anyone got bored of commercial sex?

[armpitfetish]

Visited GL once in a while and got numbed to the feeling of 'cold hard sex'
anyone got a clue what i'm trying to describe?

The girls just blow your dick, fuck you hard and thats it... there's very little intimacy, the feeling is not sensual and the man-woman/boy-girl sex-citement feeling is not there... anyone felt this way? Or have i always picked the wrong girl??

Can any bro share where or how to find a sex partner who is not your lover, but treats you like lover and make sensual, intimate mind blowing sex with you?

Its funny, though i'm a man, i feel like exactly like those typical housewives on TV who goes through the motion when they fuck with their husband :p

[nukebomb]

Commercial sex is artificial sex, dun expect much just pay, fuck and go.

It main purpose is to let you got short term enjoyment, if you are unlucky may get long term illness.

Sometimes wife or mistress also fake to be natural sex, i think is only she love you is real sex.:)

[daring70]

if you want feeling, you have to "invest" time in the girl, best is to target someone (masseuse, pdmm, salesgirl, hairdresser etc) who doesn't (or rarely) do with customers. if she develops a liking for you and does it eventually, you will have a mindblowing experience.

the downside is that they are less experienced and may be less adventurous in bed. the bigger danger is that they might become sticky ... which will be a really big headache ...

[Decartes]

Can't have the same kind of food all the time, right? So need to mix and match.

[naturegreen]

Woah! TS, your thread just came in time and I was wondering about this as well. I am getting pretty sick of commercial sex as well. Let's not compare GL's streetwalkers. Their service is 101% fucked up. In the past when I went, cannot even cum and they keep rushing for time. This is something which gets most of us pissed off. At least now I have a few lobangs whereby the girls are providing much better GFE feelings and better service, enough to make me cum, but still getting sick of it already. :p

[tatata21]

this calls for a time to visit the FL dome... many bros keep recommend "wun rush for time" "intimate GFE".. blablabla. perhaps read a few FRs to determine the good ones, being willing to spend more is also natural u'll get better service. "you pay peanuts you get monkeys, in this case you get no cum"

i think other good way is to find a FB, fuck buddy. I'm not sure if it is easy here but there are certainly a few, if you are new to this then it should be "fun" and might spice you up a little.

[sjb1994]

TS, me have same experience. Reading all FR here make me hard, either in GL or FL section, but when in the room and start action, just feel missing something, some times even can't come. Once in awhile will meet a gal with feel, that's a good session.

But from my hamble experience, chances of meeting good feel gal are higher in FL than GL gal. Mat be they are not so professional. Local gal make me feel better too, may be can chat better in same topic.

Anyway as bros here said, pay sex is fuck, pay and go, don't stick.:)

[tyson_usa]

I do feel sianz with commercial sex without feeling. Standard SOP.... Girls strip, cat bath, cap dick with condom, put dick into vagina.... sibeh boh feeling. Sometimes, if cant get hard, the gals will do the "zhe" sound..... this kind confirm wont make me stand. I pay money to have a good time and gals give me attitude with the "zhe" sound... sibeh tulan.

Also i hate those gals who do not allow me to kiss and french them. Without kissing, sibeh no feeling at all.

I like those sessions which the gals wont rush me and will also let me auto-roam and kiss/french them. this kind will at least build up the sensual feeling inside me and makes my 2ic stand and cum.

But having said that, that means i have to go back to the same gal which is also damn sian. That;s why I treasure those FRs given by the bros here.

[jugesam]

TS, got the same kinda feeling too. unfortunately do not have the time, money and luck to find a fb. so bo bian got to stick to fl. hard to find one that give you the gfe, and they are rare, but there are still some out there. unless there is someone with a better solution, if not eat more home cook food until u find a fl that suits u lor :(

[Ziron]

I do feel sianz with commercial sex without feeling. Standard SOP.... Girls strip, cat bath, cap dick with condom, put dick into vagina.... sibeh boh feeling. Sometimes, if cant get hard, the gals will do the "zhe" sound..... this kind confirm wont make me stand. I pay money to have a good time and gals give me attitude with the "zhe" sound... sibeh tulan.

Also i hate those gals who do not allow me to kiss and french them. Without kissing, sibeh no feeling at all.

I like those sessions which the gals wont rush me and will also let me auto-roam and kiss/french them. this kind will at least build up the sensual feeling inside me and makes my 2ic stand and cum.

