Need a soulmate

[Forver]

I am tired of FL.
I just want to look for a soulmate without commitment ...
is it that hard ?

[L300]

care to pm me if u dun mind

[I.m.Jim]

TS, I think you are referring to a FB not soul mate without paying. Nothing is free in this world honestly, you might end up paying more than you pay for a FL.

[Asianguy]

If you found your soulmate, I'm sure you would be 100% committed :D

[littlepok]

actually i know what the TS is referring to. FL gives u a sense of emptiness once u cum and she dress up, rushing to next spot. damn sianz...

it depends what state u are in. eg if u are attached/married, just want to cum and get on with being loving bf or hubby, i think it is fine.

however if u are single, bored and horny, prolonged FL period will make u more sian, want gf, want soulmate, want FB who give u the GFE without the commitment.

[DevaPath]

I am tired of FL.
I just want to look for a soulmate without commitment ...
is it that hard ?

I share your pain. Keep searching bro, I'm sure you can find one.

actually i know what the TS is referring to. FL gives u a sense of emptiness once u cum and she dress up, rushing to next spot. damn sianz...

it depends what state u are in. eg if u are attached/married, just want to cum and get on with being loving bf or hubby, i think it is fine.

however if u are single, bored and horny, prolonged FL period will make u more sian, want gf, want soulmate, want FB who give u the GFE without the commitment.

I totally agree. I still remember the first time I tried an FL, after the session, I felt worse than ever.

While walking away from her place, I was thinking to myself, "I have finally done it.. So that's it.."

I'm still visiting FL today, it is an endless loop of cycle until something/someone break these chains. It is hard to do things alone, humans are social/group animals.

[Weiwei88]

I have nv engage a FL before. I only have one partner in my life. And I want find FB. But I don't even dare to start up a topic with a gal for FB. Always waiting for gal to ask ! Haha. But that is impossible. So TS. If want find a FB need action.

[AppleSYT]

I am tired of FL.
I just want to look for a soulmate without commitment ...
is it that hard ?

I once have two FB around the same period, that was shiok!
But imagine if you are the girl, I don't think there will be anyone willing to provide you with free sex forever, they are just deeply in love with you and waiting for you to make decision. But it won't last.

For us, we have to remember we only has one wife, your outside life cannot bring inside. :)

[littlepok]

I have nv engage a FL before. I only have one partner in my life. And I want find FB. But I don't even dare to start up a topic with a gal for FB. Always waiting for gal to ask ! Haha. But that is impossible. So TS. If want find a FB need action.

nobody plans to be an FB and usually u don't ask. just have the right atmosphere, screw then talk. if like the arrangement, just meet for dinner then screw again. she wants it as much as u do.

if a guy paiseh to ask for FB, u think the gal dare to ask? super minority will only

[GoldPool]

care to pm me if u dun mind

Wish you good luck.

[kongkek]

maybe u r not looking in the correct place? :)

[wally888]

Go clubbing, its the rite place to find ur desires :D

[Iloveschgirls]

Go out and make friends.

[syt_punisher]

There is no free lunch in the world, unless you look like Tom Cruise or Andy Lau.

[unsung80]

Whatever it is, you will still be lonely in the end.

[Forver]

Sex is not everything ....
Like some bro mentioned, a FL will only give u emptiness when the time is up.
I want someone that i can share my happiness with, someone that is sincere in replying my messages. Kisses with true passion. But i dun wan to commit.

i dun wan to get tied down and eventually one day, both of us get sick and tired of each other. I dun wan to feel jealous when she is out with someone else, i dun wan her to control my every movement.

I wan to fly like a bird, yet i wish someone is there, truly caring for me

[kurosaki ichigo]

Your wants are mutually exclusive. It is so ironic but I believe every man wants the exact same thing :D

[sgjoey]

What you want is the freedom of an open relationship. Unfortunately the odds of having such a relationship are small because from young, we have been socially conditioned to think in terms of monogamous relationships. Until society becomes more enlightened about the true facts concerning human nature, your desires will probably remain unfulfilled. At least you can still turn to fl.

[twisty]

Things need time to happen but first you got to try making friends or leave it be and see how it goes. You'll never know because life is full of surprises.

[Zwbff]

Soulmate n fuck dont mix. Just like woman & investment never go hand in hand.

[Forver]

many had asked me to go around get to know more people
I there are a few ladies which i started off with, but then in the end, things din work out for us because they could not just stop as a FB or Soulmate and gotten deeply emotionally demanding and attached

[lysw82]

U r lucky enuff to even manage to take the few first stepa n engage with the ladies.
Some bros r not as lucky as u tats y llst go FL.
Maybe when u start with a lady, come clean with her n let her know where u stand upfront.
But normally such actions will mean lesser gal coming to u...
Try harder to find ba...

