Can't stand with girlfriend.

[Mitchrapp2000]

I recently got active with my girlfriend however even though we were kissing and fondling passionately, my dick sometime got reaction sometime dont have. It will go soft when Im about to enter.

I was eating her and she was so ready but my dick no reaction.

Im sorta a virgin when it comes to this. Whats wrong with me? I used to watch a lot of porn and pcc 3 to 4 times a day no problem. Could it be the porn? Shld I try a pill?

[MaraGuru]

I recently got active with my girlfriend however even though we were kissing and fondling passionately, my dick sometime got reaction sometime dont have. It will go soft when Im about to enter.

I was eating her and she was so ready but my dick no reaction.

Im sorta a virgin when it comes to this. Whats wrong with me? I used to watch a lot of porn and pcc 3 to 4 times a day no problem. Could it be the porn? Shld I try a pill?

Watch too much porn and PCC. You stop for a month and you will see the result.

[zhot]

I recently got active with my girlfriend however even though we were kissing and fondling passionately, my dick sometime got reaction sometime dont have. It will go soft when Im about to enter.

I was eating her and she was so ready but my dick no reaction.

Im sorta a virgin when it comes to this. Whats wrong with me? I used to watch a lot of porn and pcc 3 to 4 times a day no problem. Could it be the porn? Shld I try a pill?

You PCC too much. That's why. I used to have this issue last time. Then I stopped the PCC for 3 weeks or so (it was a hell period), after that I'm fine again.

[meanbow]

maybe is you nervous or pcc too much

[Mitchrapp2000]

Do you have issue standing when watching porn?

Oh no issue at all. But I prefer asian porn. Give me bbw i no feel.

Okay I will cut out porn. Any supplements to take to improve my situation? Or any exercise to do? I find it tiring to perform the act even when I was semi soft.

[WestWardly]

1) Change your kkj
2) Change your girlfriend :)

[Roch01]

I also have this problem in my 20s. She is pretty and attractive and when we foreplay i was very hard. Her breasts damn nice. But many times want to enter went soft. Of so many times only managed to fuck her twice. Both times came into her.

[cognisance]

Just relax and refrain from pcc too much. Stop watching porn.

[vuzua]

Just relax and refrain from pcc too much. Stop watching porn.

I was about to say that.

[CoolBlack]

- are you emotionally attracted to her?
- are you physically attracted to her?
- are you giving yourself too much stress? (dont try to achieve what you see in porn)
Let the process flow naturally....i.e. right mood, right environment, right atmosphere.....most importantly.....feelings.
This is not a case of paid sxx whereby the gal will do everything.
Good luck! :D

[Mitchrapp2000]

- are you emotionally attracted to her?
- are you physically attracted to her?
- are you giving yourself too much stress? (dont try to achieve what you see in porn)
Let the process flow naturally....i.e. right mood, right environment, right atmosphere.....most importantly.....feelings.
This is not a case of paid sxx whereby the gal will do everything.
Good luck! :D

Yeah. Noted. Thanks.
I was anxious, she is really game for it. I got lucky!

[makeyouhappy]

https://sbf.net.nz/showthread.php?goto=newpost&t=681335

Bro I had a similar issue though of different cause.

I suspect that the solution is the same for both of us though - do read through my own recommendations and how I overcame this issue.

Cheers! Better luck next time!

[TonyAdams]

https://sbf.net.nz/showthread.php?goto=newpost&t=681335

Bro I had a similar issue though of different cause.

I suspect that the solution is the same for both of us though - do read through my own recommendations and how I overcame this issue.

Cheers! Better luck next time!

Nice share bro

[KenSG]

Don't PCC for 1 month
Food wise there alot of stuff which will help you for example crabs, prawns, oyster,
Remember have enough rest and sleep
If your foreplay you hard and when u want to enter it become soft meaning high chance is mentality issue

[sammyboyfor]

You're wanking far too often. If you have a girlfriend you shouldn't need to beat the meat. Just fuck your girl whenever you're horny.

[Funlover]

How old are u 1st? If u r young, go test it out. Visit FLs or venture to JB Spa to find out if the end results is the same.. because if u young, pcc tht many times shouldnt really affect too much.

[afterburn]

TS, is your gf too "easy" so not shiok already? Sometimes need the challenge to bed the girl and also because of that, less opportunities. So easier to get hard when chance arrives.

That was my xp with gf when in my early 20s. She those goody goody type and hard-to-get so when can persuade her ... no problems getting rock hard.

[perfection89]

I recently got active with my girlfriend however even though we were kissing and fondling passionately, my dick sometime got reaction sometime dont have. It will go soft when Im about to enter.

I was eating her and she was so ready but my dick no reaction.

Im sorta a virgin when it comes to this. Whats wrong with me? I used to watch a lot of porn and pcc 3 to 4 times a day no problem. Could it be the porn? Shld I try a pill?

you need to go jua gen la bro.. a lot of "blood/semen" clot in your prostrate area and your qi cannot flow properly...

[Shadow_warrior]

I recently got active with my girlfriend however even though we were kissing and fondling passionately, my dick sometime got reaction sometime dont have. It will go soft when Im about to enter.

I was eating her and she was so ready but my dick no reaction.

Im sorta a virgin when it comes to this. Whats wrong with me? I used to watch a lot of porn and pcc 3 to 4 times a day no problem. Could it be the porn? Shld I try a pill?

try to not pcc 3-4 times a day

abstain 1 month, you will blow her brains out in bed

[Mitchrapp2000]

Im on the nofap challenge now. Nofap since wednesday morning.

