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love09
18-11-2013, 12:01 AM
How to Make Sex Last Longer?

I often premature ejaculation when I have a sex with my girlfriend. How to make sex longer?

phimhd0006
19-11-2013, 10:30 PM
Use Your Fingers For Sexual Fun

hardpoke
19-11-2013, 11:42 PM
got one good method, but when you at the high stage, i dun think you will remember to do.. lol..

when you wanna ejaculate, raise up your two hands.. the urge to shoot will go down.. then continue your sex again and repeat.. can last you longer, but that is IF you catches the right moment and you dun feel paiseh doing that suddenly.. LOL ;)

yapisfun
20-11-2013, 12:06 AM
That means you are too sensitive liao... go and buy those spray .... I got use before quite effective.... At first you feel like not shiock but after you do long enough.... the lasting spray start to wear... that's when the shiocknes X 100.. lol... you last long. she shiock you also shiock

Zeith
21-11-2013, 09:06 AM
Try delay cream, delay cream or indian oil.

Mailman
21-11-2013, 07:56 PM
How to Make Sex Last Longer?

I often premature ejaculation when I have a sex with my girlfriend. How to make sex longer?

One way to go is "bro yapisfun" suggestion, alternative try taking those Man health supplement pills sold over the counter at the pharmacy.

virginmama
21-11-2013, 10:53 PM
Try out Gambir Sarawak. Can buy online at Gambir Shop

ykhuser
22-11-2013, 08:29 PM
be warn of using delay.
in the long run,your kuku nerve will be damaged

leo_ng77
22-11-2013, 08:40 PM
be warn of using delay.
in the long run,your kuku nerve will be damaged

How abt gambir? :confused:

pleasurehobby
23-11-2013, 12:31 AM
Generally, what most guys do is that after the first cum, they rest for a while before going second round. Because you had just came, the 2nd time will be much harder to come, hence will last longer.

Alternatively, try Emuwellbeing's Emu Max Cream. Developed in Singapore, Made in USA.

milkyshake
23-11-2013, 02:45 AM
1. Masterbate before the actual session. Should reduce the sensitivity of your dick head.

2. Hang a portrait of our Prime Minister's wife and look hard at it when feeling the urge to cum. The urge should immediately subside. (Unless you have master the ability of 能人所不能).

ykhuser
23-11-2013, 09:49 AM
now singapore has the oral pill that delay eja.
you can go to the clinic to ask for some.
approved by singapore

handsomeboy888
23-11-2013, 09:55 AM
now singapore has the oral pill that delay eja.
you can go to the clinic to ask for some.
approved by singapore
Yes, you can buy "Priligy" in Singapore. It's very effective.

Bob112
23-11-2013, 01:49 PM
Practice Kegel exercise bro. It really helps.

deadcalmer
23-11-2013, 05:33 PM
funny la you ..... hahahhaa

1. Masterbate before the actual session. Should reduce the sensitivity of your dick head.

2. Hang a portrait of our Prime Minister's wife and look hard at it when feeling the urge to cum. The urge should immediately subside. (Unless you have master the ability of 能人所不能).

waiwaiz
24-11-2013, 10:33 AM
got one good method, but when you at the high stage, i dun think you will remember to do.. lol..

when you wanna ejaculate, raise up your two hands.. the urge to shoot will go down.. then continue your sex again and repeat.. can last you longer, but that is IF you catches the right moment and you dun feel paiseh doing that suddenly.. LOL ;)

this method can meh...will try next time..beta do when in doggy.......lol

hardpoke
24-11-2013, 02:45 PM
this method can meh...will try next time..beta do when in doggy.......lol
no need wait till next session ah.. you pcc, want to shoot liao raise your two arms, sure the urge to cum will go down.. :D natural and no need to spend money.. haha

xiaosiami
24-11-2013, 03:22 PM
I have trouble cumming twice though.

Since young (not that i am very old now, i am in my late 30s) I have not been able to get 2 shots in a single session.

I can get it up and hard again after the first shot but cannot get the 2nd shot out. I can pump and pump and the girl can ride and ride but i just cannot cum. We'll end up damn tired.

