Cure for Premature Ejaculation

[KoKLi]

Hi bros...anyone of u ever experience PE before? If so how to cure it huh...its getting frustrating man.. :(

[Midnightiger]

I used to have PE for 12 years of my life. 6 years in primary school, 4 years in secondary and another 2 years in JC.

I don't have it everyday, normally about twice a week usually during the last period if I'm in the afternoon session and the first period if I'm in the morning session.

I enjoyed all my PE lessons as it was a time where we don't have to concentrate on our studies and do all kinds of exercises or play all types of games or sports.

The only way you can be cured of PE is to get out of school. Then again, it would mean going into the SAF for your NS. Isn't that tougher?

So bro, I suggest you enjoy your youth and stay in school. PE is fun.

Regards

[tengkokkok]

Bro Tiger

Good One!!! hahahaha

[GL Hunter]

Hi bros...anyone of u ever experience PE before? If so how to cure it huh...its getting frustrating man.. :(

Like most often cases, your case might be more of physcologically, rather than medically affected.

[AlCIA Duh]

It's mind of matter. For starters, maybe you can try to PCC before your session to you let yourself calm down and not feel so excited. Then once you get used to the feeling, take away the PCC and you will find yourself performing better.

[mock]

Hi bros...anyone of u ever experience PE before? If so how to cure it huh...its getting frustrating man.. :(

Curing is difficult and requires a lot of patience and may not always work.

1) Try masturbating (or your partner masturbates you) till you almost cum. As you are about to cum, you need to squeeze hard at the base of your penis head with two fingers till the urge to cum subsides. Keep on repeating to get self control

2) While pissing, try the stop start method to develop the necessary muscles needed for closing your urethra.

The best things which don't require so much of effort and control

1) Use a desensitising spray

2) try woman on top and tell her to stop before you come, start again till both are satisfied

3) Ask her to give you a bj / bbbj with no hands

4) anal sex

Hope this helps.

There is no medicine / cure as such except the desensitizing spray. This can work well as you will not come for some time and satisfy your partner. after a few minutes your sensations will increase (but never to the level of non spray) and you can cum.

Reports say that viagra can help.

Another option is to come quickly the first time and / or the second time - the third time will be more difficult for you to cum, but you need a good sexual response so that you regain erection after first cum - try viagra if you have such problems

[aihoannil]

I think for most people the cure for PE is
Practice Makes Perfect

[Sony PS2]

Bro, maybe you can try some hatha yoga lessons.

[SamsungBoy]

Its great that you have more sports......
instead of spending time at home, PCCing, surfing porn

[icehawk85]

seriously...i just tink u need to do more...the more u do, the better u become...practise makes perfect!

[damnguy]

It takes alot of impatient and practice to to overcome the premature ejaculation. But it doesn't work all time. For my first gf, the first time and have sex with her, it take me about 15 minutes to cum. But the second and thereafter, useless dick surrendered within 3 mins. My gf keeping asking y, which make me stumble and I couldn't explained at all. I tried no. of ways to overcome this problem. When I get older, I came to know all this sexual enhancer products that can "overcome" premature ejaculation. But either they are quite expensive and it works nor it waste of $$$.

I had tried Desensitizing spray, it works but the negative point is doesn't give you the sensational feel. As it numb the dick.

I also tried viagra during my outstation trip. It goods but side effects give me a blur vision.

Now, i been taking Maxidus. It works for me, and alot of brothers here have tried it too. Been taking it for 2-3 year till now. Another reason I get Maxidus in Singapore, no need credit card payment , cash on delivery to my workplace. So it will not appear on my credit card billing. Always keep in my car, as my wife got no license to drive. I think car is the most secretive place for guy to keep all the secrets away from CO provided your wife cant drives at all.

Just cautious, taking all these supplements only if you are flirting, fling or fun outside. But not your loves one or wife. They will be suspicious when you become so powerful? Keeping asking you tons of questions, eg , Have you been fooling outside and etc? I experienced it before. Unless you console to them and let them know your problem. Women - strange and sensitive creatures.

