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[pAnTy_LoVeR]

I think I've got a big problem here, bros. I can claimed that I'm a normal teenage male with normal sex drive and do PCC sometimes. But I recently faced a problem - I tried to have sex with my girlfriend. She was HJ me til I was very hard. But when I wanna have my first try at sex (okay... I'm a virgin...so?), my dick juz 'mysteriously' soften back. It's not like she's fat or anything tat makes me sianz or wat. She have a good figure which I often yearn for in a girl - nice soft boobs etc.

Juz wat is the problem here? Am I sexually-incapable? Or does some of the SB forumers here oso faced the same problem when you were a virgin too? Any solutions to my problem? Thanks alot to all in advance. Really grateful to all if I can overcome this problem.

[hokkienguy]

I think I've got a big problem here, bros. I can claimed that I'm a normal teenage male with normal sex drive and do PCC sometimes. But I recently faced a problem - I tried to have sex with my girlfriend. She was HJ me til I was very hard. But when I wanna have my first try at sex (okay... I'm a virgin...so?), my dick juz 'mysteriously' soften back. It's not like she's fat or anything tat makes me sianz or wat. She have a good figure which I often yearn for in a girl - nice soft boobs etc.

Juz wat is the problem here? Am I sexually-incapable? Or does some of the SB forumers here oso faced the same problem when you were a virgin too? Any solutions to my problem? Thanks alot to all in advance. Really grateful to all if I can overcome this problem.

u too nervous?

[wanderer23]

I think I've got a big problem here, bros. I can claimed that I'm a normal teenage male with normal sex drive and do PCC sometimes. But I recently faced a problem - I tried to have sex with my girlfriend. She was HJ me til I was very hard. But when I wanna have my first try at sex (okay... I'm a virgin...so?), my dick juz 'mysteriously' soften back. It's not like she's fat or anything tat makes me sianz or wat. She have a good figure which I often yearn for in a girl - nice soft boobs etc.

Juz wat is the problem here? Am I sexually-incapable? Or does some of the SB forumers here oso faced the same problem when you were a virgin too? Any solutions to my problem? Thanks alot to all in advance. Really grateful to all if I can overcome this problem.

In my opinion there's nothing wrong with you it's all in the mind. You're just nervous and overanxious to perform so that make it difficult to hold the erection. Rather than thinking of how to why dun you try concentrating on the pleasurable feelings that you're feeling and naturally you'll find it a breeze to remain hard. Just relax and enjoy it and you'll see it do wonders for you. Hope this helps :)

[BQFreak]

ask your gf to BJ you instead of HJ...

[Cyberfriend]

Bro, you too nervous liao lah. Just relax and don't die die think of you wanting to please your gf... enjoy the whole love-making process and you will pop your cherry soon.

Cheers :)

[Thai Rak Thai]

You're straight right bro? :D

kidding...maybe you're setting high expectations on yourself...i got a WL for the first time, she showed me the "ropes" ;)

bless her...

[pAnTy_LoVeR]

Thanks for all the reply.

So you guys are saying that I should relax and enjoy? Nt very sure, but i did try to relax, it's the same thing... or should i let my girl ride me instead? Cos she have some hands-on experience b4.

[Ah Seng]

U too Gan Chong liao....simple as dat

[Jkin]

Do you exercise? I am guessing you are not physically fit. For HJ, just need to lie down and your gal does the hardwork, for FJ, you need to do the hardwork. Try jogging or some exercise.

[liewkc2503]

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it's the same thing... or should i let my girl ride me instead? Cos she have some hands-on experience b4.


Bro,
U may be too mind ur profromance as she is experienced:rolleyes: :confused:

[Aisibeisi]

Bro,
U may be too mind ur profromance as she is experienced..
I agree with bro liew...there mus be something in your mind that make you not able to perform..esp when you are about to penetrate!...it is definitely your mind that is playing tricks with you.you have to be honest about it yourself..is it that you are worry of getting caught?..or that your GF had experience and you dun...too anxious to please her??..deal with the truth ..and onli the truth will set you free/or your birdie free!(for that matter)..hope to see your FR with your GF soon,....cheers:p

[Icarus]

Can i ask what do you fantasie abt when you PCC ??

Do you think abt

a) penetration OR
b) everything else except penetration ?


If you are b), then maybe you can start to PCC thinking abt a) more.....so you can kindda warmup yourself before you ACTUALLY have real penetration sex with your gf....

So when the real sex comes, you are really excited abt it and your did will not soft......

[BeachM]

basically.. relax.. and haf fun.. if it's meant to be it's meant to be.. haha.. chill bro.. there will be a day where u will attain nirvana.. :)

[wildbeast]

U too stressed up I guess. Relax, dun set any expectation at all, close ur eyes and lie down and let ur gal do the foreplay and guide u into her.

Dun feel ashamed again should u cum in few mins from entry cos is quite normal for first timer.

Hope I contributed and may u have healthy happy sexlife since then.... :)

[Castrol]

Juz wat is the problem here? Am I sexually-incapable?

nah... you're just too worried about milan travelling to barcelona trailing by 1 goal. :D

[waypastprime]

nah... you're just too worried about milan travelling to barcelona trailing by 1 goal.

