What if you had 2?

[Geranimo]

Hi Guys
I'm really new here but anyway, hope to meet more brudders through SB.
Anyway, if you had a wonderful girlfriend but had a lovely woman on the other side, who's just waiting to get bonked by you, which head would you think with? hehe....seriously, this woman i know is really gorgeous, nice pair of titties and a butt to die for.
The thing is, my gf is really great and i dunno if i would want to see this other woman more often than not if we do get it on......how la?????? :eek:

Send me your views....i need convincing......

G

[coolpix2075]

I believe u already know wat to do....juz follow ur heart. Can our opinions really determine ur final decision? :rolleyes:

[shadowlunar04]

Bro, you mean you are double timing now or intend to do so? My advice is don't do that. You can't have the best of both worlds. If you think your gf is wonderful, then drop the other gal. Or if you think the other gal is better, then do a clean break when your gf. No gals like their bf double timing on them. Worse comes to worst, you might end up with nothing. Be decisive. Picture this, what if the situation is reversed and your gf or the other gal is double timing on you. How would you feel?

己所不欲,毋施于人

If you do not desire things happen on you, then don't do it on others. What goes round, comes around.

[Cheri_Popper]

You can't have best of both Worlds. By two timing on them, you are betraying their trust & love for you.

Do not do onto others but you do not want others to do onto you.

[buhl]

Anyway, if you had a wonderful girlfriend but had a lovely woman on the other side, who's just waiting to get bonked by you, which head would you think with?

Welcome to the fourm.
in ur position, i'd hv both n enjoy it while it last.

went thru too much ups n downs in life, looking back...all those yrs of being faithful to gf/wife didn't amount to a rat's ass when the shit hits the fan n the relationship turned bad, hence i'd live it up as i feel tt life's to short to pass up any opportunity tt comes along.

my 2cents worth :)

[zeus]

in my opinion, u wana bonk the gorgeous gal. but u are unsure, maybe becoz of ur gf. but perhaps u hope that u can gain confidence by posting here...coz there's bound to be some bro here tat will ask u to go ahead. my advice is....drop tat idea...when u already got such a good gf...why still betray her trust in u? its not easy to find a gal that truly loves u.

[tittyhawk]

Bro geranimo - First your nick resembles the other existing nick in the forum. Ok back to the question.
From what I read and I think that its all in your mind. Don't let the physical part of lust gets the better of you. What you need to do is to analyse and judge the scenario with your mind clear.
Your gf loves you and if you think she can be the one spending the rest of your life with, why jeopardize it?
There is an old Chinese saying, "When you are enjoying happiness, you don't know the meaning of it."

[euphoria777]

You want to have both?
There is a way. Let them both know of the other gal's existence.
If they can accept it, well and good.
But you run the risk of losing them both.
I do that...but only because I am not serious with any of them.

[free]

Hi Guys
I'm really new here but anyway, hope to meet more brudders through SB.
Anyway, if you had a wonderful girlfriend but had a lovely woman on the other side, who's just waiting to get bonked by you, which head would you think with? hehe....seriously, this woman i know is really gorgeous, nice pair of titties and a butt to die for.
The thing is, my gf is really great and i dunno if i would want to see this other woman more often than not if we do get it on......how la??????

Send me your views....i need convincing......

G
Haha, there was that time when I had 4 :D :eek: When the original one started to rescind her mistake and the other 3 wanted to go serious, it become a big headache. Finally decided to give the original and I a 2nd chance, and I have never regreted it since.

[siamcutey]

Hi Guys
I'm really new here but anyway, hope to meet more brudders through SB.
Anyway, if you had a wonderful girlfriend but had a lovely woman on the other side, who's just waiting to get bonked by you, which head would you think with? hehe....seriously, this woman i know is really gorgeous, nice pair of titties and a butt to die for.
The thing is, my gf is really great and i dunno if i would want to see this other woman more often than not if we do get it on......how la?????? :eek:

Send me your views....i need convincing......

