How to fuck a virgin?

[ikapopo]

Hi all,
I'm seeing this girl whos a virgin and she wants to lose it with me.
Can anyone suggest the best way to go about it to minimise pain and maximise pleasure? Apart from health issues, is it better to use a condom, lubricant wise, or is it less painful, less abrassive to do without?
I intend to give her a lengthy foreplay and oral to ease any anxiety. Should i make her orgasm with oral first, then go into penetration, or should i leave the orgasm with the latter? Any more tips would be helpful.
Thanks ;)

[etindet]

Here's the best tip you will get"
- Take it slow, treat her with respect, listen to what she's saying, and let her know that if she needs to stop it's ok.
- Make her come before penetration, most women don't come from penetration alone, and even if they do, making her come will make her even wetter.
- I'd ask her if she wants to use a condom or not, but if you've had a few sexual partners it might be an idea to get yourself tested before you have sex without one.
- It does feel nicer without a condom, and I'm glad I lost mine without a condom, but you need to play safe.

[gdblxus]

Here's the best tip you will get"
- Take it slow, treat her with respect, listen to what she's saying, and let her know that if she needs to stop it's ok.
- Make her come before penetration, most women don't come from penetration alone, and even if they do, making her come will make her even wetter.
- I'd ask her if she wants to use a condom or not, but if you've had a few sexual partners it might be an idea to get yourself tested before you have sex without one.
- It does feel nicer without a condom, and I'm glad I lost mine without a condom, but you need to play safe.

nice tips :D
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legend-sex-chopsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy :p

[cheongsterjon]

i think it is better to let her cum first before penetration, so that in case she doesn't cum later with penetrative sex, at least she has cum and will not feel disappointed with her first time...and even if she does cum with your penetration later, she may be wetter so her penetrative sex may be less painful....be prepared for some blood ..

[tigerprawn]

i think it is better to let her cum first before penetration, so that in case she doesn't cum later with penetrative sex, at least she has cum and will not feel disappointed with her first time...and even if she does cum with your penetration later, she may be wetter so her penetrative sex may be less painful....be prepared for some blood ..

Bro I beg to differ to let her cum first before penetration. The issue here is not so much cum or not but the anxiety of the first time penetration. For some girls, once they cum, their privates will become very sensitive to touch (just like for guys sometimes after ejacuation need some time to recover and the penis head becomes very sensitive) so if you make her cum first then penetrate, that may make the penetration even more painful.

My humble opinion, from personal experience, is that oral is good yes to make her horny and aroused. Make her super horny and aroused and flowing dripping wet but not cum yet, that is the best time to penetrate a virgin.

Also, again from my personal experience, dont make it a stressful event by insisting must complete the penetration in one session. You can stretch it over a few sessions over a few days or a week or so. First few times maybe just rub your cock around and outside her cunt without penetration use her own juices to lubricate and rub around the entrance in circular motion with a gentle pressure at entrance to let her know and feel that your cock head is filling up her entrance .... but no penetration. Then with your fingers massage her clit to make her cum while sucking her breasts, kissing her etc. Let her first experience and get comfortable with the presence of your cock at her entrance and experiencing orgasm. After she cums, stop. (she can BJ you or whatever). Then next time, go a little further each time, until you start pushing your cock in a little bit by bit each time such that technically part of your cock has passed her entrance but not deep enough yet to reach and break her hymen. Always ensure she is aroused and has orgasms and dont lose control to just start ramming. Then finally when she is ready later one day, she will literally beg you to push it in please.....

The above is in my opinion the BEST way to break a virgin using the greatest level of care and tenderness. Of course, some girls may prefer to break it at one go with the excitment of the pain and all. But since TS is asking for the best secure way, the above is what i feel, from personal experience, the best way forward, Even for the most shy and anxious tense virgin it will work.

Good luck!!

oh and last but not least, wrt the issue of using condom or not. I agree with one of the bros. Do a blood test to ensure you are clean first - then fuck her raw with her consent and preference of course. Unless she chooses and insists otherwise, I think a first time penetration by a piece of rubber is hardly the way to go especially if the girl is tense and anxious.:)

[etindet]

nice tips :D

[owl888]

Saw those porn videos on breaking a virgin.....think best way is to loosen/lubricate the cunt with some foreplay. Den slowly insert ur rod into her. Do a search, sure u can find some similar videos on breaking a virgin.

[DaveC65]

Tigerprawn's advice would be the best. Just realise that you are not only breaking the virgin's hymen, you are also setting and creating her FIRST major impression of sexual connection. If you only think about yourself bagging a virgin, you'll probably give her an impression of pain and frustration. If you take all night or all week to give HER as many orgasms as possible before the first penetration, she'll remember you for the rest of her life!!

[ibelieveindevil]

i would say, never ever, think that you should give in full force of all aspects of a sex to first timer....

thats means, for virgin, dont think of having oreplay, den she reach orgasm, then you fuck here front and back for 4 times, then u have bath with her and go diner ect ect.... there is a theshold.

[RealEstateGuy]

Bro I beg to differ to let her cum first before penetration. The issue here is not so much cum or not but the anxiety of the first time penetration. For some girls, once they cum, their privates will become very sensitive to touch (just like for guys sometimes after ejacuation need some time to recover and the penis head becomes very sensitive) so if you make her cum first then penetrate, that may make the penetration even more painful.

My humble opinion, from personal experience, is that oral is good yes to make her horny and aroused. Make her super horny and aroused and flowing dripping wet but not cum yet, that is the best time to penetrate a virgin.