Gf is away for 7 days for holiday with her best friend. I hope the problem will go away and I can do it with her when she comes back.

Would taking supplement help..like tongkat ali. I dont want to be dependent on that staff though. Should I just go natural and wait for my brain to reboot.

[Koei]

You're wanking far too often. If you have a girlfriend you shouldn't need to beat the meat. Just fuck your girl whenever you're horny.

this laojiao sure know some good advice :D:D

[Mitchrapp2000]

True true. I have stopped pccing and viewing porn, today day 4.

Was thinking should I go JG? What is JG exactly? Isnt it the same as HJ? I Never JG before..can anyone recommend?

Also looking to eat supplement such as korean red ginseng or tongkat ali. Any thoughts?

[ChosenCircle]

True true. I have stopped pccing and viewing porn, today day 4.

Was thinking should I go JG? What is JG exactly? Isnt it the same as HJ? I Never JG before..can anyone recommend?

Also looking to eat supplement such as korean red ginseng or tongkat ali. Any thoughts?

That is indeed good for you . See if you can try to do it 2 at least 2 weeks .

[fatladysings]

Maybe TS hold back for too long, then kill own mood

[YELLOW]

ts seems like a young person ... maybe less than 30 ... i think its in the mind .... u gan cheong .... 😊 ... jus try ti relax k ....

[doomvell13]

why so young want to take tongkat ali and that sort of stuff?
if you want to take supplement, take a good multi-vitamin that has zinc inside.
lift weights.
if you want to pcc or watch porn, find something to distract yourself.
another thing that helps is to meditate. There's this app called Calm. Try it.

[Lorres]

I used to get this.
The stress/pressure to perform and make it worse sometimes.
Don't try to imagine too hard on other stuff to stimulate yourself. Only get worse.

I have shared before. The problem does not lie with fapping IMO.
The problem is what you fap to.
Your brain and body become condition to that kind of stimuli.
Do you realise that when you are younger, you can fap to magazines photos of fully clothed models easily. As you watch harder porn, or too much porn your brain and body need more visual and audio stimulation.
Is kinda like drugs that you need higher/dose because your body build up resistance to get that high (orgasm is actually releasing hormones into body)

Fapping and the method of fapping is however important to the ability to last. My opinion again.

Any personally for myself, I cut down on porn videos (look at images and gifs or stories. Quite interesting also and less time consuming cos I can slowly see a few times over the day to build the appetite), did some exercises.
During sex, I simply take charge of the session and and not let my girl dominate with her drive. I realize it's a cycle that when I lose confidence I take a backseat to perform and on and on it goes.
By taking charge means, I make her do what I want as it pleasures me, when I want. Ironically ally through making my pleasure the priority and not hers, I make her more satisfied lol. (that's where alot of the stress comes from as guy; inability to satisfy a woman)
Make her as compromising as I enjoy.
It helps to build back the confidence to dominate. Now totally do not have this problem.

Just my 0.02.
Haha I agree with you and other Bros.
Pressure to perform. Too much porn.
On domineering, it depends, but most guys like to do dominate sex.
If the girl takes control from the start, the guy may not like it.
I once had a session with a friend, ask me to quickly shower etc etc, when on bed, she just spread her legs with feet dangling in mid air......and I was like....what the hell?! My dick starts to soften.

[Blackcloud]

Haha I agree with you and other Bros.
Pressure to perform. Too much porn.
On domineering, it depends, but most guys like to do dominate sex.
If the girl takes control from the start, the guy may not like it.
I once had a session with a friend, ask me to quickly shower etc etc, when on bed, she just spread her legs with feet dangling in mid air......and I was like....what the hell?! My dick starts to soften.

Guess you did not complete your mission unless she help you up again . :D

[Mitchrapp2000]

Haha I agree with you and other Bros.
Pressure to perform. Too much porn.
On domineering, it depends, but most guys like to do dominate sex.
If the girl takes control from the start, the guy may not like it.
I once had a session with a friend, ask me to quickly shower etc etc, when on bed, she just spread her legs with feet dangling in mid air......and I was like....what the hell?! My dick starts to soften.

I am suffering from blue balls now. Didnt pcc for 5 days and today met her in the morning, we grind grind grind i hard but cannot do it cos no rubber. I went off for meeting, whole day my balls feel swollen. Need to release tonight.

[CheryCute]

I am suffering from blue balls now. Didnt pcc for 5 days and today met her in the morning, we grind grind grind i hard but cannot do it cos no rubber. I went off for meeting, whole day my balls feel swollen. Need to release tonight.

Better release, otherwise very torturing

[Lorres]

Guess you did not complete your mission unless she help you up again . :D

I need to clarify, my dick soften becoz her actions totally kill the mood.
I was expecting some smooching and hugging and caressing and fingering and then I enter.... But I get none of these...She just skip all foreplay and proceed to spread legs.
I couldn't perform for this date. No mood.

After the date, went GL to fuck my regular, not yet undress and I grope n caress and rub her pussy thru her panties, push her against the wall, skirt up, panties down, condom on, wham bang mission completed.

[Mitchrapp2000]

...i released. After like 10 seconds inside her.

We foreplay alot, it was already a loaded dick when i inserted. Knn fron ED now become PE.

How sia. And I didnt use protection oh my god.

[Lorres]

...i released. After like 10 seconds inside her.

We foreplay alot, it was already a loaded dick when i inserted. Knn fron ED now become PE.

