My GF dun like BJ..

[elmoboy]

The thoughts she has .. "Why BJ, aren't my pussy tight enough liaoz?? You dun like to have intercourse with me, no shiok liaoz?"
She also complaint of smell from my juice.. Most of the time she just give in as she know i like it or when 69(but that is once in a bluemoon). I really enjoy and want my GF to give a better BJ and most important she must enjoy lor.. Any bro got good tips to share on how to cultivate.. :D

[sammyboyfor]

Any bro got good tips to share on how to cultivate.. :D

Try a few new girls and choose the one who gives you the best blow job and simply relishes sucking your dick.

[mustachio]

Try a few new girls and choose the one who gives you the best blow job and simply relishes sucking your dick.

Can agree more! If now oredi like that next time you put on the "suffe-ring" how?

[Randi_Candi]

Is she goot enuff 4 u 2 chg ur preference for BJ?
Or is ur preference 2 strong 4 u 2 chg her??

Anyway its only bj @ tis stage, not even bbbj :D

[jeslyn]

suggest to her do during shower lar?

[thaivisitor]

The thoughts she has .. "Why BJ, aren't my pussy tight enough liaoz?? You dun like to have intercourse with me, no shiok liaoz?"
She also complaint of smell from my juice.. Most of the time she just give in as she know i like it or when 69(but that is once in a bluemoon). I really enjoy and want my GF to give a better BJ and most important she must enjoy lor.. Any bro got good tips to share on how to cultivate.. :D
What is the problem?

If your GF doesn't like BJ, than don't do BJ. Is that such a big problem that you must have BJ? You already said that sometimes she does give in to you or whenever you do 69. Isn't she gracious enough to perform something on you which she didn't like?

You are actually only thinking for yourself although you said the most important is her enjoyment. Why don't you start NOT thinking for yourself and instead try to concentrate on making her really enjoy to her fullest? Doing things to her that she enjoys that you may not like? Than who knows one day, she might just reciprocate your unselfish acts and also do things for you which she knows you enjoy although she might not...., like giving you a good BJ.

thaivisitor

[jeslyn]

she might just reciprocate your unselfish acts and also do things for you which she knows you enjoy although she might not...., like giving you a good BJ.

thaivisitor

good one man.totally agree. from a women's point of view.tat shld be the way

[thaivisitor]

good one man.totally agree. from a women's point of view.tat shld be the way
Experience lah...... :D

[Vigin Lover]

When I just knew my gf not long ago, she agree to do bj on me....that was on a staircase somewhere near Tanjong Pagar carpark. Another time, she even bj till I CIM in her mouth in Hotel 81 at Chinatown.
But now, she totally ban bj!!! When I ask her to bj me, she always reject...sian liao sia!!! :confused:

[cheersMike]

dun like bj then dun have lor... u cannot force other ppl to do wat they dun like mah... if u force them.... the outcome also not very good.. cos she like entertain u and do like that... no point.. if u really wan bj.. might as well pay some money and visit hc

[Vigin Lover]

dun like bj then dun have lor... u cannot force other ppl to do wat they dun like mah... if u force them.... the outcome also not very good.. cos she like entertain u and do like that... no point.. if u really wan bj.. might as well pay some money and visit hc

Agree lo...forcing not good lo...tats why I dun force my gf. :rolleyes:

[jinrenhe]

Ever find out the reasons why? She may have certain reasons for rejecting ur request... so maybe have a talk with her ;)

sorry if u find me nosey, jus hope to help

[fun4evergood]

maybe u can try applying honey on your dick.....she will suck u dry dry.....

another suggestion if make her feel that is good to do it...eg, suck her first, build the trust together.... :)

[a4anal]

The thoughts she has .. "Why BJ, aren't my pussy tight enough liaoz?? You dun like to have intercourse with me, no shiok liaoz?"

bro u r not alone, my gf also don blow for me :o

[cheersMike]

maybe u can try applying honey on your dick.....she will suck u dry dry.....

another suggestion if make her feel that is good to do it...eg, suck her first, build the trust together.... :)



ya true.. sometime like im willing todo suck urs.. y u can blow mine like that... but doubt it going to help.. cos pussy only lick.. but then i guess it quite tiring to blow..hahahaha

[2dv8]

need to be patient if yr gf never do it b4. i remember one ex-gf initially not comfortable but after awhile saw how high i got even initiated sometimes...

but i think we need to do our part too... esp if we want cim, then have to ensure that its at least pleasant for gf also....

