Frustrations with your Wife

[brownie90]

To all bros… I have been thinking for the longest time since married for the many years, and can’t help but feel god damn deprived… deprived of what a man should be granted… and ultimate sex life of fark job, blow job, and sorts from the person the law has permitted… the rightful wife…
If one was to describe my sex life… there’s only one word… BORING! Despite the efforts to coerce and beg… a nothing more than a ‘I fuck you, cum, and end’ type of sex… damn it I just can’t help but feel that she’s just fulfilling her obliged role of a wife in the area of sex. I have been trying to convince her to go further into sex… to do some nice blow jobs on me, but to no avails…
I have almost no avenue to vent my frustrations!! Can you imagine? My wife never allowed me to fuck her without CAPS (with the exception of that few months for a reason, and you know what).
Sometimes I ponder upon what had I done wrong to deserve such punitive returns. Although not getting good sex from her is never a good reason to fuck other girls out there… but fuck, a man is a man. If one’s not getting it good at home… he’s got to find alternatives…
Perhaps a few good bros have good tips in coercing a fucking sex-conserved woman to release her inner tiger!! TELL ME. Please.

[ck1961]

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[Chelsea SPA]

Show her the newspaper article about the Obedience Wife Club that encourages wifes to be better than a prositute !!

Ask her to join the club :D

[kepalatotbesar]

ur wife have a lover outside whom she enjoy sucking alot..tats y u got no bj from her

[orneryjoe]

TS...

The answer to your problem is quite an obvious one. Maybe you are just living in denial and just hoping that someone would point out the obvious to you.

Ok... I will help you point out the obvious.

Cross over to the dark side.

I did... and am having the time of my life.

ONLY ONE LIFE TO LIVE.

[bigfat]

Ts! My wife also like tat.. Don say urs only and I believe most of our bro here are like tat..

Well, honestly speaking who don like gal to bj u?? I think most of them like..

To me, my wife don like to do bj, fj etc etc, (tats y I come this forum) haha
I also don like my wife to bj me coz I respect her. Don wan her to do this (dirty) stuff...

When I wan to have baby, she will say not free la, not in a mood la, no time to accompany baby etc etc.. She say why not we adopt a baby lo.. I ask her why not we divorce, she shock and promise me she will giving birth after 25..
Den siao siao lo have to wait!!!

Bro Bo bian one la, must find a reason why she don wan!!!

Good luck to u and other bros!!!

[Canoneos]

The key is attending to her needs first, not yours. If she has been taught that sex is dirty then you need to change her mindset. If she never orgasmed then you need to try and get her there. Romance her, tell her she is sexy, play with her pussy until she comes, introduce porn, etc.

If she truly loves you, she will respond. If all fails, then it could be a deep psychological or physical problem. I'd then suggest eating out.

[Kosh]

To all bros… I have been thinking for the longest time since married for the many years, and can’t help but feel god damn deprived… deprived of what a man should be granted… and ultimate sex life of fark job, blow job, and sorts from the person the law has permitted… the rightful wife…
If one was to describe my sex life… there’s only one word… BORING! Despite the efforts to coerce and beg… a nothing more than a ‘I fuck you, cum, and end’ type of sex… damn it I just can’t help but feel that she’s just fulfilling her obliged role of a wife in the area of sex. I have been trying to convince her to go further into sex… to do some nice blow jobs on me, but to no avails…
I have almost no avenue to vent my frustrations!! Can you imagine? My wife never allowed me to fuck her without CAPS (with the exception of that few months for a reason, and you know what).
Sometimes I ponder upon what had I done wrong to deserve such punitive returns. Although not getting good sex from her is never a good reason to fuck other girls out there… but fuck, a man is a man. If one’s not getting it good at home… he’s got to find alternatives…
Perhaps a few good bros have good tips in coercing a fucking sex-conserved woman to release her inner tiger!! TELL ME. Please.
Brother have a good talk with her to see what the problems might be what she nt comfortable with.
Alot of my friends are having this problems also with their partners also have a talk with her see what going on and then slowly spice up the sex btw u both.
Hope this help..
Sex can be boring at times but u can spice it up with some sex toys or role plays sometimes.