[ishiok]

spot on..bro....

[spidey7]

R u a female? Pm mi. I'm oso lookg 4ppl who r NSA. U shd b a guy TS.

[otamay]

R u a female? Pm mi. I'm oso lookg 4ppl who r NSA. U shd b a guy TS.

Me too, if you are a female can also pm me:)

[sean69]

I am tired of FL.
I just want to look for a soulmate without commitment ...
is it that hard ?

a soulmate without commitment is a holemate... :D

[sunnt]

actually i know what the TS is referring to. FL gives u a sense of emptiness once u cum and she dress up, rushing to next spot. damn sianz...

it depends what state u are in. eg if u are attached/married, just want to cum and get on with being loving bf or hubby, i think it is fine.

however if u are single, bored and horny, prolonged FL period will make u more sian, want gf, want soulmate, want FB who give u the GFE without the commitment.

Hi Little Pok,

Totally understand how you felt. Many people walked out proudly thinking they had done the deed, but for me, I felt even more sad and depress because its "making love out of nothing at all". I would like to do it with someone i love.

There are many people who thinks that guys can just fuck and fuck, but i believe there are also quite a few bros here whom really like to do it only with the people they love.

Agree?

[LiCksLiCksLiCks]

Hi Little Pok,

Totally understand how you felt. Many people walked out proudly thinking they had done the deed, but for me, I felt even more sad and depress because its "making love out of nothing at all". I would like to do it with someone i love.

There are many people who thinks that guys can just fuck and fuck, but i believe there are also quite a few bros here whom really like to do it only with the people they love.

Agree?

errrr if you only do it only with the one you love. Are you single? if not why are you here?

[DreamOfLust]

Soulmate n fuck dont mix. Just like woman & investment never go hand in hand.

haha... i like the 2nd part

[luvpuss]

There is no free lunch in the world, unless you look like Tom Cruise or Andy Lau.

or justin lee, hahaha that guy got buffet lunch

[queeniegal]

Sunnt

I agreed but guys are nt into commitment these days even single.

Likewise for ladies too. But like someone and love someone is also diff.. I still dont understand what commitment stand for if you are not in the hurry of getting married.

Just enjoy the process of dating shd be good till the time is ripe then level up? Consider commitment?

[Asianguy]

Sunnt

I agreed but guys are nt into commitment these days even single.

Likewise for ladies too. But like someone and love someone is also diff.. I still dont understand what commitment stand for if you are not in the hurry of getting married.

Just enjoy the process of dating shd be good till the time is ripe then level up? Consider commitment?

So it's OK for for you and your 'non-committal partner' to have multiple sexual partners until and unless there is dicussion and action taken towards marriage?

That is a very enlightened view and one that i support. You just have to be honest that taking such an approach is not causing you emotional pain. I have tried it and it did affect me. It was easy when I had a 'open' approach but when my partner started being 'open' it was not as easy to stay open.

Imagine a kid and a playground. We may think that for the kid, he/she is just being a kid by playing at the many playgrounds that comes into his/her life. and as a kid moves around, there will be many playground that presents itself. The playground then just stays in its place and waits for the kid to come play in it. But what if there are other kids that start playing in the playground, taking up your favorite swing or see-saw? What happens when the kid comes back to see that the playground is no longer exclusive to him/her?

Some may be ok with open relationships. Some may not. Either way, what is called for is open and honest communication is a loving and gentle manner. The moment one party chooses to 'confide in a 'sister' or 'brother' instead of one's own partner, honest and open communication starts to breakdown.

I do not mean to impose any view. I am just sharing what works for me. For now, both kid and playground prefers to play in the same playground and to have only one kid exclusively at this playground. :D

[Gal12]

Very difficult to find a soulmate nowadays

[pixiedust]

You sure you wanna find someone here? =]

Lots of time, people will say that, finding a soulmate here, no fcuking etc is impossible. but I found mine here a couple of months back. and from a "no commitments" status, to "falling in love", things just got more complicated. I wish I could find someone here again, to replace that "soulmate" who broke my heart. but somehow, ii know it's impossible ba. =]

good luck and enjoy finding your soulmate. ^^

[queeniegal]

So it's OK for for you and your 'non-committal partner' to have multiple sexual partners until and unless there is dicussion and action taken towards marriage?

That is a very enlightened view and one that i support. You just have to be honest that taking such an approach is not causing you emotional pain. I have tried it and it did affect me. It was easy when I had a 'open' approach but when my partner started being 'open' it was not as easy to stay open.

