My frustration with Losers

[JacqueMerlin]

I wonder if any any bros were ever caught in situations as I was feeling totally frustrated with the company you party with?

1. He wants to play, he wants to bonk, he wants a girl. I brought him to a massage palour in JKT, the girls were lined up for him but he didn't even dare to look at the girls kept insisting I choose first. I got mine but he didn't dare to look, let alone to choose his girl despite several offers from the mummy. He claimed my recommendations were too fat too ugly or too whatever. And honestly, those girls I got for him were all pretty good snapped up quickly later. In the end, I went in with him sitting outside without a girl. But at the end of my session, he said I am not bro enough to leave him alone outside. WTH!

2. He wants to party, he wants a girl. I brought him to a pick up club and I've already gotten a girl but he has none for over an hour. A pick up club is considered an easy place yet he had difficulties getting a girl. I tried to help him but he claimed the girl is either too ugly or too old. He was also unable to hold a conversation with a pretty girl in a normal club. The idiot even asked how much does the girl charge.

These people want to play but what is wrong with them. They choosed to go but when it come to the girls, they always claim the girls are ugly or old when in the actual fact the girls were far from that. As quickly as I let the girls go, they were quickly grabbed by other men. They always ask me out because they know I always get them the girls. But they are shy and clueless when coming to women. And it's frustrating.

[SammyNewbie]

Haha... I think I'm kind of in that list. Not as bad as your friend, but quite jialat :D

Is this a troll post after you read the sex files?:p

EDIT : OK, I think for him right, you bring him for beer first before kio kway. That was what Ash did to me and it worked. After awhile he will relax himself and know what to do. The woman thing abit hard. The only way is bring more friends to club along. He abit like me.

[notti4u]

[QUOTE=JacqueMerlin;8835865]I wonder if any any bros were ever caught in situations as I was feeling totally frustrated with the company you party with?

Bro, it is common. I got a friend who is like this and he always asked me to drive to New York hotel once a month and worse still, he don't pay and claim that OKT is no good introduction or said why i didn't go for full package and want me to split the bill with him? Errr, I didn't poke the girl wor. Worse still, he didnt pay for the food and petrol and I pay for everything. After several times, I told him to fly kite and till now he didnt ask me to go JB or Geylang after my outburst.

[SammyNewbie]

Ok lah, I dun think I so jialat.

But then sometimes, really the OKT's stuff 'bu shi huo'. Some of them really not so nice looking, so I will not really want to eat. Then got some of them are average looking. Got times where I really bo bian, then I will eat them and I find out that not so pretty girls are usually much better in bed that pretty ones. Somehow, I never seem to really learn this.:rolleyes:.

Most of the time if that happens, just go with them to another tank. I think after awhile, they will get hungry and not care already just like me. XD. But Batam there also hard to find chio bu. Most of them very very cheap, but I think our thai WL here chioer >.<".

I'm kinda sorry to hear about your story notti. Your friend is abit of a jerk. Most of the time, chionging WL is abit like eating food. Sometimes you get bad food, you just eat,pay and go. He still liddat to the OKT ar? The most he just don't eat and go lor.

[milkyshake]

Kena this type of cheong kaki is really make you wonder is it last life you owe them a huge debt and this life you're supposed to repay one.

[HCKing]

same thing also happened to me when i was young. before cheong these geeks are the ones who will give many big balls talk on hw to sian girls, hw to make the 1st move blah blah then when the time comes all will run or siam one corner and pester the lao jiao to take the lead and sian their girls for them. if the lao jiao are kind enough to do so these geeks will start screwing things up by freezing themselves like a rock or act like a kuku in front of the girls. at the end of the day if you ask them why they will just say girls not nice not chio and whats not just to stroke their own pathetic ego.

[owl888]

if your cheong kaki this type, then no point cheonging together in future lor:D

[Bigbluebird]

Relax, some people need more exposure and experience to pick up things ;)

[batosai0569]

I think I also need a wingman...

[snooker]

I wonder if any any bros were ever caught in situations as I was feeling totally frustrated with the company you party with?

