Need help on how to revive my bird with other females

[sgcolours]

Hi bros,

I think i have a very serious problem here. I need help. When having sex with my gf, everything is in working order and my bird is like a bull. But when i go for other girls to have sex, my bird doesnt seems to be working. When entering other girls, the bird automatic soften n died. Even if the girl handjob for me, it doesnt comes out. It will stand for awhile then remain dead for good. What is the cause of it? Anyone can help me? I've tried visiting quite alot of different girls but still the same. Its like wasting my money trying to bonk other girls but it just wont stand or shoot out. Help needed please!!!

[shiokpleasure]

Your bird is more faithful than you lo.

Maybe only your girl knows how to arouse you.

[sta1100]

Your blue bird only go for 1 only 1 pussy only. Your GF should be happy know your blue bird will not heat up with other girl

[kenl8888]

You love your girlfriend too much.. guilty feelings subconciously reject/suppresses your lustful feelings.

[abc4ever]

This is actually more common then you think.

And it's usually based on a few things.

1. Guilt towards your girlfriend.
2. Comfort level with the hoe is not good enough. (That's why there's GFE rating)
3. You are just not use to fucking someone else.

Nothing to worry about, I have that problem too, and I thought I had ED at first. =P

[ben1215]

Hey

This might be black magic.

[lalakers]

think it may be psychological that when you have sex with your gf ure comfortable and that nothing is wrong.

[sgcolours]

You love your girlfriend too much.. guilty feelings subconciously reject/suppresses your lustful feelings.

I think this may be one of the reason too.

This is actually more common then you think.

And it's usually based on a few things.

1. Guilt towards your girlfriend.
2. Comfort level with the hoe is not good enough. (That's why there's GFE rating)
3. You are just not use to fucking someone else.

Nothing to worry about, I have that problem too, and I thought I had ED at first. =P

Bro abc4ever how did u overcome it? Can it be cured?

I see my other friends who have gf and they still can go out and hv fun with other girls. Is there any way for me to be normal? Its that bad until the extend if a very syt chio girl strips in front of me, my bird also no reaction. Damn paiseh feeling. Like my bird out of order. Sometimes I talk to my bird say why so useless. It just stare back at me, not even nodding.I am mid 20s, I tried taking Viagra pills from doctor also no use. I get bad headaches the day after consuming it. is there any other ways to help me revive my bird? I feel sad, feel so out of place. Inside my heart i want to try out other girls but.... Please any advise big bros here!

[patlee]

Pm u bro alr

[jj_jj]

Break up w/ your gf and try others :)

[kem5969]

Hey

This might be black magic.

Break up w/ your gf and try others :)
move on to next best available :)

[abc4ever]

It's all in your head, and your comfort level.

[sunnylee]

i think ur gf cast powerful gongtao on u liao...:p

[see see only]

Yo bro TS ...

I have this experience ... from some 2 years back ... I can hit it hard with my FB and GF .....

But when come to FL ... or even ONS ... i cant even stand .... even after long & deep blow job ... It was SUCH A SHAME ... :o


Anyway i guess we grow up liao :rolleyes: ... our didi's "lust for sex" .... can no longer generate enough blood level without the help of our heart & emo & the right touch ... :D

That's why i stop all FL, ONS, MP, and those sex without feeling ... However short term gf with some feeling still can :p

[aldof.hilter]

Bro...

It seems that you are blessed with faithfulness to your GF... Cherish it bro, don't go around tasting other girls only to "proof" that you're "normal".

You are actually perfectly normal. That friend of yours who can fuck around with no problem is the one that actually has problem. I pity his gf and his future wife (if any).

So my suggestion: stay faithful to your GF and cherish your good sex relationship.

Btw my bird can work only with my wife too, and I am happy. :)

[sgcolours]

Yo bro TS ...

I have this experience ... from some 2 years back ... I can hit it hard with my FB and GF .....

But when come to FL ... or even ONS ... i cant even stand .... even after long & deep blow job ... It was SUCH A SHAME ... :o


Anyway i guess we grow up liao :rolleyes: ... our didi's "lust for sex" .... can no longer generate enough blood level without the help of our heart & emo & the right touch ... :D

That's why i stop all FL, ONS, MP, and those sex without feeling ... However short term gf with some feeling still can :p

yes bro. the feeling of not able to stand is really bad. i'll consider again what else i could do.. or not..

