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silentvegas
31-05-2011, 02:10 PM
I'm 27yrs old male - single and I am facing a problem that if I don't hv sex for about 3 weeks, i feel no good - can't get deep sleep... body feels heavy... and mind is not clear.

A few years ago, me and my gf hd sex twice a month and then we tried to control not to hv sex very often. Then I noticed that if i don't hv sx for 3 or 4 weeks, i got those problems - can't get deep sleep and mind is not clear.. Feel smthng missing.. Aftr having sx, all those things went away.. So, lately we only had sex once a month.

Now I broke-up with my gf and those problems come back. Mastrubation can't help it.
(Nvr had sex with prostitutes b4 and don't want to do that either.)

Is it a normal for an adult? How can I solve it? :confused:

RawIsWar
31-05-2011, 04:08 PM
Erm... Find yourself a decent girlfriend...???

Agentoso
31-05-2011, 04:21 PM
See a dr pls

Raw Is War
31-05-2011, 04:29 PM
Get to know more female friends.

Maybe got ladies luck.

kirk88
31-05-2011, 05:41 PM
Why not you channel your extra energy by doing regular excercie.

batam siao
31-05-2011, 05:56 PM
Absolutely normal

ikomomo
31-05-2011, 05:59 PM
I'm 27yrs old male - single and I am facing a problem that if I don't hv sex for about 3 weeks, i feel no good - can't get deep sleep... body feels heavy... and mind is not clear.

A few years ago, me and my gf hd sex twice a month and then we tried to control not to hv sex very often. Then I noticed that if i don't hv sx for 3 or 4 weeks, i got those problems - can't get deep sleep and mind is not clear.. Feel smthng missing.. Aftr having sx, all those things went away.. So, lately we only had sex once a month.

Now I broke-up with my gf and those problems come back. Mastrubation can't help it.
(Nvr had sex with prostitutes b4 and don't want to do that either.)

Is it a normal for an adult? How can I solve it? :confused:

Bro, you Lack of exercise lah.

Why control not to have sex??? no money or no honey?

Go get sex or sweat :D

alan0338
31-05-2011, 06:32 PM
then i more abnormal than u, my bird cant stay free more than 3 days :D :D

nuclearkid
31-05-2011, 08:52 PM
Bro, you obsessing about it a lot? Sometimes your conscious mental preoccupations causes problems sleeping at night. You go to bed thinking, and thinking and thinking...until you don't sleep well. For example, if you have a big problem at work that drives you nuts, you probably wouldn't sleep too well.

tomvoyeur
31-05-2011, 09:11 PM
A psychologist will do you good - Dun self-medicate. ;)

owl888
01-06-2011, 12:14 AM
TS, no wonder ur gf broke up with u coz u whole day only think abt sexxx!

U need to consult a doctor soon else u commit rape crime soon....wahaha :D :D

kylerful
01-06-2011, 01:05 AM
Bro i agree that you should try excercising but dun do it too close to ur bedtime if not the adrenalin will make it even harder to fall asleep. On a side note why dun u try a FL for fun? Haha maybe tat will give u some relief?

orneryjoe
01-06-2011, 01:15 AM
TS...

You should just cross over to the dark side. You probably won't regret it. There's nothing immoral about it either -- the sex workers provide a useful service. In return you pay the price. Nobody gets hurt, and it's a win-win situation. And the variety will keep you wanting more.

Once a month?? You could be feasting on different ladies once a week or even more often than that. It's a little hard on the pocket but there are different budgets for different bros.

No need to waste time wooing and dining. Unless you really want kids, there is no real need to limit yourself for the rest of your life to just one woman and probably very boring sex on a monthy basis (if you're lucky).

1nottiboy
01-06-2011, 01:41 AM
Was 27 before. there were times when i had to go without sex for 1 month or 2 but never had your problem. but everyone's body and needs are different. your problems may be psychological. you may wanna see a shrink.

bonkster
01-06-2011, 02:11 AM
When i was 27, i sure had better sleep than i do now. Used to be able to sleep 8 to 9hrs a day with or without sex. :)

OysterLover
01-06-2011, 02:51 AM
u better find some way to destress man... dun wan to see you on newspaper for doing wrong things

Faidenk
01-06-2011, 11:18 AM
You're normal, maybe too normal.

Sex is like money, you only miss it when you don't have it.

happywoody
01-06-2011, 11:34 AM
TS, u can either:
1. distract urself with other activities - the usual sports, social work, hobby etc etc
2. start socialising more and increase your chances of getting lucky
3. get to know a fubu
4. since u're not into paid sex; be creative about yr self-service ~ get acquinted with maria ozawa and her colleagues

in the meantime, it doesn't hurt to build yr career and spend quality time with the family esp when u're not surfing sbf :D