Pearly
15-04-2005, 09:18 PM
If your guy is like mine (or any other man in the world), then he really enjoys getting blowjobs and probably wishes you'd do them more often. While most guys would just be happy to have a woman go down on them, I'm going to give you some tips to make the experience even better.
The more you enjoy yourself, the better blow job you are going to give. Make sure you are comfortable, and of course, being turned on already will help as well. Some ladies get aroused just by thinking of sliding that thick cock into their mouth and feeling the veins and ridges and the heaviness of the rock hard shaft against their tongue. Other women need a little more work to get to that point.
If you are one of those women, try fantasizing before you wrap your lips around his dick. Think about things that turn you on. Get yourself to the point where you are wet and throbbing. Once you're there, it will be much easier to give him a fabulous blow job.
Think Wet: The wetter his cock is, the more he is going to feel the sensations of what you are doing to him. Before you do much of anything, coat his shaft with saliva… or use a flavored lube. Wetness heightens the sensitivity and will increase his pleasure.
Tease: Unless you are both hotter than hell and just can't wait, start out slow and build up. Plant kisses all over his hard shaft. Kiss and lick his balls. Think of his cock and balls as your toy and play with them. Just don't forget to be gentle with his balls. You get too rough, and you will cause pain instead of pleasure.
Don't forget the balls!: Okay, so I mentioned this already above, but I think it's important enough to say again. Be sure not to neglect his balls while you are licking and sucking his cock. Guys love having their balls played with. Kiss them; lick them; you can even suck them. Pay attention to the space between them. For some men, this spot is extra sensitive and you can drive them wild by licking and rubbing there.
Lick sensitive spots: Flatten your tongue and run it up the vein on the front. Flick it around underneath the head and then around the crown. Lick it like it's the tastiest treat you've ever had in your mouth! Ever heard of the frenulum? It's the space on the front of the head where the shaft and head meet. It's most noticeable on men who have been circumcised. This spot is very sensitive on many men, so lick it to your heart's content!
Don't forget your hands!: Despite what some guys might think, a blow job isn't just about using your mouth. Use your hands to rub and caress the parts that your mouth isn't pleasuring. Fondle his balls as your mouth, lips, and tongue lavish his cock with attention. Put one hand at the base of his cock and use it to pump his shaft as you are sucking it. As you stroke, rotate your hand to increase the sensation. Stroke up to meet your mouth coming down, and then stroke down towards the base as your mouth is coming off.
Eye Contact: For some guys, there's nothing sexier than gazing deep into the eyes of the woman giving him a blow job. While you are sucking and licking your partner's cock, take the time to make some eye contact. Show him with your eyes as well as your actions that you are enjoying giving him pleasure.
Face Fucking: Sometimes, you just aren't in the mood for slow and teasing, or maybe you've built up to the point where you've driven him totally wild and he's losing control. When he wants to fuck your face, besides holding on for the ride, there are a couple of things you can do. Use your tongue to add extra sensation as he thrusts in and out of your mouth. Keep your lips pursed around his shaft to add extra friction. If you are afraid he might get too carried away, use your hand on the bottom part of his shaft. This will prevent him from slamming too deeply into your mouth and will also add the pumping effect for greater pleasure for him.
Using the above hints during your oral sessions will help make the experience more pleasurable for both of you. Just remember to go into it with a good attitude. The more you want to do it to please your partner, the better you will be at it.
The more you enjoy yourself, the better blow job you are going to give. Make sure you are comfortable, and of course, being turned on already will help as well. Some ladies get aroused just by thinking of sliding that thick cock into their mouth and feeling the veins and ridges and the heaviness of the rock hard shaft against their tongue. Other women need a little more work to get to that point.
If you are one of those women, try fantasizing before you wrap your lips around his dick. Think about things that turn you on. Get yourself to the point where you are wet and throbbing. Once you're there, it will be much easier to give him a fabulous blow job.
Think Wet: The wetter his cock is, the more he is going to feel the sensations of what you are doing to him. Before you do much of anything, coat his shaft with saliva… or use a flavored lube. Wetness heightens the sensitivity and will increase his pleasure.
Tease: Unless you are both hotter than hell and just can't wait, start out slow and build up. Plant kisses all over his hard shaft. Kiss and lick his balls. Think of his cock and balls as your toy and play with them. Just don't forget to be gentle with his balls. You get too rough, and you will cause pain instead of pleasure.
Don't forget the balls!: Okay, so I mentioned this already above, but I think it's important enough to say again. Be sure not to neglect his balls while you are licking and sucking his cock. Guys love having their balls played with. Kiss them; lick them; you can even suck them. Pay attention to the space between them. For some men, this spot is extra sensitive and you can drive them wild by licking and rubbing there.
Lick sensitive spots: Flatten your tongue and run it up the vein on the front. Flick it around underneath the head and then around the crown. Lick it like it's the tastiest treat you've ever had in your mouth! Ever heard of the frenulum? It's the space on the front of the head where the shaft and head meet. It's most noticeable on men who have been circumcised. This spot is very sensitive on many men, so lick it to your heart's content!
Don't forget your hands!: Despite what some guys might think, a blow job isn't just about using your mouth. Use your hands to rub and caress the parts that your mouth isn't pleasuring. Fondle his balls as your mouth, lips, and tongue lavish his cock with attention. Put one hand at the base of his cock and use it to pump his shaft as you are sucking it. As you stroke, rotate your hand to increase the sensation. Stroke up to meet your mouth coming down, and then stroke down towards the base as your mouth is coming off.
Eye Contact: For some guys, there's nothing sexier than gazing deep into the eyes of the woman giving him a blow job. While you are sucking and licking your partner's cock, take the time to make some eye contact. Show him with your eyes as well as your actions that you are enjoying giving him pleasure.
Face Fucking: Sometimes, you just aren't in the mood for slow and teasing, or maybe you've built up to the point where you've driven him totally wild and he's losing control. When he wants to fuck your face, besides holding on for the ride, there are a couple of things you can do. Use your tongue to add extra sensation as he thrusts in and out of your mouth. Keep your lips pursed around his shaft to add extra friction. If you are afraid he might get too carried away, use your hand on the bottom part of his shaft. This will prevent him from slamming too deeply into your mouth and will also add the pumping effect for greater pleasure for him.
Using the above hints during your oral sessions will help make the experience more pleasurable for both of you. Just remember to go into it with a good attitude. The more you want to do it to please your partner, the better you will be at it.