How sia. And I didnt use protection oh my god.
1. Be mentality prepared for possibility of GF => wife.
2. The abstain works, right?
3. PE also means you can have two shots in one session.
4. You miss out the chance to play / observe creampie.

[Mitchrapp2000]

Just want to update.

All clear sign. No father day for me :)

Now in 1 night we can have sex 3 to 5 times. Is this normal? I can last 5 to 10 mins.

Record was 15 mins later for round 2. Round 3 2 hours later.

[unsung80]

Just want to update.

All clear sign. No father day for me :)

Now in 1 night we can have sex 3 to 5 times. Is this normal? I can last 5 to 10 mins.

Record was 15 mins later for round 2. Round 3 2 hours later.

You are not going to be so lucky each time if you don't want to do it safely.

I rather do a long and good one, 5 to 10 mins in my opinion is way too short, 30 mins to an hour would be ideal!

[Chiros]

Better release, otherwise very torturing

Would agree too

[novice]

You are not going to be so lucky each time if you don't want to do it safely.

I rather do a long and good one, 5 to 10 mins in my opinion is way too short, 30 mins to an hour would be ideal!

I fully agreed about 30 mins nice.

[XanaduMuse]

You are not going to be so lucky each time if you don't want to do it safely.

I rather do a long and good one, 5 to 10 mins in my opinion is way too short, 30 mins to an hour would be ideal!

Yes, I prefer a little longer period.

[Olevelresult]

Just want to update.

All clear sign. No father day for me :)

Now in 1 night we can have sex 3 to 5 times. Is this normal? I can last 5 to 10 mins.

Record was 15 mins later for round 2. Round 3 2 hours later.

Well done bro!

[squiggle]

Live a healthy lifestyle, quit pcc and try doing new stuff related to sex with your gf like watching porn together.

[Bulus]

stuff related to sex with your gf like watching porn together

Thats quite a good idea actually

[Mitchrapp2000]

Been awhile, we almost piak 2 to 3 times everynight.
1 pack of durex invisible 24 bucks last 3 nights only. Spending a lot on protection.

[Cheesebeast]

Been awhile, we almost piak 2 to 3 times everynight.
1 pack of durex invisible 24 bucks last 3 nights only. Spending a lot on protection.

Used to have this spending issue when banging my fbs too. Invested in birth control and morning after pills and saved a lot in the long run. Plus it feels better too 😁

[Andrea90]

You are not going to be so lucky each time if you don't want to do it safely.

I rather do a long and good one, 5 to 10 mins in my opinion is way too short, 30 mins to an hour would be ideal!

Bros, what did you do to last longer naturally?

[Bulus]

we almost piak 2 to 3 times everynight

Thats alot of sex in one night bro

[Mitchrapp2000]

If i stay over 2 days, sure at least 3 to 4 times.

Sometimes when Im inside her, I can feel rhythm squeezing on my dick on her pussy lips. Is that female orgasm? She will usually make some noise too.

[lanlanloh]

Live a healthy lifestyle, quit pcc and try doing new stuff related to sex with your gf like watching porn together.

Ideal. She could learnt some tricks:D

[Diavel]

Is it common for someone to PCC 3 - 4 times a day? I could barely bring myself to PCC once a week..ahah

[devilborne87]

If i stay over 2 days, sure at least 3 to 4 times.

Sometimes when Im inside her, I can feel rhythm squeezing on my dick on her pussy lips. Is that female orgasm? She will usually make some noise too.

Enjoy while it last....after a few years....doing once every few days not bad le....lol

[Cowell]

She just skip all foreplay and proceed to spread legs

That does not seem to be like sex seems like she is doing a chore :o

[Cross_]

If i stay over 2 days, sure at least 3 to 4 times.

Sometimes when Im inside her, I can feel rhythm squeezing on my dick on her pussy lips. Is that female orgasm? She will usually make some noise too.

Yes, it's orgasm. After that you can feel/check if there's cum or wetter.

Used to do 2-4 times with my girlfriend as well. One factor you may be facing is the lack of spice. Maybe you two can try out different things; roleplay, outfit, outdoor, blindfold, anal, etc.

[RockyII]

we grind grind grind i hard but cannot do it cos no rubber

Always carry a spare condom in your wallet its very useful, thats what i always do

[datang]

Always carry a spare condom in your wallet its very useful, thats what i always do

Right, don't leave home without it :D

[LesGrossman]

Better release, otherwise very torturing

I feel the same way too because if i never have sex for 2 weeks i will feel like my mind cannot function

[waaaaaa]

I find it hard to stand with my fb after we meet up after 2 years. Probably her stretch marks and panty liner turn me off. And her non pleasing attitude made t worse. Her mindset is: it’s a men job during sex. Gals dun have to do anything

[OreoCookieMan]

unless she help you up again

Actually when i am with my gf an occasional bbbj would sometimes help me to get hard too

[ElNacho]

Be mentality prepared for possibility of GF => wife


Yup better prepare for that an infact as your gf she does not like sex, she probably won as your wife too

[Bulus]

never have sex for 2 weeks i will feel like my mind cannot function

Actually if you always have sex you will notice you are more relaxed and less irritable too

[LeslieChow]

can feel rhythm squeezing on my dick on her pussy lips

I believe maybe you are right if her pussy lips squeezes she could be having an orgasm

[Leveraged]

doing once every few days not bad le

So true actually having sex more than twice a week is good as some of us even once month once also our wifes/gfs say no

[SchoolOfLife]

She could learnt some tricks

Thats why watching porn with your partner is a good idea as some of the sexual tricks used in porn can be fun

[CountDooku]

Is it common for someone to PCC 3 - 4 times a day?

