If you lost sex desire for your wife, what will u do

[Fei2019]

If i already don't love my wife, no sex desire with her. But staying with her is for obligation, commitment and responsibility. What should I do? I also don't like paid sex. Life seem miserable for me despite i am decent looking and earning decent income. Haiz.. :(

[sammyboyfor]

If i already don't love my wife, no sex desire with her. But staying with her is for obligation, commitment and responsibility. What should I do? I also don't like paid sex. Life seem miserable for me despite i am decent looking and earning decent income. Haiz.. :(

Get yourself a lover.

[hrodger25]

Find a FB and enjoy her companion.

[charlestan666]

If i already don't love my wife, no sex desire with her. But staying with her is for obligation, commitment and responsibility. What should I do? I also don't like paid sex. Life seem miserable for me despite i am decent looking and earning decent income. Haiz.. :(

How does she feels about you?

If she feels the same, get a divorce. Clean cut and you can move on after that.

[JOGK]

how old are you?
you need someone love
Yes you wont be satisfied
Even if you go for paid sex
Because there is no love
This is an important decision in your life
Do you really want to split with your wife?
Think carefully before you decide
Good luck bro

[marcelo0632]

Hey bro, decent looking and decent income is subjective. If you don't like paid sex, you can find yourself a lover like a bro above suggested. It will put both your decent looks and income to the test. You see your lover loves you for your looks, money or who you are. As for your wife, maybe you want to consider talking with her? Who knows she may feels the same like you.

[unsung80]

broken marriage liao, divorce and find a new one.

[chanellno5]

If i already don't love my wife, no sex desire with her. But staying with her is for obligation, commitment and responsibility. What should I do? I also don't like paid sex. Life seem miserable for me despite i am decent looking and earning decent income. Haiz.. :(

Means your sex drive is very low. She may not be the problem.

[Fei2019]

Not easy to find a lover. Trying to find but when ladies know I am married, won't proceed to lover stage. If single, really easy to find. When I am single in the past, can easily find lover. Life is gone. Haiz.

[ourworld]

Sounds like my friend and her hubby,,,
They have been together for years but no kids,,
Recently they have been drifting apart, due to work and lack of sex,,

They discussed this and were actually “divorce” came as one of the solution,,,
But considering those years of relationship,,,
They were holding back, not wanting to make the first move,,,
They were like pushing to each other,,
“If you wanna divorce I will grant you,,”
“No no no,, but do you wanted that?”
And “no no Ofcoz not,,,”
These kinda stupid conversation that leads to nowhere,,

So one day,, the husband actually opened up and suggest to have an “open” relationship,,
They can both go out and have fun with no string attach

Initially My friend was kinda skeptical,,, but well, she agreed,,
And the next thing she slept with one of her colleague,,
And then an online gamer whom she was gaming with and eventually met up,,

She was very open with her hubby and they even had threesome experiences together,,

She even asked if my husband and I were keen to explore 4some and I was like (-o-),,,
Hahaha,,

Now they are still happily married,, they have their own rules in their lives,,
But I’m not too sure if there is love,,, and what’s define love,,,
When I asked her,, she told me that they still love each other Ofcoz,,,
But they just have their own rules,,,
I meant,, who is good enough to judge another couple other than they themselves,,

In a relationship,,, in a marriage What’s right and what’s wrong?
Legally not wrong,,, morally not right?? :confused:

[a2014]

This looks like very common now a day. There seems to be no answer as to right or wrong as most people will ask, in the first case why get married then find that not compatible or no more desire, or rather we want freedom.

The bonding and love in this case is very different as you can literally outsource sex and partner and even exchange so long as within reasonable parameter and yet sleep together.

[mogibecrod]

sometime is more on discussion. but i understand TS feeling.. sometime is like bo bian.. but then is nt like u don have desire but is when u wan, she don wan to let u. haiz..

[Rickey]

To me...the solution is very simple, either you divorce her or find a FB..;)..or like a bro n sis here says try a 3-some or even 4-some to spice up your sex life :o...can't think of others...

[otamay]

Get yourself a lover.

Precisely, not just one but both of them because too long together no more spark liao haiz.

[alea]

Any difference between FB, lover, and xiao san?

[Fei2019]

Sounds like my friend and her hubby,,,
They have been together for years but no kids,,
Recently they have been drifting apart, due to work and lack of sex,,

They discussed this and were actually “divorce” came as one of the solution,,,
But considering those years of relationship,,,
They were holding back, not wanting to make the first move,,,
They were like pushing to each other,,
“If you wanna divorce I will grant you,,”
“No no no,, but do you wanted that?”
And “no no Ofcoz not,,,”
These kinda stupid conversation that leads to nowhere,,

So one day,, the husband actually opened up and suggest to have an “open” relationship,,
They can both go out and have fun with no string attach

Initially My friend was kinda skeptical,,, but well, she agreed,,
And the next thing she slept with one of her colleague,,
And then an online gamer whom she was gaming with and eventually met up,,

She was very open with her hubby and they even had threesome experiences together,,

She even asked if my husband and I were keen to explore 4some and I was like (-o-),,,
Hahaha,,

Now they are still happily married,, they have their own rules in their lives,,
But I’m not too sure if there is love,,, and what’s define love,,,
When I asked her,, she told me that they still love each other Ofcoz,,,
But they just have their own rules,,,
I meant,, who is good enough to judge another couple other than they themselves,,

In a relationship,,, in a marriage What’s right and what’s wrong?
Legally not wrong,,, morally not right?? :confused:

Haha. Then u should intro your this female friend to me.. still looking for lover, really not easy to find.

[oxeso]

In a relationship,,, in a marriage What’s right and what’s wrong?
Legally not wrong,,, morally not right?? :confused:
+8 pts for sharing.

Depends on individual's definition lor.. Their life, their way. Y would outsiders seriously care?!

[ourworld]

+8 pts for sharing.

Depends on individual's definition lor.. Their life, their way. Y would outsiders seriously care?!

Precisely,,, they named this as ”open relationship”
They are married but they are in an open relationship
I guess it’s quite common in the western,,

[MrBigBadBird]

Legally bound swinger partners

[Rickey]

Any difference between FB, lover, and xiao san?
Don't tink there's much difference between all the 3 terms above.. they are all 3rd parties outside the marriage relationship... except tat for xiao san or mistress, she is given some kind of monetary support as well by the man besides just having sex with him like the other 2...FB particularly meet mainly for sex only as and when both of them r available n convenient to meet n nothing else...