But having said that, that means i have to go back to the same gal which is also damn sian. That;s why I treasure those FRs given by the bros here.

talking about this make me angry. i went to L18H14 and call firl number 138.

go in room nia, gave cold shoulders. nvm, hoping maybe on bed action she will be better. Bathed and came out, straight away tell me "20 min is all u got". In my heart SMLJ, i am not first day come Gland and find thai ger.

On bed while she is blowing me, i went to touch her nipple. Straight away gave me the Zeh sound and show black face.

nt long later she cap me and start to cow girl me. Hump me with all her might, knn. I dulan i stood up and say i wan missionary. In return of her FARKING BAD SERVICE, i hump her back hard. After shoot out, i tell her in her face she gt FARK UP SERVICE. i came to happy in the end spoilt my mood. Come Pay $$ and See your farking black face.

She then dont knw mumble what in Thai, i tell her fuck off. I went to bath and fuck off from the house.

on the way out, told the okt that i came so many times and this girl make me dont come again. he hear also stun, i told him I came and pay $ and get fark up service + knn black face.

[Ravenzou]

TS, u hve started a new topic which most bro here are getting there. It is true that after chionging GL or FL , we do get sian of it because there is no chemistry with each other and just to release physical load but we do hve some emotion and mental that need to release. Thats why some found FB which does the job.

[wulfboy8]

Commercial sex is artificial sex, dun expect much just pay, fuck and go.

It main purpose is to let you got short term enjoyment, if you are unlucky may get long term illness.

Sometimes wife or mistress also fake to be natural sex, i think is only she love you is real sex.:)

Agree with you brother. I've outta commercial sex for some years liao.

[Thrax]

I also feel that way from time to time. But since I do not want to get into a relationship but still need to release with someone that at least have a bit of feel, I turn to ktv girls.

I pay bout $200 - $250 for overnighters, 2-3 shots. At least that way not rush, tho service is not guaranteed. I only approach those that can click well with at the ktv. Not all have been very good, but some have been memorable :)

2-3 yrs down the road I still have irregular sessions with them cos I think we have already gotten the hang of each other. It's not the real thing but for me, at least a little connection, even if it is paid for.

[nukebomb]

Agree with you brother. I've outta commercial sex for some years liao.

So how you survive?:D

[wulfboy8]

So how you survive?:D

I now only have sex with my wife and playing with my kid happily ;)

[nukebomb]

I now only have sex with my wife and playing with my kid happily ;)

A gentlemen to respect

[Gmail]

From time to time also feel like bored by it, but when I find one with good service, all my blues disappear :D

RTF and RTF and then get bored and cycle repeats.

[aki9]

maybe you ought to progress to swinger-sex,..pay fpe a WL,..and combine with other couples,...mor seXicting,..yes ? But the cons would be some additional politics,..

[abcxyz1606]

one of the solution prob is try to role play? or reverse the actions...or try other positions..

[sun814]

yes getting bored of having to pay for sex. like today, 1st time manage to seduce a hairstylist, a milf from prc (only second time there) into bonking her right inside the hair saloon (new saloon, that's why no customers at that time - about 2 to 3 pm and her partner was not around). she was so wet n wild n very exciting as her partner may come back anytime. she really enjoys it too n promise to be my fb), only paid $30 for hair wash n simple massage n get a great sexperience!

[sun814]

actually when was there for the first time, i was aiming for her partner who was much chio than her, but today she was there alone, so manage to bong her. now think back also wonder who tried to seduce who, as i can't remember who started to talk about sex first. :p

[Tripster]

Bros,

Can you blame the Sex workers? Day in day out they are banged up by us. Sure we pay for service but really they are human too...I once counted the checksheet in the notebook of a Sex worker who is quite Ang Pai and she had done it with 32 guys before me...how do you keep up the GFE...ie. Once more with feeling? They do not have feelings anymore.

If you want feelings, don't think about your own needs and try a little empathy before the action...it helps and you may get a little GFE. Also...what do we want for 20 - 25mins? I find when I pay for a double session and take my time with them, it is better...How much faking can they give? After 6 mths, I can say many are jaded...

If you want variety, follow some of our Bros' advice, try different things (FL, WLs, Masseuse, pdmm, MILF, OL, Colleagues, Maids, teachers, hawkers, salesgirls, bubble tea girls, Chinese girls on study pass, KTV, restaurant servers...etc) Many may not lead to sex, but at least you get variety...Remember, if we can think more about others, and not about ourselves...you will never get bored...trust me. But the ultimate...like our dear bro is ---- to have sex with your wife and play with your kids...