Also, again from my personal experience, dont make it a stressful event by insisting must complete the penetration in one session. You can stretch it over a few sessions over a few days or a week or so. First few times maybe just rub your cock around and outside her cunt without penetration use her own juices to lubricate and rub around the entrance in circular motion with a gentle pressure at entrance to let her know and feel that your cock head is filling up her entrance .... but no penetration. Then with your fingers massage her clit to make her cum while sucking her breasts, kissing her etc. Let her first experience and get comfortable with the presence of your cock at her entrance and experiencing orgasm. After she cums, stop. (she can BJ you or whatever). Then next time, go a little further each time, until you start pushing your cock in a little bit by bit each time such that technically part of your cock has passed her entrance but not deep enough yet to reach and break her hymen. Always ensure she is aroused and has orgasms and dont lose control to just start ramming. Then finally when she is ready later one day, she will literally beg you to push it in please.....

The above is in my opinion the BEST way to break a virgin using the greatest level of care and tenderness. Of course, some girls may prefer to break it at one go with the excitment of the pain and all. But since TS is asking for the best secure way, the above is what i feel, from personal experience, the best way forward, Even for the most shy and anxious tense virgin it will work.

Good luck!!

oh and last but not least, wrt the issue of using condom or not. I agree with one of the bros. Do a blood test to ensure you are clean first - then fuck her raw with her consent and preference of course. Unless she chooses and insists otherwise, I think a first time penetration by a piece of rubber is hardly the way to go especially if the girl is tense and anxious.:)

I dated a couple of women who lost their virginity with me. Basically, we took it slow. Sometimes just let them masturbate by rubbing their pussy against my dick and letting her come that way instead of penetration. A few times of that and it evolves to them wanting more. You should let her take her time. When women get horny you will know. You don't have to do much, they will literally have it all planned one night and rip your clothes off and want more and more culminating in a night where neither of you get sleep just fucking and enjoying yourselves like animals.

[redtemo]

you need to take it slowly..

ambience is important.

some alcohol is fine

well u see..i am not very good at typing out scenarios i'll been through

ok..here goes

first heavy pettiing followed by some wine...then use ur fingers to siitumiate
area of target..smooch and go for it at once...or distract and enter.

[ah dorrer]

great info. remember to standby KY jelly to make it always wet, once it get dry, she will start to feel pain.

[horny28]

Take panadol first

Can also invite her mum to guide you through the process

[owl888]

Wonder TS have u break ur gf virgin?

[DaveC65]

hehe. or did his virgin gf break him?:D

[cloudstreet]

You sound like a virgin yourself? =)

[bonkster]

On top of all the hot tips, please avoid staining your bed. :p

[ladylill2]

nice tips ............

[zuxy]

nice tips :D
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legend-sex-chopsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy :p

love this series, seem better 3d sex and zen :p

[rednice22]

According to stephen chow movie, use a bamboo is best. After loosing it up then its ready for use. :D

haha, you are so funny :D

[architecture]

Bro I beg to differ to let her cum first before penetration. The issue here is not so much cum or not but the anxiety of the first time penetration. For some girls, once they cum, their privates will become very sensitive to touch (just like for guys sometimes after ejacuation need some time to recover and the penis head becomes very sensitive) so if you make her cum first then penetrate, that may make the penetration even more painful.

My humble opinion, from personal experience, is that oral is good yes to make her horny and aroused. Make her super horny and aroused and flowing dripping wet but not cum yet, that is the best time to penetrate a virgin.

Also, again from my personal experience, dont make it a stressful event by insisting must complete the penetration in one session. You can stretch it over a few sessions over a few days or a week or so. First few times maybe just rub your cock around and outside her cunt without penetration use her own juices to lubricate and rub around the entrance in circular motion with a gentle pressure at entrance to let her know and feel that your cock head is filling up her entrance .... but no penetration. Then with your fingers massage her clit to make her cum while sucking her breasts, kissing her etc. Let her first experience and get comfortable with the presence of your cock at her entrance and experiencing orgasm. After she cums, stop. (she can BJ you or whatever). Then next time, go a little further each time, until you start pushing your cock in a little bit by bit each time such that technically part of your cock has passed her entrance but not deep enough yet to reach and break her hymen. Always ensure she is aroused and has orgasms and dont lose control to just start ramming. Then finally when she is ready later one day, she will literally beg you to push it in please.....

The above is in my opinion the BEST way to break a virgin using the greatest level of care and tenderness. Of course, some girls may prefer to break it at one go with the excitment of the pain and all. But since TS is asking for the best secure way, the above is what i feel, from personal experience, the best way forward, Even for the most shy and anxious tense virgin it will work.

Good luck!!

oh and last but not least, wrt the issue of using condom or not. I agree with one of the bros. Do a blood test to ensure you are clean first - then fuck her raw with her consent and preference of course. Unless she chooses and insists otherwise, I think a first time penetration by a piece of rubber is hardly the way to go especially if the girl is tense and anxious.:)

hi tigerprawn, your advice really so true. but my virgin gf always complain pain and close up her hole using her muscles...until now i cannot get inside her. somemore after she cum, she cannot continue anymore as her private becomes too sensitive. she also say she have tilted uterus, any guru can share how to solve this problem?