Imagine a kid and a playground. We may think that for the kid, he/she is just being a kid by playing at the many playgrounds that comes into his/her life. and as a kid moves around, there will be many playground that presents itself. The playground then just stays in its place and waits for the kid to come play in it. But what if there are other kids that start playing in the playground, taking up your favorite swing or see-saw? What happens when the kid comes back to see that the playground is no longer exclusive to him/her?

Some may be ok with open relationships. Some may not. Either way, what is called for is open and honest communication is a loving and gentle manner. The moment one party chooses to 'confide in a 'sister' or 'brother' instead of one's own partner, honest and open communication starts to breakdown.

I do not mean to impose any view. I am just sharing what works for me. For now, both kid and playground prefers to play in the same playground and to have only one kid exclusively at this playground. :D

Ha.. Having partner or soulmate does or open relationship does nt means he or she can slp ard after all they have to be responsible to each other if they have sex together shd stick to one partner n not having multiple partners.

PlAces like states they hv common law marriage they are nt husband n wife they are partners but in certain ways they are committed but is certain way they are nt by view of law.

[MrJD]

You sure you wanna find someone here? =]

Lots of time, people will say that, finding a soulmate here, no fcuking etc is impossible. but I found mine here a couple of months back. and from a "no commitments" status, to "falling in love", things just got more complicated. I wish I could find someone here again, to replace that "soulmate" who broke my heart. but somehow, ii know it's impossible ba. =]

good luck and enjoy finding your soulmate. ^^


Its not easy to find a replacement. You may have tons of GF and non of them are. If you find one! hold on and don't let go.

[littlepok]

Hi Little Pok,

Totally understand how you felt. Many people walked out proudly thinking they had done the deed, but for me, I felt even more sad and depress because its "making love out of nothing at all". I would like to do it with someone i love.

There are many people who thinks that guys can just fuck and fuck, but i believe there are also quite a few bros here whom really like to do it only with the people they love.

Agree?

i used to patronise FL from time to time, not frequent. if u just want to ease off, go and pay, wash up together, BJ pump and cum. dress up and move on. go FL is fine to me, for your purpose is just a different pussy and breasts to squeeze (hoping it is real).

however, if u are just plain bored and want some company, finding FL is the worst decision u can make because it just make u even more sucky in the end. The commercialised feel really sucks. Ever tried those FL that act so loving and GFE (till u enter the room). Ask u faster la then even watch tv blah blah. you get zero satisfaction as their CB is bigger than your fist so she do not feel anything at all, just check nails and hp while u pump. after that, see u cum liao they just wash and pack up and go off. lie down there like a big cock.

ideal case of sex is with someone u love or have feelings for (in short is GFE la) but sometimes it is not. most of the time, your wife / gf is not your ideal sex partner, who got lots of don'ts and NOs. trying to stretch the limit they will get pissed, coz u make them feel like a whore. for those whose wife/gf give u a good BJ and sex, treasure them even more, they are rare u know?

[Rickey]

Very difficult to find a soulmate nowadays
Yes, sis Gal12, u r quite rite, it is really not easy to find a soulmate esp a male one cos frm men's pov it is a lose lose situation for them, it is almost like an investment of no returns for them...few wld be like me, who wld accept such a deal...most would not, if there r no sexual benefits...they may not mind to start out as one but most wld definitely wanna deepen it into a sexual r/s as time goes by...but here's where the problem lies...if the guy is not her cup of tea, most of the ladies would not welcome tat..so they will withdraw n initiate the break-up.. not many ladies oso like to be soulmates, they wld rather prefer to be FBs or FWBs...jus my 3 cents worth of tot..


You sure you wanna find someone here? =]

Lots of time, people will say that, finding a soulmate here, no fcuking etc is impossible. but I found mine here a couple of months back. and from a "no commitments" status, to "falling in love", things just got more complicated. I wish I could find someone here again, to replace that "soulmate" who broke my heart. but somehow, ii know it's impossible ba. =]

good luck and enjoy finding your soulmate. ^^

Wow !, sis pixiedust, urs is kinda special case tat progressed frm 'soulmate' to 'bedmate' :)...i empathise wif u, sis though for the eventual break-up...i can feel the hurt u hv been thru' :( ..but dun be disillusioned...there is still hope..it is not impossible to find another one...jus need to take a little bit more time than usual cos they r not many of them around cos of the disadvantage to them mentioned abv...

Its not easy to find a replacement. You may have tons of GF and non of them are. If you find one! hold on and don't let go.
Yes, bro..u r so rite !!...see my signature below !..never ever let them go for any reason !

[NetRodent]

Definition of soulmate from Wikipedia:
A soulmate (or soul mate) is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity,[1] similarity, love, sex, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, or compatibility.

