Advice on GF needed

[Slaveatwork]

Hello guys, I know a good number of you here are deprived perverts but I've spoken to a few decent bros/sis who can also give good proper advice, so here goes.

My gf and I have been dating for about six months. She's really great. Very sweet and pretty, with a great personality to boot. In bed, she's also willing to experiment and very willing to give. Sounds perfect right? Except here's the problem: she has really tiny boobs. And when I say tiny, I mean it's like my boobs when I was 14 years old. I'm a huge boobs person. All my porn revolves around big natural boobs.

Some of you might say, it's just a pair of breasts. What's the big deal. To that I say, try it.. Without paying. My ex of 2 years had very nice C cups. Even to now, I sometimes think about her when I DIY. Just the image of her boobs bouncing up and down, back and forth, is such a big turn on. Alas, she was pretty as well but did not have a good personality.

I have a big dilemma. As any normal guy, I always think that grass is greener. I don't want to cheat, but am always tempted when I meet women with great figures.

What do I do?

[wolflust]

Temptation is always there and most of us usually won't get what we want in life.

Small boobs but maybe you still have a reasonably enjoyable sex life and relationship with her? If not you probably would have maybe move on to another girl, given the opportunity?

Keep the focus on elsewhere maybe that will help.

[Andre40]

She has got no control over the size of her boobs, so accept her as she is. Surely she has got other virues.

[stormseks]

Accept the boobs size. Actually what really matters most is her personality.

[sky_liner2]

TS, why did you date her and bedded her eventually if her boobs can't suit your liking??? If you can't put this behind and my advice is that you better not marry her as you will regret for your whole life and it really hurt her that you only wanted BIG (.)(.). Luv her for what she is.

[simply2323]

Alas! If love have not fully developed, suggest you re-think your current choice. Many have proclaimed that personality is important, as long as she takes care of you, great to you etc tec. BUT be realistic. As like all men, we are attracted to the physical side of everything. How many men here can confidently say that they do not 'desire' other beautiful creatures even though they have one at home. Your case is worse becos your inherent desire to have 'boobs' in your life. It will not be surprising that you will definitely stray within time, be it 5, 10, or 15 years (but I think less).

You will also be sexually unsatisfied as you cannot envision or physical hold the boobs of your desire. Will unsatisfied sex, comes depression and the roving eyes and desire. Quarrels and nit picking will developed within the relationship (likely caused by you) which eventually leads to unhappiness.

Short pain is better than long torture. Kinda of harsh but realistic.

[impossible]

Ts, big boobs vs good personalility. Your pick.

Imho, I pick the later. Woman with big boobs are almost everywhere, but woman with good personalility don't appear everywhere.

Cheers

[arsenal168]

Simple. Pay for her C cup ⚽⚽implants. But if she detest the idea, then u LL.

[unsung80]

Time to sponsor her a breasts implant, if your GF want? I think been contented, loving and happy in the relationship is better than anything than complaining her have a small breast.

You can find a fb here with big boobs to manage your big breasts craving. From a pervert point of view.

No such thing as PERFECT in this world!

[sadfa]

Hello guys, I know a good number of you here are deprived perverts but I've spoken to a few decent bros/sis who can also give good proper advice, so here

I have a big dilemma. As any normal guy, I always think that grass is greener. I don't want to cheat, but am always tempted when I meet women with great figures.

What do I do?

This is the best advice you can get... You grow up.

If u can't do that, then you don't be a deprived pervert n pls let her go cos she deserves better.

Told you its the best right.

[altec7]

This is the best advice you can get... You grow up.

If u can't do that, then you don't be a deprived pervert n pls let her go cos she deserves better.

Told you its the best right.

That's the best piece of advice indeed.
If your concern is just the breasts but otherwise she's good in every other aspect, grow up and learn to accept that we can't have the best of everything in life. And if you can't do that, just move on.

That's just how it is.