Good luck bro :)

[Criminalz]

Allow me to direct your attention towards our lovely constructed FL or HC thread.

[303258]

buy mens fitness or other fitness magazine, and follow a gym routin for 3 months.
Then see if shes interested. If still not keen then continue for another 6 months or 9 months, or ultimatly start to look like MensFitness models. If she still not keen .... then just go to the Dark side la:eek:

[horny28]

You may not hv found her sensitive part, do u think so?

[darkangelben]

Never expect that this is a common problem among our bros...

[ass_robber]

I pity you and hope things improve for you soon. I am clueless

[angurvadal]

Dear bro,

just my 2 cents worth,

explain the following theory to your wife.

1) what happens if tonite, wife no cooking ? we eat out.

tell her nicely that a hungry man got to eat somewhere.... so better "cook"

[rauldon]

Ah women bro sorry to heard this crap but u better check it out if she is eating outside! if u know what i mean u can never be 2 careful

[scaredycat]

watch some cat 3 movies with her... :p

[RealEstateGuy]

To all bros… I have been thinking for the longest time since married for the many years, and can’t help but feel god damn deprived… deprived of what a man should be granted… and ultimate sex life of fark job, blow job, and sorts from the person the law has permitted… the rightful wife…
If one was to describe my sex life… there’s only one word… BORING! Despite the efforts to coerce and beg… a nothing more than a ‘I fuck you, cum, and end’ type of sex… damn it I just can’t help but feel that she’s just fulfilling her obliged role of a wife in the area of sex. I have been trying to convince her to go further into sex… to do some nice blow jobs on me, but to no avails…
I have almost no avenue to vent my frustrations!! Can you imagine? My wife never allowed me to fuck her without CAPS (with the exception of that few months for a reason, and you know what).
Sometimes I ponder upon what had I done wrong to deserve such punitive returns. Although not getting good sex from her is never a good reason to fuck other girls out there… but fuck, a man is a man. If one’s not getting it good at home… he’s got to find alternatives…
Perhaps a few good bros have good tips in coercing a fucking sex-conserved woman to release her inner tiger!! TELL ME. Please. Brother some women have a lower libido than others. But in my experience whether her horniness cycle is one day or one month when she wants dick she is hungry and will fuck your brains out. If your wife is not horny at all I would ponder whehter she is getting her helping of dick from another guy? I don't mean to insult you in anyway but your wife definitely wants dick at some time during the say the course of a months. It's just that she isn't wanting it from you. Have you tried to enhance your sex life and get her aroused? Have you gained weight and dropped off on your personal hygiene since your dating days when she would fuck your brains out on Saturday nights?

[analog]

Hey Bro:

I hear yah....
You're at least lucky, she's at least fucking, my wife cut me off completely for years.

Here's what I did....
Talked and talked, always ended up in a fight...
Fine.
I finally decided that it was enough and did all the research on divorce since I'm a lousy gambler and can't bluff so I fully intended for my bluff to be called....which means I guess it wasn't a bluff.

First though, i went to see a counselor at MCYS and talked with her about things and simply said, i've had enough, I've been doing all the bending and to be honest, I give our marriage only a 5% chance of making it. Councelor said I need to talk to your wife.

So I told my wife i went to see a counselor ....she was shocked! i mean she was FLOORED! i bluntly, but calmly, asked her if she wanted to save our marriage...she said yes. Then i gave her the counselor's card and said you better call her and go see her.

Keeping a family together is a two way street, one party cannot do it alone.

But you need to remember, if you're at your wits end, you have to be prepared to go. Talk to her, go to counseling on your own. She doesn't want to go, then its over. Wind it up and start again, there is no shame in that.