[69Sniper]

u ar such a lucki guy how i wish i hab such lobang:o neber had such chance b4 in me whole life:o

[sg_boytoy]

This thread makes me reminisce how I lost my virginity... to a non-virgin! KNN, feel damn tu lan now, hahahahahahahahahahahahaha :D

[Done All]

If you worry about you dont know how to do your girl friend to make her lose virginity, you need not worry. Ask any of the brothers here and they will volunteer to do her on your behalf. After a few big size brothers, she will be loosen and then you can use with no pain. Yo only need to say thank you, we are brothers afterall.

[Joanna]

Use plenty of lubricant... first time is freaking painful

[samster1911]

@tigerprawn, great info there bro! You should write a book or something haha, swee ah. :)

[The A Team]

Here's the best tip you will get.

Take it slow, treat her with respect, listen to what she's saying, and let her know that if she needs to stop it's ok.

[starystarynite]

catch the first virgin blood with yr hanky! worth to keep...hahaha!

or all else fail, pm me, i help you to kai bao!! haha!

just jokinh..:D

[ladylill2]

catch the first virgin blood with yr hanky! worth to keep...hahaha!

or all else fail, pm me, i help you to kai bao!! haha!

just jokinh..:D

you are the men :D

[zuxy]

nice tips :D
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legend-sex-chopsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy :p

thanks about this link, love Jin Pin Mei series :p

[rednice22]

Every virgin I fucked, felt some pain no matter how gentle or how much foreplay I do. There is no escaping that. Some were so painful, she jump up, push me out, run to the toilet and cry. I dun think you can fully prepare her for it. You can try to do what you can, to make it better for her. The rest of out of your control.

The more she is relaxed, the lesser pain she will feel.

nice share, good job ;)

[wyzo]

Here's the best tip you will get"
- Take it slow, treat her with respect, listen to what she's saying, and let her know that if she needs to stop it's ok.
- Make her come before penetration, most women don't come from penetration alone, and even if they do, making her come will make her even wetter.
- I'd ask her if she wants to use a condom or not, but if you've had a few sexual partners it might be an idea to get yourself tested before you have sex without one.
- It does feel nicer without a condom, and I'm glad I lost mine without a condom, but you need to play safe.

nice tips, thanks ;)

[chilavu]

What is different between virgin or no?

[ikapopo]

Every virgin I fucked, felt some pain no matter how gentle or how much foreplay I do. There is no escaping that. Some were so painful, she jump up, push me out, run to the toilet and cry. I dun think you can fully prepare her for it. You can try to do what you can, to make it better for her. The rest of out of your control.

The more she is relaxed, the lesser pain she will feel.

nice, good guy ;)

[keepbill]

According to stephen chow movie, use a bamboo is best. After loosing it up then its ready for use. :D

can you tell me know this title movie? I really want watch it :D
thanks

[wyzo]

can you tell me know this title movie? I really want watch it :D
thanks

i want it, too. I very like Stephen Chow :D

[Tengaboys]

take panadol first

can also invite her mum to guide you through the process



hahhahahhhahah!!!!

[vpn888]

TS, the best position is she on top. She commands.

I have a few experiences so I know.

[Alantino]

best is to let her be comfortable. go thru some session of heavy petting to let her get used to the feeling. respect her decision / listen to what she says. DO NOT go all the way until she's ready for penetration.

just my 2 cent :D

[V|ernar]

Serious speaking , she can be wetting the whole bed and you still can't get in . There is a few way to break one , the most easy one is spread the leg wide out and bend the knee like she is giving birth . Foreplay is a must and don't hurry yourself . Enter slowly and never pull out cause once you are out , you mostly you will never get in again .

[Ah he]

Such urge cannot postphone 1.. buay tahan. I used cooking oil to....bla bla bla

[supra8]

ikapopo, you dont have to do it all in 1 goal. You can break it up slowly into phases into separate sessions. For example, in the first session, the aim is to let her experience multiple orgasms without penetration if she is the type who has yet to see an erected didi or a guy in the buff or have 'moral' reservation. This session essentially is all foreplay. Kissing and french kissing to get her in the mood. Caressing her breast with bra on and then work to undo her bra. Extra points if you are able to feel moisture sweating on her breasts. If not already done, work to get her shirt off and your shirt off. Next work to ease off your pant - leaving you with your erected didi tuck in your underwear. Then try to ease off her pant - this may require more foreplay and kissing and touching. Once both are in underwear. Work to move into a missionary position and spreading her legs. The whole goal is to let her experience your didi on her clitoris and vulva. The 'condom' here is your and her underwear. Using your didi to simulate and stimulate intercourse. This may take a while so be patient here. The first indication of her arousal would be your didi feeling contraction around her vulva areas. If you are able to control your urge, any further work by your didi may eventually lead her to have multiple orgasms - you can feel it because it is like her vulva is very alive and trembling quite strongly for a while trying to eat your didi. There, this session goal is achieved. Basically, let her know 'sex' can be fun and enjoyable. Her sexual journey has begun. What about your didi? You can let it 'cool' down and release it at home or bathroom. The investment payback is in the next private session.:) Btw, this foreplay thing from beginning to end can last about 2 hours. But to feel her orgasms on you is priceless. Next ...

[rednice22]

money first, girls very like money, i sad when i don't have money

[ladylill2]

you need handsome ;)

[cheongsterjon]

i know of a lady who told me her husband broke her virginity on wedding night robotic style...this dude really didn't care about how she felt, he just ready get set go and entered forcefully into the hole....the lady told me she almost developed phobia of sex cuz it was horribly painful....and the husband just then rammed and rammed...good stamina but failed on the caring part

[gdblxus]

If you rich alike Bill Gate, you will get alot virgin girls ;)

[togoparts]

Sorry bro, need to ask a stupid question.. How to make my gf cum? She's willin to give it to me tmr.. damn excited..