G
It's okay man. I go after your wonderful girlfriend and you will know how to put yourself in their shoes.

SC

[oxilary]

if u really love ur girl! dun fall for the temptation.

in my case, i believe u reap what u sow..

[scotfish]

if your gf is true to you, be serious wif her... orelse u will be left wif nothing..really nothing in the end...

[Sure2C]

Bro, dun gamble on this.

It can never be "Doubled or quit".

More likely, it'll ended up "Double win" or "Double lose", with DL stands at least 90%.

I feel that it's inappropriate for us to tell u wat to decide, bcos we r not living in ur world, do not hv the whole true picture n feeling u r having now.

But I strongly feel tat u need to make ur own stand fast b4 the problem really surfaced. Afterall, Life is abt making decision all the time. There is nothing Right or Wrong, it all depends on wat u 1.

U takecare!! Wish u a happy future life on the decision u make now!!

[Garf]

This thread got most positive replies I have read so far, clap clap.

Wonderful gf not easy to find but gals with good figures everywhere can find. Dun becos of a mable and give up a diamond.

[Jax_]

Hi Guys
Anyway, if you had a wonderful girlfriend but had a lovely woman on the other side, who's just waiting to get bonked by you, which head would you think with? hehe....seriously, this woman i know is really gorgeous, nice pair of titties and a butt to die for.
The thing is, my gf is really great and i dunno if i would want to see this other woman more often than not if we do get it on......how la?????? :eek:

G

bro, this decision can be made by you alone lah. My take on the matter is... if your gf has been with you thru good and bad times and still stick with you. I think you need to treasure her.

The chiobu, if you really want to get the best of both worlds, is only treat it as a short term bonk lah... make sure you are clear on what you want bro. Then when you think it's time.... break it off. If you are able to keep it from your gf during this time, great for you. Remember, you are still taking a risk.

I agree with opinions of most bros here lah. A good gf is really hard to find, this kind must treasure one. Dun make the mistake of putting too much kum cheng into a gal who has great figure only but not great gf material.

my 0.5 cents worth. :D

[sg69]

i have 2... 1 for sex only and she treats me pretty well....i m her bf....the other is for emotional and of coz sex too....and she treats me very well...
y i do all these? just fuck 1st then dun even think abt it...life is too short
to worry this much especially in sillipore. Life here is too stifled to think about
what is going to happen if you do this or you do that....so go n bonk your gorgeous babe....if you dun wan...I believed there are alot of brudders here who will queue for her....hehehe....

;)

[Lowell]

my take on this......

I tried having 2 girlfriends at the same time, that was when I was in university...one was a typical next door type and the other was a recently divorced sex starved maniac.

At first it was fun. Honest. But after a while.....it got really tiring...and considering I managed to two-time for close to 15 months..towards the end it was a "drag myself away"

Did i learn my lesson? No......of course i didn't.

at the 15th month, a 3rd one came along. No can do brudder, after 2 weeks of running all over Singapore, I decided to finish up the first 2 and keep the third.

And the third has been with me for four years and we're engaged.

Sometimes these things do have happy endings :)

But honestly, having 2 or more if you can afford it will drain your stamina to the max :)

[fcuksam]

Just want to ask - who you intend to marry at the end? Be with her most of the time, then the other, let her know that you have a GF already. See how she reacts.

I also have wife already, but also have a good lady friend. When we do go out once in a while, we do all sort of things. The good thing is that she still treat me as friend & not to mess with my wife. The only advise she gave is that I don't wear my ring, whenever I go out with her.