[KingBong]

What to do was cultivate the idea that YOU like it!

[tiverton18]

Make sure you keep your dick clean and free from smegma (those smelly whitish dirt embedded around the ring of your penis if you are not circumscised).Wash it regularly when you take your bath.

You can arouse your girlfriend by performing cunnilingus on her first. When she is sexually aroused with your oral act, she will definitely reciprocate with fellatio without you begging for it.

Enjoy yourself brother.

[raiders]

Hmm, got to contribute my 2 cents worth...

My gf also duno really like to blow me initially. She will just lick for 30 seconds and give up. I also feel the same frustration as you. But soon, I realised this is a 2 way thingy. So every night before sleep, I will give her a good licking until she has an orgasm. And I try different style in licking her, tell her stories when i lick her and praise her for how wet, how nice her pussy is and how much i love it. And within a few days, her BJ improves and she will blow me until I come. Recently, she even learn how to blow like those AV porn, i.e. moan while blowing me and she even tell me she loves to blow me. :D

[superdic1]

Hmm, got to contribute my 2 cents worth...

My gf also duno really like to blow me initially. She will just lick for 30 seconds and give up. I also feel the same frustration as you. But soon, I realised this is a 2 way thingy. So every night before sleep, I will give her a good licking until she has an orgasm. And I try different style in licking her, tell her stories when i lick her and praise her for how wet, how nice her pussy is and how much i love it. And within a few days, her BJ improves and she will blow me until I come. Recently, she even learn how to blow like those AV porn, i.e. moan while blowing me and she even tell me she loves to blow me. :D

u r darn lucky, dude.........
I'd been licking my gal's pussy everynite, and she loves it....
but guess what? she still doesn't like to blow me...

Sigh... perhaps i got a lazy girl... luckily she's not too lazy to moan when i am bonking her... :o

[eyez_for_u]

Same here. My ex gf also dun like to blow me. Now single even no chance at all. :(

[superdic1]

Same here. My ex gf also dun like to blow me. Now single even no chance at all. :(

hahaha, then i am much luckier than u...
and my ex love to blow me... sigh.. i miss her sometimes...

[raiders]

u r darn lucky, dude.........
I'd been licking my gal's pussy everynite, and she loves it....
but guess what? she still doesn't like to blow me...

Sigh... perhaps i got a lazy girl... luckily she's not too lazy to moan when i am bonking her... :o


Lucky meh? I don't think so. Train her until so pro, in the end, only benefit her future bfs and husband. :mad:
Haizz...when i think of this, I become sad...

[sexlover]

Lucky meh? I don't think so. Train her until so pro, in the end, only benefit her future bfs and husband. :mad:
Haizz...when i think of this, I become sad...
When she is sleeping or drunk,,,, put tatoo on her ass,,,, """Train In Sexology by Raiders"""" remember to leave your contact nos,,,,,they will call u in future to say thank u...... kekekeek,,,,,,,,, Bro forgot about her and move on with your life........ :cool:

[et911]

The thoughts she has .. "Why BJ, aren't my pussy tight enough liaoz?? You dun like to have intercourse with me, no shiok liaoz?"
She also complaint of smell from my juice..

To each, her own. You should let her decide what she likes instead of you wanting her to do things you want her to.

You should also seriously clean your dick properly.. that could have caused her discomfort.

