Do most girls like "handsome" guys?

[zuxy]

Hi guys,

Do most girls like "handsome" guys?
This pretty girl very very like "handsome" guys. I don't think he is "handsome" :D

What do you think about him? "handsome" or "lucky"? I very funny after watch it :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAgKLu9mUFM

[Meow^^]

Same as asking, "Do most guys like "beautiful" ladies" :D

[gdblxus]

hahahaha....i can't stop laughing when i watching this video :D

[sbfblack]

younger female are mostly going for looks and feel
young adults are mostly looking for feel and stablility
adults are mostly looking for feel, stability, listening ears
older womans are looking for feel and listening ears

so feel is darn impt.

looks hor, as long as you groom yourself and look clean and presentable for chinese, you are consider good lookers. i asked around, many woman has their pov on physique but more imptly are dress well and presentation, therefore.... why so many bros still left single? ask your best lady friend, honestly, they tell you why.

[Slotti]

More like it comes with $$$, no money no talk !

[Young Hero]

I guess good looks play an important part.

[DTCEPL]

Most (but not all) Gals like handsome Guys with deep pocket:D!

[Lamborghini]

Most (but not all) Gals like handsome Guys with deep pocket:D!

I agree with this statement. :p

[Harbringers]

we want gao gu shuai
so when divorce also got matrimony assets

stop believing in make believe movies

[Ashyboy]

ya..i also agreed too..

[unsung80]

Most (but not all) Gals like handsome Guys with deep pocket:D!

spot on.... am neither. :(

[nakorn]

Yan Tao su Sian Tao.. :D

[pleasurehobby]

Hi guys,

Do most girls like "handsome" guys?
This pretty girl very very like "handsome" guys. I don't think he is "handsome" :D

What do you think about him? "handsome" or "lucky"? I very funny after watch it :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUDmNR1FL58

Do most guys like "pretty" girls? ;)

[uniforms]

Who doesn't? lol

[real_king]

All girls likes handsome guys.

All guys likes sexy girls.


Me?! i am humpsup. not handsome.:D

[warbird]

Good morning!

Most men r still clueless abt girls/women.

I just posted the following on my thread "Picking up KTV girls outside KTVs."

<<<<<<<<<<

Good morning!

I hv new revelations n understandings on the important subject of man-woman RS. These hv come abt partly from readings n researching n partly from my personl experiences. There r not really new but I'll give a brief summary here.

The biggest mistake we men make is to think that girls r primarily attracted to the same thing as men: Good looks n sexy body.

Additionally, what many pretty SYTs say they want in a man is completely different from what their subconscious minds want. They r most attracted to a man's masculine character n emotional control/self mastery.

And if you can get them to constantly think abt YOU when you're NOT around,you can make them fall for u, regardless of ur looks, height, weight, age, financial resources, status, educational level, ethnicity, nationality, etc. To make them constantly thinking abt u, you need to be uniquely different from all the men she has ever met. And you should evoke strong emotions in her, both positive n negativs...she must be confused, uncertain, yet hopeful...flip the sexual switch n she will chase u. You will surely fail if you behave like a "nice guy" or "perfect gentleman."

There r startegies known as "The Mind Scrambler" n "Hate-Love-Switch."

Initially, all you need is a chance to meet them face to face, even if it's for only 30 seconds.

But to keep that infatuation/love going, you must establish a sexual RS w/ them n be able to give them repeated PVOs. Sorry, there is no substitute for this.

BTW, I'm now certain that a healthy n pretty woman has a stronger sexual urge n needs than an average man. She plays hard to get because she only wants to be fxxked by the right MAN, usually in the context of a long term RS. KM (the cute 21 yo Sichuan gal) actually hinted at this last week. We hv been brutally honest w/ each other. Previouly, only a GF n a mistress hv openly expressed their desires to hv more frequent n wilder sex.

Any comments?

Bro WB

>>>>>>>>>>>>>

[sailee]

I agree that...

[diputs1269]

I agree with this statement. :p

Agreed, this an universal statement. :)

[ManWithSeh]

girls like my shifu type, aka. Master Ah Wee. :p:D

[jacksosi]

Girls will love his money, too

[Unitil]

a girl staring movie very cute, what her name?

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=sbfblack;11454661]
i'm not handsome but girls look for man like me - successful, rich, generous, humourous, kind, mature, caring & humble
i may bot b handsome but guys always get a bit jealous & piss off when they see the girls around me are so beautiful, classy, even sexy etcthat's why i say property consultants are damn sak-ki siah

[hornyping]

I personal experience led me to believe women when choosing life partners dont consider looks as top priority.
However women looking for sex partners do put looks as top priority.
I have never been scolded for approaching women to make friends with them. Locals and foreign the same even if they reject me they do it politely. Those that end up fucking with me told me they find me good looking and so willing to go further with me.

[skinny191096]

Very sure about it.

When I tempted my wife to experience another penis in her.
All kind of reasons declining me.

When I offered to go overseas to find those handsome guy for her to experience.
She agreed very fast.

Somehow, ang mo and Korean guys can attract her.
Handsome ang mo and Korean guys.....

[starbucks]

I have to agree with this, esp if those girls are looking for fling and ons, esp if they are the younger casual ones.
so all depends on their character, and what they want to do with these handsome boiz - to marry? for a memorable ONS? to fulfill their fantasy? or showing off in front of their friends? to boost self esteem? etc




Very sure about it.

When I tempted my wife to experience another penis in her.
All kind of reasons declining me.

When I offered to go overseas to find those handsome guy for her to experience.
She agreed very fast.

Somehow, ang mo and Korean guys can attract her.
Handsome ang mo and Korean guys.....

[jacky43]

This country man is range the lowest in the world, in terms of guts which is also known as mothers child. Staying with parents so to speak. However, like many Hollywood movies the disadvantage we have become a bonus to woman around the world.

All chicks need security not in terms of say her man is a fighter. A PRC young punk from Liao Ning said over there he heck people. He and his people are the fearless across PRC. So much so he has no problems in losing a limb if is heck away some day. However, I don't see any injury on his body. Well that's TCSS.

I had a smile on mine face yesterday at company gathering. 2 PRC young men told a Malaysian female colleague which I overheard. They beat women with a reason if she bring them tasks during work. PRC had much to learn in understanding SEA.

It so happen I brought up last episode of Crime watch. The session where that Indian national working here threaten women to provide sex or he will upload her pictures in Internet. Mine feelings the women he con many were FTs like him. Local girls I beg mine pay check she will report to police while FTs even after giving in she will keep quiet.

Morale of this case, girls worship white men. I also feel his prey were Piony ladies working in this country. I told mine Malaysian female colleague all this with a Q she could never answer.

If Crime Watch is not effective it is long time gone. Things are what is important or a need to stay alert is seldom taken into consideration. Does this work in the long run? Mine answer is obvious your I leave it to you.

Again mine brothers over here will concur the lady DSP in this episode is a babe. Good thing she is plain cloth or her beauty is lost in blue.

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=jacky43;11513456]
I had a smile on mine face yesterday at company gathering. 2 PRC young men told a Malaysian female colleague which I overheard. They beat women with a reason if she bring them tasks during work. PRC had much to learn in understanding SEA.
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never whack woman but on other hand, never be a chow ah kua kena bully by woman
I love woman - why have so many girlfriends from so many country
problem is I don't have the time for all of them
they complain I don't spend time for each of them!

