How will you feel if you discover your wife is a lesbian?

[hotdevil]

I would like to know how you guys will feel if you discover your beloved wife is acutally as lesbian? Will you be angry, disappointed, or will you be delighted :D ? Will you say it doesn't matter, as long as your wife is not seeing another man? :)

[Castrol]

I would like to know how you guys will feel if you discover your beloved wife is acutally as lesbian? Will you be angry, disappointed, or will you be delighted :)

overjoyed is what i will be. first thing i'll do is to go to ikea and buy the biggest bed there. then i will tell my wife, "your girlfriend can sleep over with us anytime from now". :D

[hansolo712]

overjoyed is what i will be. first thing i'll do is to go to ikea and buy the biggest bed there. then i will tell my wife, "your girlfriend can sleep over with us anytime from now". :D

agree totally!!! imagine the fun. i wish...
technically, that makes the wife a bisexual.

[beck7777]

overjoyed is what i will be. first thing i'll do is to go to ikea and buy the biggest bed there. then i will tell my wife, "your girlfriend can sleep over with us anytime from now". :D

haha~~ maybe i will do the same oso...

[ragnarclaw]

overjoyed is what i will be. first thing i'll do is to go to ikea and buy the biggest bed there. then i will tell my wife, "your girlfriend can sleep over with us anytime from now". :D

Great idea,why didnt i think of that...:D

[hansolo712]

yeah. maybe can start ops plan to get the wife to be a bi...

[mbam]

I definately agreed with all bros provided wife's lesbian partner is not a tom-boy, as "he" is good at using sx tools on your ass too!:D

[mbam]

I definately agreed with all bros provided wife's lesbian partner is not a tom-boy, as "he" is good at using sx tools on your ass too!:D

[Agapexis]

Threesome for free! ON manz!:D

[Cyberfriend]

I am also a lesbian, but trapped in a guy's body. :D

Cheers :)

[imaisaki]

Hi Cyberfriend,

Bro! do you also go call FL/CV'sFL/chicken like us? just curious, hope you don't be angry ????

[farark]

overjoyed is what i will be. first thing i'll do is to go to ikea and buy the biggest bed there. then i will tell my wife, "your girlfriend can sleep over with us anytime from now". :D

Bro, not meant to be a criticism.

What you mentioned is definitely many a man's dream come true. However, based on the experience of a good friend of mine. It is more likely a nightmare.

Well, my Aussie friend married his wife early during uni days. After about 3 years of marriage and 2 kids, sex became less frequent until a point where it just didn't happen without him practically having to rape her.

Sigh... One day he confronted her and she spilled the beans that she was a lesbian. Right after that, she decided since she came clean, she divorced my friend.

She ended up with custody of the kids and went to stay with her lover.

Apparently she had suppressed lesbian tendencies and had married thinking the tendencies could be erased. Unforturnately, it didn't and she regretted marrying.

My friend? Well he was a nervous wreck for quite a while. He told me that he'd rather lose his wife to another man than to another woman.

Sigh...

Just my 2 satang's worth...

[farark]

Sorry, overpost.

[ang076]

It doesnt make sense...

Why would lesbian marry you since she is not keen on guys?
(If she marry you, dont want to have sex with you, come up with several excuses for not wanting sex...More likely, she want your $$$$$, and use your $$$$ to splurge on her female lover.)

Bisexual is the correct word..

If I discover she is a bi, I would invited her and her female bisexual lover for tarma session...

[farark]

It doesnt make sense...

Why would lesbian marry you since she is not keen on guys?
(If she marry you, dont want to have sex with you, come up with several excuses for not wanting sex...More likely, she want your $$$$$, and use your $$$$ to splurge on her female lover.)

Bisexual is the correct word..

If I discover she is a bi, I would invited her and her female bisexual lover for tarma session...