I getting my maxidus supplies from andrew @ Maxidus Replacement Of Libidus The Ultimate Sexual Performance (http://www.fast-erection.com) Singapore

[RedBoar]

For me just the opposite. Sometimes very hard to release.:confused:

[T bone]

The cause of premature ejaculation is an uncontrollable and overwhelming urge to ejaculate, produced from over-stimulation by your lover. This urge seems impossible to fight, or so people think!

[neogeo2]

for me i think its definitely psychological, sometimes when i'm pcc'ing to a porno as soon as the sex begins i lose all control and cum.

it has a lot to do with masturbation at a young age i think. At a teenager level masturbation means releasing sexual urges quickly this is in a way behavioral training, so it gets stuck with us till we're grown men. Remedy would probably require modifying behavioral traits that is learnt as a kid and start out again.

Sigh ... i got PE as well don't even know how to approach the problem. i can identify when i'm about to come but as soon as engage in anything stimulating it builds very quickly again and before i know it all blown!

maybe i should seek professional therapy : /

[kiekie2]

used to have this prob last time, during that time i overcome it by stopping and controlling when i'm about to cum, continue with some foreplay and continue after that.

i think it's the controlling part. when i'm about to cum, i stop and try to control v hard. it maybe difficult and i'm not very good at explaining. maybe this can help to prolong your sexion

[GoldTooth]

Just further sharing on the above topic:

Premature Ejaculation - Topic Overview

What is premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation is uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after sexual penetration, with minimal sexual stimulation and before the person wishes. It may result in an unsatisfactory sexual experience for both partners. This can increase the anxiety that may contribute to the problem. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common forms of male sexual dysfunction and has probably affected every man at some point in his life.1, 2

What causes premature ejaculation?
Most cases of premature ejaculation do not have a clear cause. With sexual experience and age, men often learn to delay orgasm. Premature ejaculation may occur with a new partner, only in certain sexual situations, or if it has been a long time since the last ejaculation. Psychological factors such as anxiety, guilt, or depression can cause premature ejaculation. In some cases, premature ejaculation may be related to an underlying medical cause such as hormonal problems, injury, or a side effect of certain medicines.

What are the symptoms?
The main symptom of premature ejaculation is an uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after intercourse begins. Ejaculation occurs before the person wishes it, with minimal sexual stimulation.

How is premature ejaculation diagnosed?
Your health professional will discuss your medical and sexual history with you and conduct a thorough physical examination. Your doctor may want to talk to your partner as well. Because premature ejaculation can have many causes, your health professional may order laboratory tests to rule out any underlying medical problem.

How is it treated?
In many cases, premature ejaculation resolves on its own over time without the need for medical treatment. Practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods may help you delay ejaculation. For some men, stopping or cutting down on the use of alcohol, tobacco, or illegal drugs may improve their ability to control ejaculation.

Your health professional may recommend that you and your partner practice specific techniques to help delay ejaculation. These techniques may involve identifying and controlling the sensations that lead up to ejaculation and communicating to slow or stop stimulation. Other options include using a condom to reduce sensation to the penis or trying a different position (such as lying on your back) during intercourse. Counseling or behavioral therapy may help reduce anxiety related to premature ejaculation.

Certain antidepressant medicines called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil), and sertraline (Zoloft), are sometimes used to treat premature ejaculation. These medicines are used because a side effect of SSRIs is inhibited orgasm, which helps delay ejaculation. The use of SSRIs for the treatment of premature ejaculation is not related to depression and is considered an "off-label" use.

[Drone Bee]

Premature ejaculation can be a real kill joy for commerical sex. Especially if we paying by the shot. :(

[kourmas]

It would be good if you can control a lttle bit longer.I wonder if bros got any secret to make your bonking last longer?