[warbird]

Good morning!

I hv alluded to the fact that a man's looks matter much less to women. But physical appearance does matter, but not in the way most men think.

A man is physically most attractive if he is very fit, neat n clean. He must not be overweigth or underweigth..why? Think n you know the answer.

A male's intangible attributes such as self mastery n masculine character/personality r of paramount importance. But there is one physical attribute which is most sexually attractive to women: A V-shape male body. Broad shoulders and narrow waist n hips.

A respected Ang Moh guru just sent me the following recently:

Do Looks Matter As Much To Women? Finally, The Truth

Dear Bro Warbird,

Think that the "GQ model" type of guys who tend to
catch women's eye naturally have a better dating life than you ever
will?

Not necessarily...not by a long shot. Here's the fascinating reason why
you CAN and SHOULD do better with women than they can.

All told, I think it's perfectly natural that most of us as guys
would assume that other dudes who are "gifted" in the looks
department would have incredible success with women, without really
trying.

After all, that's how it seems to go for beautiful women, so why
not for men also?

If a woman looks great, guys will be all over her, often (to their
own potentially disastrous risk) without concern for her
personality or character.

And really, no matter how much we hear about how "looks don't
matter" to women, we can't help but overhear them talking about how
"hot" a particular guy is and/or making side comments to their
girlfriends about how they may be fantasizing about him.

Great, huh?

According to all external evidence, it would indeed seem that men
and women are a lot alike when it comes to how much looks matter,
right?

Not so fast.

What if I told you that my direct experience tells me that how good
looking a guy is has almost NOTHING TO DO with his ultimate level
of success with women?

Your first thought may by that I'm going to join the chorus who
would sell you on the trite but persistent notion that "looks don't
matter".

Well, not me.

Looks may in fact matter, but NOT in the way you might think. At
the very least, not in the SAME WAY that how a woman looks matters
to guys.

Here's how it all works.

First, let's look at the average guy.

And for the record, by "average" I mean ANY guy who doesn't see
himself as being particularly good looking. My firmly held belief
is that ALL of us can be at least an "average guy" by simply caring
enough to have self-respect.

So please don't e-mail me in an attempt to explain how you're
probably "below average", and how what I'm about to say in this
newsletter still won't help you. It's the complaining about that
itself that actually spells out "below average", believe me.

Anyway...

Since "Mr. Average" is not particularly good looking, he may think
that he has less of a chance with a beautiful woman.

This is predicated on logic, of course. Deep down, we all tend to
feel like we should get what we think we deserve.

So "Mr. Average" sees "Mr. GQ" with a beautiful woman and despairs.

But then again, it always seems like the NEXT beautiful woman he
sees is with a guy who he might think doesn't deserve her as much
as HE does. And that frustrates him.

Despair alternating with frustration. Why? Because he's assuming
the women he sees must make dating and relationship decisions the
way WE do as men.

So he sees "Mr. GQ" as deserving, and any less handsome man with a
pretty woman as simply "lucky" or something. And he resents BOTH
guys.

As a result of this poisonous mindset, his problem is that he can't
get up the nerve to ask a woman out on a first date.

But if he could just muster a bit of confidence, he may find that
his masculinity, ability to put a woman at ease in his presence and
his solid character could actually make women go crazy for him
after they meet him.

In fact, a BIG part of his frustration may even lie in knowing that
if he could just get a woman on a first date, she'd LOVE HIM.

...If only, in his mind, she could get past his underwhelming
physical appearance.

Have you ever caught yourself thinking that? I know I have.

Meanwhile, let's consider "Mr. GQ".

Women naturally smile at him when they see him. They may even
flirt a little more noticeably.

Heck, women may even approach him first.

It's not altogether out of the question that women would be
throwing slips of paper with their phone number on it at him.

As such, he likely has NO PROBLEM getting first dates.

But when you get right down to it, a first date does NOT equal
"success with women".

And if you're among the legion of "Mr. Average" guys out there, you
might not ever see the part that comes next. You may not even ever
consider the POSSIBILITY of it, frankly.

Here it is, though: I've lost count of the number of handsome
guys who can get a first date with ANY woman, but who can't get a
SECOND DATE to save their lives.

Why not?

Usually it's one of three reasons:

1) Women, ultimately can't stand to be upstaged in the looks
department. Insecurity and jealousy cause them to run away. They
literally prefer not to date someone "prettier" than they are.

(And for what it's worth, YES...this means you should feel empowered
to go after women who are better looking than you are. They'll
actually like you MORE than women who aren't.)

2) The guy falls for his own shortsighted belief that women make
dating decisions the same way men do, and therefore develops an
arrogant attitude based on his looks. Women like good-looking
guys, but they can't stand arrogant ones. Mark that.

3) It turns out the guy is either BORING or a flat-out WUSS behind
that "pretty boy" façade. Game over.

Isn't the big picture here a little bit crazy?

"Mr. Average" doesn't get a FIRST DATE...mostly due to having psyched
himself out with negative self-talk.

"Mr. GQ" can't get a SECOND DATE...for one (or all) of the reasons
listed above.

In the end BOTH GUYS FAIL with women.

And the most breathtaking part of this whole scenario? Both men
actually have the SAME PROBLEM.

Neither guy has the ability to CHOOSE the women he really wants.

Whether that means "short term fling" or "long term relationship"
is irrelevant. If ANY guy fails to create deep attraction in a
woman, he's getting nowhere with her.

And remember, this is REGARDLESS OF LOOKS.

What's the net/net of all this?

It's simple. Good looks may help a guy catch a woman's eye up
front, but really only matter as it pertains to HOW and WHEN
success or failure with women presents itself.

And yes...an "average" guy may need to take a more objective approach
to getting a woman's attention initially.

But ultimately, only the "Big Four" (Confidence/Masculinity/Inspiring Confidence/Character) matter when it comes to truly attracting her...that is, on YOUR TERMS and for as long as you'd
like her to be in your life.

And the bottom line is that ONLY guys who are in control of their
dating lives can expect to have success with women.

In the example given above, neither "Mr. Average" nor "Mr. GQ" has
CONTROL over his dating life.

They don't hold the cards when it comes to deciding which women
they want to keep around for any length of time.

So if you think about it, whether a guy feels like he has a hard
time GETTING a woman's attention or KEEPING it, the problem is
ultimately the same: He doesn't have the women in his life that he
wants.

And by the way, if you think that the good looking guy may still
have one-up over "average" guys because he can get the "quick lay"
out of the transaction before he ultimately blows it, guess again.

As I've shown you before in the past, high quality women DO NOT
make decisions regarding who to sleep with the same way guys do.

Without "Big Four" substance, ANY guy can forgett about it.

But with the "Big Four" in full effect, you essentially weed out
just about ALL of your competition in today's modern, neutered
world replete with confused men...good-looking and otherwise.

I can hear someone asking, "Yeah, but what about women who AREN'T
high quality?"

What about 'em?

If a woman has low self-esteem and the lower standards that go with
it, the irony is that a more "average" guy may have a better
chance, as it were, even with her.

I personally thank my lucky stars that I DON'T have "model looks",
but that I know what the "Big Four" are and recognize their
importance. My experience with women has been way less complicated
that way, and far more successful.

