Sugar Daddy

[Lumix]

Ok i've a simple and short question here. If i have a friend who is looking for sugar daddy, how much should she be expecting to get ? :)I'm asking this because i do not have the ability to be a sugar daddy hence maybe some experienced bros can help me out, she can do anything less anal. She just want someone to pamper her and some TLC

If you have nothing good to contribute , my advice is next page pls.

Below is a rough pic of shat she is like

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[alvin36]

Ok i've a simple and short question here. If i have a friend who is looking for sugar daddy, how much should she be expecting to get ? :)I'm asking this because i do not have the ability to be a sugar daddy hence maybe some experienced bros can help me out, she can do anything less anal. She just want someone to pamper her and some TLC

If you have nothing good to contribute , my advice is next page pls.

Below is a rough pic of shat she is like

http://a.imagehost.org/0651/edited.jpg

Just share with you what I know from my counsin....

My counsin is married man, 40s... he got to know a young gal (23 yr old) from work and later he became that gal's FB or Sugar Daddy. They have mutual agreement that no string attached. My counsin would meet this gal about 1-2 times a week, for movie/dinner, buy her gifts, help her pay rental to a 3 room HDB flat.

In total he spent about $1200-$1500 on her monthly.

I guess this is the market rate, as the gal is not really out for money.

[dgsk]

It's not just about the body when deciding the price, bro.

It's the whole package; looks, how she carries herself, how she make the guy feel when they are together both publicly and privately, her history, her celebrity factor, and the chemistry between daddy and daughter.

That said, it ranges from $1k-$8k p/mth according to my friends. Excluding gifts. It can go way above this. But that the range I am told.

Hope this helps.

[dgsk]

Sorry. Dbl Post

[Lumix]

So far so good, the responses have been helpful. Any more inputs would be appreciated. :D

[mixcat]

My counsin is married man, 40s... he got to know a young gal (23 yr old) from work and later he became that gal's FB or Sugar Daddy. They have mutual agreement that no string attached. My counsin would meet this gal about 1-2 times a week, for movie/dinner, buy her gifts, help her pay rental to a 3 room HDB flat.

In total he spent about $1200-$1500 on her monthly.



That is easy money for a girl ... I wonder if she has 2 or 3 sugar daddies than the amt would be between $4000.00 to $5500.00 better than a manager's pay.:eek:

[Oralcraz]

OMG. She has a fantastic body. Hope her looks can compliment her physique. If that is so, she can easily find a high-end sugar daddy. High-end sugar daddy (Top Managers, CEOs, Directors, Towkays etc) can affort between $5-$10K per month or even more depending on both the daddy and sweetie qualities and attributes.

[aufait]

Maybe she should start by doing FL for a start. Get to know more people and with her qualities I am confident that some bloke will be prepared to part with alot of money to bao her.

[gimmeporn]

i know of this oil trader who makes like tens of thousands of dollars every month but divide it equally between his wife and 3 other mistresses, average its about 8000 a mth

[bangbangben]

I got to know of this lady who was being "Bao" by the big boss of a liquor distributor. Due to work reasons.

He even employed her to work in his company.

She stays at Belmoral Condo who is fully paid for by the boss and where ever she goes, she is being driven around by his ahmad.
When she tags along to business functions, he buy her diamonds and new dresses.

All and all, I think she cost around 10k to 15k per month just by the expenses.

This is what you call a lucky bitch.

[richie_rich]

All and all, I think she cost around 10k to 15k per month just by the expenses.
This is what you call a lucky bitch.

Some girls have all the luck.
But this kind of arrangement is usually not for long term. Like a professional footballler, their 'career' lifespan is short. So they must make as much as possible when they are still in 'demand'.

[Toyota Honda]

Personally, I think bao-ing a grirl for like $2 or $3K a month is not a wise thing to do. For me, I would at most go up to $1.5K flat and nothing more.

Even when we have a gf or wife, we don't do it everyday. What more of paying a girl a big lump sum just to keep her as yours? Its simply not wise investment.

For eg, $2k I can easily employ 2 prc admin girls to work in my office and slowly sian them. More worthwhile, more kick isn't it. And you provide them with a job to make them useful contributors to the society too. And not to mention they learn a skill and surviving thorough hard work rather than open leg.

[joew2005]

it depends on the situation,in terms of PT or FT .....