1. He wants to play, he wants to bonk, he wants a girl. I brought him to a massage palour in JKT, the girls were lined up for him but he didn't even dare to look at the girls kept insisting I choose first. I got mine but he didn't dare to look, let alone to choose his girl despite several offers from the mummy. He claimed my recommendations were too fat too ugly or too whatever. And honestly, those girls I got for him were all pretty good snapped up quickly later. In the end, I went in with him sitting outside without a girl. But at the end of my session, he said I am not bro enough to leave him alone outside. WTH!

2. He wants to party, he wants a girl. I brought him to a pick up club and I've already gotten a girl but he has none for over an hour. A pick up club is considered an easy place yet he had difficulties getting a girl. I tried to help him but he claimed the girl is either too ugly or too old. He was also unable to hold a conversation with a pretty girl in a normal club. The idiot even asked how much does the girl charge.

These people want to play but what is wrong with them. They choosed to go but when it come to the girls, they always claim the girls are ugly or old when in the actual fact the girls were far from that. As quickly as I let the girls go, they were quickly grabbed by other men. They always ask me out because they know I always get them the girls. But they are shy and clueless when coming to women. And it's frustrating.


I have a friend just like yours but at the end I found out his problem...

he has different perspective from most of us as to what is pretty... to us ugly and fat girls are goddess to him..so next time, bring him to see fat n ugly girls n he will be very happy with u :D

[lickNpoke]

Got this chap just posted to the officer from neighboring country. Never really talk to him as we are not directly linked at work.

Then during our 1st lunch outing via a mutual colleague he was very curious and started asking the geylang system.... How on line whoring works.... It is not so easy to explain about such stuff so the I phone was whipped out to explain it discreetly and he suddenly say don't be so serious.... There and then I phone was back in pocket and we just told him to go venture geylang or go on line to venture on his own....

This mutual colleague of mine also say what the fuck is his problem... Ask, when we want to explain, he suddenly act so leisurely.... Then ask for fuck?! Hahaha

[JacqueMerlin]

same thing also happened to me when i was young. before cheong these geeks are the ones who will give many big balls talk on hw to sian girls, hw to make the 1st move blah blah then when the time comes all will run or siam one corner and pester the lao jiao to take the lead and sian their girls for them. if the lao jiao are kind enough to do so these geeks will start screwing things up by freezing themselves like a rock or act like a kuku in front of the girls. at the end of the day if you ask them why they will just say girls not nice not chio and whats not just to stroke their own pathetic ego.

Exactly the same sentiments. I feel like a wing man every time
But I don't mind helping out those who help themselves. But not those that freeze when a girl is presented to them what's more, the girl of their choice! ! After confirming they like that girl, ti make the first few steps to get them acquainted but they screw it up. Then kept telling me this girl looks cute that girl looks hot or the chic opposite was checking him out. And then I will tell him to tell the girl, telling me for what? What a waste of time
Perhaps I should set a rule that anyone who's without a girl or an attempt on a girl will pay for the table. I am a wingman, not the Ego stoker.

[Psalm]

Different people differernt perception.

[MP5F]

I wonder if any any bros were ever caught in situations as I was feeling totally frustrated with the company you party with?

1. He wants to play, he wants to bonk, he wants a girl. I brought him to a massage palour in JKT, the girls were lined up for him but he didn't even dare to look at the girls kept insisting I choose first. I got mine but he didn't dare to look, let alone to choose his girl despite several offers from the mummy. He claimed my recommendations were too fat too ugly or too whatever. And honestly, those girls I got for him were all pretty good snapped up quickly later. In the end, I went in with him sitting outside without a girl. But at the end of my session, he said I am not bro enough to leave him alone outside. WTH!

These people want to play but what is wrong with them. They choosed to go but when it come to the girls, they always claim the girls are ugly or old when in the actual fact the girls were far from that. As quickly as I let the girls go, they were quickly grabbed by other men. They always ask me out because they know I always get them the girls. But they are shy and clueless when coming to women. And it's frustrating.

cheong without your friend, he is hopeless. from point 1 can see already, gals line up for him to choose, dun even dare to look at them, like that how to cheong,a normal guy would be too happy,scanning from left to right and back to choose a gal, I bet maybe even go inside room, he dun even dare to strip. :D

[bookerxu]

Actually bro, you already very good to him. Help him so many times.

If he want to be like that, he will be like that one. He might have some serious issues that only he can solve himself.