[tarma69]

Quit your porn and reboot your brain.

Personality beats boob size anytime! :cool:

[ironmaiden2015]

Many men will pay for what you have now..

Anyway, I have fetish for small boobs girls.. so dont mind me..

P.S. how do you feel when she writes on another forum complaining that your cock is small?

[ExBro]

Bro Unsung gave a good advice

Time to sponsor her a breasts implant, if your GF want? I think been contented, loving and happy in the relationship is better than anything than complaining her have a small breast.

You can find a fb here with big boobs to manage your big breasts craving. From a pervert point of view.

No such thing as PERFECT in this world!

Bro Sadfa's also very good...

This is the best advice you can get... You grow up.

If u can't do that, then you don't be a deprived pervert n pls let her go cos she deserves better.

Told you its the best right.

If u think u can't grow due to ur thinking etc...

Then she can grow lor! See link below.

Provided she wants bigger breasts.. But some gals prefer small breasts, less maintenance and chance of cancer... Old Liao also less sag mah!

If she dun want "grow" and u can't "grow up" in ur thinking, then just let her go... It's best for everybody!

U can then find yummy mammaries to appreciate and she can find another guy who can appreciate her small boobies...

All those who agree that small boobs but great personality triumphs over big boobs but sucky attitude, say "Aye!"

[chengzc]

Hello guys, I know a good number of you here are deprived perverts but I've spoken to a few decent bros/sis who can also give good proper advice, so here goes.

My gf and I have been dating for about six months. She's really great. Very sweet and pretty, with a great personality to boot. In bed, she's also willing to experiment and very willing to give. Sounds perfect right? Except here's the problem: she has really tiny boobs. And when I say tiny, I mean it's like my boobs when I was 14 years old. I'm a huge boobs person. All my porn revolves around big natural boobs.

Some of you might say, it's just a pair of breasts. What's the big deal. To that I say, try it.. Without paying. My ex of 2 years had very nice C cups. Even to now, I sometimes think about her when I DIY. Just the image of her boobs bouncing up and down, back and forth, is such a big turn on. Alas, she was pretty as well but did not have a good personality.

I have a big dilemma. As any normal guy, I always think that grass is greener. I don't want to cheat, but am always tempted when I meet women with great figures.

What do I do?

So fat grafting. So it will feel natural.

Check out YouTube videos of his works. Dr Arthur Tjandra

He is in Medan and he did lipo and fat grafting at a cheaper rate then in a
Sg.

He was a ex Sgh plastic surgeon

[oldslywolf]

You should make this decision do you want big boobs or do you want your current gf ? When you can make the decision you will know what to do next.

[ajlover]

Hello guys, I know a good number of you here are deprived perverts but I've spoken to a few decent bros/sis who can also give good proper advice, so here goes.

My gf and I have been dating for about six months. She's really great. Very sweet and pretty, with a great personality to boot. In bed, she's also willing to experiment and very willing to give. Sounds perfect right? Except here's the problem: she has really tiny boobs. And when I say tiny, I mean it's like my boobs when I was 14 years old. I'm a huge boobs person. All my porn revolves around big natural boobs.

Some of you might say, it's just a pair of breasts. What's the big deal. To that I say, try it.. Without paying. My ex of 2 years had very nice C cups. Even to now, I sometimes think about her when I DIY. Just the image of her boobs bouncing up and down, back and forth, is such a big turn on. Alas, she was pretty as well but did not have a good personality.

I have a big dilemma. As any normal guy, I always think that grass is greener. I don't want to cheat, but am always tempted when I meet women with great figures.

What do I do?

Bro, be contented... while u may complaint about her small boobs, have u wonder if she also unhappy about your dick size or performance?

You may want to be more appreciative of her willingness to please you and willing to do whatever you want rather than focusing on the 2 pcs of fats.

Just my 2cents worth of opinion...