[keepbill]

If you rich alike Bill Gate, you will get alot virgin girls ;)

so how can rich alike Bill Gates :D?

[scaredycat]

Every virgin I fucked, felt some pain no matter how gentle or how much foreplay I do. There is no escaping that. Some were so painful, she jump up, push me out, run to the toilet and cry. I dun think you can fully prepare her for it. You can try to do what you can, to make it better for her. The rest of out of your control.

The more she is relaxed, the lesser pain she will feel.

yes... definitely pain...

after foreplay, start with 2 or 3 quick penetration, stop if she ask u to... calm her down n let her rest... the 2nd fuck is where the fun begins, for her :)

[perfection89]

Take panadol first

Can also invite her mum to guide you through the process

Ask her father to demonstrate once before you do it. That way, you won't make any mistake.

[shctaw]

http://vbulletin.thesite.org/showthread.php/105849-How-to-fuck-a-virgin

Google and found this website. The answer is same as what bros here suggest.

Someone must be copying the answers...... sibei naughty.:cool:

[shctaw]

http://www.slutload.com/watch/pJqAbBouKIe/Fuck-a-virgin-asian.html

Picture says a thousand words....

Video says a million idea......

Follow this video......

Result may vary....

..... the girl in this video very chio.... never notice till I posted the thread.:p

[Alf1977]

http://vbulletin.thesite.org/showthread.php/105849-How-to-fuck-a-virgin

Google and found this website. The answer is same as what bros here suggest.

Someone must be copying the answers...... sibei naughty.:cool:


Not copying answers..coz majority of Samsters are mostly Sexperts with vast experience on virgins, FLs, HCs, SYTs, MILFs, n variety of nationalities.

[keepbill]

nice tips :D
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legend-sex-chopsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy :p

I think this movie better than 3d sex and zen, really nice movie

[ladylill2]

no money = no virgin

[same27]

no money = no virgin

if you can take care your love, she will give all for you without money :)

[ladylill2]

nice tips :D
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legend-sex-chopsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy :p

he can do that because he too rich and handsome :(

[fuckdaddy]

personally, i prefer sluts over virgins. i was lucky enough to have a virgin gf who is now my wife.

my exp with the only virgin is that you have to take it slow and even having done that, the girl will still feel pain. my first time doing my wife was not successful, actually took a few session to fully break her hymen. the 1st session was so painful for her that after half-hr of sticking my cockhead into her vagina, i was so stressed that my "didi" went limp and have "to be continued..." :o

[BoinKING]

I think best is to use finger to slowly get her use to it.
work from the pinky to thumb.. first session really test your patients if cannot go in..

Esp if you're on a big side..

[ladylill2]

..bro, try to use ur hard dick for that business :-D

:confused: you mean he became to call boy?

[chilavu]

nice tips :D
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legend-sex-chopsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy :p

You can only do it when you have a lot money and so handsome :(

[LovePotion]

Never have sex with a virgin before, no fate. All the girls got eaten by experts when they are very young. =(

[BoinKING]

well you're not missing anything.
Because they have no clue how to even satisfy you let alone themselves lol..

[Antheaslutty]

Hi , I wan to share my first xperience . It was veri pleasant , painless and bloodless . My then bf was veri gentle wif me and before the actual penetration we had sum heavy petting sessions quite a few times . We had long foreplay before penetration which made me veri horny then he slowly rub it against my pussy . He slowly insert and ask if I feel any pain . If yes , he wud stop and let me get use to the size and havin sumthing inside my pussy . When the full length is in den start to thrust slowly . Increasin spd only when he get my permission . I can onli say dat I m lucky to hav met sumone so gentle and made my 1st sexperience so nice .

[Antheaslutty]

Oh ya , durin the heavy petting sessions he used finger . I think he used pinky first den follow by index finger . When he tried 2 fingers it hurt so he make me more horny first before inserting one more finger wifout me knwing ( I onli felt more shiok haha ) . The whole finger thing went on for abt 2 wks
. I think dat is why my pussy was prep for the real thing and it doesn 't hurt during the actual penetration . :)

[lasupkia]

Oh ya , durin the heavy petting sessions he used finger . I think he used pinky first den follow by index finger . When he tried 2 fingers it hurt so he make me more horny first before inserting one more finger wifout me knwing ( I onli felt more shiok haha ) . The whole finger thing went on for abt 2 wks
. I think dat is why my pussy was prep for the real thing and it doesn 't hurt during the actual penetration . :)
So your virginity was taken by his fingers not his dick? U mean from starting with his fingers to penetration with his dick there was no pain and no bleeding?
Incredible...

[TreCool]

play with your fingers first. she will definitely be damn wet if still fresh :D

[chilavu]

play with your fingers first. she will definitely be damn wet if still fresh :D

How to play with my fingers :D? Any share?

[callmebad]

just wonder if using lubricants help?
nowadays, getting virgins is like trying to reach for the stars
most people lose their during school days

[sanlee]

So your virginity was taken by his fingers not his dick? U mean from starting with his fingers to penetration with his dick there was no pain and no bleeding?
Incredible...
it can't break by finger... a bit inside the virgin shell...
I guess finger can't reach there...

cheers

[wungato]

just wonder if using lubricants help?
nowadays, getting virgins is like trying to reach for the stars
most people lose their during school days

I think so, very difficult to find virgins :(

[analog]

Hey Bros:

How to fuck a virgin?