Cheers,
jim

[BAIKBOI]

To all bros… I have been thinking for the longest time since married for the many years, and can’t help but feel god damn deprived… deprived of what a man should be granted… and ultimate sex life of fark job, blow job, and sorts from the person the law has permitted… the rightful wife…
If one was to describe my sex life… there’s only one word… BORING! Despite the efforts to coerce and beg… a nothing more than a ‘I fuck you, cum, and end’ type of sex… damn it I just can’t help but feel that she’s just fulfilling her obliged role of a wife in the area of sex. I have been trying to convince her to go further into sex… to do some nice blow jobs on me, but to no avails…
I have almost no avenue to vent my frustrations!! Can you imagine? My wife never allowed me to fuck her without CAPS (with the exception of that few months for a reason, and you know what).
Sometimes I ponder upon what had I done wrong to deserve such punitive returns. Although not getting good sex from her is never a good reason to fuck other girls out there… but fuck, a man is a man. If one’s not getting it good at home… he’s got to find alternatives…
Perhaps a few good bros have good tips in coercing a fucking sex-conserved woman to release her inner tiger!! TELL ME. Please.

Well dont we all seem to be sailin in da same boat :) Welcome onboard da once ur married ur 'fucked' express (in every other way quite literally)! I think its somethin to do wid her mental approach towards sex. My wife seems to get turned off in an instant over pretty much everythin & yet @ da same time i find SYTs here who dont bat an eyelid wen u ask them to do certain things....My suggestion bro wud b to mayb sit down wid her thrash out the issues that need to b thrashed out & in case things dont seem to wrk out 'eat outside' am sorry 4 bein blunt abt dis but men will b men & we only lead 1 life bro.

[p00t]

there is a problem with our society.

for as long as human history is recorded, that is over 5000years (China), 3000years (Egypt), over 2700years (India), over 2000 years (Rome), etc etc....

Man for all throughout history has more than 1 wife. 2 wives are common and this is not referring to rich man.

In early 70s, Singapore change the legislation that only 1 wife per Man, except Muslim Man.

40years legislation vs 5000 years of tradition across all cultures.

What's wrong with our society?

[Alf1977]

TS, your wife not giving you BJ does not mean she is eating outside...


Have you think that she may have caught you eating outside, getting BBBJ from slurs/prostitutes n thus find it very dirty to suck your dick knowing that it has been inserted into a slut's hole n mouth?

[longjohn2010]

can only advise based on my own experience.

going the aggressive confrontational route never works with women, they need to be romanced.

you could perhaps try sex-texting her to get her in the mood.

try stuff you used to do and now neglected...

a friend once advised me to put yourself in the woman's shoes, how do she is feeling and try to understand what is going on in her psyche..

aggression never works where you are trying to get some love, not start a war..

so my suggestion is to do small things to make her feel special again etc, well if you dont do it other guys might do it and that's why marriages break down.

when a third party starts romancing your significant others its probably due to neglect on our part in maintaining the relationship.

my advise may not work as I'm in the same boat :D, just wanted to share something you might be able to try before its too late.

before she starts giving excuses to go out to meet friends or to stay out late etc...

hope you get laid soon... may the force be with u

[happywoody]

bro TS

perhaps there're other factors which are distracting your wife - baby, finances, work stress etc etc

continue to be the noble husband and gently pop the idea that you want things to improve and suggest counseling. there's no shame and i'm sure your marriage deserves one good shot at saving it. good luck.

