If the chick/FL have your baby, will you marry her?

[@Wendy@]

marry her or ask her to go for abortion? :confused:

[misterjoy]

HHey Wendy You already said it's a FreeLance... how you know the baby is yours?

Well if it did i would let her decide.

[mscucky]

marry her or ask her to go for abortion? :confused:

carrying a baby is not an ez thing to do. it's a life and a very innocent life...alot of factors need to be considered for the welfare of the baby....

refeing to ur qn as above, if i m a FL or a chick, i guess it may not be so appropriate to carry the baby....simply becoz i m not sure how the kid's future will be certained...


this is a very serious qn and alot of thinking needed to be done....

there are alot of factors to be viewed...


if i m the mother i will see if we can afford to raise this kid yet. i will hv to see if this kid will suffer if born...anybody to tend to this kid...giving birth is one thing... but if to give birth to it and to let the child suffered without proper love. without proper food, education and basic needs, it would be my biggest regret coz this child of mine will hv a very long journey to go.....

many kids were born out of wedlock. it's very pathetic to see they were unattended. hence, the future of this kid destroyed as they left with no proper guidance...

at this point of time, i wud say i rather suffer emotionally to lose the baby as i can't bear to see the child of mine facing uncertain future.

however, if i hv gd financial ability. enuff savings and good conditioning and that i can give love to my child independently,i will carry on to have this baby and be a single mother nor matter wat it takes ....

marriage?

can u marry a man a man slept with u just for sex and lust ? i think i will inform him that i m carrying his child since he is half owner of my child. he is anyhow the father and shud know the existence of the baby. whether he will marry or not, it's another qn.

[curiosityz]

absolutely agree with you, mscucky !

[Archonzon]

GF, yes.
FL, No.

I hope you are not asking this question...becos ur bf got u pregnant...

[Kyser Soze]

Getting pregnant is one 'Job Hazard' of being a FL/WL. Hence, always ensure protection in place. If this really happens to me, the question is: "Is the child really my child?" Being an FL, she would have slept with dozens of men. How could I trusted her? Especially I'm the kind who always wear rubber doing a FJ. I never do raw... All right, rubber is not always reliable. But at least I made an effort to protection she and myself.:)

[Rose Palace]

Sex for money = No
Sex for love = Yes

[PacWizard]

marry her or ask her to go for abortion? :confused:

If it's really me who made her pregnant, I will tell her to go for abortion. At the first place, we were engaged into intercourse for the sake of lust for me and money for her and not love. To love someone you marry or to marry someone that you love. Whatever way, it involves love.I may consider marrying her if I'm not married yet but then will she accept me as her husband? hehehe ... think about it.

Cheers ~

PacWizard

[rooter]

carrying a baby is not an ez thing to do. it's a life and a very innocent life...alot of factors need to be considered for the welfare of the baby.... i think i will inform him that i m carrying his child since he is half owner of my child. he is anyhow the father and shud know the existence of the baby. whether he will marry or not, it's another qn.

Agree wif mscucky & i also believe in karma ie. abortion is not a gd deed for both parent & unborn child. so if unable to control urge to hv sex, be responsible & take preventive measures.

jus my personal opinion, no offence pls.

[mscucky]

absolutely agree with you, mscucky !

my pleasure :)

[Castrol]

marry her or ask her to go for abortion? :confused:

if you are FL and you are pregnant with your customer's baby, what you gonna do? :confused:

[sing1nitestand]

since ur question is "chick/FL" got pregnant, meaning they are doing raw with you (and maybe some other customer as well). Thus, even proven the child is yours, you still need to consider if the child is infected with any disease or not.

Think twice...

[ju87]

i think i will inform him that i m carrying his child since he is half owner of my child. he is anyhow the father and shud know the existence of the baby. whether he will marry or not, it's another qn.


Every situation is different, of course. But if I got some FL pregnant, I DON'T wanna know about it. Not my problem. Not to sound callous, but there's a reason why we pay for commercial sex. It is to avoid situations like this.

If it's not FL, then it's different. Like I said, every situation is different.

[natsuki]

If u think that the baby is not urs, do a DNA report... :)

[beingunknown200]

however, if i hv gd financial ability. enuff savings and good conditioning and that i can give love to my child independently,i will carry on to have this baby and be a single mother nor matter wat it takes ....

marriage?

can u marry a man a man slept with u just for sex and lust ? i think i will inform him that i m carrying his child since he is half owner of my child. he is anyhow the father and shud know the existence of the baby. whether he will marry or not, it's another qn.

It's very interesting that women nowadays are less concerned if the "father" or guy is in the pic. Realized that the reasons why a lady would keep a baby n why a guy would want a baby are different. Guess it attributes to the fact that women can be more financially independent, and they r more resilient when it comes to fighting for the survival for her baby n herself.Maybe women have become less trusting of (unfaithful) men...haha which makes me think sometimes that guys are regulated to the point of just providing our dicks for the impregnation portion. We might just be redundant. Haha hence I understand why some of my friends are lesbians. Anyway I have always great respect for women, maybe cos most of my friends are women, hanging around them rubs off me.

But I still believe in a "complete" family of father,mother n child cos this is still the norms n standards of our society. Its healthier for the child to grow up in, obviously parents must still give lotsa of love to child.

