another one : kena gong tao

[stone08]

I think I have kena gong tao in BKK. Not the true type of gong tao as in black magic.
I discovered the BKK scene last year. OMG, it was an eye opening experience, like a kid in a candy shop. :)
Like a paradise on earth.
You are treated like a king (almost) :)
You get true prawn peelers :P
You get gfe feelings.
Very gfe
Of cuz we know that we are treated this way because of the money given. But then it still felt nice. Its like sometimes when others give you a false compliment, you still feel good even though you know that it is a false compliment.
Difficult to get that kind of gfe, maybe during courtship, before marriage. Is this why I am one of the latest victim of gong tao?
Since I got to know abt the WL scene in BKK, I have spent too much money but its like an addiction. I even blew my bonus away, what a sin…
Should not have eaten the forbidden fruit. If I have not tasted it, I would not know what I am missing. Regret. Now I cannot control the impulse to fly over there.
Feel like flying over instantly, tonight , this weekend.
I feel alive when I am there. Feel dreadful when back in SG, work is dreadful, home is dreadful..
One consolation that I can stop this potential financial ruin and personal ruin is that I get sick of the place.
To think that I have not even cultivated a tirak yet…..don't think I can…cant afford…haha

[CeiResident]

To think that I have not even cultivated a tirak yet…..don't think I can…cant afford…haha

Welcome to Tirakship..:D

[MrBBBJ]

Welcome to the land of smiles!!! =)

[havana]

Aiyah!:p This type of thing after some time u will get sian one lah:rolleyes:

[holymannn]

I think I have kena gong tao in BKK. Not the true type of gong tao as in black magic.
I discovered the BKK scene last year. OMG, it was an eye opening experience, like a kid in a candy shop. :)
Like a paradise on earth.
You are treated like a king (almost) :)
You get true prawn peelers :P
You get gfe feelings.
Very gfe
Of cuz we know that we are treated this way because of the money given. But then it still felt nice. Its like sometimes when others give you a false compliment, you still feel good even though you know that it is a false compliment.
Difficult to get that kind of gfe, maybe during courtship, before marriage. Is this why I am one of the latest victim of gong tao?
Since I got to know abt the WL scene in BKK, I have spent too much money but its like an addiction. I even blew my bonus away, what a sin…
Should not have eaten the forbidden fruit. If I have not tasted it, I would not know what I am missing. Regret. Now I cannot control the impulse to fly over there.
Feel like flying over instantly, tonight , this weekend.
I feel alive when I am there. Feel dreadful when back in SG, work is dreadful, home is dreadful..
One consolation that I can stop this potential financial ruin and personal ruin is that I get sick of the place.
To think that I have not even cultivated a tirak yet…..don't think I can…cant afford…haha

Good luck bro... when a puying stick to you. initially she give you the best gfe with little pay off. then you think it's worth it and continue the relationship with her since it's cheap. Awhile later when you encounter she with another guy, you confront her. Then she cry and tell you 1000 reasons. In order not to let other guy touch him, you decide to keep her by paying her some money and encourage her to work on decent job. Not too long later, she will probably tell you she came from a poor family and need to send money home to support them monthly. Ask more money from you. So bro.... this is the usual scenario you will encounter. I know you dont wish to own a teerak, but you will fall into the trap without knowing it one.... keke....

If you are touch & go type. you are save. Else you probably will start another thread to share your sad story later.... :P

[...Cool...]

oh... Singapore u can get the same treatment!

[etct88]

oh... Singapore u can get the same treatment!

ha ha ha ha.... ATMs are all over the world.........:p:p

[LawTeoChew]

Good luck bro... when a puying stick to you. initially she give you the best gfe with little pay off. then you think it's worth it and continue the relationship with her since it's cheap. Awhile later when you encounter she with another guy, you confront her. Then she cry and tell you 1000 reasons. In order not to let other guy touch him, you decide to keep her by paying her some money and encourage her to work on decent job. Not too long later, she will probably tell you she came from a poor family and need to send money home to support them monthly. Ask more money from you. So bro.... this is the usual scenario you will encounter. I know you dont wish to own a teerak, but you will fall into the trap without knowing it one.... keke....

If you are touch & go type. you are save. Else you probably will start another thread to share your sad story later.... :P

Well said Bro...The same tricks were used every where with some modifications due to different culture. Good luck to all the cheonging Bros.

Cheers
LTC

[bonk88]

Good luck bro... when a puying stick to you. initially she give you the best gfe with little pay off. then you think it's worth it and continue the relationship with her since it's cheap. Awhile later when you encounter she with another guy, you confront her. Then she cry and tell you 1000 reasons. In order not to let other guy touch him, you decide to keep her by paying her some money and encourage her to work on decent job. Not too long later, she will probably tell you she came from a poor family and need to send money home to support them monthly. Ask more money from you. So bro.... this is the usual scenario you will encounter. I know you dont wish to own a teerak, but you will fall into the trap without knowing it one.... keke....