[haitus]

Hello guys, I know a good number of you here are deprived perverts but I've spoken to a few decent bros/sis who can also give good proper advice, so here goes.

My gf and I have been dating for about six months. She's really great. Very sweet and pretty, with a great personality to boot. In bed, she's also willing to experiment and very willing to give. Sounds perfect right? Except here's the problem: she has really tiny boobs. And when I say tiny, I mean it's like my boobs when I was 14 years old. I'm a huge boobs person. All my porn revolves around big natural boobs.

Some of you might say, it's just a pair of breasts. What's the big deal. To that I say, try it.. Without paying. My ex of 2 years had very nice C cups. Even to now, I sometimes think about her when I DIY. Just the image of her boobs bouncing up and down, back and forth, is such a big turn on. Alas, she was pretty as well but did not have a good personality.

I have a big dilemma. As any normal guy, I always think that grass is greener. I don't want to cheat, but am always tempted when I meet women with great figures.

What do I do?

I feel you Bro.

I'm a boobs person as well. My ex-gf was a small D and the sex was amazing. My favourite position with her was missionary while grabbing both her wrist together. This forces her arms to squeeze her boobs, then I fuck her hard. I'm sure you can imagine the scene, how the boobs will bounce back and forth.

To make things worse, she was open to almost everything. Any position I want, cim, cob, raw, public toilets, home toilet, living room, parks, hotels, anywhere! Heck she was even open to anal (but I didn't like the possibility of shit coming out so I rejected).

Now I worry if i'll ever find someone as sexually active as her.

[unsung80]

I feel you Bro.

I'm a boobs person as well. My ex-gf was a small D and the sex was amazing. My favourite position with her was missionary while grabbing both her wrist together. This forces her arms to squeeze her boobs, then I fuck her hard. I'm sure you can imagine the scene, how the boobs will bounce back and forth.

To make things worse, she was open to almost everything. Any position I want, cim, cob, raw, public toilets, home toilet, living room, parks, hotels, anywhere! Heck she was even open to anal (but I didn't like the possibility of shit coming out so I rejected).

Now I worry if i'll ever find someone as sexually active as her.

What happened then? Why become your ex gf?

[haitus]

What happened then? Why become your ex gf?

Our differences became more and more apparent, hence it was a mutual agreement to split.

But damn I really miss her body.

[Icannot]

Bro, do u love her? If yes, then too bad. U just have to live with the small boobs.

Otherwise, keep ur options open. When u find another great personality with boobs to match, ditch her.

Imo, i'll just stick to ur current situation cos personality is harder to find than boobs

[jasminee]

She might be here complaining that her boyfriend has a tiny penis too:p

[ddog]

Problem and advice needed is 'self' not GF and she definately deserves someone better than you

[TBonez]

Let her go. She clearly deserves someone better than you.

Be a man, and do the right thing.

[saintdevil]

A few alternative,
1. Feed her till she get fatter. Fatter girl = bigger boobs.
2. Watch your porn while you r screwing her. At least u can see the bounce just not feel it.
3. Get her pregnant... Most girls grow a cup or 2 size.

No plastic and no cheating.
Life can be simple.

[unsung80]

Our differences became more and more apparent, hence it was a mutual agreement to split.

But damn I really miss her body.

Bro you should be doing self reflection instead of missing her body. Body is just an empty shell.

[Lennyberg]

honestly.. boobs u can always look elsewhere for another. what matters is the inner beauty when u r looking for a wife.

i am a boobs man just like you. i marry my wife who is only a A borderline B but she had a great character. when she had our 1st kid. it grew to a C borderline D. now no more nursing. its stable at a B. be patient. it will grow when u have your first kid with her.

everyday nasi lemak, you will yearn for chicken rice. that is what GL is for. u want E i am sure you can find also.

[iluvdamilfs]

What was it that attracted you to her before you became a couple? I mean for sure you didn't mean and started to bang each other brains out right? (Maybe I'm wrong... :P)

Keep her, make her happy and eventually you will grow to appreciate her body because it's tied to her personality.