[GoldTooth]

Maybe can try this method.

"Basically this is something called, all you need to do is have sex on your own (masturbate…) a few hours before you plan on having sex with your partner. This will mean you’ll be less sensitive and excited when you have sex. Because you’ll be less excitable, you’re probably going to last longer.

The effectiveness of this “solution” will probably vary depending on your age. If you are older, it may mean it will be harder for you to maintain your erection if you do this. But many premature ejaculation sufferers are younger, and this solution may help. I suggest you do this 2-4 hours before you have sex. "

Maybe other bros can also share their experience too.

[uncle gg]

there isn't a right way. but we may want to get around with these external factors like; like sight or touch that would trigger PE.

quite interestingly, i read up in the net that there's a percentage that are deem with sexual repression history or lack of self confidence that would also contribute to PE.:p

[GoldTooth]

there isn't a right way. but we may want to get around with these external factors like; like sight or touch that would trigger PE.



Agree with you that there is no right way. It all also depends on a lot of other factors that will affect your sexual performance. When in doubt again always seek doctor's advise.

[sammyo]

I used to be able to hold only for 2-3 min. But now, I'm able to control up to 15-20 min. More if I'm not tired.

Few tips from me:

1. If patronizing wl, go for 2 shot package. For me, 1st shot always fast. No matter what, I can only hold below 5 min. It's the 2nd shot that I can control.

2. Train your PC muscle. If you don't know what it is, it's the muscle you used to hold your piss. Try to hold your piss halfway. It's that muscle. You can do this training anywhere. Start your training with short contract & release, keep do this training until you can repeat this for at least 100 times before moving to next level.
Once you get used to the short contract & release, try to hold the contraction for 10 sec. Then rest for 10 sec. contract for 10 sec, and so on. Slowly increase the time until you can hold the contraction for 1 min.

The purpose of this training is to have control on the muscle. When you ejaculate, it's triggered by involuntary contraction of this muscle. So, if you can prevent this muscle from contracting involuntarily, there you go.

3. Train yourself by masturbating, and don't do it too fast. Arouse yourself slowly, and stop when too excited. Continue when less aroused. Next level is don't stop, but adjust your speed. fast - slow - fast - slow according to your arousal level. This fast - slow technique will be very useful in the bed. Try to do this for 30 min when masturbating and hold your ejaculation. If you can hold it for 30 min using this method you're good

4. Don't get too excited during the action. If you feel that you are too aroused, think about something else. For me, normally I recite some multiplication. It helps to reduce the excitement.

Above are my personal advise based on my experience. I also got an e-book about ejaculation mastery. If anybody interested, pm me your email, I'll send it to you.

[Most_Enchanted]

bros who tried the supplement Maxidus, do u experience any side effects? recently got several reports of people dying from eating sexual supplements. is maxidus a safe product?

doctor can prescribe anti-depressant drug to cure PE, any side effects?

[ImCumming]

practice makes perfect

[jiehigh]

Bros,

I also have PE but I have found a method that helped me improve considerably. Actually practice is the key, but not easy to find a partner who willing to practice with you----because have to start and stop and start and stop---sooner of later (usually) sooner, the girl will tak boleh tahan and start grinding and you will shoot your load. It is also embarrasing for those whose gf not so understanding.

Anyone heard of a masturbation toy called Fleshlight? Fleshlight has many different fits. I ordered the most stimulating available(called the wonderwave). It is much more stimulating than a real vagina. In private, I practiced hard with it (while getting a lot of pleasure). Everytimr I feel like shooting, I stopped. Tightening the muscles below and pressing at the base of your dickie also helps. After practicing diligently in this pressure free environment for about 6 weeks, I found that my staying power has improve a lot.

The Fleshlight is one of the best investments I ever made. Also, it really beats masturbating with your hand.
Really shiok. Can order from a local website called SGintimates.

Bros who find this info useful, pls up my points. I have zero points at the moment.