Exactly the same sentiments. I feel like a wing man every time
But I don't mind helping out those who help themselves. But not those that freeze when a girl is presented to them what's more, the girl of their choice! ! After confirming they like that girl, ti make the first few steps to get them acquainted but they screw it up. Then kept telling me this girl looks cute that girl looks hot or the chic opposite was checking him out. And then I will tell him to tell the girl, telling me for what? What a waste of time
Perhaps I should set a rule that anyone who's without a girl or an attempt on a girl will pay for the table. I am a wingman, not the Ego stoker.

[4Dguru]

I wonder if any any bros were ever caught in situations as I was feeling totally frustrated with the company you party with?

1. He wants to play, he wants to bonk, he wants a girl. I brought him to a massage palour in JKT, the girls were lined up for him but he didn't even dare to look at the girls kept insisting I choose first. I got mine but he didn't dare to look, let alone to choose his girl despite several offers from the mummy. He claimed my recommendations were too fat too ugly or too whatever. And honestly, those girls I got for him were all pretty good snapped up quickly later. In the end, I went in with him sitting outside without a girl. But at the end of my session, he said I am not bro enough to leave him alone outside. WTH!

2. He wants to party, he wants a girl. I brought him to a pick up club and I've already gotten a girl but he has none for over an hour. A pick up club is considered an easy place yet he had difficulties getting a girl. I tried to help him but he claimed the girl is either too ugly or too old. He was also unable to hold a conversation with a pretty girl in a normal club. The idiot even asked how much does the girl charge.

These people want to play but what is wrong with them. They choosed to go but when it come to the girls, they always claim the girls are ugly or old when in the actual fact the girls were far from that. As quickly as I let the girls go, they were quickly grabbed by other men. They always ask me out because they know I always get them the girls. But they are shy and clueless when coming to women. And it's frustrating.

got split bills or not?

[Happy555]

TS, don't fret. Next time just don't go cheong with such people.

[LovePotion]

ignore this type of people la... would make ur lifespan longer

[JacqueMerlin]

Actually bro, you already very good to him. Help him so many times.

If he want to be like that, he will be like that one. He might have some serious issues that only he can solve himself.

I agree. I'd have dumped him if not for his respectable approachable character during our army days. And bros like him are great except for this part where it gets overwhelmingly irritating. I will do my best to help out as I can tell he genuinely wants to party.

[JacqueMerlin]

got split bills or not?

yes he did. That's one of the reason why it is frustrating. Because he is not outright free loading and he has been very kind to me during my lowest days in the army standing between me and those rubbish cheak leow bee warrant officers. So I cannot make the straight forward decision of kicking him from my solidarity.

[Rain-Men]

Bro...perhaps time to join another squadron...

[bigangry]

Then kept telling me this girl looks cute that girl looks hot or the chic opposite was checking him out. And then I will tell him to tell the girl, telling me for what? What a waste of time
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wow! i have a friend that is just the same! always say this girl interested in him and that girl across the bar trying to seduce him.. loads of bulls..

bring him to ktv and hfj, he will sit there like a wooden log.. knn

now i just ignore him when he shoot these bs again..

[hAvAnAs]

these type of ppl are more suited to stay home, watch porn and pcc till kingdom cum.

[tigerwoody74]

Very common lah brother. I encounter the same thing also. The KTV gal say "U go one corner and piss, after that stare in the piss and see your own face ! "u think u Andy Lau arh" :eek:

[notti4u]

[QUOTE=JacqueMerlin;8835865]I wonder if any any bros were ever caught in situations as I was feeling totally frustrated with the company you party with?

Bro, it is common. I got a friend who is like this and he always asked me to drive to New York hotel once a month and worse still, he don't pay and claim that OKT is no good introduction or said why i didn't go for full package and want me to split the bill with him? Errr, I didn't poke the girl wor. Worse still, he didnt pay for the food and petrol and I pay for everything. After several times, I told him to fly kite and till now he didnt ask me to go JB or Geylang after my outburst.

For those who zap me over this post. Please do leave your name down and dont be a coward to hide behind the walls. This is a forum of sharing and if you do not like what other people share, just leave it and F off from here. If we cannot share what we been thru here, then what are this forum for? Anyway, I guess you are the losers that what I shared here hit you hard and you might be one of them that takes people advantage. Poor soul and please do a soul searching. I guess you must be very miserable when your friend share their problems with you, you will scold them, right? if no, why zap here? Anyway, points is nothing as it cannot be redeem for NTUC vouchers. We are here to share and dun like it, leave it.