I feel shiok but the sensations simply can't hit orgasm point in the second round.

Any advise to be able to cum twice in a single session?

hardpoke
24-11-2013, 03:37 PM
I have trouble cumming twice though.

Since young (not that i am very old now, i am in my late 30s) I have not been able to get 2 shots in a single session.

I can get it up and hard again after the first shot but cannot get the 2nd shot out. I can pump and pump and the girl can ride and ride but i just cannot cum. We'll end up damn tired.

I feel shiok but the sensations simply can't hit orgasm point in the second round.

Any advise to be able to cum twice in a single session?
i have this problem too.. friends advised me to eat more oyster but dun seem to work leh.. lol.. if you got good solutions, share with me ok.. :p

anyhow, just to share with you, i "gave up" looking for a solution some while ago, accepting my body fitness is as such.. what i do instead is, i prolong my first and only shot by increasing the period of foreplay.. in a way, i make up for my second shot with a more fulfilling first.. hope this helps you if no solutions come along.. :)

xiaosiami
24-11-2013, 04:17 PM
i have this problem too.. friends advised me to eat more oyster but dun seem to work leh.. lol.. if you got good solutions, share with me ok.. :p

anyhow, just to share with you, i "gave up" looking for a solution some while ago, accepting my body fitness is as such.. what i do instead is, i prolong my first and only shot by increasing the period of foreplay.. in a way, i make up for my second shot with a more fulfilling first.. hope this helps you if no solutions come along.. :)

I already can last...so i dunno need to prolong it...i worry prolong it...end up first shot also IA...hahaha.....

My first shot always very fulfilling. Second shot cannot cum still not so bad as least i get to see my partner cums a few more times.

That makes up for it...

hardpoke
24-11-2013, 05:02 PM
I already can last...so i dunno need to prolong it...i worry prolong it...end up first shot also IA...hahaha.....

My first shot always very fulfilling. Second shot cannot cum still not so bad as least i get to see my partner cums a few more times.

That makes up for it...
haha, true.. first shot IA lagi sian.. :p

so far i only managed 2 shots twice.. but the second shot really need a lot of foreplay then can.. and both time is doggy then work.. :D

howck001
24-11-2013, 06:15 PM
this has been discussed before...check the old post/thread

phimhd0006
26-11-2013, 12:53 AM
I don't know

movies08
27-11-2013, 08:27 PM
Please help me about sex longer

PrinceCharles
25-02-2014, 04:52 AM
advised me to eat more oyster but dun seem to work leh


I tried the oyster thing, only thing i got was a stomach ache :o

IAmAwesome
25-02-2014, 09:15 AM
this method can meh...will try next time..beta do when in doggy.......lol

Thats what i thought also, haha

GarfieldTheCat
05-03-2014, 10:02 PM
i make up for my second shot with a more fulfilling first.

This is surely a good way of looking at things :D

MrKrabs
10-03-2014, 08:01 AM
Masterbate before the actual session

For me if i do this, i will lose the "mood" to have sex later on :o

porscheclub
10-03-2014, 08:24 PM
How to Make Sex Last Longer?

I often premature ejaculation when I have a sex with my girlfriend. How to make sex longer?

We need to know how fast u came. 3mins after penetration or shorter? Average men cum in 5-10mins here.

Chartist
13-03-2014, 10:53 PM
I tried the oyster thing, only thing i got was a stomach ache :o

The oyster thing might be a myth, as i think the amount of zinc in it too little

love09
16-03-2014, 07:48 AM
Thank you every body

pleasurehobby
16-03-2014, 12:37 PM
The method of distraction seems to work for some only. Some men are able to delay ejaculation by distracting themselves by thinking about other things when they are about to come. However, there are some who instead become 'soft' when they distract themselves.