2 give 1~2k 4 PT is a reasonable amt 2 my knowledge.

if it's FT,then anything bet 6K~12k is the norm among the well-off ppl.

I knew of 1 gal fr a joint @craig rd,which was boa FT 4 S$12k/mth excluding lodging & daily expenses. Tat was abt 3 yrs back .....

recently a gal fr another joint(GS) was boa as well. She was paid S$6k/mth & it also excludes lodging,daily expenses & gifts.

The age & the quality would determine the ultimate price.But then 1 man's meat is another man's poison ..... u nvr knw wat could be the outcome!!

[Xgenre]

I had a few sugar babies before. I think the price is dependent on the quality of the girl, the frequency of the meet-ups, the exact scope of intimacy and what each party is looking for. the first worry will be on how to pay her. for the first month, when you are getting to know one another, do u pay her a whole month of fees at the first session? what if she disappears? then the fees she earns for the 1 single session is better than being an escort. do i pay her each time we meet for the 1st month? if yes, it will make her feel like a FL to collect $$$ after each session. she may not want also.

it's not easy to find someone who can be a sugar baby for long. once singaporean girls got a bit of savings already, their attitude tend to worsen. normally, it gets boring after 1-2 months and i'll be thinking why i even want to be a sugar daddy. pay money, must sweet talk her and pamper and love her. what do i get? sex and a bit of gfe only right...? almost 100% of singaporean girls think they got golden pussy.

why not tell us more about your friend and we tell you how much she can command? weight/height/bust stats/ vital stats/ frequency of meeting/age /race

[contribution]

My good friend once bao-ed a local Uni chick he found on msn

To cut the story short, she was still out of job and seeking interviews. My friend is from well-to-do family and owns 2 cars.

Damage: $4K per month
Others: Several branded bags and shoes while shopping with her. Not to mention meals at restuarants. And of cos, mid-range hotels like Orchard Parade Hotel. She dun wanna go cheapo ones like 81.

Total Damage for 7 months : Should be around more than $30K. Good enough for a fresh grad to apply for credit card. Haha ..

One more thing to add, she always wanted in cash, bi-weekly payments of $2K. The best part is my friend is not 24/7 with her as he has a steady gf to be married soon (at that time), so its like once bonk her like 2 times a week.

[Owen7]

TS, why she want a sugar daddy ?

[gonggong18]

TS, why she want a sugar daddy ?

For easy monies, if :PT pay will find a few sucker daddy,(opps I mean sugar daddy)

I know some of them are collecting 1.5k for rental by one and 1.5k for other expenses by another and something else by another, But all of t hem thought they are paying for her rental. So total 4.5k. Then she complained about the pub as she stays whole day at home, but pretend to go to work after session with each guy, then take a cab back to meet the next guy and the story goes on....smart right?

[bangbangben]

For easy monies, if :PT pay will find a few sucker daddy,(opps I mean sugar daddy)

I know some of them are collecting 1.5k for rental by one and 1.5k for other expenses by another and something else by another, But all of t hem thought they are paying for her rental. So total 4.5k. Then she complained about the pub as she stays whole day at home, but pretend to go to work after session with each guy, then take a cab back to meet the next guy and the story goes on....smart right?

4.5k to be like a FL...
think abit Bo Hua...
200/1/1. Same like doing 22 customer a month leh... :D

[tomvoyeur]

Someone is looking for a sugar mummy too! Anyone to intro!!!?????? :p

[OldTrafford]

My wife's boss is interested in being her sugar daddy.. zzz..

anyone gotch kena this type of situation?

[dgsk]

My wife's boss is interested in being her sugar daddy.. zzz..

anyone gotch kena this type of situation?

Congrats!

You are so lucky to have a wife that others find attractive enough to bao.

And she still finds you the better choice.

[hunter2005]

I had a few sugar babies before. I think the price is dependent on the quality of the girl, the frequency of the meet-ups, the exact scope of intimacy and what each party is looking for. the first worry will be on how to pay her. for the first month, when you are getting to know one another, do u pay her a whole month of fees at the first session? what if she disappears? then the fees she earns for the 1 single session is better than being an escort. do i pay her each time we meet for the 1st month? if yes, it will make her feel like a FL to collect $$$ after each session. she may not want also.

it's not easy to find someone who can be a sugar baby for long. once singaporean girls got a bit of savings already, their attitude tend to worsen. normally, it gets boring after 1-2 months and i'll be thinking why i even want to be a sugar daddy. pay money, must sweet talk her and pamper and love her. what do i get? sex and a bit of gfe only right...? almost 100% of singaporean girls think they got golden pussy.

why not tell us more about your friend and we tell you how much she can command? weight/height/bust stats/ vital stats/ frequency of meeting/age /race

:):p well said.........

