How will u feel?

[Edyta]

If u are a married/attached guy, u had sex with a colleague u have admired for a long time. U are not about to break your family/gf. The colleague u had sex with wanted more and you cannot give.

Will you be:
1. Feeling guilty but try to dump her for the good of both
2. Feeling guilty and try to ease your guilt by remaining as her friend to help her in any way possible
3. Get agitated and hate her for being a nuisance
4. Try not to think about it, get rid of her and forget

For any course of actions chosen what is your reasons and what are you trying to achieve?

This is a hypothetical scenario. I want to hear from men's point of view.

Thanks

[Suso]

In the first place I do not get involved with any of my fellow colleagues gf and wives. It is not ethical.

[TreakSYT]

I will choose 5.
I will not break with my gf and continue to have sex with my colleague until she initiate to break with me.
Maybe ocassionaly will feel guilty but what to do? I didn't force her and also hard to control not having sex with her if she is sexy. :)

[Steelshaft]

I think you are putting too much option in one question
"Married/Attached" this relationship is far apart. Even if you say married, there are also a lot of circumstances of a marriage.

So it is better to be specific and the real condition

In general to answer your question, I will chose the same as the other brother mentioned earlier. Option 5:D

[milford]

Continue the relationship ...good sex partners are hard to come by.

[lovepiece]

1. Feeling guilty but try to dump her for the good of both

There will not be a good ending.

[wally888]

if it really happens, share ur story.......

[LovePotion]

Since you have chosen the wrong path in the first place then there is no return

Play along with it while keeping your love ones unaware of it

[SharkAttack]

play cards well and use 5.

No right and wrong in this world.

If TS did read other threads, you would already known the answer is 5 for seasoned players.

[Edyta]

Option5? Wont it blow up in your face when your wife/gf found out?
Or you are waiting for the colleague to end it on her own?

[Wizrd]

If u are a married/attached guy, u had sex with a colleague u have admired for a long time. U are not about to break your family/gf. The colleague u had sex with wanted more and you cannot give.

Will you be:
1. Feeling guilty but try to dump her for the good of both
2. Feeling guilty and try to ease your guilt by remaining as her friend to help her in any way possible
3. Get agitated and hate her for being a nuisance
4. Try not to think about it, get rid of her and forget

For any course of actions chosen what is your reasons and what are you trying to achieve?

This is a hypothetical scenario. I want to hear from men's point of view.

Thanks


Hypothetical huh? :D

Ok ok...

Hypothetically, you should have known what you were getting into...

Hypothetically, you would dislike yourself should he really dump hs present gf/wife for you...

Hypothetically, you should sit down and have a heart to heart with him...to see what he wants...

Hypothetically, you can suggest being an FWB...enjoy the NSA sex without the problems...And still can hang out, but as friends only...

Hypothetically, you must tell him and especially yourself, that emotional attachment has no place in this relationship...

Hypothetically, your mind has to rule over your heart and you have to accept your role in this new relationship...

Hypothetically, you will enjoy this relationship if all rules are followed...it is not easy to find someone we want to be with...

Hypothetically, as much as you want to demand more from him, you understand what FWBs are entitled to...

Hypothetically, he and you will make each other happy for a long long time...

Hypothetically, you don't have to accept any of my hypothesis...but I suspect you will...because,

Hypothetically, you know that what I Hypothesized presents you with the best path for some ongoing happiness...And finally...

Hypothetically, you need not worry about how he deals with his side of things...because, hypothetically, an FWB has no obligation to care about that...


Hypothetically....best of luck to you...and do post back with your decision and the outcome thereafter...

Cheers, hypothetically of course....

:D

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[loneyheart]

b4 u start t relationship w him u know he is married ... so u should know t ending unless u want to break his family .... tat remind me of my affair ended 10 yrs ago :( think of it now still very sweet

[BiRd13]

Same... If can, try not to have any affair with colleague (Ex colleague are diff =X)

If really such thing happened, I guess will continue with the colleague, till break up...or have an 'agreement' in between on when this will last...

[DegenerationX]

This is a hypothetical scenario. I want to hear from men's point of view

U sure it's just a hypothetical scenario? Who would ask such a question out of the blue? Must have happened to you right? :D

Already told you before, dun eat and shit at the same place. See what shit u are getting into now :rolleyes:

[craby125]

Wanted more but cannot give? Mean what?

Want more sex or wanted more commitment?

If she knew u r already attached or married. She won't ask for more....
Come on lor, that's the rules.... It's a understanding between both parties.
Unless u r not honest in the first place, bro..

[littlepok]

dunno if u are chinese or malay but there's a saying goes

不吃浪费

this sums it all...

[Edyta]

Looks like the natural choice is 5 for a man.

So, if a man choose 1 or 2, he loves his wife/gf very much to not want to risk. And this is a forced choice, not a natural one.

This is still a hypothesis, sorry to disappoint. I must say there are indeed many talented story writers here.

[TheArtist]

I am more lucky, the colleague I fucked was married too. Started at company dnd, we were very close after having worked with one another for 6 years. Things went wrong that night. But I guess we both had a hard time explaining to our own spouses so the next day, we went back to being good friends and just lunch, dinner together etc.

[TreakSYT]

Looks like the natural choice is 5 for a man.

So, if a man choose 1 or 2, he loves his wife/gf very much to not want to risk. And this is a forced choice, not a natural one.

This is still a hypothesis, sorry to disappoint. I must say there are indeed many talented story writers here.

I don't think the girl will want a guy to choose 2. How can he still help her when she is trying to forget him. She will be more sad and miserable.

[SEXCRAZY]

I will try to breakup with her hopefully in a peaceful manner. Not worth breaking family if continue on...

Don't eat and shit at the same place next time ;)

[lovecpl]

I wouldnt even betray my partner at the first place. Think properly.

[thisisme]

I have few experiences with fellow colleagues. And all end up not so nice.
Fortunately, I have left those companies.
My advice to you is ... Never do with fellow colleagues.
You can't really break-up with them, since u r still seeing each other 5daya a week.
Unless u leave the company.

All you can do now is play your cards well, like few bros have said.
Good luck .. don't let them mess up ur career and family.