Agreed about the sensibility of it. But I was told that she married cos she thought that her lesbian tendencies was a phase in her life and that she can get past it, only to realise that later she was really lying to herself by being with him.

She's currently still with the same lover and 2 kids and have sworn off man.

Just my 2 satang's worth...

[Castrol]

Apparently she had suppressed lesbian tendencies and had married thinking the tendencies could be erased. Unforturnately, it didn't and she regretted marrying.

...

well bro, actually i have my own "experience" with a lesbian, or rather, a bi-sexual. i thought i got it made when my pretty ex-gf accepted me as her bf some 7 years ago. sex with her was shiok for me, but seemingly not so enjoyable to her. and no, its not due to the size of my cock... :p , so i became suspicious.

she was taking a course that time, but she didnt let me pick her up at her school, not even once. secretly i parked my car and waited for her to come out from the school one night. she came out with a short hair girl (but not like those ugly butches). that girl rode her motorbike with my ex-gf sitted behind. they behaved like lovebirds.

later, my ex told me she is unable to curb her fancy for the same sex. she made love with a few girls before. when she asked for a breakup with me eventually, i didnt even asked her why...

[farark]

well bro, actually i have my own "experience" with a lesbian, or rather, a bi-sexual...

...when she asked for a breakup with me eventually, i didnt even asked her why...

My condolences bro. I assume that 7 years have cleansed the wound already.

I knew of a girl who was straight until she became attached with a butch. She had quite a few suitors (me not included) one especially who took it hard when she told him of her sexual preferences. Apparently he went berzerk not understanding why him with his looks and money (never met the guy b4, was what she said) can't beat a woman for her love...

Btw, she's not my ex or anything but a very good friend...

Just my 2 satang's worth...

[farark]

Sorry overpost... seem to be having problems today with bandwitdth or something. Sorry...

[desireless]

I am also a lesbian, but trapped in a guy's body.

Cheers :)
That's called "Lesbian Identified Man"

Basically I think it is crap. A cunning pass into the lesbian community. :D

[OceanEleven]

Having a lesbian wife is no fun, think of it the other way round, having a gay boyfriend who simply refuse to touch you............:cool:

[desireless]

Actually I agree with farark that it is more like a tragedy than a blessing. You only see 2 lesbians vs 1 man enjoying the lovemaking in porno flicks. Even in real life you have to be real lucky as a man (of course you have to be hunk enough) to meet lesbian couple looking for new thrill (ONS with lesbians - yes, it happens in SG).

In real life, marrying a suppressed lesbian is as tragic as a woman marrying a suppressed gay. The "suppressed lesbianism" which farark raised is a common thing among "has-bians" (ex-lesbians). Many tend to bow out to society pressure and/or to prove that they can live "normally". So they get married, hoping that this lust for women would subside eventually with time. Some are sucessful but not all. This behaviour is also very common among gays and transexuals. In order to live normally (or maybe to prove a point), some chose to get married to the opposite sex and even go to the extend of having children... only to succumb to their distorted sexual orientation when the determination wears out with time.

In the study of such behaviour, suppressed lesbianism is even more hardcore than the normal lesbianism. This woman knows the price of choosing to go back to lesbianism (family+social pressure+financially, etc). So when one chooses to give up her family for her re-lived lesbian urges, there is no turning back for her.

A husband who knows that his wife is a has-bian or even has a tendency for lesbianism or suppressed lesbianism should give no chance for his wife to come in contact with active lesbians. Because she falls very easy prey to seduction to any active lesbian

[farark]

Actually I agree with farark that it is more like a tragedy than a blessing. You only see 2 lesbians vs 1 man enjoying the lovemaking in porno flicks...

Yup. Real 3somes with two women generally between bisexuals rather than lesbians. Lesbians are women who like women, many are put off by the sight of men, let alone touch them.

In real life, marrying a suppressed lesbian is as tragic as a woman marrying a suppressed gay. The "suppressed lesbianism" which farark raised is a common thing among "has-bians" (ex-lesbians)...