[SammyNewbie]

Relax. Got alot of psychopathic and sick people here. Some of them even purposely sabotage some of the writers here and just zap them to get a kick out of it. I found out after awhile that I'm not the only one that kena this shit when I was looking through the stories.

I think my recent Sex File must have opened an old wound with JaqueMerlin then he want people to hear his side of the story. I also can't be bothered to argue with the bros here, cause after awhile I also realised that I don't know the person. He might be worse or better than me. I don't know the full situation.

We all got our own issues with different types of people. I just think when we say all this stuff, I can understand where we all come from, but this might also affect innocent people that have nothing to do with your problem.

This thread is flamebait. Like those Indian service FL thread like that.

Notti, maybe the one that zapped u was your friend lor. :D

Also Jaque, thanks for your support. I saw you come see see my name before when I was writing the sex files.:)

[JacqueMerlin]

I met him during reservist and hit it off quite well. But little did I know that he possess some of the most appalling character a man can ever stoop.

We went to Hainan together and prior to going, I researched about the place and was uniformly informed by different sources to steer clear from the streetwalkers for they might carry disease or they might be part of a scam ring out to coerce you into submission; to surrender money to them under the most embarrassing circumstances.

Before I went, I made contacts and managed to get ourselves acquainted to a group of girls one of which was interested in me. But in order to fulfill my responsibilities for the brethrenhood, I willingly gave up that girl to my friend who expressed interest in her. Unfortunately, he was unable to clinch the deal and we had to resort to paid bonks to relieve ourselves of our cravings.

I heard from a veteran that the price for a full package in a proper massage palour will cost somewhere between 600RMB – 800RMB during the late hours. We went up the lift to an elaborately renovated venue with a very hospitable pimp leading us into the rooms. We were quoted 699RMB and since the price was within range, I asked the pimp to perhaps bring in the stocks for audition.

This friend however gave me a look with frustration and angst all mixed together citing his lack of cash. I passed him 300RMB but despite that, he said he doesn’t want this place as it’s too expensive. I had no choice but to get him to leave quickly. We went to the second one and was quoted 799RMB and again, he left the place hurriedly. He yelled at the taxi driver threatening him in his drunken stupor. “I know you are up to no good, and this is not my first time here.” Much to my embarrassment, I had to apologise to the taxi driver in case he deliver us into some place not too safe for 2 foreigners with 1 of them severely intoxicated.

I questioned him on why did he insist that it was too expensive when it was only pertinent for them to charge a higher premium given the eccentric hours of our endeavour. He revealed that he did not have enough money. And he meant in his bank account.

This totally left me aghasted. But what drove me more upset was his insistence on going for street walkers despite me repeated warnings. “It’s cheap!” was his unconvincing justification. I had to drag him into the taxi and send him back to the hotel amidst his yelling.

That wasn’t all. On a separate occasion, the local girls informed us to make reservation for a table which I reminded this friend to do so as I reeled in my second catch of the trip. Another group of girls. Relying on him to reel in girls is as good as fishing in the desert. This imbecile who had remainder credits in his phone, which I generously paid, stubbornly refused to make a reservation and in the end, we had no tables. I had to negotiate for a table to keep the girls there.

And again, I gave him my girl which he again failed to seize the opportunity to score.

On the third day, he came to me and asked me for a loan of 1000RMB confidently proclaiming that he will pay me S$200 once we get back to Singapore. I obliged and withdrew that for him. He had no money for his bonk and had to make a loan in order to go for his bonk. How low can a man go? But what’s most disturbing was his indifference to this and it didn’t seem to affect his pride as a man. He is not even bothered albeit being the epitome of shame. By the way, it’s been 2 months and he has yet to pay me back. He told me that he caught something during his stay in Hainan and used that $200 for his medical bills. Honestly, I wasn’t concerned about that $200 which was a mere fraction of my income. The consternation was him having cognition of where the money will go without feeling remorse borrowing and not returning that.

During the trip in Hainan, he went around looking for girls on wechat with his profile picture and he gave every girl the details of our itinerary including the time and location we were preparing to go. And he was doing all these even after telling me to invite the second batch of girls for some partying session. How stupid can he get. I had to tell him off constantly to keep him away from jeopardizing our agenda.

