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loster
11-11-2007, 09:54 PM
Hi bros,
I have a hot problem on my hand... My wife keeps complaining that I am always unable to sextisfy her... Any idea where I can learn the skills to survive?

Thanks

ahrave
11-11-2007, 11:10 PM
foreplay.

send her some hot smses or messages, well you can watch porn to learn more la..

i think maybe she need some "excitment" try something new.

or ask her what kind of needs she need? :D

good luck dude

sta1100
11-11-2007, 11:21 PM
Hi bros,
I have a hot problem on my hand... My wife keeps complaining that I am always unable to sextisfy her... Any idea where I can learn the skills to survive?

Thanks

You very lucky man my wife even don't have still OK

mansgp
12-11-2007, 12:43 AM
Hi bros,
I have a hot problem on my hand... My wife keeps complaining that I am always unable to sextisfy her... Any idea where I can learn the skills to survive?

Thanks

I have some health problem (Nothing related to erectile dysfunction) so I can't perform too well on bed. As a remedy, I do alot of foreplay to make my gal so high that even my fingers can give her multiple orgasm. Most gals don't need big dicks, just the right technique and good arousal skills. Try locating her sensitive spots and work from there and I'm sure you can do better in your sex life.

techienator
12-11-2007, 01:05 AM
hmm.. perhaps you should talk to your wife and find out what does she mean.. which area does she refer to.. foreplay, sex or some others.. most ladies would like to enjoy the foreplay.. gets them high and brings them into the mood for more fun..

in the meantime, check out the wealth of information out there.. there are clips or videos to help you out.. can share with you if you wan..

Red-Card
12-11-2007, 01:08 AM
Have you tried licking her? some gals likes such foreplay a lot

Gerald Tan
12-11-2007, 01:14 AM
Hi bros,
Any idea where I can learn the skills to survive?
Thanks

Ha ha Bro Loster...
My advice is that u need to watch sex video for the skills, take herbal pills to strengthen your didi and beef up your body contour.

If all fail, then the only choice is to let us bros here to satisfy her...haha, cheers !

tomvoyeur
12-11-2007, 01:53 AM
Hi bros,
I have a hot problem on my hand... My wife keeps complaining that I am always unable to sextisfy her... Any idea where I can learn the skills to survive?

Learn abt her sensitive parts and give her a good massage! :)

tOmAski33
12-11-2007, 02:50 AM
You come to the right place here you can have the information you need to know.
But knowledge only will not satisfy wife but you need many practical lessons for help.

Red_Tirak1099
12-11-2007, 02:53 AM
Find out what is the problem or try using a dildo :)

Robbie_williams
12-11-2007, 07:27 AM
If u unable to satisfy her, she will end up sexually frustrated....one remedy...use ur tongue and fingers at the same time....lots of foreplay...watch lots of porn pls....but dun ever deep throat her or poke her arsehole....or else u wun ever get sex from her ever again...:cool:

huianj
12-11-2007, 07:54 AM
hi bro loster,

hv u try to perform erotic massage together?i came across few books on massage which can help lovers/couples to enjoy their intimate lives...

cheers

corvette
12-11-2007, 08:24 AM
Maybe bro loster cheong too much liao ...
TS should not cheong for a while and then do it with wife.
I find that if we cheong too much, when with wife, abit sianz ... so maybe take a break once a while.

juzjoin
12-11-2007, 08:53 AM
TS do u have a ED (erectile dysfunction) or premature ejaculation. If u did, I will suggest u indulged in a lot of foreplay. Bring her to the verge of arousal b4 u go for the main course. Most ladies enjoy being eaten by their partners so make full use of ur fingers and tongue. Ask her where she would love most being touched and concentrate on it.:)

babycheong
12-11-2007, 10:10 AM
Hi bros,
I have a hot problem on my hand... My wife keeps complaining that I am always unable to sextisfy her... Any idea where I can learn the skills to survive?

Thanks
dude, keyword is foreplay ..... so is she getting enough Kissing, Tickling & Massaging from u? Are you Teasing her enough?

