A380_Jumbo
30-05-2011, 11:54 PM
Hi bros & sis,
Recently got to know a woman who is a PR in her mid 30s to 40s, still acquaintance to each other. She works in a service industry, met her about 8 times in total and every time she would avoid direct eye contact with me, she knew i was kind of fond of her :p
Usually we'll chit chat a bit, until 1 month ago, out of the blue she told me she was married and had kids. (all along i already suspected she was a married woman with kids otherwise how could she obtained her PR & worked in Singapore). She even asked me how many kids I have, my reply was i'm still single.
I never probed abt her personal life until the day when she told me she was married and during that very moment i asked her whether she was still together with her husband, her reply was a very dull lifeless low tone yes ! (well, from her tone & expression i can sense that she wasn't happy with her current marriage)
The day when she told me she had 2 kids, for no apparent reason, i stop engaging her services for approx one month until recently i booked her services again. (Usually i would engage her services 2-3 times per month that means seeing & talking to her 2-3 times p/m).
This time she was quite happy when she saw me, obviously can tell from her facial expression & body language. (before she told me her marital status, she had never displayed such happiness when she saw me, unlike this time)
My burning question is after she told me she was married, why suddenly she was so happy when she saw me this time round, also as usual, she'd still avoid direct eye contact with me, meaning face to face talking with me, why ?
Can experienced bros & sis advise me why she always avoid direct eye contact with me and why suddenly so happy when she saw me :confused:
Though now i know she is a married woman & still i'm kind of fond of her, hmm rather complicated :( well, i know where the boundary is.
Would like to hear some advices & input on this matter, thanks bros & sis.
Recently got to know a woman who is a PR in her mid 30s to 40s, still acquaintance to each other. She works in a service industry, met her about 8 times in total and every time she would avoid direct eye contact with me, she knew i was kind of fond of her :p
Usually we'll chit chat a bit, until 1 month ago, out of the blue she told me she was married and had kids. (all along i already suspected she was a married woman with kids otherwise how could she obtained her PR & worked in Singapore). She even asked me how many kids I have, my reply was i'm still single.
I never probed abt her personal life until the day when she told me she was married and during that very moment i asked her whether she was still together with her husband, her reply was a very dull lifeless low tone yes ! (well, from her tone & expression i can sense that she wasn't happy with her current marriage)
The day when she told me she had 2 kids, for no apparent reason, i stop engaging her services for approx one month until recently i booked her services again. (Usually i would engage her services 2-3 times per month that means seeing & talking to her 2-3 times p/m).
This time she was quite happy when she saw me, obviously can tell from her facial expression & body language. (before she told me her marital status, she had never displayed such happiness when she saw me, unlike this time)
My burning question is after she told me she was married, why suddenly she was so happy when she saw me this time round, also as usual, she'd still avoid direct eye contact with me, meaning face to face talking with me, why ?
Can experienced bros & sis advise me why she always avoid direct eye contact with me and why suddenly so happy when she saw me :confused:
Though now i know she is a married woman & still i'm kind of fond of her, hmm rather complicated :( well, i know where the boundary is.
Would like to hear some advices & input on this matter, thanks bros & sis.