How about you? Can you adopt that mindset and take full advantage
of the power it holds?

Be Good,

Mr. YKL

[warbird]

Good evening!

I'm surprised that there has not been a refutation to my post.

Oh, there is something else I want to add.

If you perceive yourself to hv less sexual value than your wife/GF/mistress/er nai/lover, your RS w/ her will fail.

And if you believe that you don't deserve her, for whatever reason, your RS w/ her will also fail.

It's a certainty.

Any comments?

Cheers!

Bro WB

[hayouth]

So far I am confident in work, but in relationship with girl not yet.

[notanexpert]

Good morning!

Most men r still clueless abt girls/women.

I just posted the following on my thread "Picking up KTV girls outside KTVs."

<<<<<<<<<<

Good morning!

I hv new revelations n understandings on the important subject of man-woman RS. These hv come abt partly from readings n researching n partly from my personl experiences. There r not really new but I'll give a brief summary here.

The biggest mistake we men make is to think that girls r primarily attracted to the same thing as men: Good looks n sexy body.

Additionally, what many pretty SYTs say they want in a man is completely different from what their subconscious minds want. They r most attracted to a man's masculine character n emotional control/self mastery.

And if you can get them to constantly think abt YOU when you're NOT around,you can make them fall for u, regardless of ur looks, height, weight, age, financial resources, status, educational level, ethnicity, nationality, etc. To make them constantly thinking abt u, you need to be uniquely different from all the men she has ever met. And you should evoke strong emotions in her, both positive n negativs...she must be confused, uncertain, yet hopeful...flip the sexual switch n she will chase u. You will surely fail if you behave like a "nice guy" or "perfect gentleman."

There r startegies known as "The Mind Scrambler" n "Hate-Love-Switch."

Initially, all you need is a chance to meet them face to face, even if it's for only 30 seconds.

But to keep that infatuation/love going, you must establish a sexual RS w/ them n be able to give them repeated PVOs. Sorry, there is no substitute for this.

BTW, I'm now certain that a healthy n pretty woman has a stronger sexual urge n needs than an average man. She plays hard to get because she only wants to be fxxked by the right MAN, usually in the context of a long term RS. KM (the cute 21 yo Sichuan gal) actually hinted at this last week. We hv been brutally honest w/ each other. Previouly, only a GF n a mistress hv openly expressed their desires to hv more frequent n wilder sex.

Any comments?

Bro WB

>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Can simply just summarise this into "Don't be boring and predictable."

[warbird]

Can simply just summarise this into "Don't be boring and predictable."

Bro,

Actually, that is only a very minor part.

The most crucial initial factor is your masculine character n self confidence/self mastery.

Once you hv established a sexual RS w/ the girl, your ability to give her frequent continuous PVO will be THE most crucial factor that defines the future of ur RS w/ her.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[bbmapple]

As a woman, I can only comment that the looks are indeed NOT TOP priority. Just be neat and tidy, will suffice. It helps if u look "handsome" but more important is if the guy has a certain aura around him.... Like self-confidence and success in career, and please don't appear needy or desperate. A woman will probably like a man who can take care of her, teach her a thing or two about life, and be very open and honest about things.

I once met a rich Indon man, much older than myself, but he still lives off his parents fat allowance, THIS doesn't seem sexy to me at all !!!
I also met a "not so handsome" guy around my own age, but he makes his own keep and earns through some smart stocks investing on his own, THAT is quite cool !!!

So my advice to "still single and available" bros, looks only help for first impression. It is what u do with your life that matters more. Living with parents is OK, but not living OFF parents.

Good luck !!!

[Slotti]

As a woman, I can only comment that the looks are indeed NOT TOP priority. Just be neat and tidy, will suffice. It helps if u look "handsome" but more important is if the guy has a certain aura around him.... Like self-confidence and success in career, and please don't appear needy or desperate. A woman will probably like a man who can take care of her, teach her a thing or two about life, and be very open and honest about things.

I once met a rich Indon man, much older than myself, but he still lives off his parents fat allowance, THIS doesn't seem sexy to me at all !!!
I also met a "not so handsome" guy around my own age, but he makes his own keep and earns through some smart stocks investing on his own, THAT is quite cool !!!

Good luck !!!

From your statement, can deduced your preference for men with $$$ as one of the top priority .

[KCisBad]

So my advice to "still single and available" bros, looks only help for first impression. It is what u do with your life that matters more.



Hey there sis,

Just want to give some food for thought. (for fun, not to argue)

This is like getting a job.

Education is what gets you in.
Then your performance determines whether you stay. haha

So good looks is what gets you the attention, then what you do next matters.

If no looks, you don't get attention, whatever you do is harder to get the same results. :D haha


I think there is a scale to looks.
And that scale is different to everyone.
But the levels are the same.
Ugly, normal/acceptable, attractive.
Of cause possible to have sub levels.

But as long as you are in acceptable range to her, I think you have chance.


Like when I see girls, as long as they are acceptable, whatever they do or initiate I give a chance. Or at least I notice them, keep them in radar.
Below acceptable to me, I wont even consider, so whatever they do is useless no matter how touch I feel or how much I recognize they do, the most I will feel bad. But they wont be in my option because they are not even on my radar.

So I think is the same for girls.

Afterall, you are going to see his/her face for the REST OF YOUR LIFE.
Looks gotta be acceptable. :p

[KCisBad]

Your Sig -> Behind every mad woman, is a man who made her this way.


I would like to add also :

1. Behind every successful man is a supporting woman.

&

2. Behind every fallen man is a seductive woman.

hehe :p

[warbird]

Good to see so many posts here.

Just to remind everyone here that attraction is NOT a conscious choice, for both men and women, hahaha.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[bbmapple]

From your statement, can deduced your preference for men with $$$ as one of the top priority .

Not ashamed to admit.... If i earn more than my man, why wouldn't he give me more respect (as a human being) ??

I helped pay wedding, pay new car, pay new house, pay reno loan, pay holidays, buy him presents and even zhng car...
i thought marriage is 2 persons... how come i always pay more and he still can treat me like shit, even verbally and physically abuse me, insult me??

Sorry. but i didn't think i had to apologise for being true to my real feelings of being un-appreciated all these years....

[valkyrierune]

Not ashamed to admit.... If i earn more than my man, why wouldn't he give me more respect (as a human being) ??

I helped pay wedding, pay new car, pay new house, pay reno loan, pay holidays, buy him presents and even zhng car...
i thought marriage is 2 persons... how come i always pay more and he still can treat me like shit, even verbally and physically abuse me, insult me??

Sorry. but i didn't think i had to apologise for being true to my real feelings of being un-appreciated all these years....


sounds like what happened to me

[KCisBad]

Not ashamed to admit.... If i earn more than my man, why wouldn't he give me more respect (as a human being) ??

I helped pay wedding, pay new car, pay new house, pay reno loan, pay holidays, buy him presents and even zhng car...
i thought marriage is 2 persons... how come i always pay more and he still can treat me like shit, even verbally and physically abuse me, insult me??

Sorry. but i didn't think i had to apologise for being true to my real feelings of being un-appreciated all these years....

Hey there sis.

Im so sorry to hear that your experience is as such.
In your case, its not a balanced relationship.