[sexlover]

To each, her own.
Have u try the oyster or hum??? :D

[Castrol]

I really enjoy and want my GF to give a better BJ and most important she must enjoy lor.. Any bro got good tips to share on how to cultivate.. :D

try to be diplomatic and dont hurt her feelings. not every new yorker enjoys a hotdog right?
so tell her nicely, " if you still cant start enjoying polishing my candle, i will find somebody else who can..." :D

[raiders]

try to be diplomatic and dont hurt her feelings. not every new yorker enjoys a hotdog right?
so tell her nicely, " if you still cant start enjoying polishing my candle, i will find somebody else who can..." :D


Then she will say to you, "fine then, I'll let someone have a share of your oyster" :p

[Castrol]

Then she will say to you, "fine then, I'll let someone have a share of your oyster" :p

this kind of girl should be rewarded... :D

[daryl76]

should learn to compromise la... since she doesnt like it, dun wanna do it den so be it, dun have BJ wont die... unless u wanna change gal la, but remember though, must put an advertisment saying tat u only wan a gal who would do a BBBJ for u, otherwise dun bother to apply... cool?

[superdic1]

well, of coz not getting bj won't die, but of coz, that would be GOOD
(+ lucky) if got a girl who loves/good at giving BJ, right? ;)

[WhenSPH]

Bro Elmo, just take it as you're buying a Mercedes Benz without leather upholstery....
It sure beats buying a Kia Picanto with leather upholstery.

Cheers

[Ah Dez]

The thoughts she has .. "Why BJ, aren't my pussy tight enough liaoz?? You dun like to have intercourse with me, no shiok liaoz?"
She also complaint of smell from my juice.. Most of the time she just give in as she know i like it or when 69(but that is once in a bluemoon). I really enjoy and want my GF to give a better BJ and most important she must enjoy lor.. Any bro got good tips to share on how to cultivate.. :D

go geylang... and find a prositute to BJ you.. then go back and screw your Gf?

[kangtow]

i got a different problem. my gf BJ me ... and i like it if she can BJ me in the car .... that was awesome ... the problem is my little bro really damn smelly la ... i already tried me best .... to keep me dick clean like roll up the foreskin gao gao when i pee and swing to drop clean the dick head .... but after a long day ... the little bro really smelly la .... even my gf want to blow me also not nice la ... how to keep the dick not smelly the whole day ?

[Ah Dez]

i got a different problem. my gf BJ me ... and i like it if she can BJ me in the car .... that was awesome ... the problem is my little bro really damn smelly la ... i already tried me best .... to keep me dick clean like roll up the foreskin gao gao when i pee and swing to drop clean the dick head .... but after a long day ... the little bro really smelly la .... even my gf want to blow me also not nice la ... how to keep the dick not smelly the whole day ?

Why no keeping those pack of wet tissue in your car?? then can clean before action.....

really it works...

[ianchew]

Why no keeping those pack of wet tissue in your car?? then can clean before action.....

really it works...


Thats a great idea .... also ... if U can .... wash up your little bro first before U meet ur gf ... esp when U feel the action coming soon! :D

[Ah Dez]

Thats a great idea .... also ... if U can .... wash up your little bro first before U meet ur gf ... esp when U feel the action coming soon! :D

No use... after that, u also need to PEE.... so.....

[ianchew]

No use... after that, u also need to PEE.... so.....


what i meant bro ... was to go to toilet & wash up little bro ... just b4 U go meet ur gf .... hahaha ... anyway .... i guess wet tissues work faster & leaves a nice smell! :D

[Ah Dez]

what i meant bro ... was to go to toilet & wash up little bro ... just b4 U go meet ur gf .... hahaha ... anyway .... i guess wet tissues work faster & leaves a nice smell! :D

i think those esx toy shops got those with strawberry taste... etc etc, i remember 1 of my ex flings use before.

[thaivisitor]

i got a different problem. my gf BJ me ... and i like it if she can BJ me in the car .... that was awesome ... the problem is my little bro really damn smelly la ... i already tried me best .... to keep me dick clean like roll up the foreskin gao gao when i pee and swing to drop clean the dick head .... but after a long day ... the little bro really smelly la .... even my gf want to blow me also not nice la ... how to keep the dick not smelly the whole day ?
Is your GF complaining? If not, no need to worry too much.

By the way, your dick MUST be really smelly for you to be able to smell it, since your nose is quite far away from your dick. :D

Anyway, jokes aside, just like perspiration, your diet also contributes to the smell.

[Ah Dez]

Is your GF complaining? If not, no need to worry too much.

