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Blongwhale
12-01-2016, 12:51 AM
https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

oshkosh
12-01-2016, 06:20 AM
He look like a typical asshole to me

archer69
12-01-2016, 08:19 AM
Not one-sided story? How old your sister?

JacqueMerlin
12-01-2016, 08:42 AM
https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

1 sided story. It could be a dumped vindictive woman trying to get back at that clueless bloke.
If you need help, go to the police or NGO or AWARE for help. Coming to sbf is just so wrong. This is a sex forum... your story and the logic full of loopholes.

bigbadbear
12-01-2016, 08:50 AM
Given the brief facts that you have mentioned, it is likely that this is a case of VCH, s323, Cap 224. Voluntarily Causing Hurt is as the Police mentioned a non-seizable (or non-arrestable) offence. What this means is that the usual police power of investigation are not triggered by such an offence, that said, it does not mean that there is no recourse. I am most certain that SPF informed you that with your Police Report, you may lay a complaint before the Magistrate at the State Courts, this is akin to taking private action and is free. The Magistrate would issue an order for the Police to investigate (if he or she so deems that an investigation is necessary) and invest into the Police all normal power of investigation, pursuant to CPC, Cap 68.

The Police have done nothing wrong and are not authorized to act in the situation that you described, they operate within the boundaries of the law. If there is any anger, it should be directed against the relevant statute and party responsible for such statute.

That said, if your sister is being smacked around, then is she consenting to this? Does she intend to do anything about it? Is she willing, prepared to leave this person? The issue about law is that it can only protect a person where the person wants or desires or is willing to accept help.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Pentito
12-01-2016, 08:57 AM
Cant view the profile.

Any pics of the bruises?

Big Sexy
12-01-2016, 10:03 AM
are u sure u went to the correct authority?
and why does your sister continue to go on date this jerk?

read these links
http://statutes.agc.gov.sg/aol/search/display/view.w3p;ident=c82cc0a8-11d7-4ad4-845e-111416e00744;page=0;query=DocId%3A%2207275b05-417a-4de5-a316-4c15606a2b8d%22%20Status%3Ainforce%20Depth%3A0;rec =0

http://statutes.agc.gov.sg/aol/search/display/view.w3p;page=0;query=DocId%3A07275b05-417a-4de5-a316-4c15606a2b8d%20Depth%3A0%20Status%3Ainforce;rec=0


has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here?]

squiggle
12-01-2016, 01:11 PM
Given the brief facts that you have mentioned, it is likely that this is a case of VCH, s323, Cap 224. Voluntarily Causing Hurt is as the Police mentioned a non-seizable (or non-arrestable) offence. What this means is that the usual police power of investigation are not triggered by such an offence, that said, it does not mean that there is no recourse. I am most certain that SPF informed you that with your Police Report, you may lay a complaint before the Magistrate at the State Courts, this is akin to taking private action and is free. The Magistrate would issue an order for the Police to investigate (if he or she so deems that an investigation is necessary) and invest into the Police all normal power of investigation, pursuant to CPC, Cap 68.

The Police have done nothing wrong and are not authorized to act in the situation that you described, they operate within the boundaries of the law. If there is any anger, it should be directed against the relevant statute and party responsible for such statute.

That said, if your sister is being smacked around, then is she consenting to this? Does she intend to do anything about it? Is she willing, prepared to leave this person? The issue about law is that it can only protect a person where the person wants or desires or is willing to accept help.

Yes, if police report doesn't work and provided that bastard stays in Singapore, your sis can still apply for PPO.

sammyboyfor
12-01-2016, 01:42 PM
https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is?

Yes I do. That's Russell Lee.

VietnamMan
12-01-2016, 01:47 PM
https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Why don't you stay to protect her?

earlstone
12-01-2016, 05:12 PM
Why don't you stay to protect her?

Never take the law into your own hands . It will make matters worse.

Slaveatwork
12-01-2016, 05:19 PM
Stupid. Actually come on sbf looking for help like this. Obviously fake and if it isn't, the OP truly has shit for brains.

Blongwhale
12-01-2016, 06:47 PM
thanks to the few bros who actually PMed me....Honestly, lodging a magistrate complain, i dont even know what they can do. Sometimes i think SG law can be so difficult to swallow

If any of you have any other information.. please feel free to PM. I would graciously appreciate the help

And sorry for the bros, who has got nothing nice to say to help another human being, just pray that nothing unfortunate comes to your own loved ones

Thanks guys

Greendevil
13-01-2016, 10:09 AM
TS, my suggestion is to take this guy head on, direct in the face. no point play all the dirty trick or illegal stuff. go to his face, ideally his workplace, home or where people around that his face mattter, and be straight, lay the cards with him. as a elder brother, you have every right to tell the guy off, verbally. law doesnt say you cannot argue.

if the confrontation turn ugly, let police handle it. the only thing the guys need to worry is that you are not dead, and if you are dead, he even need to worry more lol.

end of the day, your sis will be taking the firing from him again, but if she know what is good for her and have any sense why you did it, she will appreciate it one day; probably for a start will be super pissed off with you.

newyorker88
13-01-2016, 10:40 AM
1 sided story. It could be a dumped vindictive woman trying to get back at that clueless bloke.
If you need help, go to the police or NGO or AWARE for help. Coming to sbf is just so wrong. This is a sex forum... your story and the logic full of loopholes.

Total agreement. Too little info. If the sister is in such an abusive relationship, only she can get out herself. If the guy still harress, then she can take up a PPO.

Abcdefghijklmn
13-01-2016, 10:48 AM
Any way, such things are hard. Poor people like myself encountered bullies even in public transport. People show middle fingers, pushing and challenging to fight. When police called in, that guy ran off and police say if I wish to pursue the issue, I have to go courts.

Poor people like me where got time.

TS is in the same shoe as me

kurios
13-01-2016, 02:03 PM
It could be a case of sour grape. His so called sister could be the girl he wanna court but in the end, that guy won the courtship.

Pockypig
13-01-2016, 03:58 PM
https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

I dunno him but I should have met him some time last year in a wedding dinner of a relative. I don't think I should get his contact for u. Like some bro had mention, too little info.

DownRange
13-01-2016, 04:24 PM
https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts



If he is hurting your sister, getting him off facebook is the least of your worries.

Usually, physical abuse is also accompanied by financial abuse. Ask your sister if he has taken money from her.

The police will not do anything unless they are pressured from their higher-ups. All the bullshit about police protection orders being reserved only for immediate family is nonsense. There is a Protection From Harassment Act that is meant to protect people like your sister.

Find out as much biographical details of the guy, escalate the matter to the highest possible authorities, and seek your Member of Parliament for assistance.

VietnamMen
04-02-2016, 09:48 PM
https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Anyone knows who is this abuser is? Came back from overseas only to find out that he has been dating my sister and physically abusing her. Why cant the police do anything?

All i am getting is that its not an arrestable offence? what Bullshit is this?!?!?! anyone knows the law over here? i think they met on facebook... fucking shame this guy please. Get him off every where. report this guy!!! Apparently very popular with the girls? that im not too sure...

All i know is, that he is hurting my sister, she lives only with my mom and im going of again in 3 weeks. The link is the only information i have of him. Get him off facebook... cant find him on twitter. If any of you find him on anywhere... public or social media. Please do some justice. i just want my sister to be alright.

https://www.facebook.com/russselllee?fref=ts

Why don't you stay to protect her?