[p00t]

very good advice, mate.

words of wisdom.


can only advise based on my own experience.

going the aggressive confrontational route never works with women, they need to be romanced.

you could perhaps try sex-texting her to get her in the mood.

try stuff you used to do and now neglected...

a friend once advised me to put yourself in the woman's shoes, how do she is feeling and try to understand what is going on in her psyche..

aggression never works where you are trying to get some love, not start a war..

so my suggestion is to do small things to make her feel special again etc, well if you dont do it other guys might do it and that's why marriages break down.

when a third party starts romancing your significant others its probably due to neglect on our part in maintaining the relationship.

my advise may not work as I'm in the same boat :D, just wanted to share something you might be able to try before its too late.

before she starts giving excuses to go out to meet friends or to stay out late etc...

hope you get laid soon... may the force be with u

[grouchycabi]

To all bros… I have been thinking for the longest time since married for the many years, and can’t help but feel god damn deprived… deprived of what a man should be granted… and ultimate sex life of fark job, blow job, and sorts from the person the law has permitted… the rightful wife…
If one was to describe my sex life… there’s only one word… BORING! Despite the efforts to coerce and beg… a nothing more than a ‘I fuck you, cum, and end’ type of sex… damn it I just can’t help but feel that she’s just fulfilling her obliged role of a wife in the area of sex. I have been trying to convince her to go further into sex… to do some nice blow jobs on me, but to no avails…
I have almost no avenue to vent my frustrations!! Can you imagine? My wife never allowed me to fuck her without CAPS (with the exception of that few months for a reason, and you know what).
Sometimes I ponder upon what had I done wrong to deserve such punitive returns. Although not getting good sex from her is never a good reason to fuck other girls out there… but fuck, a man is a man. If one’s not getting it good at home… he’s got to find alternatives…
Perhaps a few good bros have good tips in coercing a fucking sex-conserved woman to release her inner tiger!! TELL ME. Please.

Dear Bro

Perhaps you could tell us how you made love to your wife on the rare occasions she allowed you do.

How did you do it? Did you just lay her down, open her legs, charge in and ram till you discharge your ammo?

Or did you do it slowly, kiss her passionately, lick her ears, her neck, down to her boobs, lick around the nipples, lick and suck her nipples for the longest time, and then move slowly down her soft belly, slowly and kissing along the way, and then kiss around her pussy area, lick her outer pussy lips, and then her inner pussy lips, and twirl your tongue around her clitoris, slowly, round and round, and then up and down, up and down, until she starts to whimper, moan, and becomes short of breath, and you still continue to lick her pussy, focusing on her clitoris with occasional stabs into her love hole using your probing tongue, until she starts shivering and shaking and then explode into orgasm?

Like some of the brothers here have suggested, you MUST please your wife first. When you showered such love on her and gave her such pleasure, you won't have to do the asking when it comes to sex.

Give it a try and all the best to you!

[IwantbustyKim]

Alcohol....it helps everyone....=)

[analog]

can only advise based on my own experience.

going the aggressive confrontational route never works with women, they need to be romanced.

you could perhaps try sex-texting her to get her in the mood.

try stuff you used to do and now neglected...

a friend once advised me to put yourself in the woman's shoes, how do she is feeling and try to understand what is going on in her psyche..

aggression never works where you are trying to get some love, not start a war..

so my suggestion is to do small things to make her feel special again etc, well if you dont do it other guys might do it and that's why marriages break down.

when a third party starts romancing your significant others its probably due to neglect on our part in maintaining the relationship.

my advise may not work as I'm in the same boat :D, just wanted to share something you might be able to try before its too late.

before she starts giving excuses to go out to meet friends or to stay out late etc...

hope you get laid soon... may the force be with u

And if you've already tried that?....like over and over again?

Then how?

[longjohn2010]

And if you've already tried that?....like over and over again?
Then how?

bro, I suppose u could do what I am doing looking for love in all the wrong places :o

but seriously, if you have kids, and want the marriage to continue, do what I am doing, see no evil, hear no evil, and say no evil.

seems to work have not quarreled with my wife for more than 3 weeks already.

Life is short, more important things to do than quarrel over small things. Like make more money to buy expensive realestate in Singapore.

a friend just died of liver cancer leaving behind a wife & kids. Enjoy it before it ends.

remember next year is 2012, according to Mayan calendar supposed to end in Dec 21 2012.