If you did not do the above but jump straight into sex... do you think she will be sextified?

BC

celia
12-11-2007, 10:14 AM
Maybe Loster should describe a typical sexxion with your wife so we can see waht is wrong, else we are not sure what to comment ....

old_yet_horny
12-11-2007, 10:24 AM
Have to sit down and talk to your wife la..even though it seems abit awkward.. But ultimately, she's your wife and shame or shy should not be a barrier..

Ask her what needs to be improved and work on that department..
Like most bros said, a good foreplay is very very important.. It warms us up as well as our partners.

Try doing it at a different time in day..

For me, morning sex on the weekends works best. No work/mental stress to worry about and after a good session, can find time to bath together.. Unlike weekday/nite sex.. always rushing and mostly very physically/mentally taxing..

Just my 2 cents..

bonk69
12-11-2007, 11:04 AM
But, do you sextisfy? do you felt boring have sex with her (I do felt boring of her)? I believe if both of u still love each other, then this wont be happen. My own opinion.

I have some technics passing to you and hope its work.

1. You may try to suprise her by once her step into the house you put her into a rapping senario more passionate. A little bit rough hehe ,and also you can put your belt beside the pillow so when she look at it will start a little bit trembling. This add some seasoning for you sex!!!

2. You may try to bath together with her, use the spray water make her more sensitive!!

P/S -> In the middle you need to notice how her react, very shiok signal or ...

Good luck trying, bro... :)

websurfbastard
12-11-2007, 04:53 PM
Guess there are lots of ways to get her into the mood and enjoy and bring sex to the fullest. You should extend your fore play and try to notice what pleasures she in for and get working on those zones. You should have received lots of advice by experience bros or you may even chose to read a little more to see what you can pick up from all the numerous treads available....


http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=77164

SDMM
12-11-2007, 07:29 PM
I am surprised in this age where brothers are exposed to so much porn that many brothers out there are not into painting of their partners.
I thought this is a normal thing which I am into but it seems from my conversation with male friends that they are not willing to indulge their partners in licking
My advise to brothers here, if you are willing to paint your gal, you have got it made with her even if you have the shortest dick in terms of size and stamina

fatty_leo
13-11-2007, 01:09 AM
Attack her ampit:p provided she shaved or waxed it.

Just a thought.

block11
13-11-2007, 01:16 AM
many good advice here but need to know what exactly she is not happy with..... cum too fast? no foreplay? not enough passion? dick problem? identify the cause then learn to solve it :rolleyes:

babycheong
13-11-2007, 09:07 AM
many good advice here but need to know what exactly she is not happy with..... cum too fast? no foreplay? not enough passion? dick problem? identify the cause then learn to solve it :rolleyes:

Yo bro, of those listed .... I got quite a few problem your listed eh...

My gal is not happy with:
1. my dick too short
2. take too long to cum
3. Lousy fingering skill
4. Lousy paint job
5. Too rough during sex

How ar?

BC :D

CKee
13-11-2007, 09:28 AM
Hi bros,
I have a hot problem on my hand... My wife keeps complaining that I am always unable to sextisfy her... Any idea where I can learn the skills to survive? Thanks

Think of placing her sexual needs on a pedestal instead of yours. How long does your session last? 15 mins, 25 mins or...Doesn't mean that the longer the session, the more enjoyable it's gonna be. Simply put, if you just want to get over with it for your own sake, she will know what !

Kissing, foreplay, etc..take your time to appreciate her physically. Once had 2 FBs. FB #1 complained that once the act was over, her husband would behave that she was invisible and turn over to koonzz (classic case). FB #2 said that her husband would only want to satisfy himself...no foreplay, small kisses, small talk...

So my fren, put some time and effort into it. A flaccid member doesn't help things too. Mebbe your wife needs some time to get into the mood.

nycaloth66
13-11-2007, 09:43 AM
ah most women i know feel sex isn't just all about physical feeling, especially when its with a guy they love:D The emotional part is equally if not more important.