SBF has all the research you need. Give it a shot...if you get bored, maybe it's time to change track...you never know!

peace :D

[Xavierguy]

So how you survive?:D

A very good question.. haha

[Xavierguy]

Totally agrees with TS..

Commercial Sex scene does allows me to let of my steam... maybe too much partying and GLing when i was younger.. for quite a few years ago i was feeling monotonous at GL.. More like the F and go kind of the attitude..

Sometimes, i can't even bring myself to up the gal as i instinctively know that it's gonna be a bad mechanical session...

[turbo_slk200]

Yo bro TS

I also often get this type of lousy feeling. The feeling is even stronger when you meet with a lousy bonk or a feelingless bonk. The drive home from the hotel is even worst....extremely lonely.... When u start to reach home....the lousy feeling is at its max...you realise you wasted money to get bonk from from a pros.

Sometimes, I will ask myself WTF am I doing too ??? Then I will promise myself not to bonk anymore pros. However, once the urge to merge starts again, I find myself with these WLs again... hahahaha

[Fuckzilla]

It's a familiar feeling that usually found its way to me after a terrible or unsatisfactory bonk. I treat moments like these as a reminder to lay low for a while, recharging my diminished sex drive mojo. After a couple of days rest, all I need are some convincing FR's and pics for me to dash out there like an animal during mating season.

[slider_72]

The only commercial sex I get nowadays is by logging in to SBF. Can be quite sexciting to read some of the stories, especially bro Peterpan's hotwife stories. As for the real deal, been there, done that plus much much more. I think I had enough of it to last me a couple of lifetimes.

The SOP ones get rather boring after a while. Those with high gfe are high-risk for KC. I think fucking is kind of over-rated.

I think nowadays I derive more joy playing with my kids compared with sex. Mid life crisis? :confused:

[Ngengheng]

For me is very volatile like stock market..Sometimes love it and sometimes get bored after tried a lousy Fls.

[abcxyz1606]

there were 2 occasions where in a HC, i massage the gals (2 diff gals)..i think they enjoyed it very much and it lead to a good bonk after that too..

[bochapsing]

Yo bro TS

I also often get this type of lousy feeling. The feeling is even stronger when you meet with a lousy bonk or a feelingless bonk. The drive home from the hotel is even worst....extremely lonely.... When u start to reach home....the lousy feeling is at its max...you realise you wasted money to get bonk from from a pros.

Sometimes, I will ask myself WTF am I doing too ??? Then I will promise myself not to bonk anymore pros. However, once the urge to merge starts again, I find myself with these WLs again... hahahaha

agree...

always had tis lousy "wat a waste of $$" feeling after a lousy bonk... used to be excited by the "try-my-luck" way of letting recep pick the WL in HC, and hope for a pretty sexy WL... but most of the time ended by a very mechanical bonk (can't blame them too, u may be the x no of client of the day)...

till i found a WL tat i got chemistry (or maybe her service standard is damn good lo), whose gfe really top notch, she really make u feel tat u r making love rather then having commercial sex... after tat i only go bonk her, no more trial-and-error liao... but too bad, she disappeared from the scene liao... and i've been a "good boy" since then, which is almost 3 mths liao...

sighed... homecook not enuf, have to eat outside... but no luck of FBs... so no choice, hv to resort to commercial sex...

:p:p:p

[6929]

Woah! TS, your thread just came in time and I was wondering about this as well. I am getting pretty sick of commercial sex as well. Let's not compare GL's streetwalkers. Their service is 101% fucked up. In the past when I went, cannot even cum and they keep rushing for time. This is something which gets most of us pissed off. At least now I have a few lobangs whereby the girls are providing much better GFE feelings and better service, enough to make me cum, but still getting sick of it already. :p

ya bro i agree wit u, mi too kinda sian of commercial sex went down GL few months ago the gal bj for mi but cannot stand say my bird spoil and give mi black face scold mi bird cannot stand y cum gl??!! WTF....

after tat went hm watch porn testing my bird see got spoil ornot hahaha can stand and vomit leh. really nid abit of GFE feeling and gd service if not hw to stand....

[DieCorkStand]

Yo bro TS

I also often get this type of lousy feeling. The feeling is even stronger when you meet with a lousy bonk or a feelingless bonk. The drive home from the hotel is even worst....extremely lonely.... When u start to reach home....the lousy feeling is at its max...you realise you wasted money to get bonk from from a pros.