[medicheng]

there will only be 4 results out of this A and B...

a. you two timed both of them... regradless for fuck or for love....

b. you choose A for love, and forget about B for fuck...

c. you choose C for fuck, and forget about A for love....

d. you give up both, and look around again.

for a option, unless u r not serious about A, then try it.... and if u manage to balanced your timing.... and nothing happens, then good for you....

for b or c option, see which girl really worth your attention.... at least of all the three parties only one is hurt....

for d option, i dun think u will choose... haha

[xp30]

Hi Guys
I'm really new here but anyway, hope to meet more brudders through SB.
Anyway, if you had a wonderful girlfriend but had a lovely woman on the other side, who's just waiting to get bonked by you, which head would you think with? hehe....seriously, this woman i know is really gorgeous, nice pair of titties and a butt to die for.
The thing is, my gf is really great and i dunno if i would want to see this other woman more often than not if we do get it on......how la?????? :eek:

Send me your views....i need convincing......

G

Sound like you want to have a great bonk from the other(witha really gorgeous, nice pair of titties and a butt to die for) and go home to a goody goody wonderful girlfriend with home cook food ready at home........ rite??? Be Careful!!! gals are very very very sentitive. Good Luck! knowing what I trying to say will be too late liao!

[jungle boy]

you have a gf and that relationship is built on trust. she trusts you but you've taken that for granted and betraying that trust because you're contemplating another relationship with a body-perfect babe.

you have a body-perfect babe and that relationship is built on lust. you lust after her and she probably lusts after you (i hope).

either way, no win - when the trust with your gf is eroded, it rarely comes back to the same level and when the lust with the babe has been satiated, what's there after the physical act?

now if you replace the "you" in the above paragraphs with "your gf" and she's lusting after a body-perfect hunk, what would you seriously want her to think and how to decide?

treasure your gf~ the moment you invest emotionally (lust included) into another relationship, sure messy one...

[swing123]

The thing is, my gf is really great and i dunno if i would want to see this other woman more often than not if we do get it on......how la?????? :eek:


assallahmulaikom.....come join the islam brothers in arm, go for sunat, convert to islam, solve all your problems. Can legally married 2, plus 2 more vancacies to spare for future recruit. :D

[LeDivorcee]

Adding my one cent worth of thoughts.

I think most bros here agree that a good woman is hard to find. Expecially in this time and age. Let me ask you a question. Which girl you will want to marry in the future? Your current gf or the woman you are seeing on the side. You need to compare both their qualities carefully. You should married the woman that you can be happy with forever, someone whom you won't go tired with.

If your gf sucks at sex, you can teach her to improve. If not, well, there is always GL with all the lovely WL waiting to server you like a king to the next 25 to 30mins. If you are in with the other woman because of just sex alone, then I would recommend that you forget it. Women who are hot in bed are a dime a dozen. But a woman who is willing to go through thick and thin with you, a constant friend and companion, now that is hard to find.

In this case, use your big head instead of the small head... Hope you make the right decision.

[TANJON]

I don't have the opportunity to two timed fuck yet but I do go for paid sex.

In life there a many ups and downs in a relationship and through my experience if there is an opportunity to 2 timed, go for it as you won't know whether your the other half 2 timed you, which happened.

Enjoy but don't get caught, if its a married partner better, no strings attached.

[singaporeano]

Hmm, thought I should just post my t-o-ken attempt at giving some advice. This is more to prove my point that it will not make much of a difference.

Bro, you are considering 2 gals on hand. The majority of the bros here have given their $2 collective worth of advice and yet you don't seem to have made any decision (or maybe you have but we don't know it).

Since casinos and gambling seem to be a hot topic in SG now, may as well use similar analogies to demonstrate a point.

The question is, what are you prepared to lose? rather than what you should choose.

You are free to choose whether it's your gf, the chiobu, or both. But bear in mind that just like in any gambling scenario, the odds are always against the punter (aka YOU).

You may win some of the time, but NEVER ever all of the time.

Sorry to confuse you with a rather "cheem" example, but if you get it you get it. If you don't, then enjoy whatever while it lasts. And mind you, nothing lasts forever.

Don't stress yourself too much over this. As LeDivorcee soundly suggested, there's always GL to fall back on if you really want to fulfill your fantasies.