Maybe. Or feeling that 1 goal isnt enough to weather the storm in Villarreal. :p

P.S: By the way, I know what is 'Nou Camp'. No need to edit your post. :D

[letsdoit29]

1 goal will be enuff...;-)

[Castrol]

Maybe. Or feeling that 1 goal isnt enough to weather the storm in Villarreal.

P.S: By the way, I know what is 'Nou Camp'. No need to edit your post. :D

hahaha... bro i'm sure you know what nou camp or santiago bernabeu are. hey i am a big fan of gilberto, no wonder i havent got the urge for sex since last week, especially when riquelme is on splendid form... :D

[onion_rings]

nah... you're just too worried about milan travelling to barcelona trailing by 1 goal. :D
Nbzz almost spit my hot coffee on my compt desk...:p

[evo76]

enough suaning la...

Take yr mind off penetration.

Why not try just try lying on top and then relax, let yr little head slowly harded. At this point she can guide you in.

[Castrol]

enough suaning la...

Take yr mind off penetration.

Why not try just try lying on top and then relax, let yr little head slowly harded. At this point she can guide you in.

threadstarter already said his "dick juz 'mysteriously' soften back". how she guide him in?

[dagger13]

Threadster,
Try not to give yourself unnecessary pressure. Relax & focus on something that'll make you hard. You can do it & have more faith in yourself.

[ricardo]

Thanks for all the reply.

So you guys are saying that I should relax and enjoy? Nt very sure, but i did try to relax, it's the same thing... or should i let my girl ride me instead? Cos she have some hands-on experience b4.

that is your main problem, u dun "try" to relax ... u just ehhh relax lah ... i mean forget hj or bj, just cuddle, do heavy patting and kissing ... peel off her clothes ... finger her ... spread her legs ... over on top of her without entering and continue with the love making slowing you will rise and next thing u know it u r inside liao. good luck and enjoy.

[bootybonker]

nah... you're just too worried about milan travelling to barcelona trailing by 1 goal. :D

hahaha
good one

anyway threadstarter bro
dun worry
not a problem, u slowly take it
then calm yourselv down
or ask your gf to bj for you lor
bj can make soft become hard fast leh
and focus look and teh her nehneh of butt
confirm u regain hardness

cheers!

[shawnieboy]

i think u r too nervous.. maybe u should try and ask your gf to blindfold u and let her do the job so u will not know whats going to happen next... and the next thing u know she mightl be riding the hell out of u

[Bushnell 1918cb]

[QUOTE=pAnTy_LoVeR]Thanks for all the reply.

Hi bro,

Well, since you mentioned that your Gf had some evperiences, persuades her to do a BJ on you. I do know that some gals do not in favour of BJ due to unpleasant smell or whatever reasons given. Have a gd sweet talk with her, if she dislikes it, get a small bottle of the flavour jam that she likes, Chocolate,strawberry & etc inadvanced. Apply a little bit on your dick's head,it will definitely help to eliminate the unpleasant smell. At the same time, watch a nice & lovely porn movie & it will help to spark up sex desired from both of you. Lastly, do exercise regularly as it does help to build up your stamina. I hope the above mentioned will able to help you to have a gd bonking time with your gal.:)

[Ah Seng]

This kind of prob normally due to each mental state ah....it's really depwnds on each individual self to overcome the FEAR first then u'll be alrite after the first time....


Hmmm.....Stress also wll contribute to all these probs too.....;) the onli thing I'm trying to explain here.... is no one can help u unless urself bro......:)

[pierced6g]

blind fold yourself and ask your gal to take control. Let her decide on when to take you in. Imagine her giving you bj then suddenly she pop your cherry. At that position, i don't think you can soften or would soften.

[bart]

Long time ago, my virgin GF and me also got a bit of problems. Everytime I put my dick near her pussy, I cum. Touch only I cum. Then put in 1 mm I cum. Then 2 mm I cum. Wah leow, took us 1 whole week of doing everyday for me to penetrate fully. For 1 whole week, she was half a virgin! Then 1/2 stroke only I cum. Then 1 stroke only I cum. Slowly slowly can do more strokes, but always cum very fast.

During all this time, she couldn't cum with me in her because I cum too fast. Have to use finger play to satisfy her. Still, with lots of patience, it got better and better and then we had terrific sex for a long time.

It may seem difficult for you now, but I assure you that it will get better and better. I've been there. It's fun to get to know each other sexually, enjoy it and relax.

Good luck. This period of your sexuality is one of the best times of your life. After that, you can join all the jaded Bros here.

[dradonsnake77]

hahahahaha... hee hee hee... wat a way 2put it!!! okie dokie back 2e topic>>> bro i had dis problemeto same as u 17yrs ago... cant stay hard-on enuf 4 e penatration... try 2relax n keep e foreplay cummimg n dun tink of how u wana make ur girl scream or beg under u... (DOSE only happen in AV Films)!!! just try 2B urself not an hero!!!:cool:

nah... you're just too worried about milan travelling to barcelona trailing by 1 goal. :D

[dradonsnake77]

mac doesnt sell onion rings BK does... thanks jus in case u got mess up...
jus a joke dun take it too hard!!! oops did i say hard??? sum1 got hardening problemeto here wil try not 2 say dat HARD word again... very hard not 2 cos its like a habit... oops i did it again!!!;)
Nbzz almost spit my hot coffee on my compt desk...:p

[sukhoi]

just relax and enjoy lah

hehe let ur gf guide u and bang u