However, I would like to add that money is still not a good "excuse" for him to abuse or command more authority.
Whether or not he has money he has no right to abuse you in anyway.

And to all sisters out there.. Whether or not you have money, you HAVE the right to stand up for yourself and command respect.

So although in reality money do play an important role most of the time, I feel in a healthy relationship, it shouldn't.


If you find yourself comparing about money and using it to command certain things like respect or authority of having certain things your way, then you know the relationship has gone south already.


Having said that, I agree, you don't have to apologise for being true to your own feelings.


2 green teas for you sis! :)

[bbmapple]

Hey there sis.

Im so sorry to hear that your experience is as such.
In your case, its not a balanced relationship.

However, I would like to add that money is still not a good "excuse" for him to abuse or command more authority.
Whether or not he has money he has no right to abuse you in anyway.

And to all sisters out there.. Whether or not you have money, you HAVE the right to stand up for yourself and command respect.

So although in reality money do play an important role most of the time, I feel in a healthy relationship, it shouldn't.


If you find yourself comparing about money and using it to command certain things like respect or authority of having certain things your way, then you know the relationship has gone south already.


Having said that, I agree, you don't have to apologise for being true to your own feelings.


2 green teas for you sis! :)

My point is, I understand some wives are nasty to husbands... So if the marriage did go nasty, I probably wont feel as affected...

But I asked myself, I have always tried to be loving and nice, so I dont understand why my marriage is not working out well...

Sighsss

[onlyhuman]

My point is, I understand some wives are nasty to husbands... So if the marriage did go nasty, I probably wont feel as affected...

But I asked myself, I have always tried to be loving and nice, so I dont understand why my marriage is not working out well...

Sighsss

Maybe u met the wrong guy who doesn't appreciate u...
Or are u asking for too much in it? :)

Onlyhuman

[The Old Nite]

difficult to say, cause i c before the gal very pretty, then the guy is normal or those very normal look.

[KCisBad]

My point is, I understand some wives are nasty to husbands... So if the marriage did go nasty, I probably wont feel as affected...

But I asked myself, I have always tried to be loving and nice, so I dont understand why my marriage is not working out well...

Sighsss


Maybe he has taken for granted.
Its human nature to take for granted when life is too good or easy.
It takes conscious effort to appreciate something or someone. :)

Or it could be mid life crisis.

When someone is depressed, everything gets to him.
They can act out on love ones too.
So maybe he is going through something.
Just maybe.

[KCisBad]

difficult to say, cause i c before the gal very pretty, then the guy is normal or those very normal look.

hahahah ya!

Ive seen many times!

[bbmapple]

Maybe u met the wrong guy who doesn't appreciate u...
Or are u asking for too much in it? :)

Onlyhuman

I agree I am not easy to please... But we all have our flaws.... But I loved him as he is, it is not too much to expect that I am loved for being me as well. Correct??

Anyway seems like the thread hijacked....

Bottom line is, "handsome" is in the eyes of the beholder!
**winks**

[onlyhuman]

I agree I am not easy to please... But we all have our flaws.... But I loved him as he is, it is not too much to expect that I am loved for being me as well. Correct??

Anyway seems like the thread hijacked....

Bottom line is, "handsome" is in the eyes of the beholder!
**winks**

Hahaha...ya I think we drifted off the point...
Luckily I am handsome :D

[SnowLeopards]

In today's context :-

Handsome = Deep Pockets.

Period.

If as a man you are unable to lead a married life, do it the Alfredo James "Al" Pacino way. :D

Pierre.

[soggypanties]

As a woman, I can only comment that the looks are indeed NOT TOP priority. Just be neat and tidy, will suffice. It helps if u look "handsome" but more important is if the guy has a certain aura around him.... Like self-confidence and success in career, and please don't appear needy or desperate. A woman will probably like a man who can take care of her, teach her a thing or two about life, and be very open and honest about things.

I once met a rich Indon man, much older than myself, but he still lives off his parents fat allowance, THIS doesn't seem sexy to me at all !!!
I also met a "not so handsome" guy around my own age, but he makes his own keep and earns through some smart stocks investing on his own, THAT is quite cool !!!

So my advice to "still single and available" bros, looks only help for first impression. It is what u do with your life that matters more. Living with parents is OK, but not living OFF parents.

Good luck !!!

Bottom line is being good looking is an absolute advantage.

[Tinktong]

Well, the thing is, having superior looks will still grant anyone an advantage even if only that advantage will prove to be short-lived if one has no other attractive points.

Take for example in an acting career. Compare a handsome model with no prior acting experience and a average looking student who has student who graduated from some drama or acting course, talent scouts will scout the handsome model first and more quickly as he stands out from the crowd on first impression. That model will get the acting job first, but if he proves to be incapable in acting, you will probably see him disappear from the media very quickly.

It is all about getting the opportunity first. How you sustain that opportunity given to you is another matter.

The average looking student will have a very hard time breaking into the industry filled with gorgeous looking actors. But if he works his ass off, make sacrifices, have a good agent/manager who can market his worth properly, in a few years time, he may become hot property and because he has actual talent in the field, he will be a long-term property.

So all in all, looks is still an advantage, if you have a attractive look/body + a few other unique/attractive innards - character, charisma etc. you will still score over the other who has only unique/attractive innards but lacks that attractive look/body just on the fact that any day, that first guy is gonna get the girl FIRST.

Just my humble opinions on the subject.

[warbird]

Good morning!

I like you all to meet a very attractive n sexy MAN Sean Stephenson:

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I rest my case.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Nikkikoh]

Well it all depends on individual perception .

[junkmailacct]

i think younger girls like "handsome" guys, but the more older they just want money

[Falicia]

I prefer guys who can speak well and looks suave

[notanexpert]

Well, the thing is, having superior looks will still grant anyone an advantage even if only that advantage will prove to be short-lived if one has no other attractive points.

Take for example in an acting career. Compare a handsome model with no prior acting experience and a average looking student who has student who graduated from some drama or acting course, talent scouts will scout the handsome model first and more quickly as he stands out from the crowd on first impression. That model will get the acting job first, but if he proves to be incapable in acting, you will probably see him disappear from the media very quickly.

It is all about getting the opportunity first. How you sustain that opportunity given to you is another matter.

The average looking student will have a very hard time breaking into the industry filled with gorgeous looking actors. But if he works his ass off, make sacrifices, have a good agent/manager who can market his worth properly, in a few years time, he may become hot property and because he has actual talent in the field, he will be a long-term property.

So all in all, looks is still an advantage, if you have a attractive look/body + a few other unique/attractive innards - character, charisma etc. you will still score over the other who has only unique/attractive innards but lacks that attractive look/body just on the fact that any day, that first guy is gonna get the girl FIRST.

Just my humble opinions on the subject.

I think this is the perfect answer. I feel the first 2 characteristics girls always look for on first impression is looks, THEN money (can be exchangeable and you just need either one). Other aspects are secondary. This is the cruel truth. You no natural charm? Your wealth makes you charming.

[warbird]

Good morning!

IMHO, the most attractive masculine trait is a man's confidence/boldness/mental toughness/self mastery. Become the MAN in the famous poem "IF."