Depends on how horny you are so i believe there is no maximum amount to pcc ;)

[PatriotMissile]

seems like she is doing a chore

Sex should never be like a chore it should always be something that is fun and exciting to do

[Stratosphere]

carry a spare condom in your wallet

Thats what i usually do but remember to change the condom in your wallet every 6 months at a minimum

[GodOfGamblers]

it’s a men job during sex. Gals dun have to do anything

I feel that is somehow the wrong mindset as sex should be something both partners participate together in bed

[HamsterGamer]

Used to have this spending issue when banging my fbs

For me condoms is a better way as if its bought in bulk condoms can be cheap too

[Bhumibol]

last longer

The best solution in my opinion would still be kegel exercises but its a long process

[OreoCookieMan]

lack of spice

Lack of spice is always an issue for most couples thats why its always good to try new things or ways to spice up a relationship before it becomes too mundane

[LimAhHuat]

she does not like sex

If my girlfriend is a person that does not like sex i will consider ending the relationship

[SchoolOfLife]

don't leave home without it

Indeed bro just carry a spare condom in your wallet or car will be the most helpful

[Camel]

occasional bbbj would sometimes help me to get hard

I think what happens is that during the bbbj you get more aroused hence thats what makes you or helps you become much harder

[HeLovesMe]

Lack of spice is always an issue for most couples thats why its always good to try new things or ways to spice up a relationship before it becomes too mundane

New way to spice up your relationships is to look for MLs to massage you with your Girlfriend/Wife for kinky fun. :D

[Bulus]

Sex should never be like a chore

Agreed, sex is fun activity that should be enjoyed by both partners and plus its an activity that brings both partners closer together physically and emotionally ;)

[MrHappyFace]

spice up a relationship before it becomes too mundane

Correct never let any relationship become dull as that will also mean your sex life goes downhill hence always try to do new things in bed as that helps

[ArturoBraga]

even once month once also our wifes/gfs say no

Thats why i the FL trade has been flourishing because of the sheer demand because most of us seem not be getting enough sex from the women we date or are married to

[CombatReady]

change the condom in your wallet every 6 months

Correct its better to always change your condom in your wallet regularly because after the expiry date the condom rubber may actually start to degrade

[WiseGuy]

some of the sexual tricks used in porn can be fun

I always do this as well because i like to see some of the sexual positions in porn and hopefully can act them out with my partner in the bedroom, kekeke

[JOGK]

Both are sex but i feel its much difference between them
Paid sex will never be the same as sex with passion of loves
Even if you love the partner you just know who only do it for money
Though he have what you wanted .. physical sex i called it
But there is no passion in the sex at all
And whenever i had paid sex i feel there is always a gap compares the two
Love with passion can never be the same as paid sex of without passion
The feeling is never the same
Nothing is better than having it done in your own bedroom
The atmosphere is never the same
Thats just my opinion and experienced
Sad for those who gf or wives feeling no love anymore
but its true
Just like many always says
OUTSIDE FOOD IS NOTHING COMPARES TO HOME COOKED FOOD

[HatchetMen]

she could be having an orgasm

I think you can also see her facial expression and eyes when she has an orgasm which is a straight giveaway

[Stratosphere]

believe there is no maximum amount to pcc

Thats true but i always have the urge to pcc atleast once every 2 days which somehow makes my mind feel alot clearer, lol

[IscoDisco]

Thats true but i always have the urge to pcc atleast once every 2 days which somehow makes my mind feel alot clearer, lol

I understand what you mean haha :D

[TangoAndCash]

carry a spare condom in your wallet

It can be rather helpful to always carry a spare condom in your wallet but do remember to change it every few months

[merelyevil]

It’s highly recommended by experts not to carry a condom in the wallet.

We sit on our wallet, we stuff our wallet with cash and coins, we leave our wallet out in the sun and gets into water sometimes, all will spoil the condom easily.

Just buy one from the nearest 7-11 when you need it.

[DwightKSchrute]

kegel exercises but its a long process

Kegel exercises are good but like you mentioned its a long process thus it takes alot of commitment to see it through

[secret75]

I have a similar problem, but the solution I find is to:

1. Abstain from pcc for more than a week
2. Watch porn no issue, especially new ones, but do not cum
3. Fantasize during sex of the porn, or on your girl, but don’t rotate. Focus.
4. Don’t worry or think about performance and focus on your own pleasure (in this way, you Perform the best and your girl also gets maximum pleasure). Worrying you will tire her and want to cum quickly for example just kills it.

Good luck!

[fringe929]

I have a similar problem and its with wife...
I do find wife sexy but just can't stand... very frustrating :(

[heartlock]

I recently got active with my girlfriend however even though we were kissing and fondling passionately, my dick sometime got reaction sometime dont have. It will go soft when Im about to enter.

I was eating her and she was so ready but my dick no reaction.

Im sorta a virgin when it comes to this. Whats wrong with me? I used to watch a lot of porn and pcc 3 to 4 times a day no problem. Could it be the porn? Shld I try a pill?

Some pill do more harm after taken, advise not to as it only temp only.
Even like indian oil, i find it more harmful but that my personal view.
BULUS OIL , i have no answer as i never tried it.


Porn is the main cause.
In Real life you cant get the excitement as in porn so you cant get enough simulation to trigger your brain reaction.

