Is it ok for old man to marry young girl

[sohbuckkong]

I just wonder, are there any members here who is above 60s and his girlfriend or wife is only in her early 30s.

Is it ok for them to get married. Are there any consequences. What are the forseable problems ahead.

Would you object if thats your daughter.

[4Dguru]

I just wonder, are there any members here who is above 60s and his girlfriend or wife is only in her early 30s.

Is it ok for them to get married. Are there any consequences. What are the forseable problems ahead.

Would you object if thats your daughter.

Different nationalities I suppose quite a numbers.

[nedy77]

If it's only girlfriend, then not many problems.

If husband and wife,
assuming the husband dies at about 81 years old (Life Expectancy in Singapore), then the wife is only about 50.
For women at 50yrs old to live until 85yrs old, and husband didn't leave behind a huge estate,
then young men don't want her, old man also don't want her.
She will spend 35yrs alone

[snooker]

How to make a girl in her 20s or 30s REALLY fall in love with an old man? :confused:

give her plenty of $$ to spend and plenty of free time to date other young guys :p

[gstringgal]

From wat i came across many years back in ICA,
Saw one old man (62 yo) applying Long term pass For his Foreign Wife (Likely from Match Marriage Agency) and she was only 22 !
i think this couple age gap should be the Biggest i came across...:eek:

[sohbuckkong]

give her plenty of $$ to spend and plenty of free time to date other young guys :p

Yes, give her alot of money and material goods, she sure fall in love with u.

The next big hurdle is how to make her parents accept this relationship. Just imagine the men is in his 60s and her mother only 55yrs old.

[decson]

Well, age is just a number and love is love.
If both you and her was truly inlove, there shouldn't be any issue provided she always take your life experience advise and you did thought of her all the time, that shouldn't be any problem.

Truth that there is a age gap btw each others, but understanding each other as well respect each other and love each other is the most important.
Nowday, nobody can guaranty lifetime love nor how long we live in this world.
Just enjoy our life fruitfully and treasure everythings..

[kellykelly]

i am 30+ and have been dating a guy 60+ before. Its not abt money but the kind of feeling of being secure and comfort. However as a chinese its tough for ppl to accept especially both our immediate family.

[johntan68]

I just wonder, are there any members here who is above 60s and his girlfriend or wife is only in her early 30s.

Is it ok for them to get married. Are there any consequences. What are the forseable problems ahead.

Would you object if thats your daughter.

I’m 50 this year. My GF is 28, graduated from SMU.

[otamay]

From wat i came across many years back in ICA,
Saw one old man (62 yo) applying Long term pass For his Foreign Wife (Likely from Match Marriage Agency) and she was only 22 !
i think this couple age gap should be the Biggest i came across...:eek:

Worst is once she got her citizenship, she will divorce the man and end up owning half of his hdb flat.

[Sfan]

Got old photog marry young model ley. Young enough to be daughter

[sohbuckkong]

i am 30+ and have been dat.........However as a chinese its tough for ppl to accept especially both our immediate family.

Yes, thats what i thought too......the greatest hurdle would be her immediately family. Im sure her father wont be happy to hv a son in law thats older then him.

So kellykelly, in the end why both of you breakup.

[sohbuckkong]

I’m 50 this year. My GF is 28, graduated from SMU.

So are you a graduate or a rich man.

[Marq]

The question is not whether it is ok for the old man, rather, it should be why the young girl want it?

As for bro from ICA, that obviously a marriage agency thingy, like a bought over viet wife. For the wife, its probably a way to get out of poverty

[haikim999]

Yes, give her alot of money and material goods, she sure fall in love with u.

The next big hurdle is how to make her parents accept this relationship. Just imagine the men is in his 60s and her mother only 55yrs old.

I do know of a few ppl who have parents with such huge age gaps.

Usually, it's the father that marries a foreign bride (vietbus /atbs).

The most extreme case ive seen is the Vietnamese mum is 32yo, sinkie father is 65yo( think PG gen alr) some years back...

Another case I've heard the father and mother age gap is also about 30 yrs, and whats ironic is that the father in law of the hubby is younger than him....

[acidicavex]

Local case very very hard to find mostly is local man and foreign wife.

Locally have many issue peers and family taboo is the most heavy pressure that most doesn't work out for all that you know the man could be the same age or older than the gal parent.....

If it boils down to monetary gain than must as well go get a SB that is if you are cash rich.

25 years apart i have seen of cause the wife is foreigner that is.

[sohbuckkong]

Local case
Locally have many issue peers and family taboo is the most heavy pressure that most doesn't work out for all that you know the man could be the same age or older than the gal parent.....

