Couples for swing!?

[ryajon]

we are looking for discreet, safe, clean, trustful, respectful, polite couples for swinging. not looking at swapping partners at the time being, no string attached.

Age 18-46 may apply :rolleyes:

we shall go for a drink first, get to know each other. We are not chatty type of person, so dun be offended nor thought we are not friendly if we don't talk much ;)

if u r into swinging, pls pm us.

[Predatorsg]

correct me if i m wrong.

seems like a lot of pple here are abusing the term "swing"

i believe "swinging" shd involved exchanging partners.

if not it would just be call "same room sex"

so "soft swing" shd be exchanging partners for petting and oral sex except penetration.

"hard swing" will involve penetration too.

just hope everyone gets a clearer picture.

[tatata21]

if at bar talking only then is called socialising, lol...

if in room, not swinging then i dunno do what, watch dvd or play daidee?

[batboyz]

if at bar talking only then is called socialising, lol...

if in room, not swinging then i dunno do what, watch dvd or play daidee?

Watch HD movies la..DVD is out of date ;)

[ColourBlindx2]

correct me if i m wrong.
seems like a lot of pple here are abusing the term "swing"
i believe "swinging" shd involved exchanging partners.
if not it would just be call "same room sex"
so "soft swing" shd be exchanging partners for petting and oral sex except penetration.
"hard swing" will involve penetration too.
just hope everyone gets a clearer picture.

My humble opinions (after swinging for a year) are as follows:

Swinging can be generally categorised into HARD and SOFT.

HARD means full swap of partners (protection strongly recommended).

SOFT means no vaginal penetration, but oral and petting are optional. I mean, couples can share the same room, the same bed. But they can choose not to even touch each other.

Some might ask, why swing in the first place if you cant touch what you see?

Let me give you one of the many reasons.

It could be a new, inexperienced couple who is apprehensive about the whole idea of swinging but wants to give it a try.
In order not to leave anybody traumatised or mentally disturbed, such couples can initially try by having a third party in the room. Now that's when soft swinging is required, so that nobody feels obliged to do something that he or she doesnt wish to.

Makes sense?

Conclusion for reason #1: Soft swinging works well as a means to explore the swinging lifestyle.

Another instance can be that the couples have not felt comfortable with each other yet and would like to give it a try. It's like going on probation. If the soft swinging experience was great, then they could very well move on to a full swap (hard swinging) afterwards!

Darling and i have been looking for couples. Met many couples. But many had been one-off; means swing once and never met again. Not that the experience was bad, but just that we wanted to find 2 or 3 couples whom we could settle down with. Swinging with newbies all year round aint a fun thing to do....

Conclusion for reason #2: Soft swinging can be a way to finding your dream couple.

Some couples just want other people to be around! They are called exhibitionists. Good example of an exhibitionist-couple: the Colourblinds.

We dont need people to participate all the time. Darling likes showing off his sexual prowess, and i dont give it a damn as long as i get a fucking good time. People can stand around, sit or play with their partners while we are performing our deed. And darling lasts for a significantly longer period of time when there are people around; hence i tend to benefit from the extended fuck.

Conclusion for reason #3: Soft swinging is a way of spicing up your love life without having to suck/fuck/finger/lick another person.

My main conclusion is:

Why be so particular about defining whether it is a soft or hard swing? As long as everybody gets to have safe fun, nothing really matters!
Unless it's those guys who say, "hey i have a girl! let's swing!" and end up concentrating totally on the other female, while neglecting his own partner. Now that's a bad swinger who is using his girl as a ticket to humping other girls.




Colourblind f

[ColourBlindx2]

correct me if i m wrong.
seems like a lot of pple here are abusing the term "swing"
i believe "swinging" shd involved exchanging partners.
if not it would just be call "same room sex"
so "soft swing" shd be exchanging partners for petting and oral sex except penetration.
"hard swing" will involve penetration too.
just hope everyone gets a clearer picture.

My humble opinions (after swinging for a year) are as follows:

Swinging can be generally categorised into HARD and SOFT.

HARD means full swap of partners (protection strongly recommended).

SOFT means no vaginal penetration, but oral and petting are OPTIONAL. I mean, couples can share the same room, the same bed. But they can choose not to even touch each other.

Some might ask, why swing in the first place if you cant touch what you see?

Let me give you one of the many reasons.

It could be a new, inexperienced couple who is apprehensive about the whole idea of swinging but wants to give it a try.
In order not to leave anybody traumatised or mentally disturbed, such couples can initially try by having a third party in the room. Now that's when soft swinging is required, so that nobody feels obliged to do something that he or she doesnt wish to.

Makes sense?

Conclusion for reason #1: Soft swinging works well as a means to explore the swinging lifestyle.

Another instance can be that the couples have not felt comfortable with each other yet and would like to give it a try. It's like going on probation. If the soft swinging experience was great, then they could very well move on to a full swap (hard swinging) afterwards!

Darling and i have been looking for couples. Met many couples. But many had been one-off; means swing once and never met again. Not that the experience was bad, but just that we wanted to find 2 or 3 couples whom we could settle down with. Swinging with newbies all year round aint a fun thing to do....

Conclusion for reason #2: Soft swinging can be a way to finding your dream couple.

Some couples just want other people to be around! They are called exhibitionists. Good example of an exhibitionist-couple: the Colourblinds.

We dont need people to participate all the time. Darling likes showing off his sexual prowess, and i dont give it a damn as long as i get a fucking good time. People can stand around, sit or play with their partners while we are performing our deed. And darling lasts for a significantly longer period of time when there are people around; hence i tend to benefit from the extended fuck.

Conclusion for reason #3: Soft swinging is a way of spicing up your love life without having to suck/fuck/finger/lick another person.

My main conclusion is:

Why be so particular about defining whether it is a soft or hard swing? As long as everybody gets to have safe fun, nothing really matters!
Unless it's those guys who say, "hey i have a girl! let's swing!" and end up concentrating totally on the other female, while neglecting his own partner. Now that's a bad swinger who is using his girl as a ticket to humping other girls.

There's no "should" or "should not". There's only "prefer" and "prefer not to".



Colourblind f

[ColourBlindx2]

Sorry about the double posting. Please refer to the latest one, thanks! (simply added a line - There's no "should" or "should not". There's only "prefer" and "prefer not to".)

No offense to anyone by the way!!

And can the threadstarter do a self introduction of his partner and himself as well??




Colourblind f

[ryajon]

Thanks for the reply

as we r new , so we would start by watching at the moment, and see how things go. But the female & female can have some touching, my girl is new so the female could try to teach or lead her. :)

non-pushy, we jz a normal couple.. :)

Any new couples here as well? :)

[ColourBlindx2]

Thanks for the reply

as we r new , so we would start by watching at the moment, and see how things go. But the female & female can have some touching, my girl is new so the female could try to teach or lead her. :)

non-pushy, we jz a normal couple.. :)

Any new couples here as well? :)

Bro,

WE have a party tomorrow ....maybe 3-5 couples at an apartment near clarke quay/robertson area.....

If you keen to come by... take it slow (or fast).... most girls are bi too... kekeke a lot of teachers to show ure gal the ropes!

Lets us know okie?

PM us ya?

colourblind

[huntingmilfs]

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