Don't worry about it too much. We always like things we can't have. Otherwise life would be boring. :D

[Yardstick]

I used to think that breasts are important too. I have dated girls, several of them with C-cup breasts and 1 with B-cup.

And when I started to date my gf, currently, wife, I thought that her breasts were a letdown too. She was an A-cup. But after getting together with her, I realised that breasts sizes is not the world. A great personality, wife material with great skills in bed is better than a C-cup lady who is not ready to try it all in bed and treats you like a nobody.

[Jtjan]

Hi TS

As expected, there are many good advice and even some insulting you that you are shallow, immature etc

For me, I am a boobs man. And I had a gf who is A minus cup. It is bad. Of cos I tell her I dont mind but many times I leave her bra on when I fuck her because she still look feminine is her bra. Once I take it off, I feel like I am fucking a boy. I am just a very visual person. I like cumming to the view of bouncing tits and a screaming orgasmic expression.

I also have another gf (not at the same time) with huge tits. D cups! Super turn on when I undress her and when I fondle her lovely tits. But I didnt end up with her as well due to character differences.

I have no advice for you. Just sharing my own experience.
Finally it is about what you want. If it bothers you enough, then it is a genuine problem, no matter what others say. You are the person living with your gal. If you cant be sexually satisfied and bound to stray due to her lack of tits then maybe she really is not for you.

Power of persuasion is also a good tool.
I have yet another lover that has A cups and she knows I am a boobs man and I dont hide it. Honesty is the best policy. I genuinely dont mind it, it is small but its there and she uses her body very well. But still I dont focus my attention on her boobs because it does nothing for me. Sometimes when we talk about plastic surgeries, i will say things like I dont mind her doing her boobs if it makes her feel more confident etc. Then she will jokingly say I gotta pay for it etc. We will then laugh about it. But the thought is planted in her mind and maybe it will be an actionable item in future. We are still tog now though we are both married but not to each other.

Choose wisely bro. But choose on your own.

Peace

[Slaveatwork]

Appreciate all bros here taking the time to reply, especially those who share their personal experiences. Also some very hilarious comments which made me laugh. So thank you for making the effort to reply.

I firmly believe a healthy and happy sex life is key to a relationship. It's just the way I am. I'm an extremely visual creature and nice boobs are key for me. It works differently for others: some bros just care about their partners looks, some care about frequency or willingness to experiment. Some girls don't give Bjs and that's a deal breaker but others don't care etc etc. The point is the body wants what the body wants.

I thank you all for leaving me with something to ponder. At least I know there are bros out there who share my experience :)

[stoked]

Appreciate all bros here taking the time to reply, especially those who share their personal experiences. Also some very hilarious comments which made me laugh. So thank you for making the effort to reply.

I firmly believe a healthy and happy sex life is key to a relationship. It's just the way I am. I'm an extremely visual creature and nice boobs are key for me. It works differently for others: some bros just care about their partners looks, some care about frequency or willingness to experiment. Some girls don't give Bjs and that's a deal breaker but others don't care etc etc. The point is the body wants what the body wants.

I thank you all for leaving me with something to ponder. At least I know there are bros out there who share my experience :)


Bro TS, you told her about it? One of my former FBs recently texted me asking about her boobs. She said her current bf complain it's tiny. Unlikely to be same person but you never know. I told her god is fair. She's great person with good skills in bed so if she has nice boobs then god isn't fair liao.

[larue]

The sanctimony in this this thread makes me want to vomit.

I was once at an event, some sort of guys' event that went on for hours. Guy was there with his girlfriend, who stayed there the whole time even when clearly bored to death, possibly because she thought she wanted to support him or make a show of being there for him.

One day she will hate him for the fact that she put up with that shit, even though she made a conscious choice to do so in the first place. Such is human nature.

