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hil169
18-01-2017, 08:22 AM
Gf wish to wait till after marriage to have sex so only limited to bj, fingering etc but she's frigid so cant feel much also and so I kind of feel bad psychologically to 'use' her to settle my sexual frustration...

So, have been using porn to settle the frustration but felt that I'm getting addicted to it and may end up having a non-fulfilling physical sexual life if overly relying on it.

What are the ways bros use to settle sexual frustration?

Ways i can think of is
1) FL,
2) WL,
3) ONS,
4) NSA,
5) SB,
6) FWB

Guess it depends on the depth of our pockets?

Thanks.

aphrodisia
18-01-2017, 12:38 PM
Gf wish to wait till after marriage to have sex so only limited to bj, fingering etc but she's frigid so cant feel much also and so I kind of feel bad psychologically to 'use' her to settle my sexual frustration...

So, have been using porn to settle the frustration but felt that I'm getting addicted to it and may end up having a non-fulfilling physical sexual life if overly relying on it.

What are the ways bros use to settle sexual frustration?

Ways i can think of is
1) FL,
2) WL,
3) ONS,
4) NSA,
5) SB,
6) FWB

Guess it depends on the depth of our pockets?

Thanks.

Continue to pcc because its free and you might never know when your girlfriend will do this back to you because what goes around comes around 😆

circle22
18-01-2017, 03:47 PM
I also PCC after that go take a cold shower . :D

jazp
19-01-2017, 07:33 AM
I don't know bro. The money saved by pcc-ing can be used somewhere else. But such is human nature to want sex and your gf is denying you of it. Ask yourself if you can, like what the other bro said, take it if your gf do it back to you.

sgjoey
19-01-2017, 07:45 AM
I am puzzled about why you would want to have a serious relationship with someone whom you already know is frigid.... unless sex is not important for you. If it is, both of you should try to fix the problem first before marriage. Or end up feeling miserable for years to come.

hil169
19-01-2017, 08:12 AM
I am puzzled about why you would want to have a serious relationship with someone whom you already know is frigid.... unless sex is not important for you. If it is, both of you should try to fix the problem first before marriage. Or end up feeling miserable for years to come.

Bro, i only knew after we got into a serious relationship. Sex is part of a relationship. She's all good except on the sex department. What do i do? Cant possibly end the rs just cos of sex. So i thought maybe settling elsewhere is better solution

sgjoey
19-01-2017, 08:57 AM
Especially in the early years, sex is a very important part of marriage. You don't have to give her up, but help her fix her problem. Seek professional help.

But, as I said, unless sex is not important for you, you should probably part ways if the problem cannot be easily fixed. Better that than many years of misery down the road for both of you.

geoppery
19-01-2017, 08:59 AM
PCC is one way, then also coomunicate your problems with her and attempt to check it out if you are able to negotiate with her or another better solution that comes along as you will never know!:)

peanut123
19-01-2017, 05:02 PM
Since you have a girlfriend, I think you shouldn't be exploring these options other than PCC. If she finds out, and there are many ways a guy can slip up, it could end your relationship, which would be disastrous if you really love her.


Gf wish to wait till after marriage to have sex so only limited to bj, fingering etc but she's frigid so cant feel much also and so I kind of feel bad psychologically to 'use' her to settle my sexual frustration...

So, have been using porn to settle the frustration but felt that I'm getting addicted to it and may end up having a non-fulfilling physical sexual life if overly relying on it.

What are the ways bros use to settle sexual frustration?

Ways i can think of is
1) FL,
2) WL,
3) ONS,
4) NSA,
5) SB,
6) FWB

Guess it depends on the depth of our pockets?

Thanks.

zensifu
19-01-2017, 05:51 PM
Nowadays hardly have good girl willing to wait for marriage to give virgin to hubby.

Pornsuck
19-01-2017, 07:14 PM
Nowadays hardly have good girl willing to wait for marriage to give virgin to hubby.

Was thinking the same.

ddog
19-01-2017, 07:19 PM
wank in gf's panties and beat the monkey

WinampForever
19-01-2017, 08:27 PM
Continue to pcc

This is the best and its free :D

SoGoodAh
19-01-2017, 08:45 PM
Do you see a future with potential marriage with her? If yes, i'd recommend waiting no matter how strong the temptation is. If not, i'd suggest breaking off before it blows up. Cause it will. You might be having an argument with her on something irrelevant and you might let slip that you're frustrated that shes not giving you what you need or want. She'll most likely interpret it in the wrong way.

Not only will you go down as a dick but also as a person who enters a relationship just for sex from her perspective.

sgjoey
20-01-2017, 06:37 AM
The waiting is not the problem. You can always find relief in other ways. It is the frigidity you should be very concerned about....

But perhaps she is not really frigid, just lacking in sexual experience. If that is really the case, you have nothing to worry about...

hil169
21-01-2017, 08:59 AM
Shes all good except the sex department. Long term wise for companionship, i will definitely find her a good partner to grow old together because we cant possibly have sex forever. But that could possibly mean we wont enjoy sex for 5,10 or even 20 years to come. Thats freaking long to think.. what would you do if you were me?