Don't, leave that mess to someone else. i did once, worst experience of my life, NEVER again.

Cheers,
jim

[nigelT]

ya man,
nothing fantastic about virgin, difficult to penetrate, their painful facial expression also a turn off, prefer a more experienced woman whom already enjoy sex anytime than ...

[JTen88]

Lots of lube, lots of patience, lots of self control .... ended up my gf did a handjob for me

[ikariamsg]

Hey Bros:

How to fuck a virgin?

Don't, leave that mess to someone else. i did once, worst experience of my life, NEVER again.

Cheers,
jim

why :confused:. I think virgin girls is good, you don't like blood :D?

[keepbill]

nice tips :D
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legend-sex-chopsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy :p

Hikaru Wakana look great, but she don't have act many movies :(

[Big B]

My 2 cents:

When making love to a virgin, an overly eager guy (who does heavy "pumping") can make sex a very painful experience for a virgin. I am a perpertrator of such a sad outcome during my younger days where my sexual instruction came from porn. :o

Very painful sex can cause a girl to develop Vaginismus - that is, a spasm of the vaginal muscles, caused mainly by fear of being hurt. This condition can make intercourse next to impossible even if you use lots of lube... etc.

When making love to a virgin:

1) Be patient
2) Be mindful of the mental state of the girl
3) Use shallow thrusts (dun slam your whole shaft into the girl) unless the girl initiates it. Even then, go slow.
4) Stop when she requests for it. Virginal muscles take time to relax and get used to your penis
5) Use lube unless the girl is turned on. Bring lube in any case because the juice may dry up when the girl experience pain

Hope the above helps.

[etindet]

My 2 cents:

When making love to a virgin, an overly eager guy (who does heavy "pumping") can make sex a very painful experience for a virgin. I am a perpertrator of such a sad outcome during my younger days where my sexual instruction came from porn. :o

Very painful sex can cause a girl to develop Vaginismus - that is, a spasm of the vaginal muscles, caused mainly by fear of being hurt. This condition can make intercourse next to impossible even if you use lots of lube... etc.

When making love to a virgin:

1) Be patient
2) Be mindful of the mental state of the girl
3) Use shallow thrusts (dun slam your whole shaft into the girl) unless the girl initiates it. Even then, go slow.
4) Stop when she requests for it. Virginal muscles take time to relax and get used to your penis
5) Use lube unless the girl is turned on. Bring lube in any case because the juice may dry up when the girl experience pain

Hope the above helps.

thanks for nice reply. I think useful for me.

[ikapopo]

My 2 cents:

When making love to a virgin, an overly eager guy (who does heavy "pumping") can make sex a very painful experience for a virgin. I am a perpertrator of such a sad outcome during my younger days where my sexual instruction came from porn. :o

Very painful sex can cause a girl to develop Vaginismus - that is, a spasm of the vaginal muscles, caused mainly by fear of being hurt. This condition can make intercourse next to impossible even if you use lots of lube... etc.

When making love to a virgin:

1) Be patient
2) Be mindful of the mental state of the girl
3) Use shallow thrusts (dun slam your whole shaft into the girl) unless the girl initiates it. Even then, go slow.
4) Stop when she requests for it. Virginal muscles take time to relax and get used to your penis
5) Use lube unless the girl is turned on. Bring lube in any case because the juice may dry up when the girl experience pain

Hope the above helps.

amazing tips :D

[auntygranny]

Wow! You sound like a good lover...

My 2 cents:

When making love to a virgin, an overly eager guy (who does heavy "pumping") can make sex a very painful experience for a virgin. I am a perpertrator of such a sad outcome during my younger days where my sexual instruction came from porn. :o

Very painful sex can cause a girl to develop Vaginismus - that is, a spasm of the vaginal muscles, caused mainly by fear of being hurt. This condition can make intercourse next to impossible even if you use lots of lube... etc.

When making love to a virgin:

1) Be patient
2) Be mindful of the mental state of the girl
3) Use shallow thrusts (dun slam your whole shaft into the girl) unless the girl initiates it. Even then, go slow.
4) Stop when she requests for it. Virginal muscles take time to relax and get used to your penis
5) Use lube unless the girl is turned on. Bring lube in any case because the juice may dry up when the girl experience pain

Hope the above helps.

[V|ernar]

Wow! You sound like a good lover...

You need to go down and do your job !

[hotpen]

Beside the mess is the foreplay and process. To me this is best part..

Taking off her slowly like present.

Her expression of fear, lost innocence..

Go in liao the deep breaths she make..

[wutingvo]

You need to go down and do your job !

your avatar so cute :)

[wungato]

no money = no virgin :(

[garystone]

What to prepare in order not to stain the bed sheet with blood?

[alien_boy]

I'm actually curious. Do all virgins bleed during their first penetration/ after penetration? Coz my girl said she lost her virginity to me but I don't rem seeing blood on bed sheets. Fingering will break her hymen too?

[gdblxus]

money is key

[justdifferent]

Hi all,
I'm seeing this girl whos a virgin and she wants to lose it with me.
Can anyone suggest the best way to go about it to minimise pain and maximise pleasure? Apart from health issues, is it better to use a condom, lubricant wise, or is it less painful, less abrassive to do without?
I intend to give her a lengthy foreplay and oral to ease any anxiety. Should i make her orgasm with oral first, then go into penetration, or should i leave the orgasm with the latter? Any more tips would be helpful.
Thanks ;)

My best advice to you:

Though sex is a 2 player game, and both sides should enjoy it equally, when taking the virginity of a girl, you should not aim to seek pleasure for yourself. It is not always a fun thing to take a girls virginity. Most virgins will experience pain during their first time; it is not always like what you read in erotica or watch in porno - the transition from pain to pleasure is not always so quick.