"Has-bians"... Interesting terminology but very apt.

In the study of such behaviour, suppressed lesbianism is even more hardcore than the normal lesbianism... ...So when one chooses to give up her family for her re-lived lesbian urges, there is no turning back for her...

Agreed with you on that. The moment they decided they've been living a life of lies and they prefer the touch of a woman and are put off by men... There is no turning back.

A husband who knows that his wife is a has-bian... should give no chance for his wife to come in contact with active lesbians. Because she falls very easy prey to seduction to any active lesbian

Easier said than done in our society where both husband and wife are generally working and exposed to all that society has to offer.

Just my 2 satang's worth...

[magical]

As for me, no need to discover. I already knew my wife was a lesbian before we got married. Life's fine with me, she has been good for the past 6 years and we had two kids. I never ask about her previous relationship with her partners. But one thing, my in-law's were indeed very grateful and happy since she became straight. My wife is good on bed, very good indeed. Maybe cos she was a lesbian.

For bros who has just discovered their wife is a lesbian, take it easy, its not a nightmare after all.

Cheers,

[farark]

As for me, no need to discover. I already knew my wife was a lesbian before we got married. Life's fine with me, she has been good for the past 6 years and we had two kids. I never ask about her previous relationship with her partners. But one thing, my in-law's were indeed very grateful and happy since she became straight. My wife is good on bed, very good indeed. Maybe cos she was a lesbian.

For bros who has just discovered their wife is a lesbian, take it easy, its not a nightmare after all.

Cheers,

Well bro. Congratulations on your relationship with your wife. Perhaps in my earlier portrayals, I had failed to look at the other side of the coin.

Definitely not all as bleak as I had painted out previously, just me sharing life experiences that I have gathered from my close friends.

Just my 2 satang's worth...

[Castrol]

My condolences bro. I assume that 7 years have cleansed the wound already.

I knew of a girl who was straight until she became attached with a butch. She had quite a few suitors (me not included) one especially who took it hard when she told him of her sexual preferences. .

thanks bro, i was sad that time but was prepared for the inevitable breakup.

i dont understand one thing though. girl likes girl is lesbian. but why does a lesbian go for butch. correct me if i am wrong, a butch is a girl who looks like a guy - short short hair, never wear skirt, usually "boobless" etc...

they got a thing for a girl who looks and behaves like a guy, why dont go for a real guy and be normal instead? :confused:

[farark]

thanks bro, i was sad that time but was prepared for the inevitable breakup.

i dont understand one thing though. girl likes girl is lesbian. but why does a lesbian go for butch. correct me if i am wrong, a butch is a girl who looks like a guy - short short hair, never wear skirt, usually "boobless" etc...

they got a thing for a girl who looks and behaves like a guy, why dont go for a real guy and be normal instead? :confused:

Interesting question. It was a question I asked the girl mentioned earlier before.

I'm typing this based on my memory, which is pretty scrambled from too much whisky last night. If any brothers/sisters can furnish the actual terms, I will be most grateful. Apparently there are three main character types within the relationhip

Butch - the guy trapped in a girl's body.

In-between - Pure lesbian. female like but with some male tendencies, they are able to accept wearing skirts, but are still the dominant one in a sexual relationship.

Girl - Some are bisexuals. They are generally passive and derive pleasures from the above 2. Highly sought after esp by the butches.

Anyway, apparently the best within this group is the girl. As mentioned, many are bisexual, so they tend to be able to switch. The worse off are the butches cos they are at many times the one in the losing end losing their girls to men or other butches. Butches can do the in-between and girl but not butches.

The in betweens, well also almost best of both worlds, if need be, they can still do with the butches.

Actually no mystery in this at all. Same applies to gay men don't you think, there's always the masculine one (biker types), the effeminate ones (sissy types) and the transsexuals.

Just my 2 satang's worth...