Sometimes, I will ask myself WTF am I doing too ??? Then I will promise myself not to bonk anymore pros. However, once the urge to merge starts again, I find myself with these WLs again... hahahaha

I tot I am alone, seems like it is a common man experience ...

[yellowleaf]

This is what im feeling too... Commercial Sex is boring, no feeling.., even can go for overnite, bonk, cuddle and kiss thru out the nite, still the same..

I miss those kind of, care, love, and teasing, with my wife during courtship and a few relationship with Mistress.. SIGHZ>>> thats life ...

[Xenium]

Yeah me too :(

Or maybe I lacking other hobbies. Do things in moderations I think. There was one gal from KTV that offered me FOC after a few times with her, but I declined. Think she was trying to kc me or want to make me commit. But nonetheless, still rather bored of it.

I hope this phase passes fast, or else my life may end up getting more boring.

[duguwuti]

This is my 2 cents thoughts :-)

Find a FB if U can - is the best way out
When U got the urge asked her out to hv a good bonk
and when she's horny, she looked for U to hv a good fuck
Then U can hv all the feels that U're looking for - the GFE feel

[armpitfetish]

Didn't know so many bros here also experience the same low feeling... are we unknowingly suffering from this strange phase in life, generically defined as mid life crisis? some bros suggest finding a FB, which i think made some sense, although not easy for me. What about dating a young women in early 20s? Sure to have unlimited flow of lovely touchy feeling... then again, how high is the chance :rolleyes:

[sun814]

like me, went to find my fb in my "favourite" hair saloon again, the sex is even better n wilder than the first time, definitely hv gf feeling. somemore today too horny that we ignore the fact it is her time of the month. i think it is easier to find a fb among the milfs as some of them hv been deprived of good sex for sometime already.

[jacky43]

How could i miss this? 3pointers based on mine sexual quest. 1 Paid the right amount, eg WLs at PT brothels, max is $50. The least can tell she appreciated. 2 We 4ever customers she 4ever WLs. No strings attached.

Finally, 3 Seldom or no RTF WLs, why stay so devoted? They have countless customers, lovers in the good sense. Few good brothers retired, personally 4me is 10yrs later. Sons grow up, i don't wish to share same gals. We r traditional in certain degrees, something is best not to cross that line.

[PEACELUVER]

too much of anything will get bored. guys can get tired even of ocs, so how not to get bored of commercial sex? :rolleyes: :D

[tuxedosam]

well, if it's not delivering a kick, maybe one should just stop for a while and quit thinking about this whole bullshit as if it's some sorta necessity? c'mon, it's only the nebulous realm of commercial bonks we're talking about...hardly something you ought to be giving much weight to on the scale of importance! even if you wanna go on a fantasy run, you still can't hide from the fact that all these encounters with whores (of any hue and shade) are all just transactional...and yes, extremely transient... so it's really no big deal at all. hey, go find some proper hobbies, make some new friends, pick up additional skills or why not try to learn something different and outta your comfort zone...or how about just trying to live a more engaged and fulfilling life, eh? there are so many outlets, avenues and ways! simply open your eyes a little wider, for starters. still, i guess it's kinda normal too, to feel a sense of dissatisfaction and unease. maybe we've all been taught that sex should be kinda emotionally and psychologically fulfilling, in addition to, more obviously, the dimension of physiological gratification...something kinda hard with pussy-time (with a stranger) you're explicitly forking out cold hard cash for, huh? and i suppose the intrusion of a mid-life crisis only makes things worse, heh. guess that's why some guys would rather suspend the fuck-n-forget rule and get themselves embroiled (serially even) in some KC-driven tie-up with these sex workers. just to get some extra kicks to make it worth their while, i reckon. nothing wrong, provided you know where to draw the lines and how exactly to tell fantasy and make-believe GFE apart from the unpleasant but inescapable facts on the ground at the end of the day. hmph...well, to each his or her own so whatever floats your boat. i can obviously think of much better ways to pass time or fling money away than trying to hit on some whore, however well-manicured the form she assumes may be, but hmmm...some thrills are obviously not everyone. different folks, different strokes...so if whoremongering ain't your cup of tea any more, trying a nice new and totally different beverage will probably do the trick.

[Russell]

Everyone gets bored of it once in a while, want to find someone to be with that is not paid for. But the need within compels us to release, whether DIY or paid for.

Or maybe just that mojo drop so need not as strong, that's why feel bored with it. KTV is a good place to regain it back, some gals tease you in there to get your mojo up. And if you up a ktv girl, unlikely she will be rushing for the next appt so no worries of time watcher. Altho it is still commercial, but overall still better feel than FLs for me.

