dieth1234
22-03-2016, 06:39 PM
Hi,
I need some opinion from bro and sis in SBF.
I have a friend and mentor call Y.
He is a good friend of mine for many years.
Some background on him. Y is a very smart guy.
He always ace his studies and get top A grades
from Secondary to JC to Uni.
Recently, I met up with him and realized he is very disturbed.
During our guys meet up, he tell me what happened.
He met a young girl, G. 3 years ago. They fall in love.
He helped her through her poly with his money, time and effort.
He paid for her books and health supplements.
He spent his time doing her projects so she can ace her modules.
3 years later, she top the cohort and graduated with a Diploma with Merit.
G start to give him problems when she graduated.
G blamed Y for her lost opportunities.
Let me explain. Y is actually married when he met G.
G knew of this and don't mind his status and followed Y.
G even said she loved Y and status is not important to her.
Throughout the 3 years, Y help her with her project work.
Y also explained to her so she can present smoothly her projects.
In addition, Y help her prepared all the answers for her past year
exam papers so she can study and score.
But throughout the 3 years, Y never say G is her gf and G just stick to Y.
On and off, G will feel very stress from her poly work and want to drop out.
But Y just quietly encourage her with not only words and actions.
Whatever modules G is studying, Y will study, make notes, prepares
exam questions and answers all for G.
Y told me G blame her for her miss opportunities with other guys
such as her classmates and new colleagues. G is working now
with a salary higher than her peers cause of her good merit diploma.
G wanted Y to divorce his wife and commit to G. But Y got his concerned.
Whenever G is free, she needs someone to accompany her. So when Y is
not free, Y is doing her project or his work, G will go out with other guys.
Then G cannot start a project or work herself. She always need someone to
guide her in work or studies. G ever go overseas for holiday alone with
her guy classmate. Y is fearful if he divorced with his wife and go with G.
G will look for other guys when Y is busy.
For the past 3 years, Y is very busy. All his time is invested in G project.
After work, he will go home and start to do her projects.
I believed he is super stressed. On top of that, he is also researching
health supplements to make G stronger. G has a weak mind and body.
Y is afraid G is not serious and don't want a second divorce if he
chosen G. So he come out of a solution.
Till this point, I advised Y to dump G. I said to him he effort already
shown his love for G. I ask him why he pumped in all his time after
work to help G in her school work, project and exam.
I asked Y to wake up cause G is not worth it. G always look for other
guys when Y is busy. Now G graduated and G blame Y. I told Y
G won't have a merit diploma without you.
Y told me he want to give G a chance. Y say he even want G to
go and apply the best local uni in sg. Now that uni is top 10
in world ranking. Guess all of you know which uni I talk about.
But Y is very disappointed when he mentioned to G.
G accuse Y is super evil. G said to Y his plan is to make her go uni
and later get a high pay job and kick her away.
I told Y which guy is so stupid. He can kick G away now.
G goes out with so many guys even go holiday. It is wrong of G.
Even Y never acknowledge her as gf, his effort, time and money is
thrown in for G.
Why must he bring G to best uni in sg and then help her secure a
good pay job before he kick her away?
But Y still defend her and say let her think about it.
May I ask? Is Y the 'generous' guy?
Or love is really blind.
G is just a below average girl.
She is not a princess.
Y my friend Y willing to go to such extreme for her?
Any bro goes to such extreme for a girl before?
Please comments. Thank you.
How can I wake Y up?
I need some opinion from bro and sis in SBF.
I have a friend and mentor call Y.
He is a good friend of mine for many years.
Some background on him. Y is a very smart guy.
He always ace his studies and get top A grades
from Secondary to JC to Uni.
Recently, I met up with him and realized he is very disturbed.
During our guys meet up, he tell me what happened.
He met a young girl, G. 3 years ago. They fall in love.
He helped her through her poly with his money, time and effort.
He paid for her books and health supplements.
He spent his time doing her projects so she can ace her modules.
3 years later, she top the cohort and graduated with a Diploma with Merit.
G start to give him problems when she graduated.
G blamed Y for her lost opportunities.
Let me explain. Y is actually married when he met G.
G knew of this and don't mind his status and followed Y.
G even said she loved Y and status is not important to her.
Throughout the 3 years, Y help her with her project work.
Y also explained to her so she can present smoothly her projects.
In addition, Y help her prepared all the answers for her past year
exam papers so she can study and score.
But throughout the 3 years, Y never say G is her gf and G just stick to Y.
On and off, G will feel very stress from her poly work and want to drop out.
But Y just quietly encourage her with not only words and actions.
Whatever modules G is studying, Y will study, make notes, prepares
exam questions and answers all for G.
Y told me G blame her for her miss opportunities with other guys
such as her classmates and new colleagues. G is working now
with a salary higher than her peers cause of her good merit diploma.
G wanted Y to divorce his wife and commit to G. But Y got his concerned.
Whenever G is free, she needs someone to accompany her. So when Y is
not free, Y is doing her project or his work, G will go out with other guys.
Then G cannot start a project or work herself. She always need someone to
guide her in work or studies. G ever go overseas for holiday alone with
her guy classmate. Y is fearful if he divorced with his wife and go with G.
G will look for other guys when Y is busy.
For the past 3 years, Y is very busy. All his time is invested in G project.
After work, he will go home and start to do her projects.
I believed he is super stressed. On top of that, he is also researching
health supplements to make G stronger. G has a weak mind and body.
Y is afraid G is not serious and don't want a second divorce if he
chosen G. So he come out of a solution.
Till this point, I advised Y to dump G. I said to him he effort already
shown his love for G. I ask him why he pumped in all his time after
work to help G in her school work, project and exam.
I asked Y to wake up cause G is not worth it. G always look for other
guys when Y is busy. Now G graduated and G blame Y. I told Y
G won't have a merit diploma without you.
Y told me he want to give G a chance. Y say he even want G to
go and apply the best local uni in sg. Now that uni is top 10
in world ranking. Guess all of you know which uni I talk about.
But Y is very disappointed when he mentioned to G.
G accuse Y is super evil. G said to Y his plan is to make her go uni
and later get a high pay job and kick her away.
I told Y which guy is so stupid. He can kick G away now.
G goes out with so many guys even go holiday. It is wrong of G.
Even Y never acknowledge her as gf, his effort, time and money is
thrown in for G.
Why must he bring G to best uni in sg and then help her secure a
good pay job before he kick her away?
But Y still defend her and say let her think about it.
May I ask? Is Y the 'generous' guy?
Or love is really blind.
G is just a below average girl.
She is not a princess.
Y my friend Y willing to go to such extreme for her?
Any bro goes to such extreme for a girl before?
Please comments. Thank you.
How can I wake Y up?