[sgcolours]

Bro...

It seems that you are blessed with faithfulness to your GF... Cherish it bro, don't go around tasting other girls only to "proof" that you're "normal".

You are actually perfectly normal. That friend of yours who can fuck around with no problem is the one that actually has problem. I pity his gf and his future wife (if any).

So my suggestion: stay faithful to your GF and cherish your good sex relationship.

Btw my bird can work only with my wife too, and I am happy. :)

Bro thank you for the comforting advise. I'll be a happy man.. :)

[nfiaker]

Perhaps one question to ask is:

Can you stand when masturbating?
And when you masturbate, who do you think about?

If it's your GF, and not some hoe, then just continue the lovely sex life with the GF la.

It is a gift, my friend. Treasure it.

[kenl8888]

I thought hitler has a mistress:D

[scootfarmer]

:This is actually more common then you think.

And it's usually based on a few things.

1. Guilt towards your girlfriend.
2. Comfort level with the hoe is not good enough. (That's why there's GFE rating)
3. You are just not use to fucking someone else.

Nothing to worry about, I have that problem too, and I thought I had ED at first. =P



agree with this bros.
i want to be horny,however, fail when i made it with FL,without excitement even.maybe as my friend said, no love no fuck

[freezetheDB]

i think the main problem is psychological

you keep wanting to get it up. The desire to get it up supercedes the true lust, hence the brain is not fed with enough stimulation to get it up as it is too obsessed with just getting hard.

learn to relax and enjoy it without stress. The reason you are a bull with your gf is because you are already comfortable enough and instinct can thereby take possession of you.

[HornEBee]

Wow, bro, it's cool to find someone like me! When I tried FL for the first and only time so far, she found it ultra difficult to get didi to stand also.

Feel like waste my money lah, but also quite happy and proud of myself that it is not so easy to get excited about just any naked girl. :D

[aldof.hilter]

I thought hitler has a mistress:D

If you learn the history, you'll see that my "mistress", Eva Braun, is the only girl I love. People says that she's my mistress only because we didn't get married officially.

And we really enjoy our sex life ;)

[Putin]

People says that she's my mistress only
because we didn't get married officially.

And we really enjoy our sex life ;)

The real hitler in real life alos got mistress, are you him :D

[Mountain]

Yea man, be faithful lah. If anything happens you are going to put risk on your gf. She is innocent, and willing to give you sex.

But I do think that maybe you are not comfortable with other girls perhaps, it is psychological problem. It is nothing big.

Cheers.

[freezetheDB]

i think most importantly is to face yourself and be true to yourself.

Maybe having paid sex is not really your cup of tea. No need to force it.

If you can stick to one girl it is also a good thing, and u can save the money and use it for better means.

There are many with below average sex drive. It is actually ok but as they feel that they need to get sexed up more they try ways and means (taking meds, etc...) which actually give them more frustration instead of happiness.

The way to happiness is to content being uniquely yourself and dont try to be someone else. This is what I have learnt from my personal journey

[sgcolours]

i think most importantly is to face yourself and be true to yourself.

Maybe having paid sex is not really your cup of tea. No need to force it.

If you can stick to one girl it is also a good thing, and u can save the money and use it for better means.

There are many with below average sex drive. It is actually ok but as they feel that they need to get sexed up more they try ways and means (taking meds, etc...) which actually give them more frustration instead of happiness.

The way to happiness is to content being uniquely yourself and dont try to be someone else. This is what I have learnt from my personal journey

very well said bro.. your words did amaze me.

[wodemama]

being faithful is the best... same as the bro above, i think the problem lies with you. maybe you need to be very "friend" with the woman you make love with..

[kgbkgb]

Hi bros,

I think i have a very serious problem here. I need help. When having sex with my gf, everything is in working order and my bird is like a bull. But when i go for other girls to have sex, my bird doesnt seems to be working. When entering other girls, the bird automatic soften n died. Even if the girl handjob for me, it doesnt comes out. It will stand for awhile then remain dead for good. What is the cause of it? Anyone can help me? I've tried visiting quite alot of different girls but still the same. Its like wasting my money trying to bonk other girls but it just wont stand or shoot out. Help needed please!!!