[Bulus]

bulk condoms can be cheap too

While it maybe true bulk condoms maybe cheap but do remember to use them before it reaches the expiry date :D

[StewieRules]

sex should be something both partners participate together

Sadly not all women think this way and we have a situation where some women just tend to be dead fishes in the bedroom

[Thade]

during the bbbj you get more aroused

Thats how i feel as well because when i get a bbbj from an FL it never fails to make me aroused and somehow makes me have a harder erection too

[Bitcoin]

always try to do new things in bed as that helps

Personally i would always like to try new things with my partner in bed but she does not seem too keen to try new stuff but i hope that she will one day though

[AllInObama]

pcc atleast once every 2 days which somehow makes my mind feel alot clearer

Pcc can be considered to be a form of sex although its sex with yourself but sex is always known to make a person more calm and relaxed

[KiatWee]

Paid sex will never be the same as sex with passion of loves

Although that maybe true sometimes those of us who are married our wifes' don't really have sex with us frequently

[PatriotMissile]

leave our wallet out in the sun and gets into water sometimes

It does not have to be a wallet, you can store your spare condom in a cool dry place accessible only by yourself, like for me its my office drawer ;)

[IntelPentium]

does not like sex i will consider ending the relationship

Actually that is a good point in that its no point being with someone that does not share the same interests as you do

[Napster]

always have sex you will notice you are more relaxed

Sex actually has a particular way of making people feel calm and kind of takes your stress away at an instant

[Bonapartist]

can also see her facial expression and eyes

Not only facial expression but when a woman moans during sex you can also take it that she is enjoying having sex with you ;)

[Bookers]

Kegel exercises are good but like you mentioned its a long process

Kegel exercises are like that as they take a long time to show some improvement thats why alot of people give up doing kegel exercises after a while

[VatosLocos]

like to see some of the sexual positions in porn

Watching porn to give you ideas on sexual ideas is excellent, for me i watch porn to actually give me more ideas on foreplay, lol

[Camel]

most of us seem not be getting enough sex from the women we date or are married to

Very well said bro because some people have this concept that marriage means constant sex but that can't be further from the truth

[AgentNumber2]

Watch porn no issue, especially new ones, but do not cum

The thing is like myself if i watch porn and i don't release via sex or pcc, i then find that my concentration for other tasks go dramatically down, lol

[RockyII]

cant get enough simulation to trigger your brain

Sometimes its not just about simulation but as we keep on having sex with the same person makes the sex rather dull

[Bulus]

takes your stress away at an instant

I guess thats why alot of people love sex as it has a way to make you feel good ;)

[StewieRules]

my concentration for other tasks go dramatically down, lol

I just find it not possible to release after seeing porn because porn else i will be horny the entire day

[korokay]

TS, I think Juagen helps. I know it's helped my cock A lot. Damn hard now when having sex with gf and stays hard for a while after sex too after regular juagen sessions. My gf asked why suddenly so he'd and thick all the time, I said magic lol. My regular juagen masseuse also comments that my cock is always hard and it's a sign of healthiness down there lol.

[ChilliPeppers]

our wifes' don't really have sex with us frequently

Its the same with most people actually because there has always been a misconception that marriage means constant sex

[Rickey]

Although that maybe true sometimes those of us who are married our wifes' don't really have sex with us frequently

Its the same with most people actually because there has always been a misconception that marriage means constant sex
Yes, you are right abt the misconception, sis...but it differs actually from couple to couple...if both the couple got HSD, then they will continue to fxxk like rabbits almost every nite, but most ordinary couples will be too tired by the end of the day to hv sex with each other...they rather go to sleep and leave each other alone...for some they even sleep separately in different rooms...tats how bad it can get

[maleescort7]

I recently got active with my girlfriend however even though we were kissing and fondling passionately, my dick sometime got reaction sometime dont have. It will go soft when Im about to enter.

I was eating her and she was so ready but my dick no reaction.

Im sorta a virgin when it comes to this. Whats wrong with me? I used to watch a lot of porn and pcc 3 to 4 times a day no problem. Could it be the porn? Shld I try a pill?

If cant stand with girlfriend, sit with girlfriend.

[ElNacho]

like for me its my office drawer

Better make sure your office drawer is locked else your colleague want to borrow a pen then they will see your condom stash :p

[AllInObama]

people have this concept that marriage means constant sex

That almost never happens infact its always the opposite that happens in that marriage means quite a reduction in sexual activity

[b6mt]

If cant stand with girlfriend, sit with girlfriend.

Haha very cold :D

[Camel]

some women just tend to be dead fishes in the bedroom

There are actually many women that are dead fishes in bed and this is something that really puts me off because its just as good as pccing by myself at home

[Wasabi999]

There are actually many women that are dead fishes in bed and this is something that really puts me off because its just as good as pccing by myself at home
Agree, like doing with a sex doll....lol

[bronzecoins]

There are actually many women that are dead fishes in bed and this is something that really puts me off because its just as good as pccing by myself at home

Agree with you bro, either pcc or go for release in spas.

[Koei]

There are actually many women that are dead fishes in bed and this is something that really puts me off because its just as good as pccing by myself at home

Coincidentally, I sat through a private sharing session between 6 female friends during the weekend. They shared about their sex lives or lack of it. One thing in common is some OLs think sex is mostly to satisfy the men. Other than the intimacy, they don't really enjoy it. Probably this is why. And of course, they can obviously come without men.