The next most attractive trait? The quality of his deep voice of course. It reflects his testosterone level...

http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/anthropology-in-practice/2012/01/03/the-barry-white-syndome-why-are-deep-voices-attractive/

Cheers!

Bro WB

[justdifferent]

from my experience and what i understand so far...
(and do note that this is only my personal opinion)

men are more visual (duh) and if we had to put looks and personality most guys would be attracted to a woman somewhere around a 70%-30% [70 looks - 30 personality] basis or 60%-40%. personality being the way you conduct yourself, the way you speak, dress etc.

whereas women are less visual than men. as far as i know, the guy just has to be easy on the eyes. he doesn't have to be gorgeous or hot for them to get attracted. i would say a 30-70 or 40-60 (somewhere around the opposite of men).

of course everyone likes good looking people, but looks can only bring you so far - more so in the eyes of women. the way you carry yourself and the vibe you give off is much more important.

[warbird]

Good afternoon!

A man's deep voice is more attractive than good looks haha. According to researchers from the U.S. and Canada one of the features which attracts a woman to a man is a deep voice.

It seems a deep voice is even more appealing than a good physique or an attractive face..........................

http://www.news-medical.net/news/2007/09/26/30420.aspx

Women n many animal species are hard-wired over billions of yrs. It's in their genes. They are NOT consciously aware of its power.

If u combine your deep voice w/ the dominant tonality n the right words...sky is the limit.:D

Cheers!

Bro WB

[unsung80]

Well, the thing is, having superior looks will still grant anyone an advantage even if only that advantage will prove to be short-lived if one has no other attractive points.

Take for example in an acting career. Compare a handsome model with no prior acting experience and a average looking student who has student who graduated from some drama or acting course, talent scouts will scout the handsome model first and more quickly as he stands out from the crowd on first impression. That model will get the acting job first, but if he proves to be incapable in acting, you will probably see him disappear from the media very quickly.

It is all about getting the opportunity first. How you sustain that opportunity given to you is another matter.

The average looking student will have a very hard time breaking into the industry filled with gorgeous looking actors. But if he works his ass off, make sacrifices, have a good agent/manager who can market his worth properly, in a few years time, he may become hot property and because he has actual talent in the field, he will be a long-term property.

So all in all, looks is still an advantage, if you have a attractive look/body + a few other unique/attractive innards - character, charisma etc. you will still score over the other who has only unique/attractive innards but lacks that attractive look/body just on the fact that any day, that first guy is gonna get the girl FIRST.

Just my humble opinions on the subject.

Your humble opinions make perfect sense. ;)

[½Man½Beast]

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[warbird]

Good morning,

I posted the following for my thread "Picking Up KTV gals Outside KTVs" a long time ago. I'm quoting it here because 99.9% of men are still clueless.

"Last wk, I received an email from a seduction/sex guru. I like to share it w/ all samsters who r not handsome in the traditional sense. It should apply to both non-WLs n Wls.

How To Outperform "Pretty Boys" With Women (And You Will)

Think that the "GQ model" type of guys who tend to
catch women's eye naturally have a better dating life than you ever
will?

Not necessarily...by a long shot. Here's the fascinating reason why
you CAN and SHOULD do better with women than they can.

Looks may in fact "matter", but NOT in the way you might think. At
the very least, not in the SAME WAY that how a woman looks matters
to guys.

Here's how it all works.

First, let's look at the "average" guy.

And for the record, by "average" I mean ANY guy who doesn't see
himself as being particularly good looking. My firmly held belief
is that ALL of us can be at least an "average guy" by simply caring
enough to have self-respect.

So please don't e-mail me moaning about how you're probably "below
average", and how what I'm about to say therefore still won't help
you. It's the whining about that itself that actually spells out
"below average"...believe me.

Anyway...

Since "Mr. Average" is not particularly good looking, he may think
that he has less of a chance with a beautiful woman.

This is predicated on logic, of course. Deep down, we all tend to
feel like we should get what we think we deserve.

So "Mr. Average" sees "Mr. GQ" with a beautiful woman, and despairs.

But then again, it always seems like the NEXT beautiful woman he
sees is with a guy whom he might think doesn't deserve her as much
as HE does. And that frustrates him.

Despair alternating with frustration. Why? Because he's assuming
the women he sees must make dating and relationship decisions the
way WE do as men.

So he sees "Mr. GQ" as deserving, and any less handsome man with a
pretty woman as simply "lucky" or something. And he resents BOTH
guys.

As a result, HIS PROBLEM is that he can't get up the nerve to ASK A
WOMAN OUT ON A FIRST DATE.

But if he could just muster a bit of confidence, he may find that
his masculinity, ability to put a woman at ease in his presence and
his solid character could actually make women go crazy for him
after they meet him.

In fact, a BIG part of his frustration may even lie in knowing that
if he could just get a woman on a first date, she'd LOVE HIM.

Have you ever caught yourself thinking that? I know I have.

Meanwhile, let's consider "Mr. GQ".

Women naturally smile at him when they see him. They may even
flirt a little more noticeably.

Heck, women may APPROACH HIM.

He might even have women throwing slips of paper with their phone
number on it at him.

As such, he likely has NO PROBLEM getting first dates.

But when you get right down to it, a first date does NOT equal
"success with women".

And if you're among the legion of "Mr. Average" guys out there, you
might not ever see the part that comes next. You may not even ever
consider the POSSIBILITY of it, frankly.

Here it is, though: I've lost count of the number of "handsome"
guys who can get a first date with ANY woman, but who can't get a
SECOND DATE to save their lives.

Why not?

Usually it's one of three reasons:


1) Women, as I've mentioned before, ultimately can't stand to be
"upstaged" in the looks department. Insecurity and jealousy cause
them to run away.


2) The guy falls for his own shortsighted belief that women make
dating decisions the same way men do, and therefore develops an
arrogant attitude based on his looks. Women like good-looking
guys, but they can't stand arrogant ones. Mark that.


3) It turns out the guy is either BORING or a flat-out WUSS behind
that "pretty boy" façade. Game over.



Isn't the "big picture" here a little bit crazy?

"Mr. Average" doesn't get a FIRST DATE...mostly due to having psyched
himself out with negative "self-talk".

"Mr. GQ" can't get a SECOND DATE...for one (or all) of the reasons
listed above.

In the end BOTH GUYS FAIL with women.

And the most breathtaking part of this whole scenario? Both guys
actually have the SAME PROBLEM.

NEITHER guy has the ability to CHOOSE the women they really want.

Whether that means "short term fling" or "long term relationship"
is irrelevant. If ANY GUY fails to create DEEP ATTRACTION in a
woman, he's getting nowhere with her.

And remember, this is REGARDLESS OF LOOKS.

What's the net/net of all this?

It's simple. Good looks may help a guy catch a woman's eye up
front, but really only "matter" as it pertains to HOW and WHEN
success or failure with women presents itself.

And yes...an "average" guy may need to take a more objective approach
to getting a woman's attention initially.

But ultimately, ONLY the "Big Four" matter when it comes to truly
ATTRACTING her...on YOUR TERMS and for as long as you'd like her to
be in your life.

And the bottom line is that ONLY guys who are in CONTROL of their
dating lives can expect to have success with women.

In the example given above, neither "Mr. Average" nor "Mr. GQ" has
CONTROL over his dating life.

They don't hold the cards when it comes to deciding which women
they want to keep around for any length of time.