So TS should have a heart to heart talk with his wife, find out what she wants...not just physically, but also emotionally.

If physical need/satisfaction is the prime concern of women, then monogamous relationships will not be suitable for them cos no one man alive can throughly satisfy a woman sexually...we are actually very much dis-advantaged in this department.:(

Xfactor
13-11-2007, 12:30 PM
Is she relax whenever u guys make out? Otherwise u might want to work outside the box to make her feel good.

1 Have a drinking session with her b4 sex (Don't let her know u plan it)
2 Buy some toys for your making out session
3 Foreplay with toys until she beg u to pump
4 If still don't works...ask her is she seeing somebody else (No offence)

pokeman71
13-11-2007, 12:36 PM
Hi bros,
I have a hot problem on my hand... My wife keeps complaining that I am always unable to sextisfy her... Any idea where I can learn the skills to survive?

Thanks

To solve the problem, we have to find out where is the problem. To find out where is the problem we must understand what is done during each session.
So can you just write down what you and wife have donw during the making session.

Cheer

hubber28
13-11-2007, 01:15 PM
I have encounter a fren of mine. She was totally too high on sex drive and her husband dun seem to sextify her. Simply the probs is her super high sex drive.

FYI, i never upped her, just on the hp, listen to her and telling me her prob of her high sex drive. Never we did get to meet up or what but eventually, its turn out well for her and her hubby for now that she is pregnant like 5-6months already.

When i read about the problem from TS, i think of my fren's husband. Nevertheless, i still hold up to promise that never up someone's wife. Phew!...

Anyway, her hubby bought her a few sex toys for her to play by herself. She did call me up in the day (hubby working) and telling me how she DIY herself with all the toys. Kaoz!!

I can imagine that If i'm the husband, I also cannot sextify her siah, i will be very stressed from work and sex also.... Who can sextify a gal with high sex drive - let me explain her level of high drive:
1) 7 days a week need sex
2) Multiple organsms when feeling horny
3) Can also DIY with all toys
4) Willing to do with mass orgy (I dun care, its not going to be me doing her!)
5) Her urges is like once every 1hr for like 16hrs per day

And ALso i like to announce again, I never upped her before and till now. So dun zap me. She call me cos I'm a close fren of her but never did i revealed her secret since like 10yrs alreeady. She kinda like trust me alot but again, she is someone's wife, i have not intention of making sex with her even thou she kinda hot. Too hot for me i guess. She is a kind of gal which Pussy over the big head (men- small head over the big head), also told me before that if i can sextify her, she willing to divorce her husband (Pussy of her head - Siao!). Even i also cannot sextify her, I do admit to her and I tell all bro here, Me horny Yes but not that Super High Drive! lolz...

Lucky for my wife, i able to control her and she quite the normal case.

DTCEPL
13-11-2007, 02:11 PM
To Bro BC

My gal is not happy with:
1. my dick too short - you may try learning the shaolin kung fu of using the dicky to drag a 747.
2. take too long to cum - maybe you should cut short the frequency of PCC or engaging in commercial sex
3. Lousy fingering skill - try to make her damn wet, then its much easlier and more shiok to finger her
4. Lousy paint job - treat her cunt like a water tape and you have been left out in the desert for 5 days without a single drop of water, survival only on your own urine
5. Too rough during sex - thats because she didnt gave you enough previously or you long time bo sex liao, do f**k more often and you will be like a gentle little cat the next time

:D Hope thats help...whahahahahahahaha

block11
13-11-2007, 02:25 PM
Yo bro, of those listed .... I got quite a few problem your listed eh...

...

How ar?


bro yandao BC, the simplest solution is the best...... change the girl. find 1 who appreciates you for what you are ;)

babycheong
13-11-2007, 05:41 PM
bro yandao BC, the simplest solution is the best...... change the girl. find 1 who appreciates you for what you are ;)
haiz... u still dun wan to teach me ur trick....... so sad

BC

lolly pop
13-11-2007, 05:41 PM
So modest all the members here ... got problem meh ... all the expert pretending to be ..... :cool: