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tyson_usa
09-12-2010, 03:45 AM
Hi guys, one of the KTV girls I know in china is visiting Singapore. She says that she is coming here alone for holidays and she asks whether we can meet up. I am skeptical about her coming as i know it is never easy to apply a visa in china. She said that it was easy. 

Though I would like to meet her, I have my own fear. Is she coming here with a plan to harm me? Maybe get $$$ from me? I have a wife and I definitely wont keep her as a mistress. 

Okay, so I'll meet her when she is in Singapore. But I cant bring her to crowded places as I might bump into friends who might pao tou me to my wife accidentally. My wife coincidentally is away on a business trip. So can anyone advise me where are the best places to bring her and let her have a good time without me having to fear that I might bump into frens?
End of the day, if i can bonk her, I will lah.  

starlight
09-12-2010, 04:19 AM
it's easy to apply for a SG social visa in china

Johanna
09-12-2010, 06:27 AM
Ask another guy friend to come along with all expenses paid by u TS.....if invited to the bonk i dunn mind joining :D :D

chucky69
09-12-2010, 06:57 AM
TS, you sound so naive and silly to ask this advise. U really MARRIED???? I can always look after her if u dare not. Everything comes with a price and how u manage the situation.

AhMin
09-12-2010, 10:51 AM
Careful ... She is spying on u lo ...
Maybe she wan to work here as KTV gal so she can c u everyday ...
Anyway just drink MILK n dont bring COW back home lo ...
Enjoying bonking when she is here ...

tyson_usa
09-12-2010, 10:55 AM
Sorry that my post may have caused a Samster to have mistaken me as naive.
This is the first time I am experiencing this kind of situation and that's why i feel thrilled.
Like most other Samsters, we play in China and will never expect a gal from China to be taking hols to Singapore. Yes, i can just siam and turn down the chance to meet her. But i dont wish to.

I think it is just both fear and thrill that are mixed together. Fear that family and friends might spot me and the gal on an outing, and thrilled that such adventure is going to happen. I wont be holding hands, just makan and just sight seeing in the car. Cant afford to take risks in open areas like Orchard Road.

As such, I would like to hear from other Samsters who might know what I am going thru and offer some suggestions on where to bring the gal or wat to do with the gal. She will be here for only a few days.

Cheers.

tyson_usa
09-12-2010, 10:57 AM
Careful ... She is spying on u lo ...
Maybe she wan to work here as KTV gal so she can c u everyday ...
Anyway just drink MILK n dont bring COW back home lo ...
Enjoying bonking when she is here ...

Yalor, I am skeptical about her coming. We just have a platonic MSN chat for over 2 years. So what kind of spy work can she do? Milk money from me.

Yup. I will drink MILK. But definitely wont keep the COW, or bring the COW back to my place.

sammytommy
09-12-2010, 11:08 AM
a few concerns,
firstly she may ask you for $$.... but is up to u to give, if she ask more than you could chew!! than just spit out.
secondly, you can go any where bro! but just dun hold hands, tell her! she will understand.
thirdly, if you had a chance to bonk! bonk at her staying hotel lar....no need pay room and hand IC...tio boh?


lastly, most importantly, never fall in love with her!

ah rat
09-12-2010, 11:22 AM
TS asks her whether she want to earn extra money being a FL during her visit.Share with bro here :p :D

wildbeast
09-12-2010, 11:22 AM
Ask her here on what visa. Social (test spore water can make $$$ or not) or work permit (Confirmed here to make $$$) or student (Same as work permit, else u think come here study ENGLISH ????).

IMHO she is here to work the KTV or FL here.

U think she so good FXXK, come all the way here to visit u????? Dun be
naive dude.

She interested in ur $$$, not in destroying ur familiy. Settle the fling discreetly. Bonk and pay! No string attached! Remember is purely a body for $$$ transaction!

If scared, dun bring her out so often. Rest assured she would know how to enjoy herself here without YOU!

Just my humble personal opinions only. No right or wrong. To each has his own. You decide for your action.

Regards.

Xgenre
09-12-2010, 11:29 AM
Some ktv girls come here on a 1 month social visit pass to work as fl or massuese. Then seek a 1 month extention once they are in Singapore. If she's here to earn money, she may need your help to intro clients to her. So if she asks u for help, you can consider recommending her to SBF brothers. 1 good way to know if she's here to make money is to ask her where she will be staying. Most of the time, the fls here to make money would have known other fls on social visit passes that are already here. So she would have a bed somewhere reserved for her if so.

If she's really a tourist, she would have booked a room at a decent hotel. Ask about it. Just cos she's a KTV girl doesn't mean she won't splurge on herself. You are lucky that Singapore is quite a fake city. Most of the touristy places aren't frequented by Singaporeans. Bring her to the Singapore Flyer, Casinos, Merlion on a weekday morning. The main worry now is that since it's the school holidays, maybe there are more families around. Bring her to see the various races (Little India, Haji Lane etc). It's unlikely that our local Chinese friends will hang out there. For shopping, drop her off at the carpark and pick her up from the carpark. Just say you need to rush back to the office for a few hours. Ion Orchard is popular. The same technique applies for Suntec City. If you are willing to splurge before sex, go for a couple spa.

typeone
09-12-2010, 11:38 AM
Bro some suggestion/places to go if stay in East go to West Coast Park or Raffles Marina at tuas quite and nice place watch the sunset. Stay in the West go to Changi Beach or East Coast Park, some areas very quite. Remember at all time big head must rule small head. All the best.

rwrw
09-12-2010, 11:42 AM
Introduce her to your friend or SBF bros here, lot of wolves her like to take over your duty hehe ... I volunteer here in the queue :p

bigbirdbird
09-12-2010, 11:55 AM
Some ktv girls come here on a 1 month social visit pass to work as fl or massuese. Then seek a 1 month extention once they are in Singapore. .

Bro you forgot another thing is that before the 2 months are up they can still apply for another 2 years work pass if they can find some sponsors :D

Cerberus
09-12-2010, 12:35 PM
If you are really scared, please pass her picture and contact to me.
I will fetch her from Changi and bring her around SGP.:D

junior_cannibal
09-12-2010, 02:25 PM
A simple question has invited loads of advice. Before you decide which is a good one and which one is just crap, TS, you should ask yourself first, what do you want to achieve out of meeting her? For an old-time-sake catch up, or a bonk to end the day? Or are you 'silly' enough wanting to start a relationship in Singapore with her?
Singapore is a rather small place not to bump into someone you know. Forget about the trick to go the opposite direction of where you stay, thinking you can avoide running into someone you know.
Its about time you use your brain to think and not your small head. Good luck!

tyson_usa
09-12-2010, 03:21 PM
A simple question has invited loads of advice. Before you decide which is a good one and which one is just crap, TS, you should ask yourself first, what do you want to achieve out of meeting her? For an old-time-sake catch up, or a bonk to end the day? Or are you 'silly' enough wanting to start a relationship in Singapore with her?
Singapore is a rather small place not to bump into someone you know. Forget about the trick to go the opposite direction of where you stay, thinking you can avoide running into someone you know.
Its about time you use your brain to think and not your small head. Good luck!

I simply love this forum. So many good advice which I will go thru. Thanks Samsters!!

To answer your question, I will definitely not going to start a relationship with her in Singapore.
I will also not hold hand and behave intimate with her in public areas.
I will chat with her and have dinner (in not so crowded areas).

I think the meeting is for old-time-sake catch AND to end the day with a bonk (if possible). This unique situation presents both danger and thrill.

I treat her as a friend, well upgradable to a FB.

Can I ask does any Samster (if any) have this kind of experience before? Can share your experience and thoughts?

Cheers.

junior_cannibal
09-12-2010, 04:00 PM
Can I ask does any Samster (if any) have this kind of experience before? Can share your experience and thoughts?

Cheers.I had this mm that came to Singapore twice. Not so much just to look for me, but rather to work here as ktv hostess. As she knows that I ain't the loaded type, the meeting up was merely meals and bonks. Guess if you have set the tone right, these mm can still be good for meeting up. However, one word of caution, as they incur high costs just to come to Singapore, vs almost zero opportunity costs when they worked in China in the same profession, the conduct and expectation of them may change. Have fun and be careful! :cool:

bhs72
09-12-2010, 05:43 PM
Bro! Dun Say I dun warn you hor!

Have you head of wikileaks? dun pray pray ah... :D

tyson_usa
09-12-2010, 06:11 PM
Bro! Dun Say I dun warn you hor!

Have you head of wikileaks? dun pray pray ah... :D

Heng... SBF does not have WikiSam... I am safe then. :)

waiwaiz
09-12-2010, 06:32 PM
TS.don think too much la.....likely she juz wan a friend to help her settle down easier in sg.....unless u make lots of promise to her. u can always bring some friends along with u wherever u go............unless u scare your friend potong her away lor.........:):)

tyson_usa
10-12-2010, 10:07 AM
TS.don think too much la.....likely she juz wan a friend to help her settle down easier in sg.....unless u make lots of promise to her. u can always bring some friends along with u wherever u go............unless u scare your friend potong her away lor.........:):)

I dint promise her anything at all. Yup, u are right. Maybe I think too much.... but i will remain alert and skeptical especially on money matters. I aint Robert 仔。

naturegreen
10-12-2010, 10:22 AM
Hi guys, one of the KTV girls I know in china is visiting Singapore. She says that she is coming here alone for holidays and she asks whether we can meet up...........


Put yourself in her shoes. If you are a lady in China for holidays, how will you feel if the guy only keeps bringing you to fuck in a hotel/car and not bring you out to places of interest to visit. You are there for holidays and not just to fuck. If you only just wish to fuck and ask her get lost, then at least get a tour guide for goodness sake. You don't have to pay for one. PM me and I will volunteer gladly to do it on behalf of you to bring her around and show her the beauty of Sillypore. :D

So if she asks u for help, you can consider recommending her to SBF brothers...........

Good suggestion

hoosdathu
10-12-2010, 11:52 AM
don't be paranoid lah, she haven't asked u to 包 her yet, no need so kan cheong...

just treat her as a normal FL u've bonked here lor.
if she's really coming purely for leisure (which is prob not the case, my guess :D), let her know that u still gotta work n don't have time to bring her around for days like full-time tour guide.
if she's coming over to make money, lagi best. she'll be too busy seeking $ to stick to u ;)

honii
10-12-2010, 02:18 PM
It is ok to bring her around as long as you dont behave intimately with her in public. Like what the other bros mentioned, set the tone right with her. If you wanna bonk her, I believe it can be done so too.

tyson_usa
10-12-2010, 02:40 PM
don't be paranoid lah, she haven't asked u to 包 her yet, no need so kan cheong...

just treat her as a normal FL u've bonked here lor.
if she's really coming purely for leisure (which is prob not the case, my guess :D), let her know that u still gotta work n don't have time to bring her around for days like full-time tour guide.
if she's coming over to make money, lagi best. she'll be too busy seeking $ to stick to u ;)

Yup. Already told her that I got to work in the day, and the most I can do is to fetch her to the destination and then go back to workplace. At night if got time, then i will have dinner with her.

Sure, wont misbehave in public, even if she has a loose strain of hair on her forehead. I wont even brush up her hair in public.