So if you think about it, whether a guy feels like he has a hard
time GETTING a woman's attention or KEEPING it, the problem is
still pretty much the same thing in the end: He doesn't have the
women in his life that he wants.

And by the way, if you think that the good looking guy may still
have one-up over "average" guys because he can get the "quick lay"
out of the transaction before he ultimately blows it, guess again.

As I've shown you before in the past, high quality women DO NOT
make decisions regarding who to sleep with the same way guys do.

Without "Big Four" substance, ANY guy can forgettaboutit.

But WITH the "Big Four" in full effect, you essentially weed out
just about ALL of your "competition" in today's modern, neutered
world replete with confused men...good-looking and otherwise.

I can hear someone asking, "Yeah, but what about women who AREN'T
high quality?"

What about 'em?

If a woman has low self-esteem and the lower standards that go with
it, the irony is that a more "average" guy may have a better
chance, as it were, even with her.

I personally thank my lucky stars that I DON'T have "model looks",
but that I know what the "Big Four" are and recognize their
importance. My dating life has been way less complicated that
way...and far more successful

How about you? Can you adopt that mindset and take full advantage
of the power it holds?

Be Good,

Mr. XYZ

.................................................. .............

BTW, the "Big Four" factors refer to the traits of a real MAN which attract women. They r: Masculinity, Confidence, Inspiring confidence n Character.

Still want to look like Mr. GQ?

I rather be a lao chi ko pek w/ the "Big Four" n dominant self mastery/self control n lots of moolah, hehehe.

Any comments n criticisms?

Cheers!

Bro WB

[VirgilvanDijk4]

Thanks for the info and sharing . Learn something new today . :)

[1qaz1qaz]

Thanks for sharing

[JOGK]

if you mean one night stand ...YES

if you mean relationship...NO

tbh gals from my experience..do not necessary want handsome guys

They will submit if their bfs gives them enough warmth and love

They just take handsome as a bonus but not necessary

[Aware66]

if you mean one night stand ...YES

if you mean relationship...NO

tbh gals from my experience..do not necessary want handsome guys

They will submit if their bfs gives them enough warmth and love

They just take handsome as a bonus but not necessary

And don't forget those who are there for personal benefit such as business deals or career advancement. Yes, it's a complicated world out there and we just need to go with our eyes wide open. :)

[AntheaA]

I’m a female and tbh too pretty a face turns me off. From my experience, these men (or boys?) are full of themselves, taking much more selfies than I do, and think they can get their ways just because of how they look. WRONG. Personally I feel that what the man does speaks much louder than what he says and how he looks. He does not have to be “pretty” or “handsome”. He just have to be a man of his words, not lazy, pleasant looking(well-groomed & gd personal hygiene), and kind. Humor works wonders too!

[warbird]

Good afternoon,

This thread caught my attention because of the word HANDSOME. It refers to HANDSOME guys here.

Coincidentally, I had a recent post that focuses on this magic word in my thread How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type.

I know there are many naysayers and non-believers out there, including my former self.

I'm willing to debate anyone on this fascinating topic.

Here is my recent post:

Good evening,

The pussy market in SG is deplorable. It's getting from bad to worse.

If you pay peanuts, you get plastic aunties. If you pay millions, you still get plastic aunties.

I have friends and bros who had paid millions to keep singers n they all got cheated and dumped in the end. Their singers were no Xi Shi. In fact, they were mostly plastic aunties. Isn't that depressing?

IMHO, 99.9999% of men are completely clueless about girls/women. They think because they are too fat, too thin, too tall, too short, too young or too old, or for whatever reason, they are NOT good enough for their dream girls. Their negative mental frame guarantees that their 'girls' (actually plastic aunties in most cases) will find them repulsive. They could get their pussies by paying and paying, but they would never capture their hearts.

OMG, who wants to capture the heart of a plastic auntie?

I now like to share a secret. I knew a long time ago that beautiful girls are NOT attracted to a man's looks, despite popular belief. But this one is quite different.

One of life's great secrets, according to Tucker Max.



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I can confirm that Tucker Max is absolutely correct, although I never thought much about it, after analyzing my personal experiences over many decades.

Many girls, some of them quite pretty, had offered themselves to me for BY. I was pleasantly surprised because they were friends or guimi of my LPs. Some were very persistent. My LPs must have said great things about me.

Once I met a pretty 20 yo girl from Jiangsu at Las Vegas, 5th fl TAM in 2013. I asked for ST, she said no way. Then I asked if she would consider BY, and she said no. After 30-40 minutes, I casually mentioned that I had two mistresses, one in SG and one in Fujian waiting for a visa to come. She suddenly changed her attitude. She asked about their monthly allowances. Actually quite modest, but I told her. She then asked if I would consider taking her as my 3rd mistress. Well, I ended up doing ST on her. She returned to China before the expiration of her tourist visa. I didn't keep her because having 3 LPs in SG would be a bit too taxing.

Women definitely like men who are desired by other women. It's a form of social proof.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[LinQingXia]

Human beings are all attracted to good looking things!:D

[Rickey]

I’m a female and tbh too pretty a face turns me off. From my experience, these men (or boys?) are full of themselves, taking much more selfies than I do, and think they can get their ways just because of how they look. WRONG. Personally I feel that what the man does speaks much louder than what he says and how he looks. He does not have to be “pretty” or “handsome”. He just have to be a man of his words, not lazy, pleasant looking(well-groomed & gd personal hygiene), and kind. Humor works wonders too!
Not v true...I am all that u said...how come nobody wants me ??? :(...sigh...they go for the muscular ones, the hunk with 6 packs with lots of money to spend on them etc, etc

but u n esp bro warbird may be right...but then how to get yr 1st beautiful girl in the 1st place ?? :confused:

[Rickey]

Human beings are all attracted to good looking things!:D
Yalor...agree totally with auntie Lin QX ! ;)

[LouisBoh]

2 persons having sex - 2some
3 persons having sex - 3some
When a lonely guy uses his hand, we call him handsome :D

[Koei]

if you mean one night stand ...YES

if you mean relationship...NO

tbh gals from my experience..do not necessary want handsome guys

They will submit if their bfs gives them enough warmth and love

They just take handsome as a bonus but not necessary

True, but just to add abit, for ONS even if you are not handsome but can talk well and know how to 'set the stage' for what is to come... also can one :D. On the other hand, from where I am working right now, some girls who r looking for ONS are even hornier than men :p

[donut88]

I speak from experience.

Women like men because of:

Sense of security (it doesn't mean lots of money. It means the guy is matured, logical and can make good decisions to problems. Talk sense and not fickle minded. Not childish but have good humour. )

Speaks well


On the point on handsome, its very subjective. Diff gals look for different physical requirements.
So it never mean ugly men have no gals.

[kingslayer882]

Sure being handsome will have an advantage, but I think its the kind of vibes and security you can give the girl.

Girls are more emotional and guys are more visual

[deematter]

not really...i found out most girls especially the younger generation prefers guys which are mature and stable...you can see this as in sugarbook.com which most of the guy is mature in term of their behaviour and financial and many young girls fall in love wit h it

[deematter]

handsome guys not suitable to become boyfriend, instead, it is suitable to become boy friend

[deematter]

Girls will love his money, too

haha..money is the first best impression to determine whether the girl will date with you or not?