[beingunknown200]

Getting pregnant is one 'Job Hazard' of being a FL/WL. Hence, always ensure protection in place. If this really happens to me, the question is: "Is the child really my child?" Being an FL, she would have slept with dozens of men. How could I trusted her? Especially I'm the kind who always wear rubber doing a FJ. I never do raw... All right, rubber is not always reliable. But at least I made an effort to protection she and myself.:)

There should be more "responsible" man like you when they find FL/WL...Sometimes I worry for nowadays teens n their lack of knowledge in protection during sex. Just check out the news on Wednesday about educating teens on safe sex

[hum_sub_loh]

If u think that the baby is not urs, do a DNA report... :)

After the baby is born then can do DNA test, by then too late already lah ;)

[nyquist]

Its a definate big NO NO!!!!

[eeemen]

mscucky has written a pretty good assessment of the situation. I tend to agree with her.

Getting a DNA is logical but not practical. How many guys would you go and get DNA testings done to verify? DNA testings can be done prior to delivery, but it is pretty expensive and a difficult procedure. Something akin to testings for down syndrome [this is wat a doctor frend told me]

Bro rose palace has put it in a very precise and concise way. Short sweet and simple. Cheers!

[Reaper]

well...if the guy and the FL is stoopid enuff to do it without any protection, than they should suffer the consequences..why in the first place would you be doing it without any protection with a FL in the first place:confused:

there are some replies as to being respondsible for the child's future should there be one..which I strongly agree but has anyone ever thought of being Socially Respondsible by using protection when with a FL????

this is one thing I can never comprehend. In this day and age, with how high tech, modern and "educated" we are, there are people still stoopid enuff to fuck an FL without any protection.

[mscucky]

...Sometimes I worry for nowadays teens n their lack of knowledge in protection during sex. Just check out the news on Wednesday about educating teens on safe sex

kids and teenagers shud be taught and equipped with knowldege on safe sex and that sex comes with responsibilities. can't blame so much on the young teens as they are not aware of the importance on safe sex and the consequence of being too bold... coz stimes they are unaware ( though they know sex can create new life )

educate ur kids that sex comes with responsibility .tell them to put on condom... else it's like letting ur son burning himself as he spread fire from small head. same for girls too, the stomach will be swollen and a new life created. too messy to handle.

[natsuki]

After the baby is born then can do DNA test, by then too late already lah ;)

Oops.. I'm so sorry argh... :p

[serembanmen]

marry her or ask her to go for abortion? :confused:

I will marry her, if i already marry, she will be my 2nd wife, will take care of her.

[beingunknown200]

well...if the guy and the FL is stoopid enuff to do it without any protection, than they should suffer the consequences..why in the first place would you be doing it without any protection with a FL in the first place:confused:

there are some replies as to being respondsible for the child's future should there be one..which I strongly agree but has anyone ever thought of being Socially Respondsible by using protection when with a FL????

this is one thing I can never comprehend. In this day and age, with how high tech, modern and "educated" we are, there are people still stoopid enuff to fuck an FL without any protection.

Sad to say, we cant blame the FLs sometimes. It could be ignorance on the ladies' part about safe sex, it could be pressure from customers as well to do raw (cos better sensitivity). Just read some of the threads by some bros n you will be upset that there are inconsiderate bros who only think with their dickhead n want to enjoy but never consider for the FL n her other customers. In a competitive environment for the FLs, sometimes I cant help but feel sorry for them, especially if they met bastard guys who dont how to respect them properly.

Just my personal opinion, sorry if I offended any bros here

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Oops.. I'm so sorry argh... :p

nice avatar sis natsuki!!oops off topic!!:o

[mptan]

Bro,
if you like her and willing to spent the rest of your life with her, then keep the child. :D

[natsuki]

nice avatar sis natsuki!!oops off topic!!:o

Haha...Hi Shuang_Jie_Gun, long long long long time no see le hor?? Hihi.. How are u? Miss ur singing, got time jio people go sing K (clean clean de hor) ok? Pai seh just nw at Chatroom never reply... Was in msn. Thanks for the comment... :D

I will marry her, if i already marry, she will be my 2nd wife, will take care of her.

Bro serembanmen, U sure?? U r such a good man wor...

[angie II]

*cat whistle* phewwww..weeet! wahh.. all the za bor fall in here leh.. btw any chiobus here? :rolleyes:
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[ahpaul25]

marry her or ask her to go for abortion? :confused:

Well, as mention Chick/FL, they themselves understand they are in this trade, they will accept the fact, but they will go for abortion themselves, they will not ask u to hold responsible for it unless she have fallen in love with u, she will carry on born out the baby back in her country,above it based on my understanding on PRC ladies which I know many of them here.

It take 2 hand to clap, so as a guy, don be a bastard who dont how to respect them properly. Thanks :)

[jimmyccc]

not me... can anyone be sure that it's ur flesh and blood in there?... btw... if they choose this line of work, it's a risk they gonna have to take themself...

i pay to F&F (F*ck & Forget not F*ck & be a Father)

[Optimus_Prime]

Every situation is different, of course. But if I got some FL pregnant, I DON'T wanna know about it. Not my problem. Not to sound callous, but there's a reason why we pay for commercial sex. It is to avoid situations like this.

If it's not FL, then it's different. Like I said, every situation is different.
The defining factor for MEN here is whether it's a PAID trnasaction w a FL or a FOC liasion w their GF. (of cus ONS & Fuck Buddy oso can kenna this problem..but I digress)

For (paid) FL - my stand would actually be same as above by bro ju87

For (foc) GF - this becomes a ethical question on whether is this gal gonna be your long-term partner or not. If me, I'll probably take responsibility but abt the baby... have to see all the factors involved (include finacial situation)

The grey area would be the FL happens to be ur GF...then it opens a whole box of flies.

For the gals point of view.. think mschucky expressed it very well.