[tomvoyeur]

Well - what can one feel good abt one's sexual prowress when ur partner is only interested in your wallet? ;)

[longwinter]

Well - what can one feel good abt one's sexual prowress when ur partner is only interested in your wallet? ;)

well although the girls are only interested with the notes in our wallet, but still we guys still continue to go for commerical sex, isnt it? :D

[stephan]

read most of the posts here, its quite normal go through the state by state, performance will getting worse and worse...

Play until duno what's new can be try, even free bonk also sian... then slowly ur kuku will become impotent... that's me... :(

[hipgrinder]

TS, I feel the same way too.

Generally I'm not as motivated to go as before, maybe because:
- Been there, done that, nothing so exciting anymore.
- FR and own experience many times differs
- No matter how shiok the FL seemed to be, I know she's just doing her job. I paid her to perform. And how well I perform, will not be appreciated.

Sex with GF is completely different - can be intimate, fun (with laughter), violent, lazy, cannot-erect, and GF definitely won't put up a show (at least for mine)... etc. But I find sex like this more relaxed, and more enjoyable.

For paid-sex, you go into the room with only 1 purpose: Must Shoot before times up - very commercial. And the environment different, FL may not know what you like etc, makes it very hard to fully enjoy.Many times after I walk out, I turn out regret spending that 100/+ bucks.

I suppose intimacy is the key. I suppose its hard to find that in paid-sex.

[GreyWind]

My urge vs bored scale fluctuates. Sometimes realli so sick of it, other times miss sex so much. Meet one with good service and urge scale goes up and try more. Get one with lousy service I just go into mountain untill urge calls again.

[Nereus]

read most of the posts here, its quite normal go through the state by state, performance will getting worse and worse...

Play until duno what's new can be try, even free bonk also sian... then slowly ur kuku will become impotent... that's me... :(

I think I am headed where you are now. I just watched some hardcore porn last night and was just not into it, fast forward the whole thing thro. Used to get horny after watching it but just so bored with sex now.

I want to do it but at the same time so tired of it, kinda confusing :confused:

[Tripster]

My urge vs bored scale fluctuates. Sometimes realli so sick of it, other times miss sex so much. Meet one with good service and urge scale goes up and try more. Get one with lousy service I just go into mountain untill urge calls again.

That is why we have SBF...we can do research first...:D

peace.

[sundial]

Commercial sex is needed when wife only does it out of duty.
It comes to not too much of difference thereafter you shoot.
In fact for me I enjoy commercial sex than wife sex.

[Pecan]

If able to get one with good gfe and be able to not KC, I think will probably cure your boredom with commercial sex. At least paid sex is good in that no commitments.

Just for guys like me :D

But I also do get bored also from time to time :(

[squiggle]

No matter how hard to try to find hot girls out there, having sex with many girls & etc. You still can't obtain the greatest sexual pleasure without having sex with your true love.

Things like sports. You being playing them on Wii, computer & etc. You can't get the sweat & enjoy. Without participating in the real sports.

When you paid for sex with the girl. They just only want your money that's all. You want their boobs & hole that's all.

Last time I went fk a thai girl. Did cowgirl. She only looked at my cock not my face when doing it. Just to make sure I cum & end the task that's all.

[GreyWind]

That is why we have SBF...we can do research first...:D

peace.

Sometimes ppl different taste. I got kenna lousy ones that some FRs say good. Then some that I quite enjoy their FRs have some bad.

A lot down to luck, can only use FRs as reference, everyone's experience will be different so hit and miss. What to do :rolleyes: Have urge then must satisfy :D

[freezetheDB]

commercial is only for quick physical release.

if you crave for intimacy (or any pseudo kind), all you will be left with after the session is a temporary void that leaves you empty (mentally and wallet).

Like one of the bros mentioned earlier, if commercial sex is getting boring, maybe its time to take a break and venture into a new hobby (sports, music, art, craft, gaming, etc...). Who knows you might come back stronger, harder.

[thomas83]

Well, I just started exploring commercial sex(2 FLs to be exact) recently for the intimacy factor mentioned. I havent got bored yet but have already started to feel some of the similar "side effects" mentioned.