[Rickey]

Girls are more emotional and guys are more visual
i don't quite agree here...some girls hv very strong characters n r never emotional...in fact some r just as visual as guys as in they r curious to know n see things esp forbidden things ;):o

[jeryl]

not really...i found out most girls especially the younger generation prefers guys which are mature and stable...you can see this as in sugarbook.com which most of the guy is mature in term of their behaviour and financial and many young girls fall in love wit h it

From a website can tell guy is mature and stable? :eek:

[maleescort7]

After reading all the comments, i decided to give my harsh opinion closest to reality.
Those saying good looks does not matter are definitely not good looking...kidding, easy guys. Money is always the biggest and foremost factor. Lets take money out of the equation for a while. This is because being good looking or average looking is not the topic of discussion of rich men, neither it is the topic of discussion of women when they talk about rich men. Money is the apex for everything. Now, comes to the real-world problem and solution.

If you ask a single guy with below-average looks why he is not having a gf, his answer (more than 90%) will be he is not good looking. It is true. Accept the reality.

If you are a good looking and still single (like myself), indicating that there are other factors in the equation. The commonly listed factors include, personality, humor, communication, and stability (to some extent when excludes the money). Again its true.

Then there is another factor that men totally ignore these days. For me, the biggest factor is being an alpha male (attitude and behavior), and not being a beta male. Accept it or not, its a truth. Women want a man equivalent to a pet in terms of behavior and a cashbook in terms of finance. The easiest target for them is the man with below average looks and the man having a money. The man with below average looks does not have options and grabs the chance instantly. The man with money wants to show his status by improvising a decent and gentleman traits and serve the lady in public and in private.

Alpha male is unacceptable for women and that's why women define the attractive men in their very own way, the way that suits them well.
As someone said, too good looking is turn off for her. The sense of security prevails here as too good looking wont care much about her. The market is open for him and he is not willing to be a submissive. Why would women like him? The alpha nature of the good looking man is the real reason for being a single. The reason taking more selfies than her is absolute bullshit. Why wont he take more selfies than her? Actually, here, she implies that she is the leader in this relationship and you cant cross her in any aspect, what a joke. This is acceptable for a beta male.

Conclusion is Looks does matter but its not easy to tame a good looking man. So, women prefer to adopt average or below average looking man. If they find a good looking beta male, they will 100% choose him. Looks is the second biggest factor for being a single as well as for being in a relationship. Dont forget Money is always the biggest factor.

Pro tip: Most of the good looking alpha male prefer to be a single but people think good looking does not matter.

[willroyce]

not really...i found out most girls especially the younger generation prefers guys which are mature and stable...you can see this as in sugarbook.com which most of the guy is mature in term of their behaviour and financial and many young girls fall in love wit h it

well I agree with this but i met a lot girls in sugarbook.com and my success rate is high there... maybe the money or looks??

[willroyce]

And don't forget those who are there for personal benefit such as business deals or career advancement. Yes, it's a complicated world out there and we just need to go with our eyes wide open. :)

well girls nowadays wanna settle down so it is not their fault to see the financial status of a man

[willroyce]

After reading all the comments, i decided to give my harsh opinion closest to reality.
Those saying good looks does not matter are definitely not good looking...kidding, easy guys. Money is always the biggest and foremost factor. Lets take money out of the equation for a while. This is because being good looking or average looking is not the topic of discussion of rich men, neither it is the topic of discussion of women when they talk about rich men. Money is the apex for everything. Now, comes to the real-world problem and solution.

If you ask a single guy with below-average looks why he is not having a gf, his answer (more than 90%) will be he is not good looking. It is true. Accept the reality.

If you are a good looking and still single (like myself), indicating that there are other factors in the equation. The commonly listed factors include, personality, humor, communication, and stability (to some extent when excludes the money). Again its true.

Then there is another factor that men totally ignore these days. For me, the biggest factor is being an alpha male (attitude and behavior), and not being a beta male. Accept it or not, its a truth. Women want a man equivalent to a pet in terms of behavior and a cashbook in terms of finance. The easiest target for them is the man with below average looks and the man having a money. The man with below average looks does not have options and grabs the chance instantly. The man with money wants to show his status by improvising a decent and gentleman traits and serve the lady in public and in private.

Alpha male is unacceptable for women and that's why women define the attractive men in their very own way, the way that suits them well.
As someone said, too good looking is turn off for her. The sense of security prevails here as too good looking wont care much about her. The market is open for him and he is not willing to be a submissive. Why would women like him? The alpha nature of the good looking man is the real reason for being a single. The reason taking more selfies than her is absolute bullshit. Why wont he take more selfies than her? Actually, here, she implies that she is the leader in this relationship and you cant cross her in any aspect, what a joke. This is acceptable for a beta male.

Conclusion is Looks does matter but its not easy to tame a good looking man. So, women prefer to adopt average or below average looking man. If they find a good looking beta male, they will 100% choose him. Looks is the second biggest factor for being a single as well as for being in a relationship. Dont forget Money is always the biggest factor.

Pro tip: Most of the good looking alpha male prefer to be a single but people think good looking does not matter.

I agree with this great share bro.

[willroyce]

handsome guys not suitable to become boyfriend, instead, it is suitable to become boy friend

maybe bro got a lot of experience of becoming a "boy friend" in sb?? haha

[willroyce]

I personal experience led me to believe women when choosing life partners dont consider looks as top priority.
However women looking for sex partners do put looks as top priority.
I have never been scolded for approaching women to make friends with them. Locals and foreign the same even if they reject me they do it politely. Those that end up fucking with me told me they find me good looking and so willing to go further with me.

that is very true.. sometimes to satisfy them we gotta be in their league

[georgie1994]

many people love to see beautiful things, for instance, if you put beautiful or handsome photo in your facebook or sugarbook, your fans or follower will increase dramatically

[georgie1994]

that is very true.. sometimes to satisfy them we gotta be in their league

sometimes we have no choice, like in life, in order to survive, we need to follow what majority is doing

[georgie1994]

From a website can tell guy is mature and stable? :eek:

perhaps there are review that can be read through, then we know roughly the performance

[flownaero]

maybe bro got a lot of experience of becoming a "boy friend" in sb?? haha

2 sugarbook experts should be buddies haha

[Greenfrog]

I’m a female and tbh too pretty a face turns me off. From my experience, these men (or boys?) are full of themselves, taking much more selfies than I do, and think they can get their ways just because of how they look. WRONG. Personally I feel that what the man does speaks much louder than what he says and how he looks. He does not have to be “pretty” or “handsome”. He just have to be a man of his words, not lazy, pleasant looking(well-groomed & gd personal hygiene), and kind. Humor works wonders too!

but real life shows me otherwise.. Sis:rolleyes:

[joannelee]

I’m a female and tbh too pretty a face turns me off. From my experience, these men (or boys?) are full of themselves, taking much more selfies than I do, and think they can get their ways just because of how they look. WRONG. Personally I feel that what the man does speaks much louder than what he says and how he looks. He does not have to be “pretty” or “handsome”. He just have to be a man of his words, not lazy, pleasant looking(well-groomed & gd personal hygiene), and kind. Humor works wonders too!

