Emotional attachment of a MILF

[GrieGzEters]

Well, many say it’s hard to fully understand a woman perhaps
It’s due to the extra X chromosome they got. Who know what genes are transcribe from there. Anyway, there is something that have been puzzling me for years. Maybe some experience Bros here can enlighten me Just some background info, it’s a good 10 Years now and still continuing. She is in her early forties while I am 10 years younger. 6 months ago, after a wild night, she say while she love her family, at the same she is love me because of the emotional support and assurance I can give her which is absence from her Husband. Basically her husband is still able to give her everything including good sex.

My question is how and is it possible can a Woman who have everything she need and yet still have emotional Attachment to another guy?

[fion.18]

in life it’s always the 80/20 rule. her husband can provide for all her needs. He is the constant 80 in her life. but you are fresh into her life. you are excitement. you are the 20 that her husband doesn’t have :)

[mistiquerose]

My question is how and is it possible can a Woman who have everything she need and yet still have emotional Attachment to another guy?

It is very much possible when you are giving the emotional needs lacking in the marriage. She loves that u can be there in her worse times. And cheer her up when she is feeling low. If hb where will entertain one.

[RinxRin]

If she has everything she need, how would she still end up in bed with u?

I vote for the thrill factor she gets from fucking with u behind her husband.
Thrill.
He probably cant give her that.

Try depriving her of sex.
Just tell her u want the "emotional connection" i am very sure shes gonna get sick soon.

[ourworld]

My question is how and is it possible can a Woman who have everything she need and yet still have emotional Attachment to another guy?

She is early 40s and you are 10 years younger!!?
Holy shit, you joint SBF since your sec sch days huh!!? Waaa,,
Anyway,, for your question above,,,
Whether it’s a husband cheating on his wife or the wife cheating on her husband,,
In my opinion,,
It’s possible because this person love himself/herself most,,,
In fact for anyone who cheat, they love themselves more than anyone else la,,


in life it’s always the 80/20 rule. her husband can provide for all her needs. He is the constant 80 in her life. but you are fresh into her life. you are excitement. you are the 20 that her husband doesn’t have :)

On a side note, I don’t think 80/20 rule , is used in this way ley,,
Your example is just 80% vs 20% not Pareto Principle lo,,
80/20 rule states like, 80% of the result comes from 20% effort,,
80% sales come from 20% clients etc etc,,
There is always a correlation of cause and effect when 80/20 rule is applied,,,
Your example given has no correlation btw the husband and TS,,,
Just my opinion la,, hahaha,,, sorry for being kpo,,,


Mrs Ow

[fion.18]

On a side note, I don’t think 80/20 rule , is used in this way ley,,
Your example is just 80% vs 20% not Pareto Principle lo,,



https://swoon.theodysseyonline.com/80-20-rule-relationships

there is a separate 80/20 rule for relationships and that was what i’m referring to :)

[diputs1269]

https://swoon.theodysseyonline.com/80-20-rule-relationships

there is a separate 80/20 rule for relationships and that was what i’m referring to :)

Interesting perspective here, thanks for the link.

[B12Good]

I learning something interesting

https://swoon.theodysseyonline.com/80-20-rule-relationships

there is a separate 80/20 rule for relationships and that was what i’m referring to :)

[candle2000]

She is early 40s and you are 10 years younger!!?
Holy shit, you joint SBF since your sec sch days huh!!? Waaa,,
Anyway,, for your question above,,,
Whether it’s a husband cheating on his wife or the wife cheating on her husband,,
In my opinion,,
It’s possible because this person love himself/herself most,,,
In fact for anyone who cheat, they love themselves more than anyone else la,,




On a side note, I don’t think 80/20 rule , is used in this way ley,,
Your example is just 80% vs 20% not Pareto Principle lo,,
80/20 rule states like, 80% of the result comes from 20% effort,,
80% sales come from 20% clients etc etc,,
There is always a correlation of cause and effect when 80/20 rule is applied,,,
Your example given has no correlation btw the husband and TS,,,
Just my opinion la,, hahaha,,, sorry for being kpo,,,


Mrs Ow

Hi Mrs Ow

You have the ink (or intelligence).

Regards

[candle2000]

https://swoon.theodysseyonline.com/80-20-rule-relationships

there is a separate 80/20 rule for relationships and that was what i’m referring to :)

You have the ink too.

[waaaaaa]

No matter how good the family and the hub is. There are certain things she cannot tell them. What she cannot tell them, she is able to tell u. There is always that burning desire to share something which cannot be shared with family and friends. Only with fb. Hence the fb. Because with us, they do not need to portray as the role model wife, mother, big sisters in their life. They can be what they are. If she can’t be what she is, she wun stick with u for 10yrs.

While we think most females cannot be emotionally divided, but deep inside, she probably has segregate the diff emotion. While we say they need to be emotionally attached to make out with a second men. Probably we overlooked that they perhaps can be emotionally attached to multiple men when they can only apply 80/20 on 1

[spluder101]

Well, many say it’s hard to fully understand a woman perhaps
It’s due to the extra X chromosome they got. Who know what genes are transcribe from there. Anyway, there is something that have been puzzling me for years. Maybe some experience Bros here can enlighten me Just some background info, it’s a good 10 Years now and still continuing. She is in her early forties while I am 10 years younger. 6 months ago, after a wild night, she say while she love her family, at the same she is love me because of the emotional support and assurance I can give her which is absence from her Husband. Basically her husband is still able to give her everything including good sex.

My question is how and is it possible can a Woman who have everything she need and yet still have emotional Attachment to another guy?