[RomanoPulse]

because after the expiry date the condom rubber may actually start to degrade

Condoms usually have an expiry date printed on the packet, just don't use the condom after the expiry date

[leoka]

One of the reason is too used to the feeling, nothing new, thats why

[Bulus]

watch porn to actually give me more ideas on foreplay

Actually watching porn not only gives you ideas on sex but also able to make you aroused as well too :)

[RockyII]

Pcc can be considered to be a form of sex

While i tend to enjoy to pcc once in a while i always prefer to have sex where i get to fondle with a woman, lol

[DailyBoredom]

when a woman moans during sex

Most people love it when a woman moans during sex because for one it really adds to the sexual atmosphere and also make me rather horny as well

[AgentNumber2]

when i get a bbbj from an FL it never fails to make me aroused

Getting a good bbbj will always do wonders for people and usually if a woman gives a good bbbj you know that the sex will definately be good with her

[DailyBoredom]

sex with the same person makes the sex rather dull

But for those of us who are married we don't really have a choice but that's where spicing up your sex life would come into play

[CoconutGrove]

someone that does not share the same interests as you

Yes if you just force yourself to be in a relationship that you have no interest in eventually the relationship will just wither and breakdown sooner or later

[Crapping]

try new things with my partner in bed

Its always good to try new things in bed because if as a couple if you keep on doing the same stuff in bed it will become very boring after a while

[Sinaloa]

people give up doing kegel exercises after a while

The reason why i think this happens is because people think that kegel exercises is a quick fix but in actuality kegel exercises takes time

[HatchetMen]

too used to the feeling

If that is the case then the only way to get over it is simply to spice up a relationship which does help immensely

[DwightKSchrute]

actually many women that are dead fishes in bed

This is one of the main reasons why i tend to break up with some of my gfs in the past because i believe sex is an important pillar in any relationship and if she feels not important to indulge in it with me equally then i might as well find another mate

[MountedPolice]

they will see your condom stash

For me i store all my sex stuff in my car glove compartment as thats the best and also if i have car sex i can access the condoms easily :D

[KiatWee]

go for release in spas

Nowadays spas are not what they used to be unlike in the past where the service was really good, today the spas are far from where they started

[KnockoutNed]

marriage means quite a reduction in sexual activity

Not only marriage but some people think that by having a gf you can have good sex almost every single day but that also not seem true infact i think any form of relationship with a woman tends to have lesser sex, lol

[Napster]

just don't use the condom after the expiry date

Not only using the condoms by the expiry date but i realize that some condoms when they are approaching the expiry date like a week before expiry you will notice the latex of the condom starts to become brittle

[BurBerry1856]

like doing with a sex doll

Talking about sex dolls actually having sex with a sex doll is not really that bad and can actually be a good way for you to practice your sex skills

[Bulus]

think Juagen helps

Juagen will always help because juagen is basically a manhood maintenance so if you go for juagen regularly it will do alot of good for you

[ArturoBraga]

Haha very cold

He meant it as a joke but what i think is that the best way to try and make sex an enjoyable process for a couple is to try and exhaust the various options available

[Cowell]

some OLs think sex is mostly to satisfy the men

You are very right on that but that it is the wrong way to classify sex in such a way as i believe sex can be something both partners can enjoy

[RockyII]

misconception that marriage means constant sex

Sometimes if we really think about it being single has more benefits and the only reason to get married is probably company as you get older

[WiseGuy]

will be horny the entire day

This is why after i see any porn i would try to go to an FL or atleast pcc because if i am too horny i find it difficult to concentrate on anything else actually

[Michaelchong11]

Same, after watch porn most of the time will pcc

[slumels]

I pcc when watching porn, not after

[Camel]

people think that by having a gf you can have good sex almost every single day

That has to be the furthest from the truth because not all women have a high sex drive as we perceive and some women have no sex drive at all

[Cheesebeast]

Not only marriage but some people think that by having a gf you can have good sex almost every single day but that also not seem true infact i think any form of relationship with a woman tends to have lesser sex, lol

Wait till you find a girlfriend who only believes in sex after marriage - then you will reconsider if sleeping around is actually a totally wrong thing

[KawasakiBikes]

able to make you aroused

If you are talking about sexual arousal specifically then i would prefer foreplay because nothing beats grabbing an actual breast and kissing it :D

[RamlyBurger]

she feels not important to indulge in it with me equally

Some women are like that where they do not engage in sex with their partners because they always feel that sex is a man's domain

[Bitcoin]

keep on doing the same stuff in bed it will become very boring

The thing about trying new things in bed is that your sex partner has to be someone that is willing to explore new things with you and not too overly conservative

[Kovovo]

Wait till you find a girlfriend who only believes in sex after marriage - then you will reconsider if sleeping around is actually a totally wrong thing

Then after marriage, the wife always dun want sex then u become truly fucked

[ChairmanMao]

spas are not what they used to be unlike in the past

If you ask me personally i think most of the spas is sg the service standards are not only lacking but they are almost non existent as well but surprisingly the spas in other countries their standards are pretty good though

[SchoolOfLife]

simply to spice up a relationship

Spicing up a relationship can really do wonders because it makes the couple want each other much more than usual :)

[Bulus]

love it when a woman moans during sex

A woman moaning during sex really has a way to make most of us really quite horny in double quick time :D

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=Mitchrapp2000;17357110]
I was eating her and she was so ready but my dick no reaction.
we can help u eat!
some advise here
think u have energy problem
don't drink cold water & beer often especially 1 hour before seeing her
eat more beef and eggs on that day
don't jerk your small cock 1 days before seeing her
all this build up your energy

[TangoAndCash]

eventually the relationship will just wither and breakdown

Could not agree more with you because in any relationship having commonality will enable both parties to connect not only on a romantic level but sexually as well