Congrats! U hv wat we call a faithful lanjiao. :D

[Tengkor]

being faithful is the best... same as the bro
above, i think the problem lies with you. maybe you need to be very "friend"
with the woman you make love with..

Agree with this :)

[stiffness]

i think the main problem is psychological

you keep wanting to get it up. The desire to get it up supercedes the true lust, hence the brain is not fed with enough stimulation to get it up as it is too obsessed with just getting hard.

learn to relax and enjoy it without stress. The reason you are a bull with your gf is because you are already comfortable enough and instinct can thereby take possession of you.

Recently tried visiting FLs and have had performance issues too.. can't get it up. In the end, instead of FJ it was HJ and cumming from a semi-hard dick that refused to listen to me. My namesake failed me.

You're right bro. I think thinking "get up you bastard" is self-defeating.

For me because it was my first experiences with FLs at the back of my mind I was keeping an eye out for STDs (warts? bleeding gums? etc) and that made the session less personal, and killed the mood too cos I was not comfortable enough.

Plus in my 40s, need to take meds some of which can cause erectile dysfunction, can't take viagra for risk of heart attack.. guess it's DIY and MP HJ for me.

[johnleee]

Maybe it's Christmas and the itch is greater or something, but bro stiffness, got the same problem happen to me too! Tried a FL for the first time and flag just not going up the pole you know what I mean?

In my case, I think a number of factors are affecting my performance:

First time experience, so already nervous
Worried about STDs so thinking about what other precautions I need to take, what did I forget?
Past history of erectile dysfunction before
The FL didn't stimulate me in the way I needed it maybe
I'm really not comfortable with the FL experience I guess because it can't beat an intimate relationship


Would I try again? I don't think I want to waste more money doing experiments on myself! I have no problems with my existing partner, Leee Jr is hard as a rock at the slightest touch from her, so physically that's not a problem. It's psychological lor!

[pokagreentea]

One reason - Ur gf is a pro and cfm better than others coz only she manage to make ur rod hard and ur dick wont accept anything below that standard. Professionalism :cool:

[kenl8888]

Is your GF a local/ty/indonesian.. as there is a charm called woh hup kong by which a girl can make a man want her only and cannot have sex with other women.. it's available in thailand, indonesia; :p

[clarence9]

Yo bro TS ...

I have this experience ... from some 2 years back ... I can hit it hard with my FB and GF .....

But when come to FL ... or even ONS ... i cant even stand .... even after long & deep blow job ... It was SUCH A SHAME ... :o


Anyway i guess we grow up liao :rolleyes: ... our didi's "lust for sex" .... can no longer generate enough blood level without the help of our heart & emo & the right touch ... :D

That's why i stop all FL, ONS, MP, and those sex without feeling ... However short term gf with some feeling still can :p

Bro,

Strongly agreed with you. I thought something is wrong but it works normally with wifey. :-)

Regards,

[desmond_lee]

some people can fuck around like an animal, some need to feel there's love involved before they can fuck.

nothing wrong with TS, just that there are 2 camps of people in this world.

[steroidfreak]

for me, i got no choice but to find someone else, try fl for the first time today, but cannot perform also, get hard quite fast, she sit one me, move a while, soft liao, change position, my turn to move, a while also soft liao. Jialat, i tot ED but with gf no problem...but the thing is she do not like sex, she say pain but I always make sure she is wet before I move in.

Imagine, I only can have sex with her 5times or less in a year(only special occasion - vday bday oversea trip) then can. How siah... if I dun go for FL, tell me what to do? I already quarrel with her for not having enough sex with her liao.

really toh, but beside sex, she really treat me well in terms of others factor.

any kind soul tell me what should I do? I have already endure this for many years finally I make a break today, enough is enough, since she dun want to give me, I need to find others before my dick malfuction soon... I have my needs too and too much PCC is not good.

[Communist]

i think its your mindset...i used to have this problem last time,you too attracted to your gf sexualy