If you let this happen without the intention of yourself getting off, then you will find that you naturally take things slower, and don't have any expectations. Therefore, you will not feel frustrated when she feels pain and you have to stop - thus making her feel more at ease.

One good method is for her to be on top, facing you. That way, she can control how much of you penetrates her, and she can choose when she wants to stop and when she wants to go all the way.

Bear in mind that the above is just from my personal experiences, and it might be different in your case. Whichever the matter, it will be alright if you respect her, be gentle and patient.

Cheers.

[zii666]

no matter how you do it she will still feel the pain.

after the pain, must give her 2nd and 3rd round to overcome the fear.

[porscheclub]

Remember this, a lot of gals won't experience true orgasms untill many sessions later so don't be sad or too eager to shag her. Take it easy, make her wet & let her guide you ;)

[vonnieleung]

Remember this, a lot of gals won't experience true orgasms untill many sessions later so don't be sad or too eager to shag her. Take it easy, make her wet & let her guide you ;)

nice tut :D

[naan1974]

it can't break by finger... a bit inside the virgin shell...
I guess finger can't reach there...

cheers

Well.... that depends which is longer hahaha

[zgheng]

Pass me and I show you. :D

Just kidding. Need alot of foreplay and lubrication if she is very tight.

Go in bit by bit and check her reaction. You wont want to thrust everything in 1 shot and left a bad experience for her.:D

[Cool_Taurian]

My experience with a 19 year old virgin :
Took her to my hotel room, she was very shy and she even request me not to look at her while she's taking a bath (my toilet is transparent).
But men, wow i took a peep, her skin was so smooth like silk with 32C cup pinkish nipple.
To cut story short, we kiss like there's no tomorrow. Slowly i remove her top and shorts, like her pinkish nipple slowly, using my tounge circling both her erected nipples. She told me her right one is more sensitive. Then i use fingers to massage her pussy with her underware on. Gosh, in no time she's wet and wet. I did that for about 30 mins. I tried to remove her panties but she stopped me, thus i pull only the top part covering her clit and manage to slip my toungue just nice to lick her clitoris, she moans and moans and told me it feels good. After 10 mins, i remove slowly her panties. The smell of her virgin pussy is turning me so high, her love juices were all over my face as i lick them all over. Haha....she's completely naked by now. I ask her for blowjob, she turn me down saying she never did this before. Ok, no problem i said. I said " i'm putting it in , if you're pain then i will stop ok". Slowly i rub my head against her clit, she's high then slowly i put in my penis head, but she push me away saying its painful. I only manage to put in about 1cm....damn she's tight and very tight, no words can describe. We go back to licking for about 20 mins, when i feel she's ready i put in again, this time about 2cm, and she grabs me so hardm scratching my back....and pushed me away again....that 1st night we try for at least 3 times, but still cannot go in, i feel something i blocking my penis.
2nd night :
I use Ky, a lot of KY on my penis, and throbbing in and out no more than 2cm, just to make her feel high without much pain. This time i can see she's really enjoying it. Like my ear lube and moan "ah ah ahh"..... Then i thinkmits time, i push another cm inside, i feel heavenky, buy can feel she was so painful, and the hymen is strentching, still did nit break but now i can feel half of my penis is inside her. She pushed me away and go to toilet. She came back crying and told me there's some bleeding, i told her to be calm...but she's sobbing. Thus, we did not continue that night just to give her some time for the pain to subside.
3rd night :
While i' thrusting in and about only half my penis, i can feel she's no longer in pain, thus i push in alittle more, and she shout "pain"....i ask to bear a little, and then she will feel good. Withnlots of lube, thrusting in and out, then with one final push, i push my whole penis in, can feel like something is torn and giving way for me to be deep inside where no men have been, and she shouted so loud and grab my back so tight.....then i feel so good and just slowly and slowly thrusting in and out my whole penis.....my god feels so heavenly inside this virgin pussy....i took her legs and place them on my waist, then i began thrusting in missisonary.....and finally i cum inside....what a beautiful night. Strange thing is, doctor still confirm her hymen still intact. We will be meeting again for another sex next week.

[LovePotion]

A piece of advice for you.

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if not

Start slow and apply lubricant. Slow and steady wins the race Well, if she is a virgin there is going to be some pain involved for her, and that's just a normal thing. She may also bleed a little because you will be popping her cherry (so to speak). Though, after you penetrate and get started, the pain should subside. A way to reduce potential pain is to use lubricant, and make sure you have her wet before attempting to penetrate. Hope that helps.

[same27]

A piece of advice for you.

Please visit my website and you have an answer
http://www.insatiable-addiction.com/

if not

Start slow and apply lubricant. Slow and steady wins the race Well, if she is a virgin there is going to be some pain involved for her, and that's just a normal thing. She may also bleed a little because you will be popping her cherry (so to speak). Though, after you penetrate and get started, the pain should subside. A way to reduce potential pain is to use lubricant, and make sure you have her wet before attempting to penetrate. Hope that helps.

very very helpful for lonely guys alike me :D

[Jescx]

Foreplay with her and make her high? Usually if she's like damn wet, it will be easier though.