My take, soulmate is like best friends you could confide to, or your best person to turn to when you need a listener, or seeking advice. A person would understand you well.

It is definitely hard to find a soulmate in SBF, even in real world.

You probably can find FB, FwB, KC-ing FL much more easier in SBF, as the latter definition are closely associated with sexual activities.

Whereas soulmate don't required sex to establish the already-comfortable relationship, but it would help to tighten the bond.

[Rickey]

Definition of soulmate from Wikipedia:
A soulmate (or soul mate) is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity,[1] similarity, love, sex, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, or compatibility.

My take, soulmate is like best friends you could confide to, or your best person to turn to when you need a listener, or seeking advice. A person would understand you well. It is definitely hard to find a soulmate in SBF, even in real world.

You probably can find FB, FwB, KC-ing FL much more easier in SBF, as the latter definition are closely associated with sexual activities.

Whereas soulmate don't required sex to establish the already-comfortable relationship, but it would help to tighten the bond.
Thank you, bro NetRodent, for bringing us the Wikipedia definition of 'soulmate' :)...so well described...Oso like ur own simple yet factual view of tis kinda r/s..my fren was in one such r/s, treated her very well but alas even tat she eventually initiated a break-up wif him..sigh :(..wat kinda of world r we living in if there r ladies like her who choose to respond in such unappreciative way for reasons best known to themselves

[pixiedust]

Wow !, sis pixiedust, urs is kinda special case tat progressed frm 'soulmate' to 'bedmate' :)...i empathise wif u, sis though for the eventual break-up...i can feel the hurt u hv been thru' :( ..but dun be disillusioned...there is still hope..it is not impossible to find another one...jus need to take a little bit more time than usual cos they r not many of them around cos of the disadvantage to them mentioned abv...

Haha. It's not "bedmate" la. Just became to a normal boy-girl relationship lurh.. =]

[MrJD]

Yes, bro..u r so rite !!...see my signature below !..never ever let them go for any reason !

Agree, not giving up no matter how difficult it is on my MRS.

[Sirrus]

There is no free lunch in the world, unless you look like Tom Cruise or Andy Lau.

even those 2 no free lunch. after the girl makan full liao will blackmail them for money and gifts

[LovePotion]

I dont think it is that difficult. What i feel is that those going to become your soulmate would think that you wanna up them then want them to be their soulmate....

[shiokpleasure]

I share your pain. Keep searching bro, I'm sure you can find one.



I totally agree. I still remember the first time I tried an FL, after the session, I felt worse than ever.

While walking away from her place, I was thinking to myself, "I have finally done it.. So that's it.."

I'm still visiting FL today, it is an endless loop of cycle until something/someone break these chains. It is hard to do things alone, humans are social/group animals.

Gangbang? It can be a very social thing.

[shiokpleasure]

If any ladies need a soulmate, I'm sure I'll be a very good one. Sex not necessary. Companionship would be great.

Anyone interested, feel free to pm me.

[SimplyUnperfect]

I am tired of FL.
I just want to look for a soulmate without commitment ...
is it that hard ?

Soulmate without commitment
Yes u can find but tats depend on fate ...
Make sure tats there is NO SEX involved

[Sorbxe]

many had asked me to go around get to know more people
I there are a few ladies which i started off with, but then in the end, things din work out for us because they could not just stop as a FB or Soulmate and gotten deeply emotionally demanding and attached

I see u have been at this since 2012. Here’s a bump for u. I’ve had some success finding FBs here and on various chat apps, so just letting u know not to give up!

Persistence is the key. Read:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/ramblerr.com/how-is-persistence-the-best-habit-for-success/

However, don’t need be like a fly:

https://www.quora.com/Why-do-insects-always-die-on-window-sills

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/39617671701360049/

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/39617671701360049/

You sure you wanna find someone here? =]

Lots of time, people will say that, finding a soulmate here, no fcuking etc is impossible. but I found mine here a couple of months back. and from a "no commitments" status, to "falling in love", things just got more complicated. I wish I could find someone here again, to replace that "soulmate" who broke my heart. but somehow, ii know it's impossible ba. =]

good luck and enjoy finding your soulmate. ^^

Found my NSA FB / FWB / Soulmate here as well.

[larue]

Soulmate?

Fucking joke. You just want someone you can fuck and dump as when you want to.

[LordVader]

or justin lee, hahaha that guy got buffet lunch

Now in jail, he became the buffet?

HAHAHAHAHAH

[Rickey]

I am tired of FL.
I just want to look for a soulmate without commitment ...
is it that hard ?
Yes, very difficult :(...not as easy as FLs...chances are only 5% thereabt of guys r successful