If it boils down to monetary gain than must as well go get a SB that is if you are cash is.

Currently i have a spore chinese male friend,divorced, age 58, and he fell in love with a phillipino girl age 27 and she bore him a child, every month he sent her sg500. Now he got stroke but the gf still stick to him.

I have a uncle and his wife older then him by 15yrs. So when my uncle was age 39, my auntie was age 55.
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[Madrid2019]

I just wonder, are there any members here who is above 60s and his girlfriend or wife is only in her early 30s.

Is it ok for them to get married. Are there any consequences. What are the forseable problems ahead.

Would you object if thats your daughter.

Macau casino king did married his bribe so much younger.

[draven78eric]

I just wonder, are there any members here who is above 60s and his girlfriend or wife is only in her early 30s.

Is it ok for them to get married. Are there any consequences. What are the forseable problems ahead.

Would you object if thats your daughter.

seriously at age 60s i wouldnt want to get married again..even now if im single at 50, i wouldnt want too...back to single and relax one corner and change gf , (if have, whenever i want) provider still have market value..:D if not, whenever need to release, or have fun, go for the commercial ones...

[draven78eric]

How to make a girl in her 20s or 30s REALLY fall in love with an old man? :confused:

you be surprise that some young girls do prefer some aged guys...for stablity and financial freedom..
But, hard truth, every one has a price tag...:rolleyes:

[whitedcheese]

Macau casino king did married his bribe so much younger.

Now then I know bribe can be married :eek:

[Ergocomics]

haizzzz. its all about money.... :(

Really miss those days where we hold each other hands take the no aircon bus.... jiak fast food share the fries.... see movie share one drink..... walk slowly go back.... haizzzzz money can buy many thing but can't buy that love....

No thanks to you-know-who!! :mad:

[johntan68]

So are you a graduate or a rich man.

I’m graduate myself. I wouldn’t said I’m super rich but I’m comfortable with life. I have failed in my previous marriage and I’m lucky to meet her. She was a graduate from SMU school of accountancy. Currently working in banking industry. I think the key is having the same wave length.

[nitecrawllerr]

you be surprise that some young girls do prefer some aged guys...for stablity and financial freedom..
But, hard truth, every one has a price tag...:rolleyes:

I second tat. Nowadays girls go for security. Yen tao is secondary. I go for her youth. She go for my money. Win=win. :D

[sohbuckkong]

I second tat. Nowadays girls go for security. Yen tao is secondary. I go for her youth. She go for my money. Win=win. :D

So presumably if a guy have age, broke, have a lousy job, not yandao, but have good character, will he stand a chance of being attracted by a young girl.

[draven78eric]

So presumably if a guy have age, broke, have a lousy job, not yandao, but have good character, will he stand a chance of being attracted by a young girl.

as always, the girl will you you or reply you...
" Ni shi ge hao ren "
Means she rejected you in a very well manner and not hurting you...:D

[Havana84]

I’m graduate myself. I wouldn’t said I’m super rich but I’m comfortable with life. I have failed in my previous marriage and I’m lucky to meet her. She was a graduate from SMU school of accountancy. Currently working in banking industry. I think the key is having the same wave length.

Lucky you.

How did you met her?
And did your families oppose to the relationship?

[zawky]

as always, the girl will you you or reply you...
" Ni shi ge hao ren "
Means she rejected you in a very well manner and not hurting you...:D

Hahaha very true bro :)

[iloveu4ever]

So presumably if a guy have age, broke, have a lousy job, not yandao, but have good character, will he stand a chance of being attracted by a young girl.

This guy of yours will definitely be attracted to a young girl..but that young girl will not be attracted to him.

Such fairy tales happy endings usually happen only in movies or story books...in reality, our lives have become very transactional...

[acidicavex]

So presumably if a guy have age, broke, have a lousy job, not yandao, but have good character, will he stand a chance of being attracted by a young girl.

Fairy tales only real life. I can only say it might happen if the girl is foreigner. Cause i spoke to a couple the wife is foreigner their mindset are very very different with majority of our local one. :rolleyes:

[draven78eric]

seriously said, if we are at our middle age...40-50s...if we are financially stable, not afraid cannot find one partner de lah...be it gf, fb or fling....not an issue...:D
Singapore cannot find, come Thailand, foreign guys with financial stable status are hot market here..can get 18-28 young puss to be your gf... :D

[Stimsia]

December want money
January want love

[lyulka]

I have a case that also surprised me regarding edge gap.

one Filipino college of mine. A chief engineer. Was in Poland for the new build chemical tanker. He was already late 40s early 50s.