No matter how "real" the gal "enjoyed" it, when money is involved directly, i can't help thinking that the "enjoyment" she had was just part of the service package and that I'm just a desperate and pathetic pervert that she didn't mind doing to get compensated for(probably very true). It can feel amazing during the deed, but after that when I look back, it feels kinda sad that the only kind of intimacy I can get is the "pretended" kind and not without involving a cash transaction(no offense to the other brothers, juz a personal feeling.)

But sadly it is my only option at the moment due to my life style(dun smoke/club/drink...basically a geek) & social circle(surrounded by freaking guys). I've been single(and a fucking virgin at 27) all my life. Just an average joe without an impressive income, resume, appearance or a winning personality...not that i'm awkward or ugly(just avergae). I used to think, I dun need a gf, dun wanna look pathetic or desperate by expressing interest in ladies unless the feeling was mutual. If i'm ugly, so be it, if I'm someone's second choice then i rather not be a choice to them at all...they can shaft it up their ass if they think deserve better, but now paying for sex has just made my self-esteem dipped to the lowest of low. So well, i'm not bored yet, but i'm feeling other things at the moment.

But anyway, i do agree and so m taking the advise of getting more outta life by engaging in other more fulfilling activities to distract myself from the urge, but when im r horny, i still need to fuck....tats all i'm saying....

[Ivann]

Yesterday at noon, had 2 shots. First AJ, second HJ.

Yesterday midnight another 2 shots, different girl. Normal FJ. Don't feel the satisfaction anymore even tho I got a tight AJ which I am normally very high about. And that is after about 40+ days of no sex and still feel so.

Man....I need something to perk me up, if I lose interest in sex, what else is there for me ? The body is willing but the spirit is just not receiving.....

[Archons]

I just diy nowadays. Prob get it on again when I need to hear moaning or a tight hug but think maybe not so soon. It is really hard to find something else to replace sex as a major hobby tho.

[thomas83]

I down to my 4th FL...starting to think that commercial sex might not be the thing for me. i like the physical initimacy and mutual feeling of enjoyment in sex but FLs being in it for the money & serving several clients a day & doing it on an almost daily basis can't possibly do tat...perhaps not at that price, but then again...i'm not filthy rich to afford a mistress or high-end escorts.

Since exploring the commerical sex scene, my sex drive has dropped significantly becoz almost all my experiences, although pleasurable during the process, has left me feeling unease and disappointed as most of the FLs juz hope i quickly get down to business while i actually enjoy taking things slowly. And then i'm always pressured into cumming as i book 2-3 hr sessions resulting in the gal waiting or expecting me to cum a certain number of times. one gal even kept asking me "y no cum", which i found it to be a turn off.

Im average looking but certainly not offensive looking n has a well maintained body(though not atheletic). I tried to be presentable by dressing nicely, shave(all the necessary places), making sure my breath n body doesnt have any unplesant smell, be polite to the ladies n even offer to give them backrubs for up to 20mins before we commence the main action. My mentality was that by doing all those things it would feel less like a "i need the money, so ill do you" and more like a "i need the money, i'll do u, but i might enjoy it"...... So wif all that in mind, i thought i was able to get a more sensual experience outta the paid sex but now i know i'm fucking naive n probably a little idiotic for having that mentality for a while there...its juz abt fucking and releasing that sexual tension, getting it over n done with.

if I want some cuddling time, lots of foreplay(not the pretended kind) and be able to cum without being expected to....only a gf or a FB can do tat...but well, its not gonna happen for me soon....

[ahseng9]

Bro, if you are taling about red light distric commercial sex, yes it is bore after a while. But its different with the OKT gals.

I am in contact with one in BKK. Somehow we continue as friend and lover.
Whenever I go BKK for work, she will stay with me, have dinner and party.
I just pay for the partying but sometimes, when my cash runs out, she pays.
The clubs there only except cash.
So, these thai gals do have relationship also but you still have to be careful and dont fell into the honey trap. Money is still king so dont part with it for her so easily.
Guess I am the only guy that dont pay her because she have 3 boyfriends that give her allowances.

[Chazz]

When feel stress, at home of office, still go looking for sex, be it fl or wl. Even if you know it is not real but at least mind off what is stressing you for a short while even if you come out feeling the same, which I always do. I am bored of it, but still need to release even after release still feel stress. At least short reprieve better than nothing at all, compared to thinking about it all the time.

Ironic, bored of it but still cannot do without it.

[sun814]

i think the best option is to find a fb, like my fb, she knows right from the start that i m married with a kid, so she will not try to breakup my family, she also has a bf btw. we always have the hottest n wildest sex whenever we meet up, i think we are even addicted already as the sexual attraction and tension is too great.