By the way, your dick MUST be really smelly for you to be able to smell it, since your nose is quite far away from your dick. :D

Anyway, jokes aside, just like perspiration, your diet also contributes to the smell.


too long never fuck.... the sperm becomes powder and sticks to dick head... also can smell wor..

[superdic1]

i got a different problem. my gf BJ me ... and i like it if she can BJ me in the car .... that was awesome ... the problem is my little bro really damn smelly la ... i already tried me best .... to keep me dick clean like roll up the foreskin gao gao when i pee and swing to drop clean the dick head .... but after a long day ... the little bro really smelly la .... even my gf want to blow me also not nice la ... how to keep the dick not smelly the whole day ?

besides peeing... whenever u take bath, remember to roll up the foreskin and clean ur HEAD as well.. that helps...
and DRINK LOTS of water.. ;)

[MMM88]

Bro kangtow.....dunno to pity u or yr gf leh......anihow go n see a GP lor for advise.......all t best... :)

[dempsey]

bro u r not alone, my gf also don blow for me :o

Look like I am more fortunate, before ROM she "automatic" after ROM she said "no Way" :(

[singexpat]

Look like I am more fortunate, before ROM she "automatic" after ROM she said "no Way" :(

hmmm.. looks like girls now r usin BJ as marketin efforts.. :p

[nakamara]

i got a different problem. my gf BJ me ... and i like it if she can BJ me in the car .... that was awesome ... the problem is my little bro really damn smelly la ... i already tried me best .... to keep me dick clean like roll up the foreskin gao gao when i pee and swing to drop clean the dick head .... but after a long day ... the little bro really smelly la .... even my gf want to blow me also not nice la ... how to keep the dick not smelly the whole day ?

honestly...at first i read your post i feel like laughing

but i think u got mild yeast infection...go see a doc to rectify that. And during bathing...pull back your foreskin and wash/soak (a few mins) in warm slightly salted water.

Hope that helps...cheers :)

[singexpat]

And during bathing...pull back your foreskin and wash/soak (a few mins) in warm slightly salted water.

Hope that helps...cheers :)

bro, wun tht hurts?? :eek:

[elmoboy]

Hmm, got to contribute my 2 cents worth...

My gf also duno really like to blow me initially. She will just lick for 30 seconds and give up. I also feel the same frustration as you. But soon, I realised this is a 2 way thingy. So every night before sleep, I will give her a good licking until she has an orgasm. And I try different style in licking her, tell her stories when i lick her and praise her for how wet, how nice her pussy is and how much i love it. And within a few days, her BJ improves and she will blow me until I come. Recently, she even learn how to blow like those AV porn, i.e. moan while blowing me and she even tell me she loves to blow me. :D


bro raiders how to lick until she cum.. i also hear from friend.. but very tiring leh... U know girl take very long to cum.. can lick until tongue numb leh.. sometimg just spread tingue and use head to follow motion... Those got tips share share.. :o

[sensualtouch]

bro raiders how to lick until she cum.. i also hear from friend.. but very tiring leh... U know girl take very long to cum.. can lick until tongue numb leh.. sometimg just spread tingue and use head to follow motion... Those got tips share share..


Must have a combination of tougue and fingers........lick at the right spot, at the same time use ur finger power to stimulate her.............sld come in abt 5 to 10 mins............ :p

[raiders]

bro raiders how to lick until she cum.. i also hear from friend.. but very tiring leh... U know girl take very long to cum.. can lick until tongue numb leh.. sometimg just spread tingue and use head to follow motion... Those got tips share share.. :o