Met a young 12 yo polish girl. Told her if he were to met her again, He will marry her.

4 years later, he did meet her again. He proceed to annulled his marriage in PH. PH have no divorce law due to the catholic like laws.

Now he retired staying in poland. Wife early 30s. he already late 60s. 3 kids with the polish wife.

[draven78eric]

I have a case that also surprised me regarding edge gap.

one Filipino college of mine. A chief engineer. Was in Poland for the new build chemical tanker. He was already late 40s early 50s.

Met a young 12 yo polish girl. Told her if he were to met her again, He will marry her.



12 years old girl...:eek: for me, this guy have pretty special fetish...

[iluvbreast]

My 2 cents worth.....

There is nothing wrong to marry young when you are old....a lot of the rich and famous does it.....I think every Chinese knows the late Louis Cha, his last wife was 16 when they married and he was 29 years older than her.

The famous Li Ao's widow is also 30 years younger than him.

I think there are many others.

In my line of work, I know may Ang Mohs, they are stationed in this part of the world, many ended up marrying locals, pinays, indons, thais, khimers, etc, depending on where they worked.
Most if not all of their wives are like 20-30 years younger, you ask the Ang Mohs why still married?
They will tell you to have someone who cooks and look after the kids and the home is something they never experienced before (Ang Moh women are not like that).

The thing about Ang Mohs is that they are more selfish and they live for the present. If they are 50 and marry a 25 year old, they have kid fast. The Ang Moh said he will bring up the kid to 18 and that's it. The wife? Oh yah they will leave her the house and whatever cash or asset that is left, and if the wife remarry after they died? "It is ok, we are died anyway, I loved her too much for her to be lonely...."

[jameschong1]

I just wonder, are there any members here who is above 60s and his girlfriend or wife is only in her early 30s.
Is it ok for them to get married. Are there any consequences. What are the forseable problems ahead.
Would you object if thats your daughter.

perfectly ok for 60 year old man marry 30+ old woman
but most man will object if it''s their daughter

[lyulka]

12 years old girl...:eek: for me, this guy have pretty special fetish...

Tell me about it man. I also blur after hearing this

[draven78eric]

perfectly ok for 60 year old man marry 30+ old woman
but most man will object if it''s their daughter

you show them the $$$ they will happily agreed and may even ask if you need additional one more, which is the girl's mother.. :D

[pchai]

as long as you hv $$$, can perform and pink in health, even at 80 is ok, so do take good care of your little bro when young, no frequent pcc:D

[draven78eric]

as long as you hv $$$, can perform and pink in health, even at 80 is ok, so do take good care of your little bro when young, no frequent pcc:D

frequent PCC can help and train not to early eject wor...:D

[Kickinloud]

I don't see the harm in marrying younger. nowadays, there are even older women married to younger guys. True love does not see the age of color of the skin. Who cares what others think. What's important if both are happy.
I'm 40 and recently divorced with no kids; and I do not mind marrying younger single girls.
I am quite happy tho that most ppl I know told me I look younger than my age. Perhaps an advantage for me to be with younger girls.

El chapo is 60 and his wife is 30. no problem there

[Bigbluebird]

I don't see the harm in marrying younger. nowadays, there are even older women married to younger guys. True love does not see the age of color of the skin. Who cares what others think. What's important if both are happy.
I'm 40 and recently divorced with no kids; and I do not mind marrying younger single girls.
I am quite happy tho that most ppl I know told me I look younger than my age. Perhaps an advantage for me to be with younger girls.

El chapo is 60 and his wife is 30. no problem there

Agreed.

Let's just say *touch wood* after 20 years and the older gentleman passed away, the widow is available to date and remarry. Otherwise it would be a sin and sibei zek ark to bind her alone till she die.

[sohbuckkong]

I don't see the harm in mar.........True love does not see the age of color of the skin. Who cares what others think. What's important if both are happy.
I'm 40 and recently divorced with no kids; and I do not mind marrying younger single girls.
I am quite happy tho that most ppl I know told me I look younger than my age. Perhaps an advantage for me to be with younger girls.

El chapo is 60 and his wife is 30. no problem there

My Singapore friend, not rich, is now 71 and his Vietnam wife is 40 . My friend is older then his wife father. When we first went to her home in Vietnam, there's an air of awkwardness but through time, this awkwardness dissipated. Initially, the family was quite shy to let neighbour know that their daughter marry an old poor Singapore man as Vietnamese also want pride. However my friend gave his wife sg$1000 every month. So money is still king.

...
Let's just say *touch wood* after 20 years and the older gentleman passed away, the widow is available to date and remarry. Otherwise it would be a sin and sibei zek ark to bind her alone till she die.