[kosan]

Just rape her ....
The most is end up in the brutal fight and go to police station.
She may want a divorce.. tell her go ahead... file a case ... she engage her lawyer, you engage yors.

She denied you of sex. not doing her duty. The most important we must have $$$$. You think our wife still have the time, they are no longer young. Women above 40 or 45 compare to man above 40 or 45. SBF bro what do you guys think.

I am prepare to go negative after posting this message.

[1stTR]

bro, be patience and hav a heart to heart talk with her. Ther is alway a reason behind. I share the same situation with you before. Coming to 7 yrs of marriage. We've live seperately for coming 6 yrs and it took me abt 5 yrs to finally get her to sit down to talk.

[BAIKBOI]

Just rape her ....
The most is end up in the brutal fight and go to police station.
She may want a divorce.. tell her go ahead... file a case ... she engage her lawyer, you engage yors.

She denied you of sex. not doing her duty. The most important we must have $$$$. You think our wife still have the time, they are no longer young. Women above 40 or 45 compare to man above 40 or 45. SBF bro what do you guys think.

I am prepare to go negative after posting this message.

just rape her!!! hahahaha rotfl! she ur wife lor no need to rape wife no fun somemore! lol

[sta1100]

Just rape her ....
The most is end up in the brutal fight and go to police station.
She may want a divorce.. tell her go ahead... file a case ... she engage her lawyer, you engage yors.

She denied you of sex. not doing her duty. The most important we must have $$$$. You think our wife still have the time, they are no longer young. Women above 40 or 45 compare to man above 40 or 45. SBF bro what do you guys think.

I am prepare to go negative after posting this message.

Every problem there is 2 side to the coin.

[Drooler]

my frustration is that in my 10yrs of marriage, my missus has never once initiated sex. not subtlely nor aggressively. its always me makin the move.

Recently i decided to give up on this as it has been talked on ends for it to be a two way street. frustration led to me going to C.V and discovering the alternative lifestyle. i came back and told her of my escapade and informed her of the possibility of me going to the other side. in the end, get green light to go red light district.

so yea like the bro's suggested. ^^ talk, who knows what conclusion might come out of it.

[bastardball]

Dear TS,

I share your troubles, was in a similar position, but got out of it eventually..and slowly. PAtience is the key....

Don't bother to try romancing, sweet talking, sending dirty sms, watching porn movie, or talk to marriage counsellor. All no use and made things worse for me. Some women, when they don't want means they dont want to fuck.

I did reverse psychology and it may work on your case.....


Here's what I did...I was sick of my wife's nonchalent attitude towards my requests, advances, begging, educating etc....I gave up..no use. Cannot brain wash her...the only way that I am getting sex out of this is to rape her.

So, I started working out at the gym, disappearing at nights or weekends for around 1 to 2 hours....I would always dress very smartly, totally different from my past. I groomed myself, stay fit and always appeared very excited and enthu when I'm about to leave my for my "meeting". I will appear cheerful and kiss her goodbye before running off. Whenever I came home after my outing, I would kiss her or greet her happily and go straight to the shower, whistling away happily.

Of course she got suspicious and started acting weird....at times she didn't allow me to go out, or she will insists that she wants to follow me. The truth is, I didn't go out to meet other girls or to fuck a FL. Most of the times I just hang around coffeeshop or mac donalds and after a few hours, go home and put on a show of feeling very shiok! I stopped asking my wife for sex completely during that period. Whenever my wife insisted on coming along, I would say my meeting cancelled or just go straight to my "meeting" after work.

To some, this measure may seem rather stupid or childish....but it worked for me. My wife eventually engaged a PI to track me down and found no dirt on me. I have gotten her attention....she appeared to panic and wanted to know the source of my big change given that I longer asked her for sex and yet appeared so happy.

Sometimes jealousy works and this captured her attention. We managed to talk more frequently without fighting. It works for me, hopefully it works for you too.