[Oralcraz]

My wife's boss is interested in being her sugar daddy.. zzz..
anyone gotch kena this type of situation?

You are in danger zone. Must be wary bro.

[OldTrafford]

Danger zone? Hmm.. not that there's anything I can do about it is there..

Ask her to change job meh..

[bangbangben]

Danger zone? Hmm.. not that there's anything I can do about it is there..

Ask her to change job meh..

If you don't feel any danger...
maybe you can ask your wife to quote on high side so you can take the money???

hmm... feels like pimping your wife... :rolleyes:

[Oralcraz]

Danger zone? Hmm.. not that there's anything I can do about it is there..
Ask her to change job meh..

I've seen some Potong Jalan cases like this. Change job or not or whether having faith in yr wife is another issue. However, if you don't sense any danger, well, is yr call. Good luck.

[Toyota Honda]

Danger zone? Hmm.. not that there's anything I can do about it is there..

Ask her to change job meh..

Changing job won't help. Remember the other threads that is discussing about angmo guys and y they are able to get girls? If your competitor is rich and thick-skinned.. U are in danger.

Wife is also human, and humans do err when the opportunities arrives. Its a matter of when.. Really. Beware...

If I were you, I will take care of the boss direct. Not confront, but to pick your wife and show him who is the guy in charge. If he doesn't back off, make him lose his reputation since he is the boss and he has more to lose..

[Niceman]

I prefer sugar jie jie :D

[joew2005]

Pour some sugar on me ...... :)

[contribution]

If I were you, I will take care of the boss direct. Not confront, but to pick your wife and show him who is the guy in charge. If he doesn't back off, make him lose his reputation since he is the boss and he has more to lose..

I can't agree more ... If he still thick-skinned, then well... time for some lashing at the office for everyone to see on a busy afternoon ... of cos before that, will inform wife first and back-up plan for wife (change job or watever) ...

This kindda of ppl, no need give face, just make sure you lash at him until he got nothing to say & paisey ..

[Xgenre]

Danger zone? Hmm.. not that there's anything I can do about it is there..

Ask her to change job meh..

Of course lar. You prefer her to change job or change husband? If I were her boss, I will create scenarios that allow me to get close to her. Organise an overseas D&D, get her away from you then get her drunk. Or asking her to accompany me on overseas trip.

Or send her flowers in office so that everyone knows I want her. Even if she is innocent, people will gossip and make it sound as if it's true. Or Install a hidden camera in my office and spread some $1000 notes on my table. Then ask her to clear my table when I'm not around and see if she takes any of the $1000 notes. If she does, I would have proof of her stealing and can then blackmail her.

How? Better show her that you love her. But 1 thing is that since she tells you about her boss, it means she trusts that you will not get worried.

[overair]

My wife's boss is interested in being her sugar daddy.. zzz..

anyone gotch kena this type of situation?

like one bro says, congrats bro for having an attractive wife!!! ... mine is one attractive one but she does not like to show ... hahah ... so no one offer her even though i won't mind ...

like another bro says, go direct ... no confront or show who is the boss ... but negotiate a big fat deal ...

like another bro says too ... take the money ... wealth too if possible ... so you build yourself up to be in the same position to offer your wife back!!! :) level the playing field for yourself!! rather than feeling helpless!!! :)

[OldTrafford]

Hey guys, really interesting to read all the responses...

My wife's really attractive especially since she started working.. it's like a pretty girl's just a pretty girl, but put her in office wear with nice make up on.. To be honest I was really surprised (pleasantly) at how good she looks every morning when she leaves for work..
(you know, the type of colleague that you WISH you had?)

Anyway, to summarise things up and to avoid giving away too much details (Singapore's too small to risk it...) her boss had been extremely nice towards her since she joined the company, much nicer than fellow female colleagues who entered the firm around the same time.