[yachidino]

Hi Bro Tripster, I like your ideal have to venture to in any kind of woman in our life.
At one time i had philippine delight, where i go steak with red or white wine for dinner and the other time i had after delight with PDMM from Shanghai where every afternoon lunch time i got PDMM abalone and different type of Gyoza that you will not get bore but need little investment lah.

[Colt]

Not yet bored with commercial sex. Although it is paid for and no feelings involved but the feel of finding one that knocks your socks of is really great and compensates for all the lousy ones :D I hope I never get bored :)

[Fairlady4u]

Not yet bored with commercial sex. Although it is paid for and no feelings involved but the feel of finding one that knocks your socks of is really great and compensates for all the lousy ones :D I hope I never get bored :)

How could you ever be bored if you bonk and run :mad:

[Colt]

How could you ever be bored if you bonk and run :mad:

What the HELL are you talking about me fuck & run ??!!! :mad::mad:

If you want, arrange a meet up with your girl, you and me and see if I am the one who did a runner. No use talking too much here, only showing my face to you and your girl will I prove I am not the one who did what you so easily say thro your keyboard.

And when I prove I am not the one, is a lame apology from you all I am going to get from you ??!!

After I finish this post, I am going to msg you. Before I meet you, I want samsters here to decide first, what should you do when I prove to you I am not the one.

[jnudes]

Well commercial sex is pretty expensive. I always say to myself: "Fucking with pros are risky and expensive so don't over do it"

I only cheong say once in a blue moon, that is after I got tired of masturbating.

I believe one day when I got totally bored and get married I may leave the pros away for good.

[michaelrocksam]

Well commercial sex is pretty expensive. I always say to myself: "Fucking with pros are risky and expensive so don't over do it"

I only cheong say once in a blue moon, that is after I got tired of masturbating.

I believe one day when I got totally bored and get married I may leave the pros away for good.

u think visiting FL is expensive try having a wife. U can ask many married bros here.

The more years you are married, u will visit FL even more. My married friends cannot touch their wives on many occasions, whereas my gf initiates on many nites. Though i visit FL, it is mainly when she is not in sg.

[MoralEpitome]

My take is that transactional sex is better than FB sex as it may involves real feelings that end up hurting your marriage and your family... pump pay and forget!....but that we like to play with fire because ST just doesn't quite cut it after a while

[arizona]

My take is that transactional sex is better than FB sex as it may involves real feelings that end up hurting your marriage and your family... pump pay and forget!....but that we like to play with fire because ST just doesn't quite cut it after a while

I agree, having FB is like having a time-ticker TnT. but as long no emotional feeling involve and cut the chase, it will be just for pleasure.

Due to space constraints in this island and some dont travel far much. Many local boyz tends to got too emotional whenever they got laid with a lady, as if like eternal love already developed. Cant differentiate between P4P and relationship.

:p

[goodpartner]

If you can afford it, sponsor a FL after they quit the FL scene. It's still a commercial sex thingy, but the fact that you chose her out of so many is likely because there's enuff GFE to justify it.

Then you'll NEVER get bored with this type of commercial sex because you'll sure be have a roller coaster hell lots of "fun" on top of great sex; like trying to maintain that she'll be exclusive to you, trying to verify she's not after your money [only], and keep wondering how and when such relationship will end (after the first 2 are ascertained) :D:rolleyes:;)

It's just a different kinda commercial sex other than FB and Mistress; if they can also be considered "commercial" too.

[push0205]

sugar baby

[the_qwerty]

if you are looking for the gfe factor, best is to just find a gf. FB may not give you gfe coz it's just a fuck nth else. Besides a fl can only give you so much gfe, afterall you are paying her. After a while she will become jaded unless you are her regular.

[hock19]

Actually one can opt for returning to one particular FL or even gals in GL. And it depends on whether one just want a quick bonk and run; or to bonk with some feelings. I am in the second category.

The girls whether FL or GL has also feelings as well. In GL during the first encounter, you can more or less judge whether you have some sort of "feeling" if that is the word to use. or if she reciprocates. If I feel that there might be something brewing, I will RTF a few times, (possibly within a short span of time - army train - Concentration of forces - attack, attack, attack!!) If you play it right, this rapport will build up to an extent that it is better than a plain F***. Over the years, I have had such a relationship with some Malaysian GL to the extent of visiting them in KL when they are there. Now with the China GL gals, most of them are pretty business like and say the things you want to hear; but still i think there are still ones to whom you can develop some sort of relationship.