[computerGuy]

TS, of course keep her la.
You can pay for big boobs outside(FL or 1 night stand), but a lady who is well-reserved and keep to herself(and only her man) is hard to find..

[heartlock]

Personality nice is more Important than boob. Everyone not perfect.pls treasure your gf n wife because it very fortunate to
Able to have someone you love.
If you really mind her boob, then I dun think you really love her. U lucky your gf not dinosaur

[joncheong]

Many men will pay for what you have now..

Anyway, I have fetish for small boobs girls.. so dont mind me..

P.S. how do you feel when she writes on another forum complaining that your cock is small?

that's a good one...:D

[kepodang]

TS.. I am all for personality and character. But you got to ask yourself this: if 6mths in the relationship you have already thoughts of 'the grass is greener on the other side', then i think you should take a step back and relook at your priorities.

Love is blind and fools rush in. And we are suckers for boobies.

Make the right choice.

[sarahxx]

a lot has been said about how personality weighs more than looks, and im sure you know that very well yourself.. so im not gona try to convince you to think that way.

my take on this is whatever floats your boat. you've said it yourself, nice boobs are key to your relationship, if its gona affect you that much visually, sexually, ultimately it's gona affect your happiness and satisfaction in this relationship. i don't see a point being with a partner and still yearn for greener grass on the other side, or asking her to go for implants like what some have advised. as a woman myself, its not fair and it can be quite hurtful.

i think you need to ask yourself if you love her enough and willing to accept her entirety. if you're not able to and its affecting you that much, you probably should reconsider this relationship. bcos the temptation to cheat when you meet another that is able to satisfy that void is gona be high.

funny how men always expect women to be perfect. great boobs, great body, great personality, great sex. but really, we're also human w flaws.

[Rickey]

a lot has been said about how personality weighs more than looks, and im sure you know that very well yourself.. so im not gona try to convince you to think that way.

my take on this is whatever floats your boat. you've said it yourself, nice boobs are key to your relationship, if its gona affect you that much visually, sexually, ultimately it's gona affect your happiness and satisfaction in this relationship. i don't see a point being with a partner and still yearn for greener grass on the other side, or asking her to go for implants like what some have advised. as a woman myself, its not fair and it can be quite hurtful.

i think you need to ask yourself if you love her enough and willing to accept her entirety. if you're not able to and its affecting you that much, you probably should reconsider this relationship. bcos the temptation to cheat when you meet another that is able to satisfy that void is gona be high.

funny how men always expect women to be perfect. great boobs, great body, great personality, great sex. but really, we're also human w flaws.
Not only is the temptation to cheat high, it will most likely happen !...Very well said by sis sarahxx ! :)...thanks for yr input sis... empathize wif TS...tink it's really a tough decision for him to make...nothing in tis world is 100% :(...we may win some, but we may oso lose many in the process...in real life, we do not get wat we really want most of the time, it's usually 2nd best at most & many of us are left devoid, unfulfilled & hunger for more at the end of the day...there are many trade offs we hv to make...take tat which is most impt to you & live wif it...even if you're not happy about it....though must say tis is something most of us find it difficult to do...my 2 cents worth

[bonbong88]

This post makes me feel like TS is so superficial. Looks is not everything, what's more important is the lady willing to go through hardship with you and anything.

[Continental]

Bro you should be doing self reflection instead of missing her body. Body is just an empty shell.
Yes, think TS should. But even if the body is an empty shell, it is still important as it is a source of much sexual pleasure and satisfaction for many of us when it is being used alive something which we all enjoy a lot at one time or another with each other. Think none of us can deny that i am sure :p Sad that TS is faced with a such a big dilemma :(

[LonerLoner]

Don't understand TS. You had an ex with big boobs and can imagine it goes up down left right, go see porn with big boobs DIY and be happy already.

Better than having current small boob gf as first and never get to try/see other things.

Like some bro said here, make her gain weight or get her pregnant. Boob size upsized.