If you are touch & go type. you are save. Else you probably will start another thread to share your sad story later....

yes bro holymannn, u r rite....be it in the BKK or PRC, all the meimei who wrok in the rite light area, coz the have money issue, if not what the hell the work there? we give the the money in return we get GFE and service like the king,but never the less dun fall in to the trap, onec we get the feeling for them we r in trouble, they will start ask u for this and that...The a so many no ofstory in the matter of heart some bros have writen there.
Like i always, either u paid, f*** and forgot it ,or if u want to play the kc game have to be very smart and dun fall in to the trap....
good luck to all bro.....and merry x'mas....:D

[naemlo]

Difficult to get that kind of gfe, maybe during courtship, before marriage. Is this why I am one of the latest victim of gong tao?


I'm able to offer my service to cure your gong tao.... :D

[timothy16]

must learn to have self restrain

[the_e_ones]

Aiyah!:p This type of thing after some time u will get sian one lah:rolleyes:

I totally agreed with Bro havana... i too, have tasted the sweet allures and suffered the withdrawal symptoms... after awhile, i grown out of it... been there, done that, no regret and still enjoying life now...

[etct88]

I'm able to offer my service to cure your gong tao.... :D

wow, waiting to hear your cure!:):)

[naemlo]

wow, waiting to hear your cure!:):)

Money solves everything.... pay for my service...:D

[Schenker]

Money solves everything.... pay for my service...:D

Wah..... LCB, nowadays you got so many sidelines arh? :rolleyes:

[physician]

Bonk & Forget !

Don't try to KC and don't get KC too.

Have been seeing a agogo girl for quite sometimes, eventually found out that she actually got a husband in Chiangmai :(

[CeiResident]

I totally agreed with Bro havana... i too, have tasted the sweet allures and suffered the withdrawal symptoms... after awhile, i grown out of it... been there, done that, no regret and still enjoying life now...

Clap Clap..Well Said... U deserve a 20 pound gun salute bro... Welcome to the beginning of the end...

Towards a man, do not try to love him; just understand him
Towards a woman, do not try to understand her; just love her

[holymannn]

Money solves everything.... pay for my service...:D

what kind of service you have there??? intro us super chio puying to cure our KT??? huhuhuh

[knowntender]

Stone08 Bro, beat out this damn gong tao and things will work out just fine.
If you enjoy the companionship of this girl, just go for it.

[knowntender]

I'm able to offer my service to cure your gong tao.... :D

One more sleep and I am going to board the jumbo for the very long journey to BKK. So are you going to help and save this big sucker too ?

[stone08]

Thanks to all bros for sharing. I will try not to get burnt emotionally or financially. Either get sick of the place or exercise control (which I find extremely difficult, its like a drug…)

Naemlo bro, whats ur magic cure? hehe

[lurpsexx]

Thanks to all bros for sharing. I will try not to get burnt emotionally or financially. Either get sick of the place or exercise control (which I find extremely difficult, its like a drug…)

Naemlo bro, whats ur magic cure? hehe

Naemlo cut off his kuku chiao.. so no more kong tau affect him liao..:D

[ahyong]

Dear TS, dont worry let ArChan CeiResident to teach u some skills to revert back to the TG, ArChan CeiResident has lots of sexperience on these. :D

[CeiResident]

Dear TS, dont worry let ArChan CeiResident to teach u some skills to revert back to the TG, ArChan CeiResident has lots of sexperience on these. :D


Archan Resident used to have a spiritual master that holes up in the deep mountains of doi tung faraway in the rural north of thailand by the name of Archan Jin Yong...:D

[lostmypants]

Archan Resident used to have a spiritual master that holes up in the deep mountains of doi tung faraway in the rural north of thailand by the name of Archan Jin Yong...:D

hahahahaa......buya tahan......:D

ALl the archan giving him advise.....so Bro Stone...dun be stoned already....listen listen......

LMP:cool:

[stone08]

Currently, I am still frequently bkk every month, so tempted to go down every weekend, alas, I cannot afford…now barely staying afloat financially.

I get withdrawal symptoms on the day back to sg and the following few days or even week...everything else seems meaningless..

I am still hooked, is it because I hate my current life in Singapore?
The daily everending grind...work, home, family...
But I have something to look forward to every month...but this is bad, like a bad addiction....just like a gambler saying he looks forward to going to a casino..

I am by nature restless, easily bored, always want to play, can I ever change to be settled down to so called simple life? Maybe never, I think I am going to be one of those uncles who still goes to discos. The guilt is there that why I am doing all this…not sticking to simple life, appreciating what I have, sometimes I think I deserve to be shot, end it all…

As with the girl, I already know shes using me as just a customer ….but I am still going for her….why is it that I know deep down that could be no genuine feelings but I am still being foolish….aren’t we men suckers? Now I know what it means when they say women can twirl u around their little finger..
Omg , am I going to be another sad fucker from singapore? Are Singaporeans especially soft in the heart, just waiting to be ripped apart by LOS ladies?
I think I must get hit with pain in the heart then I will stop...
sorry, I know I am rambling...hoping to release a bit...

[etct88]

Currently, I am still frequently bkk every month, so tempted to go down every weekend, alas, I cannot afford…now barely staying afloat financially.