AntheaA sis,
What you said is true, pretty face or handsome to look at, not my cup of tea, I would prefer normal 30s and above to 40+, who are confident in themselves and with substance that could make you feel secured going out with them.
I did go out with a few men, manly look, not very handsome but are honest in a way.

[justwanadoit]

I lucky I am handsome and yet mature and stable.

[StealthBomber]

Good-looking doesn't last. Remember edison chen and his many scandals with the hottest actresses? He is now 40 and check out his latest insta photo. I am older than him but believe me, i look younger and in better shape. Many of the same age can now claim to be more stylish and better looking than edison, ha ha.

[entering]

Same as asking, "Do most guys like "beautiful" ladies" :D

May I join in and give my humble opinion?

Let's say I go shopping centre and I see many ladies. Young, old, tall, short, fat, slim and I ask myself this question all the time when I see a lady, "if give me, will I fuck her?"

I realised that with the exception of maybe like really old, or like really ugly, actually I'll fuck almost every girl I see.

Now before you laugh about how low class I am, I found out that, there are many ladies like that. They actually like and love sex and they don't really mind who's the guy.

Now obviously they can't come up to any guy and just say, "fuck me" because they are scared.
1. There's the STD. They don't know who has it or not and if they get it, they also don't know how to resolve it
2. They want the guy to "chase" them and maybe at least show some "love" like pamper them with words and maybe also with presents and money etc. But the love for some is at least the guy give them attention.
3. They mostly just need 1 guy to pamper them and fuck them and they don't mind how this guy looks like.
4. Many like guys who are honest, like tell them, they are married and can't really marry them, but at the same time, can give them time, like chat with them, love them, etc cuz some don't really want a husband as much as they just want someone to be there whenever they want a listening ear etc.

So, just like there are many guys who don't mind those who are 2/10,3/10,4/10 up to 6/10,there are many ladies who are the same.

Thank you. Sorry if my points are too boring or you don't agree. The reason I love SBF is it's mostly a safe place for us to discuss about these things openly.

[willroyce]

sometimes we have no choice, like in life, in order to survive, we need to follow what majority is doing

well we getting stereotyped like that is just sad.

[willroyce]

2 sugarbook experts should be buddies haha

haha what to do.. a lot of chio girls in sugarbook.com haha

[willroyce]

Good-looking doesn't last. Remember edison chen and his many scandals with the hottest actresses? He is now 40 and check out his latest insta photo. I am older than him but believe me, i look younger and in better shape. Many of the same age can now claim to be more stylish and better looking than edison, ha ha.

very true agreed.. the times have changed and our generation mostly 90% is retired from everything haha

[Sheenymilano]

Allow me to chip in with some of my "wisdom" :)

I recall a female ex-colleague shared with me:"Any 'handsome' guy can attract my attention. But not all of them can make me FEEL something for them."

Here's something that you guys NEED to understand. Women are not visual animals like men. They are emotional creatures.

They will fall in love with any guy who can sweep them off their feet and give them that emotional high. And that's a priceless gift. Looks or money doesn't matter, although it does accelerate the process. But whether the process will last is another matter altogether.

And how do you give them that gift of emotional high? By using the power of words. Women are NOT turned on by physical appearance like us men.

There are some trigger words that when you know how to use on a woman, they will activate that primal part of her brain to make her want you... uncontrollably. Because she just can't help it.

That's also the reason why women LOVE to read erotica stories. Erotica is the women's version of porn. They get all wet and horny when they read erotica, because of what I had mentioned earlier- they are turned on by words.

Don't believe me? Go to Amazon Kindle, do a search in the short stories category and you will find all kinds of erotica books on the top sellers list. Because the women are driving all those sales. And you can bet that there are plenty more ladies who are secretly flocking to our Sammyboy forum to indulge in our erotica stories written by our dear bros and sis :D

So if you have a silver tongue, and can sweet talk to any lady in a confident and charming manner, then you can be a true lady killer.

I have a few player friends who are not blessed with any good looks, or are loaded with cash. In fact, one of them has a bald head and a big beer belly. But they all enjoy the kind of love lives (Including plenty of wild sex, of course) that any average guy would envy.

You might be thinking right now: so that means if I am not handsome, or don't have a silver tongue, then I have no chance with women?

Of course not. This is the good news.

Granted, most of us guys are not born with killer handsome looks. But we can certainly make ourselves LOOK GOOD. Even if you are an ugly fatty bom bom with a big pot belly.

Go get a neatly trimmed hair cut. Have it combed stylishly. Put yourself in some nice outfit that fits you. Have your own style. Make yourself look sharp and attractive. Go get some of your trendy friends to give you some good looking tips.

Shower yourself with some fantastic-smelling cologne. And make sure you do some work out to keep yourself in shape. I don't mean you go to the gym and go full throttle for 5 hours everyday till your pants drop.

Just keep to some simple 10-minute routines, like push-ups and sit-ups. From Monday to Saturday. Give yourself a break on Sunday to go hook up with some pussy.

And what if you don't have a silver tongue? Then its time for you to brush up on your conversational skills. Start by trying some small talk with your friends or colleagues everyday. Try to hold it for a few minutes each time. Maintain your smile (You don't want to look constipated). Also learn to throw in some humour as well. But don't say "I want to fuck you now", and other words of these kind. Not yet, anyways.

Keep practicing these small talks everyday, and with you looking good and sharp, gradually your female friends/colleagues will slowly begin to notice that attractive side of you. Then you can start to think about bonking that cute lady in your office.

Another thing you can do: go trim your bush down there. Or go for Boyzillian. Women like their men to be clean and hygienic.

Even better if you have a well-endowed manhood like mine. Because what's the point of having Brad Pitt good looks, when you have a baby carrot sized dick?

You may use your good looks and get lucky with a lady. But she leaves you after one fuck, because your tiny dick can't stick in her pussy. You need to be able to fuck your woman like you mean it, but you can't do that with a whimpy, below-average schlong. That's also one of the reasons why women dump their man/hubby/bf to look for better cocks to sextify them.

My current FB is sticking to me like a leech, because she is addicted to my delicious long, hard sex tool that can absolutely fill her up and sextify her completely.

We all agree to disagree. This is just my humble opinion in this open forum. Take it in with a pinch of salt. Cheers!

Confirm this. Based on my experiences and I am not a bad looking guy by standards.. Women do not value looks solely... Character and aura of a guy makes the most difference.

The mistake most good or decent looking guys make is they don't polish up their attitude or character whilst ugly or poor looking guys focus on this side of their skillsey to make up for the lack in looks.

Generally I have had to fend off competition from many ugly guys who knew their way around women by focusing on the emotional side of women and focusing on what women look for in terms of aura and attitude of man they desire. Slowly I adapted and learn the skills of luring them with character traits (confidence, maturity, generosity, sometime nonchalance, caring but not desperate, not be always available, loyal but flirty etc etc)

rather then using good looks as it lasts longer because as many bros alluded to in this forum that looks are just short term attractive factors only.

So woman are more emotional creatures and less visual animals. Focus on giving them what they want rather they how u look... And success will come your way. My 2 cents

[warbird]

Good afternoon,

My mental frame is different. My personal experiences since age 20 have confirmed the following quote.

“One of life’s great secrets: women don’t look for handsome men, they look for men with beautiful women.”

— Tucker Max