Well for me I'm always frustrated by the fact it feels like I'm a virgin everytime when I do cause it's just so hard and painful to get through. I always start of with missionary first before doing any other position. Usually I always ask my guy to just force it through once and for all even though its super pain then slowly will get used to it and eventually I got addicted~

[vonnieleung]

nice tips :D
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legend-sex-chopsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy :p

I like this movie

[ikapopo]

Remember this, a lot of gals won't experience true orgasms untill many sessions later so don't be sad or too eager to shag her. Take it easy, make her wet & let her guide you ;)

hahaha...seem nice :D

[fictionman]

In my "miserable" life I only took one woman's virginity..My wife's!!!

Guess she's "old fashion" kind...First blood she gave to me & I hv to marry her hahaha...Well that wasn't our plan coz she was my FB...Seriously no strings attach but as time goes by we fell in luv with each other...

Her first time was a painful one for her...Started off wz kissing then slowly removing her clothin...Aft removing her panties, I went south to lick her pussy...Seeing her expression being lick there for the 1st time was priceless...Firstly she grab my head & pull my hair hahha...Then grab hold of the bedsheet & then follow by caressing her tits...I knew she was into it aldy...

My cock was so hard fm hearing her moan...Virgin moan always lumber 1...Slowly I lick my way up to her tits...Slowly bite her nipple to make it hard...Then I kiss her mouth & then I kneel down in front of her face...My harden cock was just a few inches away fm her mouth...As innocent as a nun, she said this is the first time she has seen an adult cock!!!...I hold her hand & put it on my coc...Ask her to stroke it gently...And then I push my cock near her mouth...Gently rubbin her face & lips...Cant tahan anymore told her to open her mouth & suck my cock...She willingly do it but I had to guide her along hahaha...She really blur squid & how to suck...Then told her to lick my balls & at the same time stroke my fucking hard cock...

Really cannot tahan aldy...I ask her if she's ready for my cock to enter her virgin pussy...She abit "scared" saying pls insert it in gently fearing de pain...Of coz I nooded my head...Slowly I try to penetrate her pussy but there was some "resistance" fm her...She cried out "pain pain"...Then I stop awhile...She said sorry but I told her its ok dear...We tried again a few more times in missionary position...Slowly I manage to penetrate bit by bit but not fully into her pussy...She still feel de pain...So we stop for few hrs to catch our breath..

Aft resting for ard 3 hrs (we even skip to see the midnite movie which we hv bought tixs) to continue our luv making...Finally aft so much pain she had endure earlier, I finally manage to penetrate her fully...I can clearly feel it at my cock de sensation of her wet pussy...I slowly push my cock in & out of her pussy coz she can still feel de pain but also feel the shiokness of being penetrated..

FYI...I finally manage to fully penetrated her doing doggy style...Aft abt 20 mins of "battle", we stop for a rest... I hv not cum yet...But aft I hv pull out my cock, it was covered in some blood stains...I was a bit freak out hahaha coz 1st time seeing blood on my cock...Show her my cock & she said she feel so wonderful yet pain aft finally losing her virginity...Then I went to the bathroom to wash my cock & then head back to bed with her...Ask her to bbbj me & then ask her if she's ready to see my sperm hahaha...She nooded like a little girl being offered a lollipop...She lay beside me on my shoulder & she slowly masturbate me...

Told her to slow down & up the pace as at when I feel the shiokness in my cock...But the handjob was abit mechanical hahaha...1st timer la...Then I told her I can feel my balls is erupting...I was abt to cum...Told her to quicken her pace...Told her even if aft I cum dont stop her handjob until I ask her to...Finally I shoot out my sperm right onto my body...Pure ecstasy!!!...My spearm was on her hands...She was blushin hahaha...

And tt was how I bang a virgin...The rest is history...We are still happily married aft 14 yrs!!!

[asdfghjkl]

nice story, up for you! ;)

[ikapopo]

In my "miserable" life I only took one woman's virginity..My wife's!!!

Guess she's "old fashion" kind...First blood she gave to me & I hv to marry her hahaha...Well that wasn't our plan coz she was my FB...Seriously no strings attach but as time goes by we fell in luv with each other...

Her first time was a painful one for her...Started off wz kissing then slowly removing her clothin...Aft removing her panties, I went south to lick her pussy...Seeing her expression being lick there for the 1st time was priceless...Firstly she grab my head & pull my hair hahha...Then grab hold of the bedsheet & then follow by caressing her tits...I knew she was into it aldy...

My cock was so hard fm hearing her moan...Virgin moan always lumber 1...Slowly I lick my way up to her tits...Slowly bite her nipple to make it hard...Then I kiss her mouth & then I kneel down in front of her face...My harden cock was just a few inches away fm her mouth...As innocent as a nun, she said this is the first time she has seen an adult cock!!!...I hold her hand & put it on my coc...Ask her to stroke it gently...And then I push my cock near her mouth...Gently rubbin her face & lips...Cant tahan anymore told her to open her mouth & suck my cock...She willingly do it but I had to guide her along hahaha...She really blur squid & how to suck...Then told her to lick my balls & at the same time stroke my fucking hard cock...

Really cannot tahan aldy...I ask her if she's ready for my cock to enter her virgin pussy...She abit "scared" saying pls insert it in gently fearing de pain...Of coz I nooded my head...Slowly I try to penetrate her pussy but there was some "resistance" fm her...She cried out "pain pain"...Then I stop awhile...She said sorry but I told her its ok dear...We tried again a few more times in missionary position...Slowly I manage to penetrate bit by bit but not fully into her pussy...She still feel de pain...So we stop for few hrs to catch our breath..

