How To Make A Man Feel Love In Sex

[peachbloom]

I will like to find out how a man will FEEL LOVE (not referring to ONS, FB, commercial etc.) in terms of love making with the your loved ones.

1) Do you like it slow or straight to the point?
2) Do you enjoy foreplay like the ladies? If yes, what kind of foreplay do you prefer. Kissing and cuddling on the neck, chest, other body parts etc?
3) Would the real act make you feel love? How would the real act make you feel love?
4) Does blowjob make you feel love? How would it make you feel love?
5) What do you prefer to do after the session to make it complete.

[GorDJilla]

I prefer it nice & slow.. Foreplay is a must.. Kissing, licking & sucking... Aft sex, i'd love to cuddle & planting a few kisses here & there. Hehe :D

[efftee]

Hmm.. I guess it does depend on situation.. At times it's nice for it to be fast and furious.. But in general, if it's an intimate setting and all in the private space, I would like it nice and slow.

For me I like giving. I like to see the girl enjoying first and that turns on. Maybe that's why the porn videos always have the fake moans, because it really does turn a guy on. Foreplay for me would be being the initiator, ie stroking the girl's back, kissing. In a way, it's probably different from how the ladies like it.

After the session, cuddling and stroking and kissing is great! Something like the spoon position. Just that closeness is nice

[MrYoung]

My following answer is according to someone who also love you deeply.

1) Do you like it slow or straight to the point?
I will go according to her needs and rythm. depends on her facial expression i will moderate my speed.

2) Do you enjoy foreplay like the ladies? If yes, what kind of foreplay do you prefer. Kissing and cuddling on the neck, chest, other body parts etc?
Fore play usually will be started off by me. i will cat bathe her, till i can eat her brain out. follow by hot steam 69.

3) Would the real act make you feel love? How would the real act make you feel love?
The real act do make me feel love. The more she moan and ask for me, the better and more love i feel.

4) Does blowjob make you feel love? How would it make you feel love?
BJ do make me feel loved but my partner do not like giving it. so ...

5) What do you prefer to do after the session to make it complete.
Just cuddle up or sleep holding hands.

Like i said, all this based on loving each other. my personal liking.

[asdfghjkl]

i also interested to hear from other sis here..

[sean69]

lets leave sex out for a while..

how to make a man feel in love? .. its takes a lot of effort on both side

1. make him feel needed, ask for his help once in a while
2. do not take him for granted
3. do not keep nagging... do u hate it when she says, "i give up, i do want to remind you again".. and the next min, she is at it again
4. give him some space/time to be alone
5. don't put him down in front of his relatives/friends


once there is love.. the sex will be good..

[Xgenre]

A man will feel loved in sex when you bring along another girl. If you bring along another man, he will feel hatred instead. Not only is he going to watch another man enjoy himself with you, your man will need to guard his own backside against sneak attacks. ;) Just kidding, by the way.

A lot depends on the age of the couple and the level of prior sexual experience and experimentation. If your bf is a NS boy, after 1 week in camp, he will just want it straight to the point. If both of you are older and wiser, then you will want to experience sex like a glass of fine wine. That is, under optimal conditions only. When you savour wine, you have got to wait for your wine to be chilled, then swirl it around for the smell test, look for colour of wine etc right? Sex is the same lah. It's a process, not just a race to orgasm.

If you read the FRs that guys write, guys do enjoy foreplay. Ladies might enjoy kissing and cuddling on neck and chest as you had mentioned. Guys have other zones. Often, you read about catbath and assrim. Seems like a lot of guys enjoy that. So will you learn to provide that if you are serious in making a man feel loved?

Blowjobs won't make us feel more loved but the absence of a blowjob will make us feel unloved. Learn to give a good blowjob. Your pussy will not be forever tight but the lips of your mouth can be forever tight. Mint sweet in mouth, hot and cold water blowjob, these are essential skills to keep a man these days. Oh, do you swallow? 1 more thing. Remember to enjoy yourself and moan too. A lot of SG girls don't moan in bed. Guys tend to call such girls 'dead fish'. I personally think that term is very insulting, to the dead fish that is. The fish is dead, that's why it's not reacting, what reactions do we want from dead stuff right? On the other hand, the ladies are...

For me, I love to chat after sex. Just hug in bed and talk. That completes a nice session. If I can chat with 2 ladies in bed after sex, even better! :p

[owl888]

I notice Sg wifey seldom make love to Sg man - reasons like work pressure, tired, not interested, etc. all sorts of excuses!

Even if code red, still can do BBBJ or worst HJ.....

So imho, i think so long as when there's needs sextisfy him, he'll appreciate u very much:)

[BiRd13]

I will like to find out how a man will FEEL LOVE (not referring to ONS, FB, commercial etc.) in terms of love making with the your loved ones.

1) Do you like it slow or straight to the point?
2) Do you enjoy foreplay like the ladies? If yes, what kind of foreplay do you prefer. Kissing and cuddling on the neck, chest, other body parts etc?
3) Would the real act make you feel love? How would the real act make you feel love?
4) Does blowjob make you feel love? How would it make you feel love?
5) What do you prefer to do after the session to make it complete.

Love is not just a 1 min or 1hr thingy... But a forever kind... I don't really believe in 'love in 1st sight', as I think probably more towards 'attraction'... But well, if making love with my love one, below is my personal liking...

1) I enjoy slow... and some fast time... and slow again... and shuper fast till release...
2) I guess ALL will love foreplay... But depending on situation also... Sometime just want quickie, so will cut off all the foreplay etc.. If no time permit, will love all foreplay... Be it handjob... blowjob... or even cuddle, kissing, and licking all over will be great as well...
3) Entering your love one, will be of great plessure compare to entering a pros or other... The feeling is just somehow different... Especially when you are able to release inside of her... I guess it's all Man's Heaven :)
4) Not only blowjob, probably even a handjob from the one you love, you will feel satisfied... even there's no release... Its' the intimation you have between both...
5) Cuddle, kissing.. touching each other... and probably a few more rounds... :D

[rubberduckygirl]

I think it really boils down to which state you and your man are.

New couples would want to explore more about each other and perhaps try out exciting things and fulfill their fantasy. It would varies between fast and slow, depending on the mood of you two.

But if you two are already in a long term relationship or married, I supposed the love making sessions would be more of a sensual one. That's when you tend to go slower when exploring the different parts of the body, giving more attention.

My boy had hinted me many times that he would preferred me to make the first move - to initiate foreplay. Again, depending which part is the most sensitive for your man, leave that for the last. You can start with just cuddling, looking into his eyes, licking his neck or ears. It helps him to get into the mood, and be relaxed.

Blowjob or not, it doesnt really matter. Its the thought that counts. How do you make him feel appreciated and loved and wanted by you. Afterall sex or lovemaking, its all about bringing the two of you closer, to a more intimate level.

Usually after the session me and my boy would lie down on our sides, look deep into each other eyes and have a talk. Family, work issues, soccer (yes, me and my boy are rivals. HAHA!) and any other issues on hand.

Well, there are other times I am so dead tired, i fell asleep shortly after the end of the session. and the naughty boy would sometimes rouse me up from my sleep for a round 2. :P

Ultimately, i still think its important to satisfy each other needs when the urge calls upon.

I rather he does it with me, than to go out and find FB or FL behind my back.

[JohnnyStorm]

I notice Sg wifey seldom make love to Sg man - reasons like work pressure, tired, not interested, etc. all sorts of excuses!

Even if code red, still can do BBBJ or worst HJ.....

So imho, i think so long as when there's needs sextisfy him, he'll appreciate u very much:)

Very true.