U must let her know how much u enjoy licking her and also add/concentrate like you are those guys in those AV shows. Yeah, I know its very hard for some girls to come. Mine takes an average of 15-20mins each time. Sometimes I lick until the tongue also cramp.
one trick to solve this problem is to start licking very slowly for the first 5 mins. Use this first 5 mins to tease her pussy. Coz most girls like it slow. Then spend the next 5 mins to lick faster and more thoroughly around the pussy. Then move on to slow again. This way your tongue won't be so tired. And when your tongue starts to have cramps, swallow your saliva, you will feel better.
Some things I noticed that will arouse girls more
1) Talk dirty (e.g I love licking u, fucking you)
2) Praise them (e.g. What a nice sweet pussy you have. Who does not like to be praised? I mean, even for us guys, when we have only a 12cm dick, if the girl praise you, 'what a big hot dick, I simply love it, so nice' Im sure you eel good also right?)
3) When licking them, start slowly. Don't be like a turbo engine.
4) Still, when licking them, use your 2 free hands to massage their tits, inner tighs area.
5) When licking them, don't strip and lick mah. Remove her clothes slowly, and especially her panty, slowly slowly remove and play around the area around the panty.
Good luck to you. For me, my gf is improving everyday. Last night while I was licking her tits, she told me, "darling, can you make some noise, I like it" and also, "darling, we are like acting in those porn show" It was definitely an improvement coz in the past, she will never say such things. And after I lick her and she cummed, she will rubba me automatically and start to lick me automatically, moaning at the same time...

Something to add before I knocked off and go supermarket with baby (Planning to cook for her tonight)
Try your best brother. Alot of things not easy at first. But slowly improve, like last time she will not lick my toes also. But after she see me lick her a few times and I enjoyed it so much, she started to lick my toes also :D

[elmoboy]

U must let her know how much u enjoy licking her and also add/concentrate like you are those guys in those AV shows. Yeah, I know its very hard for some girls to come. Mine takes an average of 15-20mins each time. Sometimes I lick until the tongue also cramp.
one trick to solve this problem is to start licking very slowly for the first 5 mins. Use this first 5 mins to tease her pussy. Coz most girls like it slow. Then spend the next 5 mins to lick faster and more thoroughly around the pussy. Then move on to slow again. This way your tongue won't be so tired. And when your tongue starts to have cramps, swallow your saliva, you will feel better.
Some things I noticed that will arouse girls more
1) Talk dirty (e.g I love licking u, fucking you)
2) Praise them (e.g. What a nice sweet pussy you have. Who does not like to be praised? I mean, even for us guys, when we have only a 12cm dick, if the girl praise you, 'what a big hot dick, I simply love it, so nice' Im sure you eel good also right?)
3) When licking them, start slowly. Don't be like a turbo engine.
4) Still, when licking them, use your 2 free hands to massage their tits, inner tighs area.
5) When licking them, don't strip and lick mah. Remove her clothes slowly, and especially her panty, slowly slowly remove and play around the area around the panty.
Good luck to you. For me, my gf is improving everyday. Last night while I was licking her tits, she told me, "darling, can you make some noise, I like it" and also, "darling, we are like acting in those porn show" It was definitely an improvement coz in the past, she will never say such things. And after I lick her and she cummed, she will rubba me automatically and start to lick me automatically, moaning at the same time...

Something to add before I knocked off and go supermarket with baby (Planning to cook for her tonight)
Try your best brother. Alot of things not easy at first. But slowly improve, like last time she will not lick my toes also. But after she see me lick her a few times and I enjoyed it so much, she started to lick my toes also :D

Thanks u bro.. u really a painting pro.... :D

[thaivisitor]

bro raiders how to lick until she cum.. i also hear from friend.. but very tiring leh... U know girl take very long to cum.. can lick until tongue numb leh.. sometimg just spread tingue and use head to follow motion... Those got tips share share..
In order to be a good painter, you must have a good and long brush (tongue). Some people are born with long tongue and some are born with short. long tongue is more flexible and can reach and twist into different places easily. short tongue can only reach to your inner lips, cannot even come out of your mouth. Yours must be short tongue.

But don't worry, like dick, they can be enlarge with some exercises. Here are some of the exercises you can do at home, especially in the morning before you brush your teeth.

1. Look into the mirror, shoot your tongue out and pull in over lips over your tongue and immediately pull your tongue back in, something like those snake movements. To help your judgement, place your face about 3 inches infront of the mirror and make sure your tongue touches the mirror each time you shoot out. Do this about 10 times every morning.

2. Also looking in the mirror, sticking your tongue out, swing it from left to right and back to left for 10 times. Make sure your tongue shoots out over and touches your sking next to the edge of your lips. To make it easier, use a black permanent marker to mark about 1 inche away from the edge of your lips on both side. Make sure your tongue can reach the marker spot.

