Want to stop but can't ...help!

[qwerty2009]

I'm <30 yrs old and been roaming geylang for quite some time. Wanted to stop going but the urge is too strong. I fear that if this continue, i might be contracted with HIV though i always put on protection on every action. Any bros had the same thinking of me? Trying to stop but unable to do so? Please share your experiences on such issue...:confused:

[ah rat]

TS, time to get a wife :D

[5ag1_Boar]

I'm <30 yrs old and been roaming geylang for quite some time. Wanted to stop going but the urge is too strong. I fear that if this continue, i might be contracted with HIV though i always put on protection on every action. Any bros had the same thinking of me? Trying to stop but unable to do so? Please share your experiences on such issue...:confused:

Masturbate. Every time you want to go, just turn on some porn and masturbate till you cum. Not the best solution, but will help in the short term.

I'm not as frequent as you, but sometimes have to control myself from visiting FLs too. Having a savings plan and a budget helps me control frequency.

For long term help, check this out (no, I have not tried):
Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous http://www.sg-slaa.com/ "S.L.A.A. Singapore welcomes anyone that wishes to receive help from a pattern of sex and love addiction. Special care and protection of the anonymity of members is a fundamental principle of S.L.A.A..
The only requirement for anyone who wishes to join S.L.A.A. is a desire to stop living out a pattern of sex and love addition."

[shiokshiokrelax]

I'm <30 yrs old and been roaming geylang for quite some time. Wanted to stop going but the urge is too strong. I fear that if this continue, i might be contracted with HIV though i always put on protection on every action. Any bros had the same thinking of me? Trying to stop but unable to do so? Please share your experiences on such issue...:confused:

we are tune this way.

always need to unload our soldiers.:D

[rockport]

Masturbate. Every time you want to go, just turn on some porn and masturbate till you cum. Not the best solution, but will help in the short term.

I'm not as frequent as you, but sometimes have to control myself from visiting FLs too. Having a savings plan and a budget helps me control frequency.

For long term help, check this out (no, I have not tried):
Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous http://www.sg-slaa.com/ "S.L.A.A. Singapore welcomes anyone that wishes to receive help from a pattern of sex and love addiction. Special care and protection of the anonymity of members is a fundamental principle of S.L.A.A..
The only requirement for anyone who wishes to join S.L.A.A. is a desire to stop living out a pattern of sex and love addition."

Nice sharing :)

[Mayufan]

Buy a real doll sex toy, can solve your problem

[heartkorr]

no $ no honey liao... put your $ to better use la

[iceiceice]

Bro,

Geylang FL or non FL? if you are talking about legal ones then less chance as they are screen monthly or even weekly for STD. Much more safer than those FL. Always wear helmet for protection.

Media always associate HIV and STD with Geylang but actually it should be those FL and "one night stands" that people have to be careful.




I'm <30 yrs old and been roaming geylang for quite some time. Wanted to stop going but the urge is too strong. I fear that if this continue, i might be contracted with HIV though i always put on protection on every action. Any bros had the same thinking of me? Trying to stop but unable to do so? Please share your experiences on such issue...:confused:

[screwladyboss]

One hand PCC, the other hand hold a $50 note in front, after PCC put the $50 in a piggy bank. At the end of the year, it is like kena 4D :D

[MayLo]

One hand PCC, the other hand hold a $50 note in front, after PCC put the $50 in a piggy bank. At the end of the year, it is like kena 4D :D

Like this also can ah? :)

[YakunBoy]

How frequent do you go Geylang then? Every few days or every few weeks? Agree with most bro that its those FL and ONS and even like horny maids who are more risky. No offences to other bros out there as i myself also go for FL once every while and had a few ONS years back. Hasnt got the chance to try up any maids but maybe next time who knows.

In my opinion, so long you only raw with those you totally trust (wife/gf/fb), then your risk of std is not that high.

