High Sex Drive advice needed

[SammyNewbie]

I actually wonder why I didn't ask this.

Well, I can pop every day once a day. And more often than not, this leads me to think about sex all the time. I kind of don't know what I should do... cause the drive is very high... then if I kio kway(go geylang) everyday, will kio until pok eye(go broke).

Problem is that now I am abit addicted to commercial sex... cause most of them time, having gal to bj you or whatever feels better than DIY, then got a body there you not so lonely.

I don't know what I should be doing about it. Cause I not like bros that can pop 3-5 times one night and after that not think of sex anymore ^^".

Mine is pop... got no mood for rest of the day... need to pop next day >.<".

[wally888]

Go see Doc "pa zaim"....but dunno will cause high sex drive to no sex drive :D

[PIAGET]

Maybe ur too free. Find something to do, maybe u'll feel less horny

[Arniki]

HI TS,

me too have very high sex drive.
just something to share with u : for me i will reward my self, once i complete a "goal" or an "achievement". Than and only than i allow my self to "Play "

there something interesting that u might wanna take a look :
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080428062406AAqmB2e
http://brightmiracles.com/blog/sex-transmutation-the-nuclear-power-within-us-to-create/

[Stud00]

TS, i presume u have a real big, fat, and healthy bank account.. :)))

[SexyStan]

Bro

It appears u are dealing w/ slight sex addiction or what some may refer to as sexual compulsivity (actually, I believe most SG guys do have mild symptoms of it). I am neither a qualified a psychiatristnor psychologist, so I can't offer much advices here; Nonetheless, some basic info may be found here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_addiction.

Generally, we all feel biological urges. But when there is a recurrent failure pattern to resist impulses to engage in acts of sexual gratification, and these patterns form a habit that prevents one from living or being interested in things other than sex or makes one mind more difficult to be stimulated by activities other sex, it poses a problem that will affect you ultimately.

Counselling might help, but most importantly, you need to identify if the problem is affecting you and the way you live. Ultimately, medications can't really help with the problem in the long run, its one being aware of the problem and taking the courage and determination to change one's life, i.e. behavorial conditioning.

Hope this helps.

[<<totally>>]

HI TS,

me too have very high sex drive.
just something to share with u : for me i will reward my self, once i complete a "goal" or an "achievement". Than and only than i allow my self to "Play "

there something interesting that u might wanna take a look :
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080428062406AAqmB2e
http://brightmiracles.com/blog/sex-transmutation-the-nuclear-power-within-us-to-create/

The answer by author yasmin was pretty well written. Using that drive and converted it to something productivity. The part with heroine as a comparison is interesting.

From what i know, drugs such as meth has effects on a person sexual desire. It will make a normal person into someone wanting sex. But it defers from individual.

If you do not know what to do with it, the direction towards getting things done with that drive will be a better way.:)

[fabiann]

i wish i am young same same u... now sometimes i think of commercial sex i also abit sian... :rolleyes:

[Big Sexy]

do you work?
if no, get yourself a job or find something else to do..
like gardening...:D



problem is that now I am abit addicted to commercial sex... cause most of them time, having gal to bj you or whatever feels better than DIY, then got a body there you not so lonely.

.

[SammyNewbie]

Now looking for job also ...

Just go interview today ^.^.

[yangguo]

Now looking for job also ...

Just go interview today ^.^.

Wow... Jobless still got money to go bonk WL everyday? :eek:

[notti4u]

Now looking for job also ...

Just go interview today ^.^.

Oh ok, bro, hope you did not apply for the position I advertised. If not, I will have a horny man in my department that DIY every day and not able to work properly..... hahaha....

[xxFTOxx]

Lol I was used to be like tat b4....need to have it at least 2 times a day with my ex...sometimes more. But as u grow older I tink sex drive tends to dip a bit. U must be still young lolz but dun wank too much else later on the bed cannot perform cuz the feeling different from ur hand. :D

[SiliconVibrator]

i tink u still young n energetic la, me nw think of massage n getting special oso sian liao n its been for a month plus.

[ownya]

bro trust me, you won't need to worry bout your addiction now cz if you do it everyday one fine day you'll get bored and have lower sex drive due to increase in commitments and stress in your life

[littlepok]

think in the other way, DIY save u 100 each time for that 20-30mins of pleasure. try the other way, watch a different porn everyday and jerk off. as mentioned by another bro, the kio kuay should be a reward, cap at max once a day. keeping yourself occupied through reading, gaming and work should take your attention off also.

find a power hungry FB, u will pok gai from booking hotel, unless she or u got own room. buy condom also ex though...

everything cost $ in singapore

[onlyhuman]

u are fine la...trust me you cant be spending more $$ than me on FL :D

[SammyNewbie]

Haha... Ok.

I shall try to go back to my normal routine before I was introduced to the wonderful sights and sounds of Geylang Rouge.

Hehe... I already know alot about self pleasure from reading the internet... but after going GL... I now know that there are alot more places other than the tool that after being lightly touched and licked tthat can also turn you on XD. Going to have to find job or accept some offer first. Then can go back to the weekly routine of once a week... probably cause of the job... so some of the tension and energy will be channeled elsewhere, so won't be as bad. ^^.

[5ag1_Boar]

Some bros have given sound advice above, especially about getting a routine, etc.

If you need help, consider going to IMH and see a therapist for sex addiction... definitely cheaper then "kio kway" every day. They'll give you a structured way to help yourself. If nothing else, go in and see them once and see what they say.

[naturegreen]

Some bros have given sound advice above, especially about getting a routine, etc.

If you need help, consider going to IMH and see a therapist for sex addiction... definitely cheaper then "kio kway" every day. They'll give you a structured way to help yourself. If nothing else, go in and see them once and see what they say.

Ya who knows you may gain a new FB also from IMH who is having a similar problem like yours?

[TehGaDai]

Ya who knows you may gain a new FB also from IMH who is having a similar problem like yours?

Hahaha! :D Pretty ok lah. What if fat/ugly? ............. :D

[inbed007]

HI TS,

me too have very high sex drive.
just something to share with u : for me i will reward my self, once i complete a "goal" or an "achievement". Than and only than i allow my self to "Play "

there something interesting that u might wanna take a look :
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080428062406AAqmB2e
http://brightmiracles.com/blog/sex-transmutation-the-nuclear-power-within-us-to-create/

My friend was in similar situation. He has high sex drive, higher than average achiever in career, pretty wife with low sex drive, and kids. Every time he finishes his tasks/projects, he allows himself to play. But as he is quite efficient, he achieved more and played more that costs him dearly. He is not broke but he couldn't save much. I suggested him to go for a FB. He said no FB for now for fear of kc.

Any advice?

[naturegreen]

Hahaha! :D Pretty ok lah. What if fat/ugly? ............. :D

If want free one cannot hiam....