He left me in an epic disappointment on his intellect. This moron probably thought flaunting his ‘english’ would impress the manager of the club whom we had a favour to ask; to get a table. And naturally, he couldn’t get it and even put us all in harm’s way by giving them the tag number of the leftover whisky from the night before. I had to rectify the whole situation myself and we eventually got the table. Of course, I drank sparingly from the bottle I left over in case of contamination all thanks to the stupidity of this friend.

On the day when we were supposed to return home, he was still seen fiddling on his mobile phone apparently chatting with this girl he met. And to my horror, she’s a freelance street walker he found via wechat. He invited her to his room and apparently screwed her for 300RMB without a condom. I couldn’t describe the disdain, the disappointment and the anger I had for him upon learning what he did the previous night. And this fool even thought by threatening to ‘write bad reviews’ about her in Singapore could instill some worry into the prostitute for her ‘disappointing service’.

The problem with him was that he does all the wrong things at the wrong time. He even had the cheek to entrust his luggage to me while he goes smoking when all the passengers were queuing to board the plane. Naturally, he had to rush to the plane upon realizing that everyone has disappeared from the waiting lounge.

For 2 years, I helped him by introducing him to people who might give his career a boost, I helped him by giving him some tips he could’ve adopted to increase his income. However, at the age of 35, riddled with debts, struggling with 3K a month, banned from holding a credit card and entering a casino, no shares, properties or savings. Unable to even repay a mere S$200 which he borrowed to top up his bonking fund. And now he has STD… how low can he precipitate?

[axxo]

Your bro has a severe case of elevated estrogen in his body. The medical term is normally known as gayness overload.

I wonder if any any bros were ever caught in situations as I was feeling totally frustrated with the company you party with?

1. He wants to play, he wants to bonk, he wants a girl. I brought him to a massage palour in JKT, the girls were lined up for him but he didn't even dare to look at the girls kept insisting I choose first. I got mine but he didn't dare to look, let alone to choose his girl despite several offers from the mummy. He claimed my recommendations were too fat too ugly or too whatever. And honestly, those girls I got for him were all pretty good snapped up quickly later. In the end, I went in with him sitting outside without a girl. But at the end of my session, he said I am not bro enough to leave him alone outside. WTH!

2. He wants to party, he wants a girl. I brought him to a pick up club and I've already gotten a girl but he has none for over an hour. A pick up club is considered an easy place yet he had difficulties getting a girl. I tried to help him but he claimed the girl is either too ugly or too old. He was also unable to hold a conversation with a pretty girl in a normal club. The idiot even asked how much does the girl charge.

These people want to play but what is wrong with them. They choosed to go but when it come to the girls, they always claim the girls are ugly or old when in the actual fact the girls were far from that. As quickly as I let the girls go, they were quickly grabbed by other men. They always ask me out because they know I always get them the girls. But they are shy and clueless when coming to women. And it's frustrating.

[hubber27]

I met him during reservist and hit it off quite well. But little did I know that he possess some of the most appalling character a man can ever stoop.

Ur friend is ultimate! I deem myself lucky as not having to met this kind of dude yet. :D

[onlyhuman]

JM, u are one gd pal for still sticking with ur mate, time to let him go...

Btw is hainan fun? Any FR written in the international thread? :D

[hotbodz77]

Bro JM,

Really pity the situation you're in. He can't be changed unless he changed his mindset. It's gonna be a super tough process but since you're not very close to this person, just let go. Some ppl just dun deserved to be helped...

[justdifferent]

if you were not so close to him, i'd say ditch him completely, block him and delete his contact.

however, as he was one of your army bros, that's obviously not an option. just don't go to anymore drinking sessions with him. someone helping you out a lot in the past does not give him the prerogative to take advantage of you in the future.

how he has helped you in the past and whether you should bear with his bullshit are 2 different matters altogether. if you feel indebted to him and think he is still excellent company when it doesn't involve women and drinking, then hang out with him at other places.

no one should force themselves to bear anyone's company if they do not like it.


I wonder if any any bros were ever caught in situations as I was feeling totally frustrated with the company you party with?