Same as the FLs - for FLs, since they are their own boss, and have less people visiting them for their services, the chances of getting "feelings" are higher, especially if you treat them well (and I am not talking about just giving them money). BUT the chances of a KC trap is higher with a FL than GL as the latter movements are restricted. Also I find that MILFs have a better chance of developing "feeling" relationship than a SYT.

You know that they have some feelings for you if they start calling you more than you think of them!!

[jacky43]

Yes! I do. Every sessions it feels dream come true. We accept Commercial sex workers a part of the society. Bored? rather SOP nothing much, mean we should if possible, control our thoughts.

However, RTF same FL WL, better services no doubt, they still operating biz we r customers. Knowing the tricks of CS, i believe i have get mine $ worth and, enjoy myself.

This is 1good aspect of some Chinese saying, never bring the cow home. I think it is talking about extra martial affairs. Is just not worth it, finally outside sex never trust anybody. Play safe, use protection! Good for everybody.

Have fun!

[arizona]

100% safe & cost free will be HJ... :p

[the_qwerty]

Actually one can opt for returning to one particular FL or even gals in GL. And it depends on whether one just want a quick bonk and run; or to bonk with some feelings. I am in the second category.

The girls whether FL or GL has also feelings as well. In GL during the first encounter, you can more or less judge whether you have some sort of "feeling" if that is the word to use. or if she reciprocates. If I feel that there might be something brewing, I will RTF a few times, (possibly within a short span of time - army train - Concentration of forces - attack, attack, attack!!) If you play it right, this rapport will build up to an extent that it is better than a plain F***. Over the years, I have had such a relationship with some Malaysian GL to the extent of visiting them in KL when they are there. Now with the China GL gals, most of them are pretty business like and say the things you want to hear; but still i think there are still ones to whom you can develop some sort of relationship.

Same as the FLs - for FLs, since they are their own boss, and have less people visiting them for their services, the chances of getting "feelings" are higher, especially if you treat them well (and I am not talking about just giving them money). BUT the chances of a KC trap is higher with a FL than GL as the latter movements are restricted. Also I find that MILFs have a better chance of developing "feeling" relationship than a SYT.

You know that they have some feelings for you if they start calling you more than you think of them!!

i agree with bro hock19. They are still human...so depending on the rapport you may get lucky and they will give you more gfe factor. I think the easiest way to gauge whether the FL is into you, are those FL that dun normally french. I think most bros you cheong often would know.

An FL will let you fuck them but not let you french them (less those who just french freely). So if you managed to KC them into frenching you, you are more or less there with them on an emotional level.

However IMO, getting a gf will give you more satisfactory results.

Cheers

[imaginative]

100% safe & cost free will be HJ... :p

Wrong!! HJ costs $50 market rate.

only DIY is free. :D

[too_hot]

Hi TS

Coincidentally i m also starting to feel tired but not really in the same way as u.

Have u only been cheonging GL? If yes, then its time for u to venture elsewhere and i tink will re-awaken u. The kind of GFE u're looking for u will very unlikely find in GL (i ve left GL scene for more than 3yrs already). You will have better chance in FL dome but there are so many dat u might need some luck. A good way is to gauge FRs from "reliable" bros (this is generally where high rep points come in).

Another possible place if from HC/TNs. Though nowadays many dun offer fj anymore, but many still can give u a very good time and in some cases, really like have feeling. I will never forget one masseuse dat after i visited her for the 4th or 5th time, she finally french me a bit, like shy shy nibble nibble. Then next visit the "nibbling" become slower and longer and more passionate. And then finally when my tongue gentle "knock on her lips", her lips parted for my tongue to enter where her own tongue was waiting for mine. Can feel her body shiver as our tongues start to intertwine, the rest is history. Although no fj, but the feeling of her "submission" to me and really feel like she give all her feeling to me was really indescribeable. But of course, things dun last and she had to leave (we did eventually have fj at a subsequent session and again was mind-blowing) and i m out of touch with her already.

So, there is plenty out there to discover. Go throught the FL Domes but there is a lot so choose carefully (i tink FL Dome 2 is most popular) and HC/TN threads. Even Petain got some dat can give u great feeling and sex for just $50 net.

But at the earlier part of my post i admit than i m tired already cos i tink over the past 7 to 8 yrs i ve easily spent $20k on cheonging and the "enjoyment" (marginal returns) is getting less and less. So now from twice a week, i'm down to twice a month. And only with my regular gals.