[OreoCookieMan]

store all my sex stuff in my car glove compartment

I still prefer to keep any spare condoms in my wallet as there is almost zero chance anyone will look through my wallet, but that is for me

[RockyII]

good way for you to practice your sex skills

For me i always prefer the real thing because with a sex doll you might not be able to get all the gyrations that you usually get when having sex with a woman

[Bonapartist]

people think that kegel exercises is a quick fix

That could not be furthest from the truth as kegel exercises take quite a long time but let us not forget that kegel exercises are also the most promising

[TheDamned]

sex will definately be good with her

Indeed bro having a good bbj from a woman is most likely a prelude of the sex to come which is most certainly and surely to be satisfying

[CountDooku]

a week before expiry you will notice the latex of the condom starts to become brittle

That always happens when latex reaches its end of life hence i usually never use the condom if i see the expiry is less than a month left as the last thing you want is for the condom to break during sex

[r.fowler]

how do u guys overcome the dick went soft when putting on rubber? I start to experience this and this is a bit disappointing to me and my FWB.

how do you all overcome? Dick did not go exactly soft but it become less hard.. FWB feel the same too, no sensation.

Anyone can advise?

[Stratosphere]

that's where spicing up your sex life would come into play

Spicing up of a couple's sex life can be important because it literally prevents the spark in a relationship fading out which can then lead to other issues instead

[Rubiks]

enjoy to pcc once in a while i always prefer to have sex

Nothing really beats sex with a woman as sex with a woman has a way that is more enjoyable than any form of activity that i know of, lol

[daring70]

Wear only at the last minute and quickly insert before it turns soft. start pumping a little and avoid inactivity after you are inside. these things happen on bad days so the best course of action is to pleasure woman as much as possible until she is begging for it, this allows you to do a quick entry (since she is already very needy at this stage).


how do u guys overcome the dick went soft when putting on rubber? I start to experience this and this is a bit disappointing to me and my FWB.

how do you all overcome? Dick did not go exactly soft but it become less hard.. FWB feel the same too, no sensation.

Anyone can advise?

[WiseGuy]

Juagen will always help because juagen is basically a manhood maintenance

Yes i would agree on this as juagen is important but the issue has always been trying to find a competent masseuse that is able to perform the juagen for you

[zetrio2002]

Sometimes I also cannot stand with gf.

So paiseh that I end up licking her pussy...but lick and lick she will say no feel...ask me kiss harder or use tongue more.

Sometimes she ignore me and ask me to kiss her butt.

[gamewinner]

how do u guys overcome the dick went soft when putting on rubber? I start to experience this and this is a bit disappointing to me and my FWB.

how do you all overcome? Dick did not go exactly soft but it become less hard.. FWB feel the same too, no sensation.

Anyone can advise?

Yah, I also experience this too.

[weagree]

Sometimes I also cannot stand with gf.

So paiseh that I end up licking her pussy...but lick and lick she will say no feel...ask me kiss harder or use tongue more.

Sometimes she ignore me and ask me to kiss her butt.

I also got this before, no choice use tongue lor.

[Bulus]

sex partner has to be someone that is willing to explore new things

Having such a partner is really great because it will make any sex with her not only exciting but will always keep such a sexual relationship fresh

[ChairmanMao]

girlfriend who only believes in sex after marriage

If my gf or the woman i date ever mentions that to me i would seriously consider breaking up with her because it shows a lack of maturity in my opinion

[energy_boi]

Wait till you find a girlfriend who only believes in sex after marriage - then you will reconsider if sleeping around is actually a totally wrong thing

Can we buy expensive gifts then (bags/etc) after marriage? We guys believe in that too.

[PatriotMissile]

Spicing up a relationship can really do wonders

Could not agree more because spicing up any relationship does tend to make the sex more exciting and prevents it from becoming stale

[blues_bleu]

Juagen will always help because juagen is basically a manhood maintenance so if you go for juagen regularly it will do alot of good for you

hi, do you have any recommendation for good juagen master.
seem difficult to get any these days!

[SUNRISERYOKO]

There are several MLs who specialize in juagen treatment. Personally i will recommend CC as she is my regular mechanic to keep up my bedroom activiy w my GF 👍

hi, do you have any recommendation for good juagen master.
seem difficult to get any these days!

[UMNO]

nothing beats grabbing an actual breast and kissing it

Indeed bro sometimes just seeing a woman's naked body and fondling with it can make you more horny then anything else, kekeke

[MountedPolice]

most of the spas is sg the service standards are not only lacking but they are almost non existent

I have actually noticed that as well but i think this is happening because some of the mls have become complacent over the years which i feel is not good and for me if i get bad service from an ml, i would never go back again

[AllInObama]

they always feel that sex is a man's domain

Sex is not any particular persons' domain and i believe that when it comes to sex if you have a dead fish partner in the bedroom it literally destroys the intimacy of any relationship

[HeLovesMe]

Sex is not any particular persons' domain and i believe that when it comes to sex if you have a dead fish partner in the bedroom it literally destroys the intimacy of any relationship

100% True :(

[Stratosphere]

after i see any porn i would try to go to an FL

That is actually quite a good way of making yourself become more horny than usual just before you have sex and also add a tinge of excitement as you come to having sex by seeing some porn before that, hahaha

[HatchetMen]

A woman moaning during sex

Any woman that moans while having sex adds to any sexual atmosphere but more than that it shows that she is enjoying the sexual encounter with you :D

[Bonapartist]

wife always dun want sex

That is actually the worst because if your wife does that sooner or later the relationship will break down as i always believe sex is a vital part of any relationship

[HeLovesMe]

That is actually the worst because if your wife does that sooner or later the relationship will break down as i always believe sex is a vital part of any relationship

Such wives will give health problems to their faithful hubbies in future.