I Love Boobs
21-01-2017, 12:53 PM
What you're looking for is absolution.
That's why you're posting here, asking for outlets to release your seed.
I believe it is the right of the male partner to fuck an attractive female.
That means that it's the female's job to satisfy her partner sexually.
It's also her job to maintain her figure, even after childbirth.
How many men have you seen outside, still looking good. But having a fat overweight wife with a 2 year old kid?
These women are failures, and they'll normally take it out on their husbands.
Having said that, despite this, these women can still have extramarital affairs. Some men will fuck anything.
I no longer believe in the institution of marriage. I see so many marriages held together, just to have a presentable front...

I Love Boobs
21-01-2017, 01:19 PM
FLs are the easiest solution, although getting a pretty sexy one is hard.
Lots of fake pictures around, and young mothers.
Having said that, I've had some truly memorable fucks.

http://funkyimg.com/i/2bztV.jpg
A 20 year old university student. Leggy, lanky, slim with no fats

http://funkyimg.com/i/2bztX.jpg
Firm, solid natural C cups

http://funkyimg.com/i/2bztW.jpg
Extremely wet and tight. Literally squirts!

http://funkyimg.com/i/2bztY.jpg
An opportunity I could not resist.

Contrast this to your relationship.
Timeline. After meeting for the first time..
3 mins - getting her naked
5 mins - frenching, fondling and sucking her tits
8 mins - penetration
45 mins - insemination and impregnation!

Your opinions may differ, I politely respect that.

I Love Boobs
21-01-2017, 01:30 PM
This girl was a gem.
21, very very green.
Didn't even know how to give a proper blowjob.
I had firstblood, and made full use of it.

http://i1173.photobucket.com/albums/r588/lsclsc8/IMG-20120402-WA000.jpg
Pretty

http://i1173.photobucket.com/albums/r588/lsclsc8/IMG-20120402-WA008.jpg
Slim

http://s23.postimg.org/m4yy5ohfd/IMG_5679.jpg
Her tits were superb

http://s21.postimg.org/hnkq56ar9/IMG_5678.jpg
Pressured her for RAW, and creampied her 3 times in 70 minutes.
Most of my sperm is inside, so tight she hardly leaks any sperm out.

Girl could not stand the job. Quit after less than 10 customers.
I have her Line, I got her pregnant.

MoeLanYong
21-01-2017, 02:29 PM
Marry her. You want to open your christmas present before boxing day? Tough. You want all the stars and bto aligned first? Tougher. You want your fun without responsibilities? Toughest.

virgone
21-01-2017, 03:37 PM
Shes all good except the sex department. Long term wise for companionship, i will definitely find her a good partner to grow old together because we cant possibly have sex forever. But that could possibly mean we wont enjoy sex for 5,10 or even 20 years to come. Thats freaking long to think.. what would you do if you were me?

How do you know?

She ask you to wait after marriage, not wait indefinitely.

Both of u should be able to discuss this. If this also can't discuss, then what about other more important things after marriage?

freezetheDB
30-01-2017, 05:34 AM
she asked u to wait till marriage but she provide BBBJ right? it isnt so bad

DrunkenClam
30-01-2017, 08:48 AM
FLs are the easiest solution, although getting a pretty sexy one is hard.

Very well said bro

TheDucknight
30-01-2017, 05:31 PM
Very well said bro

Agreed as well

stickyoldman
31-01-2017, 03:42 AM
http://http://img5.uploadhouse.com/fileuploads/21837/21837255-holder-268a81686cc6f44d0e6c4c39c3357adf.jpg (http://www.uploadhouse.com/imgs/21837255/)

stickyoldman
31-01-2017, 03:43 AM
A bro use to ask me for my wife's panty and he will show me pics of him abusing her panty. Very pervert, very thrilling. We chat me at altpleasures

hil169
31-01-2017, 08:33 AM
Ya, sex after marriage. Can BBBJ before marriage. Somehow the more we get together, the more it seems I'm not sexually attracted to her. Very good companion and life partner excluding sex.

Though no sex, i can tell she wants to please. The other day she showed me her shaved pussy. I was like 'wow'. Didnt imagine a mummy's girl would shave her pussy. But then the vagina entrance got dry easily even after licking.

Have any bros encountered that before? Dry as a result of the shave? Or clearly those two are unrelated? Sorry, first time in this situation

AdmGenAladeen
31-01-2017, 08:48 AM
A bro use to ask me for my wife's panty and he will show me pics of him abusing her panty.

Seriously :eek:

sgjoey
31-01-2017, 10:36 AM
Just by the way.... intercourse is not the only way to have sex.... Sex varies from the very mild, such as light caresses... to kissing, painting, blow jobs, fingering....etc..

A bbbj is having sex.... though it is not penetrative sex.... Many men in the Massage thread are paying good money just to experience hand jobs.... so that done properly, can also be immensely satisfying...

sanuuk
31-01-2017, 10:41 AM
http://http://img5.uploadhouse.com/fileuploads/21837/21837255-holder-268a81686cc6f44d0e6c4c39c3357adf.jpg (http://www.uploadhouse.com/imgs/21837255/)

Knn..you post in most of the threads showing off your fetish! Get a life la...so old Liao still pcc so much!

FrothyLee
31-01-2017, 11:44 AM
Seriously :eek:

Quite serious :eek:
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