Will you tell ur gf about ur cheonging past?

[singleman]

hi all bros, like to hear ur comments or advice on the above title..

as we all have cheonging experiences.. like some or all of below,
- call pro at geylang,
- call FL
- hv FB
- hv ONS
- any other cheonging experiences

one day if u come across and start dating a girl, and u found u really like her, and if the girl ask u the following questions,
- did u call pro at GL before? think geylang is famous in sg, most girls oso know abt this place...
- did u hv sex with FL on ONS or hv FB?
- did u hv casual sex?

will u tell the girl the truth? I mean the truth is yes u indeed did hv some or all the above experience.

by telling the truth there is a chance that the girl will mind n leave u, then will u still tell the truth?

I myself is also a cheonging person.. sometime I wonder if one day I hv found a gf and she ask me abt these question, will I tell the truth to her on the expense that I may lose her.

Just a thought for ponder... thks

[Reoxy]

Some truths are better left half-said... or unsaid... ;)

[Castrol]

one day if u come across and start dating a girl, and u found u really like her, and if the girl ask u the following questions,
- did u call pro at GL before? think geylang is famous in sg, most girls oso know abt this place...
- did u hv sex with FL on ONS or hv FB?
- did u hv casual sex?

will u tell the girl the truth? I mean the truth is yes u indeed did hv some or all the above experience.


the truth is always - no we did not. :D

[jj_jj]

TS,

Why the F would u want to tell her the truth abt such things.
Would it help in the r/s?!
High chance of her leaving u.

Like Bro Reoxy said, some are better left unsaid.
Or it's u who wants to know abt her past?

[tttk3388]

Different girls have different level of acceptance. So i gonna be selective on what i wanna tell her ( Provided the things i telling her will help in a positive way). :rolleyes:

[singleman]

TS,

Why the F would u want to tell her the truth abt such things.
Would it help in the r/s?!
High chance of her leaving u.

Like Bro Reoxy said, some are better left unsaid.
Or it's u who wants to know abt her past?

hi bro, ur qns triggger me the thought of another qns.. will u ask ur gf about her past?

for me, personally i wont ask about her past. if i really like the girl so much, wad for i ask or concern her past.. everyone got a past be it good or bad. even if i know her past then will i or should i mind n leave her, if yes then ask back ourselve do we really like her so much?

just personal thinking.. of course different pple hv diff thinking on this..

thks

[onlyhuman]

eh no, i usually wont ask for trouble.

[Wizrd]

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:confused:

Are you getting a girlfriend or interviewing for a top secret police job? Why will she ask such questions and why would you answer??

If a girl ask me questions like that...I'll think there's something wrong with her...Anyway...

I'll say...yes baby..I've fuck almost everybody...if not for me, there will be no QC in GL or our FLers...and standards of Sg's sex industry will fall over, benefiting Malaysian pros...and if not for me, half the virgins in the world won't know how to fuck properly...I'm doing a selfless community service and I'm proud of it...now, how about you baby, have you ever been a FL, walked the streets of GL, have ONS...and who and how many people have you fucked?
Want to be honest baby? Let's be totally honest...that move when I fuck you from behind...you know, the one where you buck your butt against me? Who taught you that...I need to discuss with him and teach him a few other moves...


Then sit back and see how she reacts...


Na bei...do not cultivate the kaypohness in a woman...or you can simply say: Cheh, why a woman ask so much? Go get me another beer and peel those prawns before they get cold!


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[DegenerationX]

Of cos will not tell the truth. Put aside whether she will mind and leave you after knowing the truth. Even if she do not mind, she will still be on alert mode and you will have more difficulties to carry on cheonging :D

[Reoxy]

eh no, i usually wont ask for trouble.

How is Shanghai? :D

[jj_jj]

hi bro, ur qns triggger me the thought of another qns.. will u ask ur gf about her past?

for me, personally i wont ask about her past. if i really like the girl so much, wad for i ask or concern her past.. everyone got a past be it good or bad. even if i know her past then will i or should i mind n leave her, if yes then ask back ourselve do we really like her so much?



u oredi have my answer :)

[naan1974]

Tell her the truth, maybe she will oso surprise and tell u she's FL

[singleman]

Tell her the truth, maybe she will oso surprise and tell u she's FL

Haha.. so end up a guy who fuck alots of girls matched with a girl who being fucked alot by guys.. so a "perfect" match? haha... kidding...