1. He wants to play, he wants to bonk, he wants a girl. I brought him to a massage palour in JKT, the girls were lined up for him but he didn't even dare to look at the girls kept insisting I choose first. I got mine but he didn't dare to look, let alone to choose his girl despite several offers from the mummy. He claimed my recommendations were too fat too ugly or too whatever. And honestly, those girls I got for him were all pretty good snapped up quickly later. In the end, I went in with him sitting outside without a girl. But at the end of my session, he said I am not bro enough to leave him alone outside. WTH!

2. He wants to party, he wants a girl. I brought him to a pick up club and I've already gotten a girl but he has none for over an hour. A pick up club is considered an easy place yet he had difficulties getting a girl. I tried to help him but he claimed the girl is either too ugly or too old. He was also unable to hold a conversation with a pretty girl in a normal club. The idiot even asked how much does the girl charge.

These people want to play but what is wrong with them. They choosed to go but when it come to the girls, they always claim the girls are ugly or old when in the actual fact the girls were far from that. As quickly as I let the girls go, they were quickly grabbed by other men. They always ask me out because they know I always get them the girls. But they are shy and clueless when coming to women. And it's frustrating.

[justdifferent]

and don't get too frustrated with them; they're not worth it.

i have had similar experiences with you, where this guy always brags about his hooking up experiences, the numbers of girls he's gotten, etc etc.

but when he was interested in one of the girls in the table next to us, he had to resort to pleading with me to make the first damn move to even invite them to drink with us.

after i invited them over, he couldn't get the girl he liked. he then tried to show off by buying ordering a lot of shots, shooters, etc. for the girls, and even had the cheek to claim back from some of us guys. i turned him down straight in his face and told him if he wanted to buy girls and us drinks that's his damn problem.

in the end, he was being too pushy and overly flirty with the girl he liked before she was even comfortable with him.. so much for claiming to be a pickup master. the girl got sick of talking to him and came to talk to my friend and i instead as it was a getaway from him. she ended up flirting with us and telling me we should keep in contact - which my friend heard.

he then blamed us for 'stealing' his girl.. to which i told him that you can't steal people. they don't belong to you or anyone.

we have since cut him from our drinking group as he is a complete waste of our time.

[JacqueMerlin]

He said he'd repay me next month which is way overdue. He just said he has no money and asked to extend his date due to next month. I wasn't actually pursuing him for money. But I was only testing if he actually has the decency to redeem his dignity. Sadly, I had to tell him I will treat it as bad debt. And he has just sold his dignity to me for a meagre 200 dollars. I told one of the other reservist bro about this and he related other ghastly experience with him to me. I thought I was bro enough. But now I'm going to remind him and laugh at him everyday during reservist. By the way he caught std.

[Weremonkey]

You are writing all these to vent?

[JacqueMerlin]

You are writing all these to vent?
No. To provide some updates in case some Bros might be interested to know.

[andythai]

time to made some new friends, bro :D

[Spud_Boy]

He said he'd repay me next month which is way overdue. He just said he has no money and asked to extend his date due to next month. I wasn't actually pursuing him for money. But I was only testing if he actually has the decency to redeem his dignity. Sadly, I had to tell him I will treat it as bad debt. And he has just sold his dignity to me for a meagre 200 dollars. I told one of the other reservist bro about this and he related other ghastly experience with him to me. I thought I was bro enough. But now I'm going to remind him and laugh at him everyday during reservist. By the way he caught std.
it's already very cheap to know someone u call a friend for $200...

[JacqueMerlin]

it's already very cheap to know someone u call a friend for $200...

And you know vwhat? He actually thanked me when I said I will treat this as bad debt! He is precipitation. His gratitude was epic and I couldn't believe my ears. I would be at least impressed if he got offended when I offered to treat his borrowed fuck fund as bad debt.

Epic loser.

[justdifferent]

And you know vwhat? He actually thanked me when I said I will treat this as bad debt! He is precipitation. His gratitude was epic and I couldn't believe my ears. I would be at least impressed if he got offended when I offered to treat his borrowed fuck fund as bad debt.

Epic loser.

always 2 sides to a coin. while you might be frustrated that you've invested a lot of emotions into treating him as a bro, look on the good side: at least now you know you can definitely cut him out from your life. life's too short to waste having acquaintances that aren't worth your time.