Aft resting for ard 3 hrs (we even skip to see the midnite movie which we hv bought tixs) to continue our luv making...Finally aft so much pain she had endure earlier, I finally manage to penetrate her fully...I can clearly feel it at my cock de sensation of her wet pussy...I slowly push my cock in & out of her pussy coz she can still feel de pain but also feel the shiokness of being penetrated..

FYI...I finally manage to fully penetrated her doing doggy style...Aft abt 20 mins of "battle", we stop for a rest... I hv not cum yet...But aft I hv pull out my cock, it was covered in some blood stains...I was a bit freak out hahaha coz 1st time seeing blood on my cock...Show her my cock & she said she feel so wonderful yet pain aft finally losing her virginity...Then I went to the bathroom to wash my cock & then head back to bed with her...Ask her to bbbj me & then ask her if she's ready to see my sperm hahaha...She nooded like a little girl being offered a lollipop...She lay beside me on my shoulder & she slowly masturbate me...

Told her to slow down & up the pace as at when I feel the shiokness in my cock...But the handjob was abit mechanical hahaha...1st timer la...Then I told her I can feel my balls is erupting...I was abt to cum...Told her to quicken her pace...Told her even if aft I cum dont stop her handjob until I ask her to...Finally I shoot out my sperm right onto my body...Pure ecstasy!!!...My spearm was on her hands...She was blushin hahaha...

And tt was how I bang a virgin...The rest is history...We are still happily married aft 14 yrs!!!

so great :D

[wutingvo]

this is my dream

[kafkaesque]

what a nice story... i hope my story ends like this too :D:D:D

[alanthung]

great story support!!!!!!

[LovePotion]

support u :)

[gdblxus]

very very hard :(

[vonnieleung]

too hard.........

[Camel]

Good story ;)

[babyonboard]

Good stories and tips here: the main 'thrust' of the advice seems to be to go slow, be patient, and be understanding.

[SGPools]

Good stories and tips here: the main 'thrust' of the advice seems to be to go slow, be patient, and be understanding.

These are key things ;)

[handsomeboy888]

Anymore advice?

[pleasurehobby]

Anymore advice?

Personally i suggest to use finger to get her wet first. Virgins are really tight, so when some self produced lubricants it will certainly make things easier. Once the first penetration has been done, the rest should be smooth flowing.. That is provided you had gotten her into a comfortable mood. Before you know it she will be begging for more .:cool:

[etindet]

nice tips :D
This tip similar Simon's way at this movie:
http://bon99.com/the-forbidden-legend-sex-chopsticks-2008/

His first prey was the virgin nun Moon (Hikaru Wakana). One day, Simon was sick and sought sheller in Moon’s nunnery. There, by exposing himself and arousing her curiosity and desire, he successfully seduced Moon and brought her home to be his wife.

Just do it, I think you will get happy :p

Simon is lucky guy

[Poloca]

Do a search, sure u can find some similar videos on breaking a virgin.

[wutingvo]

I never have any chance to fuck virgin girl? How about your feel? :confused:

[Hight]

Where are virgin girl for you? :confused:

[4getful]

Nowadays still can find virgin gals? I think even big dinasour also get virgin break alr. We r now living in a world of sex n lies. That‘s y u see divorce r common.

[astran]

From my two experiences, my meagre advice is:

1) make the experience about them. make them feel at ease, as far as possible. her entire initiation from foreplay to breaking the hymen will feel awkward to her. that is normal. use a lot of natural lubrication. saliva, whatever whathaveyou.

2) foreplay. lots and lots of foreplay. make her orgasm at the barest minimum once before the penetration. in her shiok state, the endorphins will reduce the amount of pain she feels when you penetrate her.

3) Use a condom. 'Nuff said. She's smart enough to know about basic health measures. bonus if you can lay your hands on the kinds that can dull the pain she feels. IIRC from some kind of anaesthetic on the outer layer.

4) when you finally go for the penetration, go for a missionary position. easier for you to control how much force you should use. if she's the daring kind, you might wanna consider the cowgirl, because she can control the amount of force herself, either by lowering herself slowly or you penetrating at one shot.

Apologies if the above points have all been stated by learned laojiaos before me. Good luck bro, and may she enjoy her first experience as much as you do being hers. :)

[4getful]

Depend on which place she is from. If is atb, then juz open her leg n thrust hard non stop till u cum. Heard from a ktv gal, told me this is how she lost her virginity to an AT in her hometown. Sg men think too much, care too much, that‘s y get all the shiet things. :rolleyes:

[autoroam]

Same way you fuck a slut or any women:rolleyes:
your cock into her pussy:D

Is there any other way????

[Feling]

I never seen virgin girl :(

[4getful]

I never seen virgin girl :(

Nowadays women talking about respect about modesty about personal space n despise those wl fl n prostitute, n yet it is hard to find a virgin. What a ironically.:rolleyes:

[etindet]

Remember this, a lot of gals won't experience true orgasms untill many sessions later so don't be sad or too eager to shag her. Take it easy, make her wet & let her guide you ;)

but how?:(:confused:

[joncheong]

Depend on which place she is from. If is atb, then juz open her leg n thrust hard non stop till u cum. Heard from a ktv gal, told me this is how she lost her virginity to an AT in her hometown. Sg men think too much, care too much, that‘s y get all the shiet things. :rolleyes:

bro, but not all girls deserve that...they are good girls around who deserve men's care and attention :D