From many years of various sources and research, pelvic muscles training is still the best form of exercise which can truely control ejaculation. Its almost like the difference between a baby and an old man not able to control their pee, and a young man with strong, defined and well controlled muscles.

movies08
17-03-2014, 02:32 AM
Thank you for sharing

IAmAwesome
17-03-2014, 07:41 AM
For me if i do this, i will lose the "mood" to have sex later on :o

Some are like that they will lose mood if they pcc before sex

BlackCube
24-03-2014, 06:48 AM
The oyster thing might be a myth, as i think the amount of zinc in it too little

Maybe zinc supplement would be better?

MrPeanut
27-03-2014, 11:07 PM
The method of distraction seems to work

When you say distraction you mean just think of something else instead of the
sexual deed which is being done at the moment?

Chipmunk
31-03-2014, 08:11 AM
Maybe zinc supplement would be better?

I saw some zinc supplements at GNC before and tried some buti would say so
so only

bebe69
31-03-2014, 08:16 AM
When you say distraction you mean just think of something else instead of the
sexual deed which is being done at the moment?

if the guy did that, he would lose interest very fast!

8879829
31-03-2014, 03:05 PM
I always HJ myself first.

That will last abit longer for me.

BlackCube
07-04-2014, 05:21 AM
I always HJ myself first.


If you did his would you not like feel like having sex anymore?

MrPeanut
17-04-2014, 11:07 PM
if the guy did that, he would lose interest very fast!

Truth to that

PrinceCharles
01-05-2014, 11:16 PM
If you did his would you not like feel like having sex anymore?

For me the less i pcc the more horny and sexed up i become :p

Stanisslav
12-05-2014, 03:50 AM
I always HJ myself first.


Does that really help at all?

BlackCube
26-05-2014, 06:41 AM
I saw some zinc supplements at GNC before and tried some buti would say so
so only

Was actually thinking of trying the zinc thing from GNC :o

maui_boy
26-05-2014, 02:51 PM
When u wana cum...remove yo kkj..use yo palm hold it....let it rest...then pump again....

gerald69
26-05-2014, 05:25 PM
Its all in e mind.
Have to think of other things.
Hope it helps

Dragonslay
26-05-2014, 05:33 PM
Jerk off first manually before the actual deed. Definitely last long long.

Economist
26-05-2014, 09:01 PM
I used some secret techniques which I learnt recently

IAmAwesome
27-05-2014, 01:04 AM
For me the less i pcc the more horny and sexed up i become :p

Lol reverse reactions

TheTerminator
02-06-2014, 06:41 AM
if the guy did that, he would lose interest very fast!

A rather good point made as well

BlackCube
05-06-2014, 11:24 PM
I used some secret techniques which I learnt recently

Whats the secret??

PrinceCharles
12-06-2014, 11:34 PM
Have to think of other things.


This does helps but for me thinking of other things but then suddenly become soft

JustLearn
14-06-2014, 12:01 PM
I haven't have sex for few years and the last time someone hj me, i came very fast. Now i'm suspecting that i have PE :(

nacho
14-06-2014, 07:34 PM
Physical exercises like jogging will help.
I was also ED, after such exercises, it really works.

Hope this helps.

love09
01-07-2014, 01:33 AM
Thank all...

Chipmunk
07-07-2014, 05:03 AM
This does helps but for me thinking of other things but then suddenly become soft

This actually happened a couple times too me, i thought only i encountered this

ManuelFerrara
07-07-2014, 03:53 PM
I used to cum early like less than 2 min poking, however after using Indian oil, can last at least 30 mins:D:D:D

TheTerminator
14-07-2014, 04:50 AM
This actually happened a couple times too me, i thought only i encountered this

Hmm, interesting train of thought

BlackCube
21-07-2014, 05:31 AM
Physical exercises like jogging will help.


Exercising definately helps alot, keeps the body in shape and mind sharp

PrinceCharles
28-07-2014, 07:41 AM
I haven't have sex for few years and the last time someone hj me

Could it be you were just over excited?

leo_ng77
28-07-2014, 01:34 PM
I am using procomil spray. So far it is working well.

Alternatively can try condom w performance function.

comezapme
28-07-2014, 04:09 PM
Don't really think about the act.. That's how i do it.. First shot normally can last around 30 mins..