He tried to be more of 'friends' with her instead of a 'boss-employee' relationship, and I knew right from the start he's up to no good. (come on we're all men... )

SMSing her frequently after working hours.. asking her out for 'coffee' on weekends..
He even eventually bought her expensive gifts like handbag, jewellery etc 'just to be nice' since she just started work and ain't earning a lot. Always timing his departure from the office to knock off together so he can offer to drive her back home too..
(what to do.. he earns truckloads of $$$.. really. -_-)

I mean, anyone can tell he's obviously interested in her.. (he's married with kids, but who cares nowadays eh) it pissed me off quite a bit, I didn't stop my wife from accepting his favours as long as he didn't try to make any 'advances' on her..
if he wants to shower gifts, just take lor.. see how long he can keep it up....

As expected... due to my wife keeping the relationship strictly as 'good friends' with him, the gifts steadily dried up and he's not 'as aggressive' anymore...

It's great to have an attractive spouse, but gotta deal with all the male colleagues hankering over her... (can't blame them, I would be trying to get in my wife's pants too if I were her co-worker)

Sorry for the lengthy post, just getting some of my feelings down here..

[Oralcraz]

Well, at least he back off abit.

[CasinoRoyal]

Hi

Could not help but agree to some of the posts here. esp. "golden pussy". LOL

I have been SD in past and in Singapore as well. Lot of wannabe Sugar Babes here don't actually know what it is. Monthly allowance can vary from 1k-15k depending on lot of things. like how long the arrangement is for? she had previous experience? how much of her time is spent on it ? How much does SD enjoy her company etc.

One more thing to note here is, if she is looking for reliable and long term SD, then ask her to expect less fancy life and financial help.

if she needs more, then she needs more of luck or go other way(FL)

[katelim]

i wan a sugar daddy too! :D

[Dirk Kuyt]

Wife is also human, and humans do err when the opportunities arrives. Its a matter of when.. Really. Beware...

You got beautiful wife so wat? The modern world now is money talks. If I can afford to throw enough money your wife will be my plaything :D

Welcome to the real world.

[Xgenre]

i wan a sugar daddy too! :D

mind an intro? age/race/height/weight/cup size/vital stats/frequency of meeting/scope of action/desired length of deal? :p

[waiwaiz]

i wan a sugar daddy too! :D

Somebody calling me?:p

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[Clearwaters]

After reading all the post, I think being a sugar daddy has its pros and cons. For one, you must have deep pockets if you choose to have a better quality mistress.
I had 3 mistresses all in all. However I am not married yet. When I was based in China, i used to tell the girls that i want to 'bai' that i am married, even though i was not. This allows me to switch their mindset to being my mistress/gf/fb rather than thinking of marrying me themselves (which can be useful for the wilder street gals or the ktv gals).

For a young 20 year old University Wuhan student, I paid her 4000RMB a month (approx 800SGD). She was sweet, very GFe and tall/modelisque (1.74) She was schooling and only came by on weekends by train to see me. Lasted 6 months.
For a 21 year old XinJiang KTV gal, I paid 8000RMB/mth (1600SGD). This included her rent and living expenses. When I am not free, she goes to work. This girl had one of the smoothest and fairest complexion ever. And her body is something out of a plyamate magazine. Couldn;t take her hot temper in the end. Lasted 5 months.
For a 23 year old Anhui KTV gal, i paid 5000rmb/mth (1000SGD). She had a superb body with nice long striaght hair. But i stopped supporting after 3 months cos she wanted more money and wasnt super in bed.
For a 26 Nanjing KTV gal, I paid 6000RMB a month (+80000rmb to start a shop). She was a great lover but mostly she had the 'dream babe' looks that i always like in my women. Her body was super hot. She quit her KTV job and took care of me like a wife. Lasted 10 months but eventualy had to break up cos she asked me to marry her.

Some of my previous 'mistresses' overlapped. Hence these gals were condensed over a 1.5year period. All in all, i think if you had a salary of SGD15000, it was comfortable to 'bao' these gals at the same time. It was fun but there was pain involved too. Every separation must be handled carefully with some emotional backlash. The money also runs pretty fast cos you sometimes had to buy addtional gifts. I typically limit my 'baoing' expenses to 20% of my salary max.

In the end, I sorta felt that baoing in china is not as worthwhile. Cos there are just too many girls. You get spoilt for choice and there are too many new interests. The best is to work from girl to girl short term , I feel.