[Bhumibol]

if we really think about it being single has more benefits

Being single indeed does have alot of benefits because you can literally do whatever you want without asking for any permission from anyone and also have sex with whomever you wish whenever you want as well :D

[Bulus]

not all women have a high sex drive as we perceive

Sex drive for a woman has always been a sticky issue and i always believe that every woman has a naughty side just that we men have to figure out how to unlock it ;)

[HeLovesMe]

Sex drive for a woman has always been a sticky issue and i always believe that every woman has a naughty side just that we men have to figure out how to unlock it ;)

I liked to be naughty and playful but was not allowed to do so by my guy. Cos I got bad bites from him as a form of punishment after I became naughty just for fun last year. :(

Guys, you must treasure/enjoy your women who are naughty and playful towards you before losing them to menopause, motherhood,unforeseen death,etc .

[Crapping]

watch porn most of the time will pcc

That is usually a given but sometimes if you do not pcc right away after seeing porn you will get a pent up sexual arousal which would give you a fantastic orgasm later on when you have sex or pcc, hehehe

[Napster]

sex can be something both partners can enjoy

Yes i do agree with you on that but the thing is that some women think that its the man's job to do everything in bed and they just lay there only

[lalaliang]

I liked to be naughty and playful but was not allowed to do so by my guy. Cos I got bad bites from him as a form of punishment after I became naughty just for fun last year. :(

Guys, you must treasure/enjoy your women who are naughty and playful towards you before losing them to menopause, motherhood,unforeseen death,etc .

So true. It was until she started full time jobs.. sex is getting lesser due to work.

[Villainous]

experience this too

Usually you become soft when putting on the rubber happens when you are not sufficiently aroused enough so the only way is to make sure is that before you put on the rubber you are already fully erected and aroused enough

[doombringer]

Do intermittent fasting, proven to raise testosterone and sleep train hard dick will become good

[KnockoutNed]

Nothing really beats sex with a woman as sex with a woman

I think so too because when you pcc it really has a different feel from when you have actual sex with a woman plus as you have sex with more women you would get more sexual experienced too

[Slowpump]

I liked to be naughty and playful but was not allowed to do so by my guy. Cos I got bad bites from him as a form of punishment after I became naughty just for fun last year. :(

Guys, you must treasure/enjoy your women who are naughty and playful towards you before losing them to menopause, motherhood,unforeseen death,etc .

I do understand but some guys (like me) need a softer approach with foreplay leading to the final act. I may lose concentration if there's a lot of naughty play but that's me only but I won't resort to bites lol.

[Baileys]

I have a good buddy who is married with kids but he said he no longer able to stand and have sex with his wife....he said that even when she walks around the room naked he just doesn't have the feel anymore....recently he met another married woman and he told me that he is ramming her like mad....

[HeLovesMe]

I do understand but some guys (like me) need a softer approach with foreplay leading to the final act. I may lose concentration if there's a lot of naughty play but that's me only but I won't resort to bites lol.

Train yourself to be extremely horny while you do foreplay on your woman. :D

[Lightbulbdust]

New things are always fresher. The wife play a part too. When come to sex, wife should always dress up and be naughty. If not everyday see same thing, see already also sian

[DwightKSchrute]

will make any sex with her not only exciting but will always keep such a sexual relationship fresh

People always look for such partners but the thing is when i go out dating it seems that most of the sg women are quite conservative when it comes to sex

[Camel]

still prefer to keep any spare condoms in my wallet

Keeping your condoms in your wallet might not be a good idea because usually we would sit on our wallets and that may disintegrate the rubber after a while but then again we need to store our condoms in an easily accessible place as well :p

[LouFerrigno]

likely a prelude of the sex to come

Yes this i would agree because if a woman is able to give you a good bbbj then its more than likely that she would be very adventurous in bed as well

[hubber28]

Married for more than 10yrs and feeling lost interest in sex with wife. Sounded quite normal since wife is inexperienced as I am her first man. Present - I tried to spice up my sex life (ED nvr my problem) and so she started also to be naughty. Getting to open up by watch porn tgt and imitate what on screen etc. It works and I continue working on it.

Now for topic related - a fren of mine having ED with married wife of 2yrs (wife is really hot). Knn why he had to be ED, damn wasted! He went to see doctor-nothing wrong physically but could be stress induce ED. We guys chatted and suggested why dun u play abit of role playing in mask and invest in some toys like handcuff and dildos etc.

After a while - he came back telling he start to have reaction when seeing his wife don’t want to have sex. We were like- wtf happened?! He reply saying he was wearing a scream mask (daiso holloween time) and go inside bathroom while his wife was bathing. Her reluctant and her scream sort of like turn him on and he got reaction. Turn out he had the best sex with her in recently years.

We hold up our beers n cheers!

[Bulus]

lick and lick she will say no feel

When you lick a woman's pussy do not just lick the vulva part but try and lick on the clitoris area as its that part that of her vagina that will make a woman more sexually aroused :)

[Camel]

That always happens when latex reaches its end of life

That is definately for sure thats why when i use condoms i almost never buy cheap condoms and i always buy those condoms that cost a little more because i have this fear that a cheap condom might slip off or break while having intercourse