experience...
she said she was glad she could try it wif me...
asked me if me liked it...me replied in the affirmative...
she said next time she wants to do more wif me...
ahh...me so lucky...hehe...
anyway...will give a more detailed FR when it's ready...

[slutwen]

soon...me needn't have to play her clit...instead humping full speed into her...
she was moaning and thrashing around...
then when she started cumming...me oso released me load...
after we done...me slowly pulled out...
me helped her sit up and we watched me cum flow out of her...hehe...
what a sight...and it was a good experience...
she said she was glad she could try it wif me...
asked me if me liked it...me replied in the affirmative...
she said next time she wants to do more wif me...
ahh...me so lucky...hehe...
anyway...will give a more detailed FR when it's ready...

Bro, do not use oil on condom. it will tear and you are fucked for life....

[ryaw]

bros,

I have done anal with all the woman that i have been with so far.Actually,i think the most important thing is to get them prepared.Like the old saying,''Your brain is the biggest sex organ''.i think most of the gals dun like it wan lah.In fact all my ex say that out of 10 times probably only 1 time is enjoyable.The fact that a woman gives u anal sex is just to prove to u that they r ready to satisfy u and u r important to them.So i think the biggest enjoyment we can get from anal sex is the fact that we know the woman loves us alot.haha! and the worse part is......after trying once the fucking guy will always ask for it and that piss the woman off big time.

[tigerprawn]

BRO Coyote, OMG you do AJ raw with FL? (From your writings, appears that you may already FJ raw with her too?)
Cos the only way you can "watch your cum flow out of her" is if you do raw and cum inside her ass. :eek:

[nawtgree]

hmm...now me knoe why u ass-bandits enjoy it...

in me case...it was wif a FL...

after we done...me slowly pulled out...
me helped her sit up and we watched me cum flow out of her...hehe...
what a sight...and it was a good experience...
she said she was glad she could try it wif me...
asked me if me liked it...me replied in the affirmative...
she said next time she wants to do more wif me...
ahh...me so lucky...hehe...
anyway...will give a more detailed FR when it's ready...

wah with FL and anal no cd?....

[assault]

:eek: anal without CD and with FL .... I think this is the ultimate in playing with fire , cannot be worse other than sharing needle with another person.

[lonebonker]

Incredible guy, got the guts to do raw AJ... Yucks !!!

OR is it Fake FR ? WTF ? wahahahaaa

[ol'coyote]

Incredible guy, got the guts to do raw AJ... Yucks !!!

OR is it Fake FR ? WTF ? wahahahaaa

hmm...interesting comment...
obviously u do not knoe me well enuf...
me no nid to create fake FRs...
me even knoe some clowns here are printing me FRs...
and trying to get the same services offered to me by the ladies...
me FRs can get discount meh ?...hehe...
it's becos of these clowns tat me FRs cannot cum out regularly / immediately...
jus so tat the ladies can 'forget' that they had offered such services to one such individual...
in fact...was recently asked by a regular FL if me had written about her...
cos she remembered me was the only one she ever done something wif...
and me FR on her was already 3 weeks AFTER the deed...

[mjking]

Bro dont mind me asking, you do anal raw not risky meh .... tat y gays have highest chances of AIDs.

[CKee]

Incredible guy, got the guts to do raw AJ... Yucks !!!

OR is it Fake FR ? WTF ? wahahahaaa

My friend, if you have read long and hard enuf, o'coyote almost always or always does raw. He's the real mccoy. Personally, I cant cum with helmet and inevitably the didi shrinks...bros here advocate FJ with cds all the time and some discourage BBBJ...anyway, I just posted an FR in a Fxxx shop and the servuce provider goes all the way. Only this time, I shrank - without a CD! Go figure.

[lonebonker]

hmm...interesting comment...
obviously u do not knoe me well enuf...
me no nid to create fake FRs...
me even knoe some clowns here are printing me FRs...
and trying to get the same services offered to me by the ladies...
me FRs can get discount meh ?...hehe...
it's becos of these clowns tat me FRs cannot cum out regularly / immediately...
jus so tat the ladies can 'forget' that they had offered such services to one such individual...
in fact...was recently asked by a regular FL if me had written about her...
cos she remembered me was the only one she ever done something wif...
and me FR on her was already 3 weeks AFTER the deed...

Sorry lah Bro,

I just read thru certain portions of your postings. now I understand already.
Hmm, to me you are still an incredible guy, so daring one.