kokboy
09-04-2020, 12:38 AM
my wife and i used to enjoy sex a lot, but as with many married couples - work and kids eventually caught up with our sex life and it began to go a bit downhill. And now, I'm basically trying to seek some tips to spice back our sex life,
my better half is relatively conservative. in the past, we usually get into some foreplay and went on to business. we managed to inject some excitement by introducing the idea of watching porn together and raising the mood. it went relatively well - she didn't quite like BBBJ, but the introduction of porn (and some home-made ones) gradually opened up her mind. After that, i did get to enjoy BBBJ once in a while.
However, situation would soon gets back where it used to be and even downhill. Sex becomes rarer. Usual rejection is due to tiredness, and understandably so, as she does work till quite late frequently at times.
Recently, we chanced upon some porn showing a woman satisfying herself with a dildo (obviously, it was an attempt from me to try and get her interested *wink*). I joked about getting one for her so that she could play with it, and there wasn't any violent objection from her. So, I thought it is a Go and I proceeded to get one and spice it up again. Unfortunately, it didn't pan out as planned - she rejected it when I showed it to her.
trying to seek some tips on fellow sbf bros and sis on how to get the idea started.
What are the usual repulsions to sex toys and how to possibly overcome them.
really appreciate some advice on this.
my better half is relatively conservative. in the past, we usually get into some foreplay and went on to business. we managed to inject some excitement by introducing the idea of watching porn together and raising the mood. it went relatively well - she didn't quite like BBBJ, but the introduction of porn (and some home-made ones) gradually opened up her mind. After that, i did get to enjoy BBBJ once in a while.
However, situation would soon gets back where it used to be and even downhill. Sex becomes rarer. Usual rejection is due to tiredness, and understandably so, as she does work till quite late frequently at times.
Recently, we chanced upon some porn showing a woman satisfying herself with a dildo (obviously, it was an attempt from me to try and get her interested *wink*). I joked about getting one for her so that she could play with it, and there wasn't any violent objection from her. So, I thought it is a Go and I proceeded to get one and spice it up again. Unfortunately, it didn't pan out as planned - she rejected it when I showed it to her.
trying to seek some tips on fellow sbf bros and sis on how to get the idea started.
What are the usual repulsions to sex toys and how to possibly overcome them.
really appreciate some advice on this.