When the older man die, she will get the man CPF, not too bad too.

[opqwopqw]

I prefer young girl as well. Who don't like syt.

[LordVader]

12 years old girl...:eek: for me, this guy have pretty special fetish...

Ang moh 12 year old but look like 18 mah.

[Xgenre]

In bigger countries, some ladies think like this. Every year, many younger girls coming from rural areas to big cities to work. These girls are pretty and financially insecure. If they can find a guy who can take care of and treat them well, it is better than struggling alone in a big city. Marrying an old man who loves them is better than marrying someone their age who is always hunting for younger girls. It is better to be treasured by an old man sometimes. Your friends can gossip about the big age gap but they can also see the financial security an older man brings. Over time, gossip lessens as people get used to reality. Some will say if the age gap is big, she will be a widow for many years. She will be a RICH widow. so what if you marry someone your generation, he may also die young and leave her a widow for a long time too what... and without financial security for the rest of her life?

I met some old uncles from Malaysia who have wives 30 younger. The older generation thinks marrying young girls extends their lives. Not about absorbing vitality during sex as you see in some HK movies but if you have a younger wife, you have to take part in her social activities. You will feel younger when you hang out with the younger crowd too. More energy in life. Instead of feeling self conscious, these guys are so proud to show off their younger wives.

Historically, every era in mankind will have such marriages. Not common but never been an ethical issue as long as the lady is an adult. Actually, if you look around in the countries around us, I think many Malaysian, Thai, Indon, Viet, Pinoy won't mind as long as the older man gives financial security. These ladies know as they get older, it gets harder for guys to notice them.

Over in Singapore, many of our ladies think differently. That is because they are financially independent and there are no huge influx of younger ladies from rural areas coming out to work. As a result, our Singapore guys's thinking also not so common.

[cavemanng]

If you are old but don't have a lot of savings, then don't marry young girls. You either give them a lot of $$ or a lot of sex

I fuck so many milf and majority of their husband or old bf give them a lot of $$. Yet a lot of them eat outside.. Seems like carrot head.

One clown bought his wife a BMW but she gave me a bj in the car. Another one gave his car to his wife and I fucked her in it. Actually I would say they initiated the sex... Once you lower ur pants to milf, gone case. They are unstoppable and hungry like fuck

[acidicavex]

Over in Singapore, many of our ladies think differently. That is because they are financially independent and there are no huge influx of younger ladies from rural areas coming out to work. As a result, our Singapore guys's thinking also not so common.

agree on this point here also many are well educated let set aside the looks and body etc.

Have at look at the dating apps you can see how well they profiles themselves behind the scene that i don't know. But right infront they put a very strong sense they are financially capable and very strong will women.

[Xgenre]

One clown bought his wife a BMW but she gave me a bj in the car. Another one gave his car to his wife and I fucked her in it. Actually I would say they initiated the sex... Once you lower ur pants to milf, gone case. They are unstoppable and hungry like fuck

But you see.. they will never leave the old man for you. Car can change, the guy they are having sex with can also change but the old man will be the constant. Old men want face and ego. As long as she does not let anyone knows her outside activities and knows how to pretend to be a good wife, all will be fine.

Think about it. Without the old man, they have no car or wealth to flash. Without being a rich milf or someone with a high SES, will you be as eager to conquer their pussy?

[qissyalynne]

Making love is fine. But getting married depends on the chemistry and desires of both individuals.

[cavemanng]

But you see.. they will never leave the old man for you. Car can change, the guy they are having sex with can also change but the old man will be the constant. Old men want face and ego. As long as she does not let anyone knows her outside activities and knows how to pretend to be a good wife, all will be fine.

Think about it. Without the old man, they have no car or wealth to flash. Without being a rich milf or someone with a high SES, will you be as eager to conquer their pussy?

My balls shrink if they want to leave the old man for me. Haha! I just want to drink milk but don't need the cow lei.

[sohbuckkong]

Just sharing.

I know this Thai girl she met an old man who been taking care of her since she below 20s. So over the years he provided her with pocket money for basic living. Give her a condo to stay too. Then buy a simple car for her to drive. The girl she don't have much skill set to become independent of him. She wana leave him also cannot because that would cut off her standard living allowance plus condo and car maybe. So basically that old man damn smart. He don't give her everything to make her independent but make her comfy only. Then cuz she already get use to her life with him like that so she maybe don't dare to explore changes. The old man like all man as usual go fuck around. So this girl she also end up fuck around but still remain with the old man cuz she couldn't find any better secure rice bowl or cfm relationship.

It's a very good n practical method to keep that young lady.