[Toyota Honda]

In the end, I sorta felt that baoing in china is not as worthwhile. Cos there are just too many girls. You get spoilt for choice and there are too many new interests. The best is to work from girl to girl short term , I feel.

Bro, what do you mean by too many girls and get spoilt for choice? As in too many girls interested in you or?

[dgsk]

Ok i've a simple and short question here. If i have a friend who is looking for sugar daddy, how much should she be expecting to get ? :)I'm asking this because i do not have the ability to be a sugar daddy hence maybe some experienced bros can help me out, she can do anything less anal. She just want someone to pamper her and some TLC

If you have nothing good to contribute , my advice is next page pls.

Below is a rough pic of shat she is like

http://a.imagehost.org/0651/edited.jpg

So TS, what has your friend decided to do?
Has she offered her availability known?

[Lumix]

Guys sorry for lack of updates, i've received many pms , she is going thru them 1 by 1 , she is indeed looking for a sugar daddy, She is willing to be full time :D . What are the info required, she will not meet up easily as i know how many imposters get a thrill of just seeing a lady who is offering herself in real just for cheap thrill:rolleyes:

[dgsk]

Ok i've a simple and short question here. If i have a friend who is looking for sugar daddy, how much should she be expecting to get ? :)I'm asking this because i do not have the ability to be a sugar daddy hence maybe some experienced bros can help me out, she can do anything less anal. She just want someone to pamper her and some TLC

If you have nothing good to contribute , my advice is next page pls.

Below is a rough pic of shat she is like

http://a.imagehost.org/0651/edited.jpg

Guys sorry for lack of updates, i've received many pms , she is going thru them 1 by 1 , she is indeed looking for a sugar daddy, She is willing to be full time :D . What are the info required, she will not meet up easily as i know how many imposters get a thrill of just seeing a lady who is offering herself in real just for cheap thrill:rolleyes:

Then you short list for her lor.

[warbird]

After reading all the post, I think being a sugar daddy has its pros and cons. For one, you must have deep pockets if you choose to have a better quality mistress.
I had 3 mistresses all in all. However I am not married yet. When I was based in China, i used to tell the girls that i want to 'bai' that i am married, even though i was not. This allows me to switch their mindset to being my mistress/gf/fb rather than thinking of marrying me themselves (which can be useful for the wilder street gals or the ktv gals).

For a young 20 year old University Wuhan student, I paid her 4000RMB a month (approx 800SGD). She was sweet, very GFe and tall/modelisque (1.74) She was schooling and only came by on weekends by train to see me. Lasted 6 months.
For a 21 year old XinJiang KTV gal, I paid 8000RMB/mth (1600SGD). This included her rent and living expenses. When I am not free, she goes to work. This girl had one of the smoothest and fairest complexion ever. And her body is something out of a plyamate magazine. Couldn;t take her hot temper in the end. Lasted 5 months.
For a 23 year old Anhui KTV gal, i paid 5000rmb/mth (1000SGD). She had a superb body with nice long striaght hair. But i stopped supporting after 3 months cos she wanted more money and wasnt super in bed.
For a 26 Nanjing KTV gal, I paid 6000RMB a month (+80000rmb to start a shop). She was a great lover but mostly she had the 'dream babe' looks that i always like in my women. Her body was super hot. She quit her KTV job and took care of me like a wife. Lasted 10 months but eventualy had to break up cos she asked me to marry her.

Some of my previous 'mistresses' overlapped. Hence these gals were condensed over a 1.5year period. All in all, i think if you had a salary of SGD15000, it was comfortable to 'bao' these gals at the same time. It was fun but there was pain involved too. Every separation must be handled carefully with some emotional backlash. The money also runs pretty fast cos you sometimes had to buy addtional gifts. I typically limit my 'baoing' expenses to 20% of my salary max.

In the end, I sorta felt that baoing in china is not as worthwhile. Cos there are just too many girls. You get spoilt for choice and there are too many new interests. The best is to work from girl to girl short term , I feel.

Hi bro,

Thx for sharing ur experiences in BAO-ing MMs in China. Where were u based?

Just too many gals? All very chio? Hmmm...perhaps I should spend half of my remaining life there.:p

Cheers!

[CasinoRoyal]

Then you short list for her lor.


So who is the lucky(?) winner ?:p