3. Also looking at the mirror, extend your tongue to touch the tip of your nose and hold it there for 10 seconds. If your tongue cannot reach, you can use your ringers to help pull it out. Do this 10 times.

Diet can also help. try snake soup, especially those snakes with sizzling tongues. Fried lizards will also help. Have you seen those lizards shoot their tongue out to catch a fly?

After doing this exercise and eating those meals for a month, you will realise several things.

1. You will realised that the length of your tongue remains practically the same as before.

2. You will realised how silly you look in the mirror with 2 black marks on both side of your cheeks and doing those exercises.

3. You will realised why you get the frequent stomaches.

Just for laughs
thaivisitor :D :D

[singexpat]

After doing this exercise and eating those meals for a month, you will realise several things.

1. You will realised that the length of your tongue remains practically the same as before.

2. You will realised how silly you look in the mirror with 2 black marks on both side of your cheeks and doing those exercises.

3. You will realised why you get the frequent stomaches.

Just for laughs
thaivisitor

haha.. i like this.. wonder how many bros have tried e exercises without readin e disclaimer.. :rolleyes:

[siambee]

In order to be a good painter, you must have a good and long brush (tongue). Some people are born with long tongue and some are born with short. long tongue is more flexible and can reach and twist into....

Just for laughs
thaivisitor :D :D


thaivisitors bro... that a good one ... thumbs up! btw, thanks for helping my bro in his thai issue regarding ab ah neng....

[SGJimmy]

Dun tell her u like it and ask her to BJ u.
For me normally I alway praise all my GF for their BJ, i will tell them they are very good at it, they look very sexy while doing it n they can make me high while they r doing it, it will make them proud of themself n eager to do it next time and try to perform better.

[ricardo]

Dun tell her u like it and ask her to BJ u.
For me normally I alway praise all my GF for their BJ, i will tell them they are very good at it, they look very sexy while doing it n they can make me high while they r doing it, it will make them proud of themself n eager to do it next time and try to perform better.
But in the first place they refuse liao how to praise ... how to get them started? one ex gf once ask me how to make me feel good say she will do anything so i say BJ ... she did it ok but after that the frequency less and less until no more. :(

[fun4evergood]

Dun tell her u like it and ask her to BJ u.
For me normally I alway praise all my GF for their BJ, i will tell them they are very good at it, they look very sexy while doing it n they can make me high while they r doing it, it will make them proud of themself n eager to do it next time and try to perform better.

Mus remember to keep the "stick" clean and mus not have foul smell.....as jus one bad experience will keep the gal away for a long time... :o

[ivy7]

Mus remember to keep the "stick" clean and mus not have foul smell.....as jus one bad experience will keep the gal away for a long time...

yah... nice and clean is yummy :D

... then hv dessert somemore ... :D

[fun4evergood]

yah... nice and clean is yummy

... then hv dessert somemore ... :D

U prefer to have honey or strawberries or blueberries or durian cream on top ? :D

[ivy7]

U prefer to have honey or strawberries or blueberries or durian cream on top ? :D
strawberries in chocolate... mmm... wait... cock in chocolate... ooooh ever tried hot fudge? :D

[fun4evergood]

strawberries in chocolate... mmm... wait... cock in chocolate... ooooh ever tried hot fudge? :D

Think think a bit.....can be quite scary leh.....wat if u forget that it is a dick and not a chocolate stick.....bite away the whole thing.....OOOuuuiieee....ouch...... :o better not offer it to u....

[ivy7]

Think think a bit.....can be quite scary leh.....wat if u forget that it is a dick and not a chocolate stick.....bite away the whole thing.....OOOuuuiieee....ouch...... :o better not offer it to u....

dun worry, Ivy will not kill the goose wan... want many many dessert sessions u know...

[MMM88]

dun worry, Ivy will not kill the goose wan... want many many dessert sessions u know...


mine cum with caviar toppings....wat says u....kekeke ;)

[ivy7]

mine cum with caviar toppings....wat says u....kekeke ;)

tat's provided I like caviar :)

[Centaur]

I think guys should not be so utterly self-centered.
Bring the girl to the 7th heaven and beyond (by gently licking her to mutliple orgasms) and she will automatically long for doing something TOGETHER.