[onlyhuman]

How is Shanghai? :D

Shanghai quite ok lor...u leh? How is SEA?

[SEXCRAZY]

Never... The after effect is disastrous ;)

[naturegreen]

The truth hurts. Let the past remain the past.

[sean69]

i will tell her the truth.. i am still a virgin .. *shy*... :p

[tanroy123]

Tell the truth that u r bad boy but change for her sake :cool:

[pipi486]

die die also cannot say~

[freezetheDB]

never bro

the secret life should always be kept secret.

even amongst friends and brotherhood, we only vaguely guess but never cheong together.

[1NinBKK]

That depends on my objectives...

1. If I get bored of her - I would (hoping that she will flare out and end the relationship)
2. If I don't intent to go far with her in this relationship - I would (nothing to lose)
3. If I'm serious - I won't (it's a no no ... Not worth the risk that she might turn and go) :D

[simple2kee]

say nothing.

[DevaPath]

I will tell her the truth, I'm serious.

But I want to hear about her past too, If I can accept her past, she should accept mine too, no one is perfect. If unfortunately, she is still a virgin, I will tell her that I'm sorry, I had been really lonely in the past. If she wants to break up, it will be sad but I will respect her decision.

The day that I started "playing", I have already foresee something like this would happen, I am mentally prepared. What has happened has already happened, there is no turning back.

[<<totally>>]

Every question I have to answer will require a reply to the same question from you. If not applicable to you, you will need to answer my question as a replacement.

Ladies first. ;)

[mentosmint]

I asked my guy abt his past.. And he told me 'all'. But I suspect is half said or half truth. Just dun lie and get caught.

Anyway, that is the past. As long as he don't go eat outside in future. It's perfectly alright with me.

It really depends on individual.
Some woman consider watching porn as betrayal.

Best answer is still your own judgement, to say it all, half or none.
After all, she's ur girl.

[NetRodent]

These days.. guys and gals are more opened and sexperienced at young age

These used to be taboo questions..

I believed it is perfectly alright to be very honest.

Having more sex prior partners will properly make your partner more willing to try out stuffs than her/his usual, just to stand out better.

How would you feel if your someone said to you, he/she had better?

My 2 cents worth..

[owl888]

if she never ask, juz hide this forever. If she ask, then why would she ask??? Most gf won't ask this kinda questions:confused:

[LovePotion]

Aiya, dont say lah. Later you get yourself into trouble.
Say only if she ask or tell her in a jokingly method and just faster change topic afterwards. Hope it helps!

[man-on-fire]

girls will forgive but never will forget

they will travel back to the past whenever u quarrel with them

[needtofuck]

Girls will always say that in a relationship there must be honesty and they just want to know the truth.

I will tell them that everyone is entitled to a past and to be Honest, they cannot handle the Truth.

So don't Ask !

[sheena]

i bet the girl never have casuals sex before. That is the reason why she is asking it bout u.
I dont think she is wrong for asking it.
If u dont want ur girlfriend to ask this type of question, then u should find a girl who is open minded and also who is already have many casuals sex before.
You must honest to tell her, else if she find out her own, she will be more mad.
Thing cannot keep secret forever. There is no forever secret.
Someday , one day , finally out of no where, the wind of secret will blow to her ears.. She will leave u if she find out her own cos she feel u are not honest and she dont know how to trust u.

Tell her honestly ur past.
What girl really appreciate is honesty and you really make the promise to change and not empty talk.

[lbk2020]

girl is still a girl, she still like the sweet talk.
:cool:

[HornynWetGal]

No no to tell a gal e truth. The result to tell e truth is DeadMeat. When u make lOve with her, she will knOw it. So expert on bed. For me, I rather not know e truth. He used to cheong, I dun care. As long as he dun cheong or two timer when he is with me.

[ahtat77]

i will not...it's not something to be proud of...:D my gf got worried the first time we had sex...i was more experienced than her...