I get withdrawal symptoms on the day back to sg and the following few days or even week...everything else seems meaningless..

I am still hooked, is it because I hate my current life in Singapore?
The daily everending grind...work, home, family...
But I have something to look forward to every month...but this is bad, like a bad addiction....just like a gambler saying he looks forward to going to a casino..

I am by nature restless, easily bored, always want to play, can I ever change to be settled down to so called simple life? Maybe never, I think I am going to be one of those uncles who still goes to discos. The guilt is there that why I am doing all this…not sticking to simple life, appreciating what I have, sometimes I think I deserve to be shot, end it all…

As with the girl, I already know shes using me as just a customer ….but I am still going for her….why is it that I know deep down that could be no genuine feelings but I am still being foolish….aren’t we men suckers? Now I know what it means when they say women can twirl u around their little finger..
Omg , am I going to be another sad fucker from singapore? Are Singaporeans especially soft in the heart, just waiting to be ripped apart by LOS ladies?
I think I must get hit with pain in the heart then I will stop...
sorry, I know I am rambling...hoping to release a bit...

Brudder (or rather nephew),

You are not alone on this track...... this is like a complusory track to go thru'. Just another hurdle in life...

Many bros had given great real life experiences and advices, yet the beaten track is well travelled.

So don't worry, enjoy while you can...

I can only offer this little saying and hope you keep in mind as you travel thru' this way, like almost all of us, whether in LOS or Tim Sim Land, Batam, etc....

'.....be prepared with what you can afford to lose, and don't expect/hope to gain anything..'

The only gain is really, to enjoy yourself while you can, and be humane....

Good Luck and welcum.....:p:p:p

[Tony Stark]

I am still hooked, is it because I hate my current life in Singapore?
The daily everending grind...work, home, family...
But I have something to look forward to every month...but this is bad, like a bad addiction....just like a gambler saying he looks forward to going to a casino.

Be contented with what you have currently. Some people even have difficulties getting a job at such times. Many people going to get "pok" after Chinese New Year liao. Like what bro etct88 said. Maybe some bosses are still humane. Retrench workers only after Chinese New Year. :D

Bro I think putting money into Casinos have higher chances of getting something back than putting money into Thai girls. Hahaha. Join me in Macau yah? KNN just lost some money yesterday plus bad bonk in a sauna. :mad:

Brudder (or rather nephew),

You are not alone on this track...... this is like a complusory track to go thru'. Just another hurdle in life...

You drag your blood related nephew into SBF huh? :confused:

[etct88]

....You drag your blood related nephew into SBF huh? :confused:

He sounded so underaged, so should be qualified to be nephew status....

I kenna this until sian....

she : wow, uncle, bring your son here

me : no, la.... he my nephew, handsone or not

she : must be like you, last time (she meant years ago) you also handsome.

me : Pak Wan!.... me never handsome, always hamsup.....

[Tony Stark]

He sounded so underaged, so should be qualified to be nephew status....

I kenna this until sian....

she : wow, uncle, bring your son here

me : no, la.... he my nephew, handsone or not

she : must be like you, last time (she meant years ago) you also handsome.

me : Pak Wan!.... me never handsome, always hamsup.....

Hahaha Thai girls like this kind of "vegetable" because he sound very innocent. So thought can makan him gow gow. As his guardian (长辈) you should impart all the tricks of the trade to him. Don't kena bluff by Thai girls until hong sim (lost his heart). :p

[Tony Stark]

Now I know what it means when they say women can twirl u around their little finger..

Ok post some pics to lighten things up a bit.

I don't mind being twirl around their little fingers if I can find these types of PRC girls as tiraks. Provided I can afford to feed them. Hahaha.

http://lh5.ggpht.com/aydyx100/Ruu40v3_5lI/AAAAAAAAHrI/JdhwzD9a84Q/s800/024.jpg

http://lh4.ggpht.com/_sJU9yH349Po/SIL-s7SGQII/AAAAAAAABoc/S8m2rTvJZJY/BBZ_166620080720.jpg

http://lh3.ggpht.com/elaing.zhang/R4LYdtgGKMI/AAAAAAAAJ6s/P8_hidedkko/s800/el080107157.jpg

http://i266.photobucket.com/albums/ii273/huanlingyao/girlspic/zhu_hong_004.jpg

[singman80]

I have been to Thailand many times last year. I'm addicted as well but I always pay to play. Psychologically it doesn't feel like I owe them anything after the fact. I've also checked out PRC scenes but I prefer Thai.

There's a pretty good book on cross-culture relationship in Thailand. You can get it at Kinokuniya book store at Paragon. "Love Entrepreneurs" sold for 462.00 baht. Some of the real life stories scare the crap out of me.

[jameschong2]

[QUOTE=singman80;3415868]I have been to Thailand many times last year. I'm addicted as well but I always pay to play. Psychologically it doesn't feel like I owe them anything after the fact. I've also checked out PRC scenes but I prefer Thai.

i think the prc chicks kena gong tao by me; at least 3 of them calling me everyday telling me how much they love me
price to pay for being generous and kind-hearted!