IAmAwesome
31-07-2014, 11:01 PM
Hmm, interesting train of thought

Definately something to think about ;)

lauren
01-08-2014, 11:21 PM
usually try to focus and think on other things in order to last longer :)

4getful
01-08-2014, 11:46 PM
I am using procomil spray. So far it is working well.

Alternatively can try condom w performance function.

I think if a person has a strong body, he maybe able to last longer. No point using all those pills, spray or performance.condomn. even if they can make it numb, but the body cannot take the trusting, it defeat the purpose. For eg, a car uses a petrol that can create a superior performance, but if the engine cannot take it, it might end up the engine machine over fatique, overheat n dies.

PrinceCharles
04-08-2014, 06:41 AM
Don't really think about the act.. That's how i do it.. First shot normally can last around 30 mins..

When i do that i tend to become soft :(

Chipmunk
07-08-2014, 10:44 PM
Exercising definately helps alot, keeps the body in shape and mind sharp

Going to gym especially ;)

Chartist
11-08-2014, 02:43 AM
Maybe zinc supplement would be better?

It might be able too in the long term

VoNguyenGiap
14-08-2014, 11:57 PM
Going to gym especially ;)

Keeping fit is always a good thing ;)

MichelleFLsg
15-08-2014, 01:27 AM
I am using procomil spray. So far it is working well.

Alternatively can try condom w performance function.

Spraying procomil might not be good for the body wor...
Do more kengal exercises and have more sex with different partners & also control your cum?

BlackCube
18-08-2014, 02:31 AM
It might be able too in the long term

You got a pt, i saw zinc supplement quite the expensive

ElNacho
25-08-2014, 06:53 AM
When i do that i tend to become soft :(

Why if i may ask?

slutwen
25-08-2014, 05:37 PM
Hi,

I usually run our of breath after a few minutes. how can i sustain it. sometime after rest, can cant continue. any suggestion?

Chipmunk
01-09-2014, 05:04 AM
Keeping fit is always a good thing ;)

Thats very true bro

famous_619
01-09-2014, 09:55 AM
Have ample amount of rest / sleep.

Relax your body during action.

Spend more time on foreplay

cosmicgate
01-09-2014, 06:32 PM
Strength and resistance training to increase muscle mass and decrease fat mass. More muscle mass = higher testosterone levels = higher sex drive. But remember to compliment it with a higher protein and lower fats and carb intake.

cosmicgate
01-09-2014, 06:34 PM
Website for strength and conditioning. Really helps alot when you look better aesthetically and become fitter both in terms of daily activities and sexually.

http://www.simplyshredded.com/testosterone-raise-your-levels-of-this-vital-hormone-with-these-top-10-t-boosting-foods.html

IAmAwesome
08-09-2014, 04:23 AM
Have ample amount of rest / sleep.


This is very true, sleep/rest is very important and helps to recharge ones body ;)

Nikkikoh
08-09-2014, 04:25 AM
I heard that smoking really effects the sex drive.
The lesser you smoke that higher the sec drive?
Any views on this? :rolleyes:

Turtle
08-09-2014, 10:06 PM
I heard that smoking really effects the sex drive.
The lesser you smoke that higher the sec drive?
Any views on this? :rolleyes:

Sex drive remains the same, doesn't affect the urge. But but, little brother affected cos not enough blood going into it. You know 有心无力?

TheTerminator
11-09-2014, 10:53 PM
strength and conditioning. Really helps alot when you look better aesthetically and become fitter both in terms of daily activities and sexually

You tried this type of conditioning before, if yes, how was it?

VoNguyenGiap
15-09-2014, 05:43 AM
Thats very true bro

But the problem is now for me atleast is time management to fit it n my daily routine ;)

freezetheDB
15-09-2014, 04:39 PM
in my humble opinion, there are three major factors
one: the body - which is your physical fitness and condition, and your health. Do you feel tired holding on to the pushup position (aka missionary style)? If you do, chances are you may get distracted by the strain in your arms.

two: the mind - are you turned on? are there anything else on your mind that gives you stress? Are you too stressed about performing well? The best state of mind is no mind aka not thinking just doing. Let your instinct take over the thinking

three: the technique of control. I learn that when Im about to cum, holding back (as practised from kegal exercises) help but you must know the fine balance (differs in everybody, just like car's biting point). Hold but cannot hold too hard or you will still cum. You must hold your muscles till its just sufficient to hold it, or else you will just encourage ejaculation.