Maybe new love is more interesting and refreshing make her feel young. Milfs scared grow old.

Picked up a few milfs as passengers and I have hots for them, can see they bored with marriage

[winugly]

She is early 40s and you are 10 years younger!!?
Holy shit, you joint SBF since your sec sch days huh!!? Waaa,,
Anyway,, for your question above,,,
Whether it’s a husband cheating on his wife or the wife cheating on her husband,,
In my opinion,,
It’s possible because this person love himself/herself most,,,
In fact for anyone who cheat, they love themselves more than anyone else la,,




On a side note, I don’t think 80/20 rule , is used in this way ley,,
Your example is just 80% vs 20% not Pareto Principle lo,,
80/20 rule states like, 80% of the result comes from 20% effort,,
80% sales come from 20% clients etc etc,,
There is always a correlation of cause and effect when 80/20 rule is applied,,,
Your example given has no correlation btw the husband and TS,,,
Just my opinion la,, hahaha,,, sorry for being kpo,,,


Mrs Ow

Mrs Ow explanation very enlightening. I grew younger. Cheers.

[guilin]

If she has everything she need, how would she still end up in bed with u?

I vote for the thrill factor she gets from fucking with u behind her husband.
Thrill.
He probably cant give her that.

Try depriving her of sex.
Just tell her u want the "emotional connection" i am very sure shes gonna get sick soon.

Sis dear, you certainly makes sense.

Like the ending paragraph. Very valid points.

[RinxRin]

Sis dear, you certainly makes sense.

Like the ending paragraph. Very valid points.

Thanks.

I guess the thing about women (including myself) loves to justify everything with an "emotional connection". Ok maybe not all women but.. anyway.

Why we cheat? Because emotionally attached to both A and B.. cannot give up on the original one because he provides blablabla. But B also gives a sense of blablabla....

Why we eat? Because its emotional eating.
Why we drama? Because its emotionally triggering.

But honestly to TS.

You also had ur fair share of good sex. Just dont get too emotionally attached or worry too much about why she would get emotionally attached. Because end of day as long she dont leave the husband or family...

Nothing is going to happen

[deuced]

She is early 40s and you are 10 years younger!!?
Holy shit, you joint SBF since your sec sch days huh!!? Waaa,,
Anyway,, for your question above,,,
Whether it’s a husband cheating on his wife or the wife cheating on her husband,,
In my opinion,,
It’s possible because this person love himself/herself most,,,
In fact for anyone who cheat, they love themselves more than anyone else la,,




On a side note, I don’t think 80/20 rule , is used in this way ley,,
Your example is just 80% vs 20% not Pareto Principle lo,,
80/20 rule states like, 80% of the result comes from 20% effort,,
80% sales come from 20% clients etc etc,,
There is always a correlation of cause and effect when 80/20 rule is applied,,,
Your example given has no correlation btw the husband and TS,,,
Just my opinion la,, hahaha,,, sorry for being kpo,,,


Mrs Ow

Very good reasoning Mrs Ow haha

[warbird]

https://swoon.theodysseyonline.com/80-20-rule-relationships

there is a separate 80/20 rule for relationships and that was what i’m referring to :)

Tks for the link. I didn't know that 80/20 rule also applies to a relationship.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[GrieGzEters]

Wow, thank you to all for your responses. Never heard of the 80/20 theory before. Upon reading it in the link, I think it pretty much make sense about the 20% which I must admit this theory apply to me as well. No doubt we started off as a purely FB relationship but it progresses (not love of course) to a relationship whereby we share the darkest secret and confide in each other. Some might call me a hypocrite if I say this, I am 100% sure the 80% half is the one for me for life but deep inside I am always seeking the 20% thrill. I am unsure if any of you hve this thought which is the one you commit your life to might not be the best person to confide in 100%.

As compared to her, I am not too emotionally attach to this relationship as I am an easy going person with a more positive outlook in life. 拿得起，放的下。as for her, she tend to overthink. We actually put a stop in the 3rd year and just purely maintain a professional working relationship, and thing just got back to the way it was after an incident. Maybe I should try write about my 10 years with her in here hahaha. This forum is like a “online diary” hahah...

[a2014]

This kind of relationship is something difficult for anyone to explain. So long as we know where our borderline and do not let our emotional feeling over rule us, I guess discreet is still the key to it.

It’s true that there are time and things that we may not talk or speak with our life partners and you find it easier to talk about it to another party. Apparently sex is not all about it in such relationship, there seem to be a bonding between both in a special way.

This is something that you will continue to a day that it eventually comes to an end. Hopefully not an emotional one.

[ceeko]

I was with a MILF 10 years my senior for also about 3 years.

We bonked almost every other night in either he couch (while her kids are zzing) sometimes

And mostly in my car in a top storey MSCP.

She was wild and v wet, can cum multiple times each session and she'll edge me till she has a fun of orgasms and then asks me to bang her to finish it off. It was really fun because she has menopaused and I can cum in her without worry.

She is the person that I lost the most cum to. Either she'll suck me dry with her mouth or pussy. And every fucking bonk session is extremely sweaty, which makes it all the more intense.

We both know its exclusively fucking only. Of course

[toyotarush]

It’s true that there are time and things that we may not talk or speak with our life partners and you find it easier to talk about it to another party. Apparently sex is not all about it in such relationship, there seem to be a bonding between both in a special way.


I agreed. This type of relationship start with talking About everything and as times go past and opportunities presented than sex came in. Most of my fb relationships with milf started this way. Recently started another fb relationship. Only that this time it’s with a 24 yr old.