[5ag1_Boar]

One hand PCC, the other hand hold a $50 note in front, after PCC put the $50 in a piggy bank. At the end of the year, it is like kena 4D :D

Hahaha! Good idea for $$$, but picture of former President Yusof bin Ishak might not be conducive for PCC.

[chenzong]

TS, time to get a wife :D

It does not work. Especially if the wife is frigid or just simply does not want sex often enough.

[qwerty2009]

How frequent do you go Geylang then? Every few days or every few weeks? Agree with most bro that its those FL and ONS and even like horny maids who are more risky. No offences to other bros out there as i myself also go for FL once every while and had a few ONS years back. Hasnt got the chance to try up any maids but maybe next time who knows.

Once a week.

In my opinion, so long you only raw with those you totally trust (wife/gf/fb), then your risk of std is not that high.

I just fear that sometime condom might not be 100% safe too. There is always an exception case :(

TS, time to get a wife :D

Most worrying part is that if i had a wife and later i feel that her bj not enough skills, i might return to geylang again. :confused:

[moscato]

Actually i find that i am on the opposite as you. eversince i have entered my late 20s, i find my sex drive diminishing to manageable levels now

the early 20s and army time was the worse and i find it hard to cope, even possibly embarassed by my high drive

[rutzanu]

Actually i find that i am on the opposite as you. eversince i have entered my late 20s, i find my sex drive diminishing to manageable levels now

the early 20s and army time was the worse and i find it hard to cope, even possibly embarassed by my high drive

Not bad ah, can save $$ :D

[watmidoin]

I used to frequent FLs but have stopped for more than a year. The main push was the last three PRC FLs I visited. All got from SBF, all had super chio photos, all had one or two good FRs, but all fake as well! Those PRC pic fake, FR also fake, everything also can fake. The last straw was the last FL. Cannot suck breast, cannot do this cannot do that. And worst of all, got bad breath and Hong Kong feet smell!!! I stomped out halfway through after giving the rejection amount since she did give me some lousy bj afterall. She even dared to demand the full amount. I sneered that if she doesn't take the money, she get zero. She hurry snatched the cash from my hands. After that, because of the bad breath and Hong Kong feet smell, I keep wondering if she had disease. After that, I abstained for 6 months and went for a full STD test. Lucky I was clean. Ever since then, every time I thought of FL, I'm reminded of the Hong Kong feet smell and the trouble of having to abstain and the need for blood test. I hate needles. But I think the biggest turn off was still the Hong Kong feet smell. The last few months, I've been able to fuck my girlfriend without the lingering doubt of transmitting disease and that feels great.

[Wreckers]

Not bad ah, can save $$ :D

Very well said

[reading]

Most worrying part is that if i had a wife and later i feel that her bj not enough skills, i might return to geylang again. :confused:

bro it is normal, and someday you may find wife is more troublesome than the GL things.

[rockport]

Very well said

Agree as well

[redant]

I used to frequent FLs but have stopped for more than a year. The main push was the last three PRC FLs I visited. All got from SBF, all had super chio photos, all had one or two good FRs, but all fake as well! Those PRC pic fake, FR also fake, everything also can fake. The last straw was the last FL. Cannot suck breast, cannot do this cannot do that. And worst of all, got bad breath and Hong Kong feet smell!!! I stomped out halfway through after giving the rejection amount since she did give me some lousy bj afterall. She even dared to demand the full amount. I sneered that if she doesn't take the money, she get zero. She hurry snatched the cash from my hands. After that, because of the bad breath and Hong Kong feet smell, I keep wondering if she had disease. After that, I abstained for 6 months and went for a full STD test. Lucky I was clean. Ever since then, every time I thought of FL, I'm reminded of the Hong Kong feet smell and the trouble of having to abstain and the need for blood test. I hate needles. But I think the biggest turn off was still the Hong Kong feet smell. The last few months, I've been able to fuck my girlfriend without the lingering doubt of transmitting disease and that feels great.


I hope you got use condom when you fuck your gf .