However technique is useless without the mind/spirit to hold it. The mind must work with the body to make the dick hard enough, so technique will be used to control it. When mind body spirit is not in harmony, either you cum too early, or the dick softens before completion.

What I personally feel is, inspired from my wifey who say that "Don't think... just do..."
is to go into it with no expectations, feel the moment and communicate with your bodies. Dont go in expecting a nice blowjob as starter but when the girl dont wanna give the whole mood dies with it (dick).

drugs or enhancers should be used only as a last resort, or to fill in the void left behind by a medical condition. Its like steroids... nobody respects a steroid user although many use them to great results.

Chipmunk
18-09-2014, 11:07 PM
But the problem is now for me atleast is time management to fit it n my daily routine ;)

Very true especially if you are a working individual

Martian.C
21-09-2014, 01:21 PM
The easiest way is to masturbate before sex. If you have a high sex drive, this will allow you to last a lot longer.

If not, then you may have to think of other things during sex to try and keep it in (counting etc). You can also switch position when you are close, so it will have time to calm down while you are swapping positions.

ElNacho
22-09-2014, 05:19 AM
The easiest way is to masturbate before sex.

But would you not lose the urge later on?

VoNguyenGiap
25-09-2014, 10:35 PM
Very true especially if you are a working individual

Or if got family commitments then the time constraints will be even more ;)

BlackCube
29-09-2014, 04:44 AM
You tried this type of conditioning before, if yes, how was it?

For me i would say the body conditioning thing was more of a hit/miss kind of situation

PrinceCharles
03-10-2014, 12:29 AM
But would you not lose the urge later on?

For me personally this tends to happen

IAmAwesome
06-10-2014, 06:38 AM
Keeping fit is always a good thing ;)

This is a must, will help in the long run as well

PrinceCharles
09-10-2014, 11:31 PM
I heard that smoking really effects the sex drive.


come to think of it not so much the urge but rather on performance

BlackCube
13-10-2014, 06:42 AM
You tried this type of conditioning before, if yes, how was it?

Conditioning means working out right?

sillyboyy
13-10-2014, 06:55 AM
guess need foreplay so can last longer?

if keep thinking to pump sure eject very fast.. am i right?

VoNguyenGiap
20-10-2014, 05:55 AM
For me personally this tends to happen

You do bring up a valid point

chickssss
22-10-2014, 12:54 PM
I am using procomil spray. So far it is working well.

Alternatively can try condom w performance function.

where do you buy this and is it safe for oral sex?

i am waiting for gambir for more than 6 months.
not sure if the seller do not want to sell or really that popular.

thank you

TheTerminator
23-10-2014, 10:43 PM
guess need foreplay so can last longer?


Quite possibly :D

ElNacho
27-10-2014, 05:37 AM
come to think of it not so much the urge but rather on performance

I would agree on the performance part ;)

KawasakiBikes
03-11-2014, 05:33 AM
Sex drive remains the same, doesn't affect the urge.

I seem to have the same issue actually

Reya
03-11-2014, 06:38 AM
pcc first also still make me cum fast
sad

Chipmunk
10-11-2014, 06:41 AM
Or if got family commitments then the time constraints will be even more ;)

Family commitment for me especially, sometimes just no way to find time for myself

BlackCube
14-11-2014, 12:06 AM
Quite possibly :D

I think so also ;)

Aka052
14-11-2014, 07:37 AM
where do you buy this and is it safe for oral sex?

i am waiting for gambir for more than 6 months.
not sure if the seller do not want to sell or really that popular.

thank you

Bro FYI
I bought gambir before and based on my experience it doesn't work at all.